年过五十的喜剧明星蔡明在舞台上一直是焦点，然而关于蔡明的家庭生活却一直极少被曝光。近日，记者得知蔡明的老公叫丁秋星，蔡明22岁那年，在一次联欢活动上，认识了他。那时蔡明在北影厂演员剧团工作，丁秋星是中国广播艺术团青年导演。1985年，两人走进了婚姻殿堂。

Over 50 CaiMing comic star on the stage has been the focus，However CaiMing about family life has been very exposure。recently，Reporters learned that CaiMing husband call DingQiuXing，CaiMing 22 years old，In a celebration activities，He met his。Then CaiMing BeiYingChang actor in a theatrical company，DingQiuXing is China broadcasting art director of youth。In 1985,，Two people went into the marriage hall。

　　没办婚礼也没拍婚纱照 No wedding also didn't take wedding pictures

　　两人的认识过程颇为浪漫，1983年春节前，北京文艺界各团体进行联谊活动。那天，在中国广播艺术团任导演的丁秋星也去了。突然，他的眼睛一亮：那不是他一直暗恋的蔡明吗？丁秋星急于想认识蔡明，准备写张纸条给她。可他翻遍了所有口袋，也没找到纸，只找到一包刚买的止痛膏药。他顾不了许多，抽出膏药，在背面写上了自己的名字和电话，然后用力挤到了蔡明的身边，将膏药贴在蔡明的衣服上。没想到这招还真灵，很快蔡明就打来了电话，两人一起吃过几次饭，但蔡明一直对丁秋星不冷不热。为了赢得蔡明的芳心，丁秋星想出了一个主意。

Two people's cognitive process rather romantic，1983 years before the Spring Festival，Beijing literary and art circles all groups to fellowship activities。That day，In China broadcasting group as director DingQiuXing went。suddenly，His eyes a bright：Isn't that he had been secretly CaiMing？DingQiuXing are anxious to know CaiMing，Ready to write a note to her。But he rummaged all pocket，Also didn't find paper，Only to find a pack of bought the analgesic plaster。He too many，Extraction plaster，At the back write their name and phone number，Then force crowded to CaiMing side，The plaster stick in the CaiMing clothes。Didn't expect this to recruit to return true spirit，Soon CaiMing will call a telephone，Two people together to eat a few times rice，But CaiMing has been to DingQiuXing neither hot nor cold。In order to win the CaiMing heart，DingQiuXing came up with an idea。

　　丁秋星从蔡明的同事那里要到了她拍戏所在地的地址，然后一天给她写一封信。正在紧张拍戏的蔡明，每天都能收到丁秋星火辣辣的来信，这让她既意外又惊喜。慢慢地，蔡明从信中开始了解丁秋星，也被他的深情所打动。戏拍完了，她收到了丁秋星整整100封情书。就这样，蔡明和丁秋星相爱了。1985年8月，蔡明和丁秋星结婚了。因为两家亲朋无法坐在一起吃饭，婚礼也免了。虽然没有隆重的婚礼，甚至都没有拍婚纱照，但蔡明和丁秋星却觉得幸福极了，他们相约：今生今世永远相爱。

DingQiuXing from CaiMing colleagues there to take sport to her local address，Then one day write another letter to her。The filming of the CaiMing are nervous，Every day to receive a letter from DingQiu spark steady，This made her both accidental and surprise。slowly，CaiMing from the letter DingQiuXing beginning to understand，He moved the deep feeling。Play shoot out，She received DingQiuXing exactly 100 love letter。so，CaiMing and DingQiu astrology for love。In August 1985，CaiMing and DingQiuXing married。Because two relatives and can't sit down together to eat，Wedding also forgave。Although there is no grand wedding，Did not even waits to have her picture taken，But CaiMing and DingQiuXing but was happy，They make an appointment to meet：In this life love each other forever。

　　丈夫曾吃郭达的醋 Her husband had to eat GuoDa of vinegar

　　婚后两年，他们的孩子出生了。一个严峻的现实摆在面前：要想让家庭之舟平稳前行，必须有一方牺牲事业，丁秋星决定挑起家庭重担，他成了不折不扣的“家庭妇男”。丈夫的付出和牺牲成了蔡明奋斗的动力。蔡明的知名度越来越高，她的演出愈发繁忙，丁秋星也遇到了苦恼。由于与郭达长期搭档，有好事的媒体开始炒作他们的绯闻，说“蔡(菜)不离郭(锅)，郭(锅)不离蔡(菜)”，说蔡明与郭达在一起日久生情能不擦出火花吗？尽管丁秋星了解蔡明的为人，但这样的传言一多，还是让他心里很不舒服。二人为此还吵过嘴，不过最后丁秋星心里的疙瘩还是解开了，又恢复到模范丈夫的本来面目。蔡明常常这样说：“别看我在外面有点名气，可在家里还不是接受老丁的领导。”

Married two years，Their children were born。A severe reality in front：Want to let family the boat go smoothly，Must have a party sacrifice career，DingQiuXing decided to start family burden，He became real“Family woman male”。Her husband's pay and sacrifice became CaiMing struggle of power。CaiMing visibility is more and more high，Her performance increasingly busy，DingQiuXing also met with misery。With GuoDa long-term partner，Have good media began to hype their gossip，said“tsai(food)Not depart from guo(pot)，guo(pot)Not depart from tsai(food)”，Said CaiMing and GuoDa together day long living feeling can not wipe out spark？Although DingQiuXing understand CaiMing behavior，But such rumours that more than one，Let his heart was very uncomfortable。Two of them were for a mouth，But in the end DingQiuXing heart bumps or solved，And back to the model husband's true colors。CaiMing often say so：“Although I am in the outside a little fame，But in the home is not accept LaoDing leadership。”