《非诚勿扰》20号女嘉宾吴铮真，经常说自己留灯老被灭，经常哭；又几次三番拒绝特地为她前来的男嘉宾，引发网友大吐槽；她言必谈《西游记》，甚至有人把她的脸PS成孙悟空，说“赶紧来个高僧收了她吧”。面对争议，吴铮真坚持说，自己是在找真爱，无论如何，选择谁还是要听从内心，对异性的硬指标不能动摇；而网上对她的支持或反对的意见，吴铮真表示，不但不会回避，甚至把它们都打印出来，仔仔细细认认真真地挨个看，尤其是负面的评论，有道理的就虚心接受，改正自己的不足。

《If you are the one》20 female guest WuZhengZhen，Often says that she leave lamp old be destroyed，Often cry；And repeatedly refused to specially for her to come to the male guest，Cause net friend big vomit tank；Her speech will talk about《Journey to the west》，Even someone put her face PS into sun wukong，said“Hurriedly to a dignitary accepted her alone”。In the face of the dispute，WuZhengZhen insisted that，He is looking for true love，No matter how to，Choose who still want to listen to the heart，To the opposite sex hard Numbers can't shake；And to her online support or oppose opinion，WuZhengZhen said，Not only won't avoid，Even they are printed，Examined conscientious to round to see，Especially the negative comments，Sense will accept modestly，Correct my own shortcomings。

　　恋爱心切却连拒求爱者 Love can even have rejected swain

　　吴铮真刚上《非诚勿扰》的时候就说过自己的心酸恋爱史：初恋是本科同学，一见钟情，相恋多年突然分手；第二段感情也是异地恋：“每次都是异地恋，每次都被人甩。搞得我很没有安全感，然后我又不喜欢按常理出牌，不喜欢和别人一样。到了这个年纪，真的想好好恋爱结婚，想稳定下来。”吴铮真在节目里总是说自己很少做心动女生，容易被灭灯，有一次给人留灯没有被灭，她甚至又蹦又跳，直接说：“都到这儿了，应该差不多了吧。”最终男嘉宾没有选择她，她直接在台上哭了出来。

WuZhengZhen just on《If you are the one》When he said his feel sad love history：First love is undergraduate students，Love at first sight，Long-term suddenly break up；The second paragraph feelings also long distance relationship：“Every time is long distance relationship，Time is open。Make I very insecure，Then again I don't like common sense according to the brand，Don't like and others。At this age，Really want to have a good love match，Want to stabilize。”WuZhengZhen in program always said he seldom do cardiac girl，Easy to the lights，Once give a person leave lamp has not been destroyed，She even jumped up and down，Direct said：“Are here，It should be ok now。”Final male guest didn't choose her，She cried out directly on the stage。

　　但是到了有男嘉宾专门为她上节目，精心准备告白时，吴铮真却屡屡将求爱者拒之门外。

But in a male guest specifically for her on the show，To elaborate the confession，But WuZhengZhen repeatedly will swain close the door on。

　　5月，被女嘉宾称赞“长得像小熊猫”的男嘉宾胡文超专为吴铮真上节目，为她准备了贴心礼物和亲自画的漫画。她虽感动，却拒绝了。

may，Is female guest praise“Looks like the panda”The male guest HuWenChao designed for WuZhengZhen on the show，Prepared her sweet gifts and drawn cartoons。Although she touched，refused。

　　6月，德国男嘉宾尚宇也对吴铮真表白，吴铮真的态度是，还是喜欢找个中国男生一起生活。

June，Germany male guest ShangYu also to WuZhengZhen profession，WuZheng attitude is really，Or like to find a Chinese boy living together。

　　7月初，留英帅哥赵舒给吴铮真带来了三份浪漫礼物：逛街时情不自禁买下的饰品、在吴铮真最想去的新加坡摩天轮下买的巧克力、为她建立的个人网站。吴铮真满含热泪却还是拒绝了。

In early July，Leave the handsome boy ZhaoShu to WuZhengZhen brought three copies of romantic gifts：When shopping can't help buying act the role of article、In WuZhengZhen want to go to Singapore ferris wheel next buy chocolate、A personal website for her。WuZhengZhen tears in his eyes still refused。

　　7月底，年轻的上海男嘉宾董衍也为吴铮真而来，称：“我来不是要打动你的，我是要让你爱上我。”在现场，董衍还亲手送上了意味深长的27朵玫瑰。吴铮真热泪盈眶，态度却是：“我愿意为你留灯，但不是因为我爱你，是我不想你孤单地离去。”男嘉宾只好独自离开，并留下一句更“狠”的话：“你和谁牵手我不在乎，我要的是你有一天嫁给我。”

The end of July，Young Shanghai male guest DongYan also for WuZhengZhen and come，says：“I have not come to impress you，I want to let you love me。”In the field，DongYan also personally on the meaning and roses。WuZhengZhen tears，Attitude is：“I would like to leave for your light，But not because I love you，I don't want you to leave alone。”Male guest had to leave alone，And leave a more“malicious”words：“You and I don't care who hand in hand，What I want is you have a day to marry me。”

　　网友看微博说她太作 Users see micro bo said she is too be

　　在吴铮真拒绝了男嘉宾董衍后，不仅孟非、乐嘉、黄菡觉得可惜，不少网友都在微博里留言，认为她站在舞台上的目的不是找爱人，而是炒作自己，赖在台上不走。对此，吴铮真通过微博委婉回应：“因为我被伤过，我知道独自离去有多痛，所以我不忍心他承受这种痛苦，但是我真的没办法在那么短的时间内爱上他。”

In WuZhengZhen refused male guest after DongYan，MengFei not only、LeJia、HuangHan feel pity，Not a few net friend in micro bo in the message，Think she stood on the stage is not the purpose of looking for love，But hype his，Don't walk on on the stage。this，WuZhengZhen through the micro bo tactful response：“Because I was wounded，I know how much pain left alone，So I don't have the heart to him endure this kind of pain，But I really can't in such a short period of time in love with him。”

　　但是细心的网友却发现，吴铮真拒绝了男嘉宾，微博上却又放不下。吴铮真有一条微博：“很庆幸，现在我不需要再为某人而伤心了，短短的20天，他立马爱上别人，我不想再提这人的名字了，或者再也不想听到了。但这个绝对不是董衍！”网友猜测这个“某人”就是曾经为她而来的男嘉宾赵舒，他在被吴铮真拒绝之后，在台下找到了自己的爱情，吴铮真似乎有些后悔了。

But careful net friend found，WuZhengZhen refused male guest，Micro blog, but can not let go。WuZhengZhen have a micro bo：“glad，Now I don't need to for someone and sad，Short 20 days，He immediately fell in love with others，I don't want to talk about this man's name，Or don't want to hear。But this is definitely not DongYan！”Net friend guess the“someone”Is once for her male guest ZhaoShu，He refused to WuZhengZhen after，In the audience found his love，WuZhengZhen seems to be some regret it。

　　这样的种种表现让网友觉得吴铮真有点“作”：“好几个条件很好专门来求爱的，自己都感动流泪了，为什么要拒绝？拒绝了为什么还在乎别人再爱上谁？跟你有关系吗？”

Such a variety of performance that lets users think WuZhengZhen a bit“for”：“Several the condition is very good here specially to the courtship，His tears were affected，Why do you want to refuse to？Refuse to why also care about others to fall in love with who？And you have a relationship？”

　　真命天子一定要满足3点

The right must satisfy three point

　　面对观众们的质疑，吴铮真接受了采访，对于自己相亲这件事，吴铮真显得非常无奈，“真的就是因为爸妈催得不行”。吴铮真特别强调：“我是真的捧着一颗真心去相亲的。孟非老师唱的《非诚勿扰》主题歌特别能表达我的心情，为什么没有人知道我是块宝呢？”

In the face of the audience questions，WuZhengZhen interviewed，For yourself to it，WuZhengZhen appear very helpless，“Really is because my parents have no rush”。WuZhengZhen special emphasis on：“I am really holding a sincerity to mutually close of。MengFei teacher sing《If you are the one》Theme song special can express my feelings，Why is there no one to know that I am piece of treasure？”

　　多次拒绝优秀又诚恳的男嘉宾，吴铮真到底喜欢什么样的？台上的姐妹说，她喜欢“花样美男”，黄菡老师则不以为然，建议吴铮真找一个“性格敦厚，胸怀宽大的”。对此，吴铮真则说她一直推崇孟非节目里说过的一句话：“国际象棋的精髓就是男女平等，皇后也可以出征，这句话我一直记在心里，我也要做出征的皇后，希望以后我的老公可以一起跟我出征。”

Multiple refused to good and honest male guest，WuZhengZhen exactly like what kind of？On the stage sisters said，She likes“Pattern "pretty boy"”，HuangHan teachers were to disagree，Suggestions WuZhengZhen find a“Character bonhomie，Mind wide”。this，WuZhengZhen is said that she has been respected MengFei program said a word：“Chess is the essence of equality between men and women，The queen can also go to the front，This sentence I have in mind，I also want to be the queen，Hope there my husband with me together go to the front。”

　　很多人不禁要问，究竟什么样的男人才能收了她？对此，吴铮真表示，对真命天子的要求必须满足三点：“第一要爱国；第二要潜力股，因为一座金山和点金的指头，我会选后者，所以现在没钱没关系；第三要专一，因为我不想离婚，如果离婚了，未来的路很难走。”

A lot of people can not help but ask，What kind of man can be accepted her？this，WuZhengZhen said，For the requirements of the right must meet at 3 o 'clock：“The first to patriotic；The second to potential shares，Because a mountain of gold and some gold finger，I will choose the latter，So now have no money doesn't matter；The third to fully，Because I don't want to divorce，If divorced，Future road is hard to walk。”