这两天，章子怡和撒贝宁热恋的消息满天飞，许多人觉得很震惊，形容为“八竿子打不着”，也有人觉得两人不匹配，就名气、外貌等来说，都完全不登对，其实这真是一种误读。

The two days，Zhang ziyi and sa beining madly in love the news all over the place，Many people feel very shocked，Described as“Eight pole not play”，Some believe that two people don't match，Fame is、Appearance for，Are not up to completely，In fact this is a misreading。

　　首先，爱情许多时候就是八竿子打不着的事，就是让人出乎意料的事。王子爱上灰姑娘，而不是爱上公主、格格，这就是八竿子打不着，数千年前就流行这样的搭配；当年王菲嫁给李亚鹏不也一样让人惊诧莫名吗？也是出人意料。

first，Love is when many won't get hit eight pole，Is to make people by surprise。The prince fell in love with Cinderella，And not in love with the princess、Space space，This is not a eight pole，Thousands of years ago on the popular such collocation；When faye wong marry li3 ya3 peng2 don't also make people as flabbergasted sense？Is also surprisingly。

　　其次，就名气、容貌等来说，有人认为，两人有差距。这其实也是误读。男人的世界从结婚后开始，对撒贝宁来说，或者未来还有许多值得期待的事，做公司，或进入演艺圈都有可能，而对章子怡来说，最华丽的派对已经结束，现在，不仅有范冰冰、李冰冰这样的对手，更有杨幂这样的追兵，即使她还有很大的前程，但看惯繁华的她相信现在更明白，有些东西，不过是浮云，所以，差距就根本不是问题了。何况，从两人的相处片段来看，他们应该不存在名气差距带来的隔阂与困扰。

second，Fame is、Looks nothing，Some people think that，Two people have a gap。It is also misread。Man of the world from the start after marriage，For to sa beining，Or future left much to be desired，Do company，Or to entering showbiz is possible，And to zhang ziyi，The most beautiful party is over，now，Has not only fan bingbing、Li3 bing bing such opponent，More Yang mi such soldiers behind，Even if she still has a lot of future，But see be used to the heart of her believe know better now，Some things，But is fleeting，so，Gap is not the problem。How much more，From two people get along clips and see，They should not exist bring fame gap estrangement and troubling。

　　至于外貌，那就更不用担心了，因为男人的容颜并非必须，最多算是锦上添花。

As for the appearance，That is more need not worry，Because the man appearance does not have to，Most is even better。

　　退一步来说，就算两个人有名气等的差距，那又怎样呢？章子怡一路走来，绯闻男友都是名导富豪级别的，有风光，但更多的是落寞，如今能遇到一个老实的人，也算是繁华落尽返璞归真。望断高楼，终于觅得知音，这对章子怡来说，也是一种超脱，因为向来眼光高蹈，此刻能落到实处，也是一种境界。

Step back for，If two people are of the fame and gap，And what about that？Zhang ziyi along the way，Gossip is MingDao boyfriend's level，A scene，But more and more are lonely，Now can meet a honest man，Also be busy fall do return uncut jade to return true。Looked away tall buildings，Finally find a companion，This to zhang ziyi，Also is a kind of being，Because have such vision，This moment can be implemented，Also is a kind of state。

　　这很符合我曾经写过的一篇文章，《情归老实男》。现在看来，章子怡是走对了路，如果她继续游山玩水山高路远，反倒让人觉得在游戏人间了，还好她落地了。而撒贝宁，显然算是个老实靠谱的人，应该符合她的期许。

This very accord with I wrote an article，《Feeling return honesty man》。Now it seems，Zhang ziyi is to go out of the way，If she loves to continue the high mountain the far，But let a person feel in the game world，She also fell。And sa beining，Obviously be a honesty by spectrum，Should conform to her expectations。

　　章子怡的选择也让我想起一句俗语，出口转内销。前几年，许多外贸公司做得风生水起，但是，金融危机一来，出口大大受影响，外贸做不下去，许多公司倒闭了。但有一些公司却转型做内销，阵痛之后，反而闯出了另一片天。

Of zhang ziyi choice also reminds me of a phrase，Export turns sale in domestic market。Before a few years，Many foreign trade companies do have to wind，but，Financial crisis as，Export greatly affected，Foreign trade do not go down，Many companies go out of business。But there are some companies but transformation do domestic sales，Pain after，But the other rushes out one day。

　　章子怡的选择也给许多大龄女生一个启发，即：如果你觉得出口麻烦，那可以在内地找；如果你觉得在北上广深等大城市情感困难，那你可以回到二三线城市找，只要你愿意，你总是能找到合适的人的。

Of zhang ziyi choice also to many older girls an inspired，namely：If you think the export of trouble，That can find in the mainland；If you feel that the north is expected to big cities such as emotional difficulties，That you can return to the city to find three lines，As long as you are willing to，You can always find the right people。

　　陈保才

ChenBaoCai