一张李永波看球的照片，正风靡网络。照片上，他和中国教练都把脚翘在前排座位的椅背上。在伦敦奥运会的观众中，有世界首富、英国首相、电脑大亨、摇滚巨星等，可他们在镜头前，个个正襟危坐。

A LiYongBo watching the photos，Are popular network。Photos on，He and China are your feet in coach up front row seats back。In the London Olympics in the audience，Has the world's richest man、British prime minister、Computer tycoon、Rock stars, etc，But they in front of a camera，All sit。

　　同样是成功者，差距为何这么大？

The same is a winner，Why gap so big？

　　首先，这是环境的结果，在资源紧张、注重功利的背景下，人的精神难免会走向粗糙，缺乏对细节的重视；其次，这是不自信的表征，总生活在压力中，成绩不好挨批评，出了疏漏受惩罚，动辄得咎，那么，他就会用挑战公共规范的方式，来释放情绪、彰显个性；第三，这是教育缺失的产物，礼仪需身教养成，如果从小到大看到的都是不拘小节的人，就会习惯成自然。

first，This is the result of the environment，In the lack of resources、Pay attention to the utility of the background，The human spirit will inevitably to rough，Lack of attention to details；second，This is not the characterization of confidence，Always live under pressure，Bad grades coming in for criticism，Out of the defects of punishment，Foot right，so，He will challenge the way with public specifications，To release the mood、Reveal personality；The third，This is the product of the lack of education，Etiquette to teach by example foster，If we see is since the informal section，Would habit is a second nature。

　　约束自己，这是传统的重要功能，但在相当一个时期，我们忽视了这一点，甚至将斯文看成是虚伪，将粗鄙看成是坦诚，这就给几代人的行为带来扭曲。

bound，This is the traditional important function，But in a fairly long period，We neglect it，Even sven as is hypocritical，Will vulgar as honest，This will give several generation of people's behavior brings distortion。

　　举止放肆，对熟人是亲昵，对陌生人，就会觉得你缺乏尊重，就有可能被误会为是威胁，是规则破坏者。

Behavior unbridled，To an acquaintance is bad，To strangers，Will feel that you lack of respect，There could be mistaken for a threat，Is destroyer rules。

　　以消极比赛为例，本是职业运动员经常采用的策略，国外运动员在短跑、游泳等项目的预赛中，同样不会尽全力，为什么别人的叫战术，我们的叫耻辱呢？因为，我们不肯做好细节，公然去嘲弄公众、裁判的智商，那么，怎能不让大家感到愤怒？

In a negative game for example，This is a professional athlete often use strategies，Foreign athletes in the dash、Swimming project in the heats，The same will not do our best，Why people called tactics，We call shame？because，We would not do the details，Openly to mock the public、Referee IQ，so，Can you make everybody felt angry？

　　世界在进步，在今天，把握好自己，将每个细节都做完美，才能得到别人的承认。所以，请李永波看球时坐端正，这固然有些不舒适，却是纠正误解的开始。(蔡辉)

The world is at the progress，In today，Grasp your，Each detail is done perfectly，Can be granted。so，Please LiYongBo games to sit up，This is some uncomfortable，It is the beginning of the correct misunderstandings。(CaiHui)