一说到剩女，长辈们就是一副摇头叹息样，貌似真不知道该如何为这些“老大难”找到爱情的指路明灯。不过近来在湖南卫视、东方卫视热播的《胜女的代价》、《我的经济适用男》里面，有不少桥段倒是为剩女找到了一条摆脱“剩下”的有效途径。看看下面这些道理，或许你也派得上用场哦——

Said with female to，Elders is a pair of shake head to sigh sample，I don't know how to look for these“much”The beacon to find love。But recently in hunan satellite TV、Oriental satellite TV heat《Wins female cost》、《My economy applicable male》inside，There are many bridge is left for women to find a pair of get rid of“The rest”The effective way of。Look at these truth，You may also come in handy oh --

　A A

　　如果工作第一 If the work is first

　　你很难找得到爱情 It's hard for you to find love

　　在《胜女的代价》中，陈乔恩饰演的林晓洁作为百货公司的小员工，尽管已经到了“被剩下”的年纪，但依然有一颗对工作极度上进的心。一方面每天勤勤恳恳，准时上班主动加班，另一方面还主动向公司提出自我增值，希望出国学习。工作占据了林晓洁的大部分时间，不过幸运之神还是眷顾了她，让她竟然在工作的时候碰到了两位“白马王子”。

in《Wins female cost》in，Absent so winning qiao en LinXiaoJie playing as a department store small staff，Although has come to“Be left with”age，But still have a heart to work extremely aspirant。On the one hand and every day，Go to work on time active work overtime，On the other hand also actively to the company to put forward the value-added，Hope to study abroad。Work LinXiaoJie occupied most of the time，But fortune or visit her，Let her unexpectedly in the work met two“Prince charming”。

　　尽管这两位“白马王子”都与林晓洁有工作往来，不过林晓洁清醒地认识到，自己尽管在工作上有了进步，但在感情上依然是一个“小学生”。于是她开始鼓起勇气借机寻找机会，最终以认真的生活态度，成功俘获了其中一位王子的心，摆脱了“剩女”的身份。

Although the two“Prince charming”With the LinXiaoJie have work intercourse，But LinXiaoJie realize soberly，In spite of his work have made progress，But in emotional is still a“pupils”。Then she began to summon up courage to looking to look for opportunities，In a serious attitude towards life，Success captured one of the prince's heart，Get rid of the“Left female”identity。

　　总结：林晓洁的经验说明，勤奋工作对一个女人来说不是坏事，但绝对不是生活的全部，在遇到心仪的人时要勇敢出手抓住。

summary：LinXiaoJie experience shows，Hard work with a woman is not bad，But it is not the only thing in life，To meet the right one to brave hold out。

　B B

　　盼望“高富帅” hope“GaoFu handsome”

　　不如找“经济适用男” As looking for“Economy applicable male”

　　在现实中，不少女生总以“高标准”来衡量另一半，导致“被剩下”一大把。在《我的经济适用男》里，佟丽娅饰演的何小君就遇到了一个开着宝马、家财万贯的“高富帅”，然而这样的男人并不能让何小君开心，反倒是李光洁饰演的经济适用男陈启中带给了她真诚的笑容、体贴的关怀。这位陈启中是技术部门的小主管，和所有白领一样，负担着生活的日常开销，按揭着四环外的房子，开着性价比不错的经济型车。虽然不如宝马男那般用钱洒脱，但工作稳定、为人老实，还烧得一手好菜，更懂得疼女友，绝对不会让女友在难过时无处倾诉，生病时也无人照顾。

In reality，A lot of girls in general“High standard”To measure the other half，Lead to“Be left with”A big。in《My economy applicable male》in，TongLiYa plays the HeXiaoJun met a open BMW、The very rich could afford to“GaoFu handsome”，However such a man and can't let HeXiaoJun happy，But LiGuangJie is playing economy applicable male ChenQiZhong brought her sincere smile、Considerate care。The ChenQiZhong is technical department of small competent，And all the white-collar，The burden of life daily expenses，The fourth house mortgage outside，Open price good economical car。Although not as BMW male money free and easy，But stable、Is honest，Also good cook，Know more painful girlfriend，Never let the girl friend in sad is pouring，Sick also no one to take care of。

　　总结：虽说选男友要求高不会错，但当下现实中“适用”才是王道，这样的二人世界才会有依靠，才会有安全感。

summary：Although choose boyfriend demanding not wrong，But the reality“applicable”donations，So two people of the world will have depend on，Just can have a sense of security。

　C C

　　一个人的女人 One woman

　　比所有人的女神幸福 Than all the goddess of the people happy

　　“当一个人的女人，比当所有人的女神幸福”，这是《胜女的代价》里的台词，如今已经成为网络上的流行金句。剧中，百货公司高管高子齐有一位做明星的女友。身为公众人物，注意形象是必须的。不过这位明星在男朋友面前也时刻保持着自己“女神”的形象，绝对不跟男友在路上手牵手，绝不一起吃路边摊，时刻保持仪态、笑不露齿……如此一来，连高子齐都觉得有这样的女朋友活得太累，生活总是在表演给大家看，两人感情越来越疏远，反倒喜欢上了总把喜怒哀乐都写在脸上，做事有点莽撞，却又小可爱的林晓洁，因为这样的女生在他看来更真实可爱。

“When a man woman，When all the people than the goddess of happiness”，This is《Wins female cost》Lines in the，Now on the network has become a popular gold sentence。the，The department store GaoZiJi executives have a do star girlfriend。As a public figure，Note image is a must。But the star in front of her boyfriend is always keep“goddess”image，Absolutely not in the way with her boyfriend hand in hand，Never eat together sidewalk snack booth，At all times maintain a presence、Laugh without showing teeth...so，Even GaoZiJi all feel so girlfriend live too tired，Life is always in the performance for everyone to see，Two people feeling more and more distance，But like to always take the laughter, anger, sorrow and happiness are written on the face，Do things a little cowboy，The but again small lovely LinXiaoJie，Because of such girls in his opinion more true lovely。

　　总结：两个人恋爱，把最美好的一面呈现给对方固然重要，可是要过日子，最终还是要坦诚真实才行。

summary：Two people love，Put the best in each other is important，But to live，Finally be ready to true to just go。

　相关新闻 Related news

　　与陈乔恩拍吻戏张翰脸红到脖子根 And take ZhangHan absent so winning qiao en star blush to the roots of his neck

　　湖南卫视与爱奇艺同步热播的《胜女的代价》，男主角张翰在日前举行的收视庆功会上，首次主动爆料，称在剧中献出了自己的“床戏处女秀”，更害羞到需要心理辅导。谈及第一次拍床戏的感受，张翰显得有些娇羞，“我和乔恩在进组第二天，完全不熟的情况下就拍床戏了，当时我非常紧张，脸都红到脖子根了。后来乔恩和导演都给我做心理辅导，才顺利通过了这场戏。”

Hunan satellite TV and love odd art synchronous heat《Wins female cost》，Actor in a ZhangHan held on viewing party，Active support for the first time，In the play said gave their“Bed scene debut”，More shy to need psychological counseling。And the first talk about the feeling of scenes，ZhangHan appear some little shyness，“I and Jon entered the group the next day，Don't practice under the situation that the scenes，At that time, I was very nervous，Face is red to the roots of his neck。Then Jon and director to I do psychological counseling，To pass the scene。”

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　　佟丽娅：陈思成是经济适用男 TongLiYa：ChenSiCheng is economy applicable male

　　在《我的经济适用男》里，佟丽娅饰演的何小君需要在面包与爱情之间做出抉择，佟丽娅在接受采访时坦言自己和陈思成的感情经历，并称陈思成就是个“经济适用男”，而且她还建议：“‘经济’不重要，最关键是‘适用’。无论是高帅富，还是矮矬穷，适合自己的爱情才最好。两个人一定要有相同的爱好、理想或家庭背景，悬殊不能相差太大，否则将来会遇到很多苦难。”

in《My economy applicable male》in，TongLiYa plays the HeXiaoJun need in bread and love to make choices between，TongLiYa in an interview said yourself and ChenSiCheng feelings experience，Chen said achievement is a“Economy applicable male”，And she also suggested：“‘economic’Not important，The key is‘applicable’。Whether GaoShuai rich，Or short stupid poor，Suitable for his love to the best。Two people must have the same hobby、Ideal or family background，Disparities are not too big，Otherwise, the future will encounter a lot of suffering。”

陈乔恩：一定要找个好人 Absent so winning qiao en：Must find a good man

　　陈乔恩在《胜女的代价》中饰演剩女，现实生活中的陈乔恩也年纪不小了，但感情世界还是一片空白。不过陈乔恩还是有清晰的择偶标准，她在接受采访时说：“另一半不一定是高富帅，只要是一个好人，要很爱我，有一颗善良的心。”

Absent so winning qiao en in《Wins female cost》Plays with female，Absent so winning qiao en in real life is no longer young，But the affection world or a blank。But there are still absent so winning qiao en clear choose a spouse standard，She said in an interview：“The other half is not necessarily GaoFu handsome，As long as it is a good man，To love me，Have a heart of docile。”