最近，TVB男星纷纷感染上了“分手病毒”，失恋了。上个星期吴卓羲被张馨予甩了，昨天，黄宗泽和TVB视后胡杏儿也分手了。同样是失恋的人，两位男艺人境遇却大相径庭———吴卓羲之前被传分手时矢口否认，几乎还在高声说爱的同时就被张馨予间接向媒体声明两人三个月前已经分手了，吴帅哥得到了一堆“自作多情”的嘲笑，沦为笑柄；而黄宗泽虽然是女方先曝出的分手，但他也大大方方地通过知名电台主持和公司高层证实情变，虽然分手有可能是男方同时劈腿3女等“不方便透露”的原因，但他仍得到一片惋惜声。

recent，TVB infected with the cuts in succession“Break up the virus”，brokenhearted。Last week WuZhuoXi was ZhangXinYu dumped，yesterday，Bosco and TVB depending on the HuXingEr after broke。The same is brokenhearted，Two male artist strikingly different circumstances--before the break WuZhuoXi was denied，Said in a loud voice, almost in love at the same time is ZhangXinYu indirectly to media statement two people's three months ago have broken up，Wu handsome boy got a heap“romantic”Laughed at，Become a laughingstock；And although is the first bosco expose of break up，But he also consumedly square square to through the famous radio host and top company confirmed purchased，Although break up may be the man also split leg three women, etc“Not convenient revealed”reason，But he still get a sorry about the noise。

　　分手，这在娱乐圈里算不上是稀奇事。曾经的金童玉女本就是羡煞旁人，在闪光灯下更是如童话中的王子与公主一般幸福美满！所以，一旦劳燕分飞，便会引来唏嘘一片！随之而来的，是对他们分手原因的猜测。有没有“小三”？谁有劈腿的嫌疑？男方接受不了女方太红……五花八门的分手理由统统被“八(卦)民”们拿来过一遍，一点点蛛丝马迹都逃不过他们眼睛，然后可以引发无限的“宇宙大猜想”，大有誓要弄出个是非对错，找出哪个是负心人才肯罢休。殊知，感情的事没有对错，最有资格评价的只有双方当事人。

Break up，This in the entertainment circle is not the unusual。Once the envy of the evil spirit is good people，Flash is like fairy tale in under the prince and princess in the general happiness！so，Once getting，He can draw a SOB！With the，They split the reason is to guess。Is there“Small 3”？Who is suspected of cheating on him？The man can not accept the woman is too red......A wide variety of reasons were all broke up“eight(hexagrams)people”Bring the over，A little clues all escape but their eyes，Then can trigger infinite“The big guess”，To make a great oath right from wrong，Find out which is scorned talents I will stop。Know George Bush，The feelings of the matter no right or wrong，The most qualified evaluation only both parties。

　　不过，我一直不能理解的是，遇上事情，许多明星一面又痛斥大众的胡乱猜测，一面又不肯对一些事情疑点加以说明。既然是公众人物，一些既不涉及国家秘密又不涉及难言瘾私的事情原因，有什么不能说？大众也应当享有适当的“知情权”。好比章子怡和撤贝宁，是或不是，大可以“现身说法”，别玩“躲猫猫”，工作忙成不了借口，再忙你总得吃饭喝水吧，说个“是”或“不是”不就是喘口气的时间？别说什么“娱乐圈的恋情见光死”，那个调调不成立。郑中基和阿Sa结婚3年盖得够严了吧，两人感情还没见光呢不一样死翘翘？再举些例子，陈道明和杜宪、冯远征和梁丹妮、冯小刚和徐帆人家的感情不也见光了，还见光了十几年，还不一样情深似海？如今这个社会充满了诱惑，普通人尚且难以避免，更何况始终被各种诱惑包围的明星们？移情别恋，不爱了就分手，既不拖累对方也解脱了自己，这些其实大家都可以理解，并不是个个人都要争当卫道士揪着你不放。别在“是”和“不是”之间玩暧昧，那是对和你一起成为事件主角的人的不尊重。

but，I can't understand is，Met things，Many stars side and the public, a wild guess，One side and will not to some things doubtful points to illustrate。Now that are public figures，Some neither involve state secrets and does not involve private things last addiction causes，Have what not to say？The public also should have the appropriate“Right to know”。Like zhang ziyi and removed from benin，Is or is not，can“That advise”，Don't play“peek-a-boo”，Work busy become an excuse，You always have to eat food nor drink water again busy now，Said a“is”or“not”Is not the time to catch my breath？Say what“The entertainment circle relationships see light die”，That's not set up。A little skinny guy and married three years o Sa up enough strict it，Two people didn't see the light feeling? Not die？To give some examples，Chen daoming and DuXian、FengYuanZheng and LiangDanNi、Feng xiaogang and perfect outfit.but the feelings of people and not see the light，Also see the light for more than ten years，Also different oceans？Now this society is full of temptation，Ordinary people have hard to avoid，Besides has always been surrounded by temptations of stars？Predisposed toward，Do not love the break up，Neither drag down the other side also free himself，These actually everybody can understand，Is not a personal struggle to guard clench you don't put。Don't“is”and“not”Play ambiguous between，That is to be together with you the main character of the man's not events respect。

　　所以，有经历恋爱、分手、离婚、怀孕、生子等人生大事的娱乐圈人士，如果你不想成为大众编剧笔下的主角，不想被打上“炒作”的标签，不想自己关心的人被打扰，如果被暴露了，请大大方方地给一个真实回应。如此，你也清静了，而悠悠众口虽然堵不住但也不会偏离主线乱加猜测造成言语伤害。我想杨丽娟毕竟是少数，大多数的人还是怀着一颗正常的温暖的善良的心，他们只是关心你，并不一定要干扰你。 记者孙青莲

so，Have experience in love、Break up、divorce、pregnant、And the entertainers such as life events，If you don't want to be popular writers's leading role，Don't want to be a“hype”label，Don't want to care about be disturbed，If be revealed，Please consumedly square square to a real response。so，You also be quiet，And the wall here though not but will not deviate from its main disorderly and caused damage that words。I think there are only a few sci，Most people still with a normal warm kind heart，They only care about you，Must not interfere with you。 Reporter SunQingLian