随着《我的经济适用男》这部电视剧的热播，“经适男”这一类型广受女孩们的追捧，比起“高富帅”这样浮夸的说法，“经适男”显然更为真实和靠谱。他们也许不能挥金如土，他们也许长相平凡，但他们勤俭朴实，会脚踏实地地埋头于事业，有一颗真诚对你的心。女孩们普遍表示，“经适男”是一种比较实际的选择，彼此之间差距不会太大，生活起来也比较轻松。比如剧中，佟丽娅饰演的何小君在杜淳饰演的冯志豪和李光洁饰演的陈启中之间，经过深思熟虑，最终弃“富二代”冯志豪而情定“经适男”陈启中。何小君的闺蜜杜美美，奉行“十元爱情观”，与IT男蔡军通过网游相识相知相恋，两人团购吃大餐、租房过日子，是一对名副其实的“经适型情侣”。

as《My economy is applicable the male》This TV hits，“The appropriate male”This type of popular with girls to chase after hold in both hands，Compared with“GaoFu handsome”Such grandiose claim，“The appropriate male”Obviously more real and by spectrum。Maybe they can't spend money like water，They may look like ordinary，But their diligence and thrift guileless，Will down-to-earth working on business，To have a sincere to your heart。The girls generally said，“The appropriate male”It is a more practical choice，Gap between each other is not too large，Life up more relaxed also。Such as the，TongLiYa plays HeXiaoJun in DuChun plays FengZhiHao and LiGuangJie plays ChenQiZhong between，After careful consideration，Eventually abandon“Rich the second generation”FengZhiHao and feeling decide“The appropriate male”ChenQiZhong。HeXiaoJun's maiden honey du meimei，pursues“Ten yuan love view”，And IT CaiJun male acquainted online through love，Two people group buying a big meal、Rent live，Is a worthy of the name“The appropriate type lovers”。

　　早在看小说原著之时，电视剧导演蒋家俊就意识到，这只是网上的一个标准，不同阶层的人士对于经济适用男是有不一样定位的，一千个人眼中就会有一千个经济适用男。对于“经适男”这一概念，如果“百度一下”，它看上去很靠谱：身高一般、发型传统，相貌过目即忘；性格温和，工资无偿上缴给老婆；不吸烟、不喝酒、不关机、不赌钱、不泡吧，无红颜知己；月薪2000～10000元，有支付住房首付的能力；从事教育、IT、机械制造、技术等行业。

As early as in the original reading novels，TV director JiangGuJun realized，This is just a web standard，Different groups of people for the economy is applicable the male is a different location，One thousand there will be one thousand person in a economy is applicable the male。for“The appropriate male”This concept，if“Baidu the”，It looked on spectrum：Height general、Hairstyle traditional，Forget that looks to look over；Gentle character，Free to be turned over to the wife wages；Don't smoke、Don't drink、If you don't、Don't gamble、Don't go bar hopping，No confidante；Monthly pay 2000 ~ 10000 yuan，Have the ability to pay down housing；Engaged in education、IT、Machinery manufacturing、Technology industries。

　　在网友眼中，“经适男”标准也是各不相同，有人将“经济适用男”的形象代言人推选为“沙和尚”，其当选的理由是，“他是勤恳的好员工，也是最具潜质的好老公、好父亲，可以称之为‘潜力股’”。网友“我要瘦十斤”则认为婚姻安全感很重要，“我非常喜欢顾家的男人，只有把家庭、老婆、孩子放在第一位才能称得上是一个真正的‘经济适用男’。”

In the eyes，“The appropriate male”The standard is also different，Someone will“Economy applicable male”The image spokesperson for elected“Sand monk”，The reason is elected，“He is diligent good staff，And it is also the most potential the good husband、Good father，May call it‘Potential shares’”。the“I want to thin ten catties”Think that marriage is security is very important，“I very like family man，Only the family、The wife、Children in the first place to be called a real‘Economy applicable male’。”

母女有分歧：女主角最终选择真情 Mother and daughter have differences：Actress finally choose indeed

　　在电视剧《我的经济适用男》中，盖克饰演的萧淑云一心只想女儿嫁个“高富帅”，对女儿坚持的恋爱观嗤之以鼻，“势利老妈”的形象令人难忘。在女儿何小君与“富二代”冯志豪分手后，她百般刁难“IT民工”陈启中，以“登门不见、做饭不吃、结婚先买房”这三招让未来女婿无可奈何，逼小两口分手。可见，“经适男”尽管赢得了年轻女性的芳心，却很可能在父母那里屡屡碰壁。在一场场“宝马男PK宝来男”的较量中，“宝马男”在长辈中可谓占尽优势。

In a TV show《My economy is applicable the male》in，As with all my heart XiaoShuYun cover g just want to marry a daughter“GaoFu handsome”，The statistic of daughter insisted on built，“Snobbish old mama”Image is unforgettable。In HeXiaoJun and daughter“Rich the second generation”FengZhiHao after break up，Her popularity by“IT migrant workers”ChenQiZhong，to“Not ascend a、Cooking don't eat、Married to buy a house”The three recruit let future son-in-law is helpless，Forced the couple broke up。visible，“The appropriate male”Although won the young woman's heart，It is likely there in parents nationhood。In chalking up“BMW male PK baolai male”Contest between，“BMW male”It may be said in the elders of advantage。

　　然而，由于缺乏信任与安全感，年轻人开始崇尚“相濡以沫”的婚姻，真情被放到了一个很高的位置。而与之相对的是，有一些父母却越来越注重物质生活的保障，他们希望孩子能在一个相对优越的环境里，至少不用像他们以前那样受苦受累，两代人的婚姻观出现了明显的分歧。然而，电视剧的女主角最终仍然选择了“经适男”。

however，Because of the lack of trust and security，Young people began to advocate“roof”marriage，Truth is placed on a very high position。And the relative is，Some parents are more and more attention to the security of material life，They hope that the child can be in a relatively favorable environment，At least they don't like that way before suffering involvement，Two generations there is an obvious differences of views on marriage。however，The heroine of the TV series final still choose“The appropriate male”。

　　电视剧《我的经济适用男》正在热播，该剧根据畅销小说《我和我的经济适用男》改编，由李光洁、佟丽娅、杜淳、戚薇等型男靓女出演，以都市白领何小君(佟丽娅饰)的爱情生活为主轴，用3个不同的现代都市女性角色为切入点，讲述了适婚女青年如何寻找最合适老公的精彩故事，是一部直逼80后现实婚姻生活的情感剧，开播后便引发了社会各界对剩男剩女恋爱、婚姻问题的特别关注，剧中各色人物的境遇和选择也折射出当下关于婚恋问题的各种现象。

TV《My economy is applicable the male》Are popular，This drama based on a popular novel《I and my economy is applicable the male》adapted，By LiGuangJie、TongLiYa、DuChun、QiWei etc in medium-sized pretty girl，Urban white-collar HeXiaoJun(TongLiYa act the role ofing)Love life is the main axle，With three different modern city female role as the breakthrough point，Tells the story of marriageable young women how to find the most suitable husband's great stories，Is a 80 matches the reality of life after marriage emotions play，After the premiere provokes the social from all walks of life to left with male female love、Marriage problems of particular concern，The character of the plight of the choice and also reflects about marriage problems present various phenomena。

　　对话 dialogue

　　“经适男让女人觉得踏实” “The appropriate male let women think steadfast”

　　南方日报：你觉得自己在现实生活中是经适男还是高富帅？

Southern daily：You feel in real life is the appropriate male or GaoFu handsome？

　　李光洁：对啊，就像导演说的，经济适用男也不一定长得就是特别的‘矬’，你不要被我的表面形象所迷惑了，其实我也是经济适用男。

LiGuangJie：yeah，As the director said，Economy is applicable the male to also do not grow is special‘stupid’，You don't be I confused by the surface of the image，Actually, I'm the same economy is applicable the male。

　　南方日报：你觉得什么样的男人就是“经适男”？

Southern daily：Do you think what kind of man is“The appropriate male”？

　　李光洁：像陈启中(剧中角色)那种IT男就是，他不怎么喜欢交际，喜欢在家里没事做做饭，父母都是挺有文化的大学老师，没有什么恋爱经验，月收入过万，有房子，虽然在北京的五环外，有大概十万左右的车，属于这种中产阶级。我理解的这种经济适用男不是以金钱去划分的，而是他对生活是有追求的，比如说他会喜欢厨艺，喜欢在家做饭，然后没事会经常创新一点菜式什么的，特别体贴，特别细腻。

LiGuangJie：Like ChenQiZhong(The characters)That man is IT，He didn't like communication，Like in the home have no matter to do cooking，All parents is quite culture university teacher，No love experience，Month income past thousands，A house，Although the rings in Beijing，About or so car，This is the middle class。I understand this economy is applicable the male is not take the money to divide，But he is a life to pursue，For example he will like cooking，Like cook at home，And then nothing will often innovation a order type or something，Special consideration，Special delicate。

　　南方日报：为什么认为自己是“经适男”？

Southern daily：Why is that“The appropriate male”？

　　李光洁：其实我也算是IT男，因为没事我也喜欢在家组装电脑啊，组装一些软件啊，组装一些手机的程序。做饭还可以，但不是经常做，因为工作的原因，经常在外地出差。

LiGuangJie：In fact I have IT male，Because nothing I also like to stay at home computer ah，To assemble some software ah，To assemble some cell phone program。Cooking can also，But not often do，Because of my job，Often in the town on business。

　　南方日报：你觉得剧中陈启中饰演的经适男为什么能打败杜淳饰演的“高富帅”？

Southern daily：Do you think the ChenQiZhong plays the appropriate male why can beat DuChun plays“GaoFu handsome”？

　　李光洁：他就是不停地为何小君(剧中女主角)付出，用特别细小的细腻的体贴的这种关心来赢得何小君的芳心。杜淳那个角色是“高富帅”，他不太会陪何小君去吃一些大排档，他总觉得那个不是他身份可以去的地方。何小君有一次工作特别忙，加班到很晚，杜淳去看她就买了很多这种高级餐厅的菜肴。那个陈启中呢，在家做了何小君最喜欢吃的海鲜粥，然后做了很多份，除了给何小君带之外还给她的同事都带了，这些就是完全不同的方式。

LiGuangJie：He is constantly why jun(In the play the leading lady)pay，Use special small and exquisite considerate this concern to win HeXiaoJun heart。DuChun that role is“GaoFu handsome”，He's not will accompany HeXiaoJun to eat some booth，He always think that is not his identity can go to place。HeXiaoJun once especially busy work，Overtime late，DuChun to see she bought a lot of the top restaurant dishes。The ChenQiZhong?，The HeXiaoJun at home doing the most like to eat seafood porridge，And then do a lot of copies，In addition to the HeXiaoJun outside with her return to her colleagues brought，These are completely different。

　　南方日报：你的意思是他是个比较接地气的男人？

Southern daily：You mean that he is a more grounded gas man？

　　李光洁：更踏实，我觉得用踏实这个词来形容会更准确一些，他让女人觉得特别踏实。其实因为小女孩会向往着某一种浪漫，向往着能有个白马王子，领着一支队伍来赢取她，但是慢慢地等小女孩长大以后，她就会更渴望家庭，更渴望朴素的爱情，更渴望一些比较适用的、实际的情感，可以依靠的一个肩膀，陈启中就是这样的一个人，他是一个可以让何小君依靠的肩膀。

LiGuangJie：More dependable，I think the word with sureness to describe some will be more accurate，He let the woman feel special steadfast。In fact because the little girl will be yearning for a kind of romance，Yearning to a white horse prince，Led the team to win her，But slowly, the little girl grow up，She will be more eager to family，More eager to simple love，More eager to some more applicable、Actual feelings，You can count on one shoulder，ChenQiZhong is such a person，He is a can let HeXiaoJun shoulder to depend on。

　　其实是陈启中的努力，也一直感动着他的丈母娘，何小君的父亲退休的时候特别不适应，陈启中把所有的下班的时间都用上，看完这个戏就教会大家别灰心，只要你坚持，即使不同意你们结婚的父母们，迟早也会看到你的闪光点，早晚会被你感动。

In fact ChenQi is the effort，Also has been moved by his mother-in-law，HeXiaoJun father retired special not used to it，ChenQiZhong put all the time from work of use，After seeing the play teach everyone don't lose heart，As long as you keep，Even if don't agree with you get married parents，Sooner or later, you will see the light，As early as the party has been moved by you。

　　南方日报记者 吴敏 周豫

Southern daily reporter WuMin ZhouYu

　　实习生 冯君

Interns FengJun