长假期间频繁相亲 During the long holiday to frequent

　　“说出来也许你不信，8天长假，我相了6回亲，那种感觉真的很累人。”家住淮阴区黄河花园小区的沈琳，1985年生，高挑的个子，长得甜美可爱。她在杭州和朋友合伙开店。10月1日上午，她回来后的第二天，就被亲戚朋友安排四处相亲。10月1日，沈琳相了两个男孩，上午是她母亲一个朋友介绍的，男的比她大5岁，她没看中；下午是邻居给她介绍的，男孩子各方面条件都不错，说实话，沈琳有些心动，但男孩子没看上她。

"Say you may not believe,8 seven-day holiday,I phase six back to kiss,That kind of feeling really very tiring."The Yellow River in huaiyin district garden plot of ShenLin,Born in 1985,Tall stature of,Grow lovely.She set up shop in hangzhou and friend partnership.October 1 morning,After she came back the next day,Was arranged to relatives and friends around.On October 1,,ShenLin phase the two boys,Morning is her mother a friend introduction,Man than her five years old,She didn't take a fancy to;The afternoon is introduced to her neighbors,Boys various conditions are good,To tell you the truth,ShenLin some cardiac,But boys are not her.

　　“今年都虚28岁了，她还一副不着急的模样。女孩子这个年纪再不抓紧，过一两年就更困难了。”沈琳母亲对记者说，虽然女儿在外地打工，但她希望女儿能在家乡找到对象，不希望她嫁得远。所以这次长假，她为沈琳安排了密集的相亲。

"This year, virtual 28 years old,She has a pair of don't worry appearance.Girls this age don't grasp,Couple of years are more difficult."ShenLin mother says to the reporter,Although the daughter in the field work,But she hopes for her daughter at home to find object,Don't want her to marry far.So this holiday,She is ShenLin arranged densely populated blind date.

　　10月2日到6日，沈琳陆续又相了4个男孩，其中10月4日晚上，她一连相了两个男孩。“说实话，亲戚朋友介绍的这些男孩，不论是工作还是家庭，条件真的都挺不错，有的是老师，有的是医生，还有的是公务员，大多数男孩有房有车。”沈琳笑着说，相亲找对象关键是双方看上眼，如果看不上眼，对方条件再好也没用。

October 2 to 6,In ShenLin and phase four boys,The October 4, in the evening,She for phase the two boys."To tell you the truth,Friends and relatives introduction of the boys,Whether work or family,Condition really are quite nice,Have a plenty of the teacher,Have a plenty of the doctor,Still have a plenty of civil servants,Most boys have a house have a car."ShenLin smiled and said,To find the object the key is both eyes are,If dispels,The other condition again good also useless.

　　“最终我还是相中了一个男孩，就是长假期间我相的第6位男孩。他在市区一所中学教书，对我也有好感，我们决定相处一段时间看看。”沈琳满脸笑容地说，如果和这个男孩谈成了，她就关了杭州的店，回淮安做生意。

"Finally I still phase a boy,Is the holiday I phase sixth boy.He in the city a middle school teaching,For I have the favor,We decided to get along with a period of time to see."ShenLin said with a big smile,If the boy and negotiate,She closed the hangzhou's shop,Back to huaian business.

　　据了解，像沈琳这种利用长假进行“扫描式相亲”的人还真不少，在记者随意采访的15位“80后”男女青年中，有12位在长假中相亲，相亲两回以上的达到8位。

It is understood,Like ShenLin this kind of make use of the long holiday for"Scanning to"People also really many,In reporter interviews at 15"After 80"Young men and women in,There were 12 in the long vacation in blind date,Blind date back to two more than eight.

大多数人“被相亲” Most people"Be dear to"

　　“对我们这些剩男剩女来说，长假的频繁相亲并不是自己所愿，大多数的时候，是被家人或亲朋逼着去的。”中秋、国庆期间相了4回亲的刘勇告诉记者，他今年30岁，现在只要回家，父母亲就和他唠叨女朋友的事。

"For those of us with male left for women,Long vacation to the frequent and not their wish,Most of the time,Is your family or relatives and forced to go."Mid-Autumn festival/National Day period phase four back to close, told reporters,This year he is 30 years old,As long as home now,Parents and his nagging girlfriend.

　　“特别是每到节假日结婚高潮，看到周围一个个和我差不多大小的孩子都结了婚，而我连女朋友都没有，父母就更着急了。这不，国庆长假期间，我大多数的时间被母亲拉着去相亲。我妈带我去见女孩从不预先通知，命令一下就得跟着走，回来后问这问那，反复分析，专业度不逊媒人。”刘勇说，相亲虽然是找到合适伴侣的好途径，但很多时候也很难如愿，你看上的，人家看不上你；你看不上的，人家却对你有意思，成功率并不见得高。

"Especially every holiday marriage climax,See one around and I almost the size of the children are married,And I don't have a girlfriend,Parents more worried.It's not,National Day long vacation period,Most of my time by her mother took to blind date.My mother took me to see the girl never advance notice,Command the have to follow,Come back to ask this ask that,Repeated analysis,Professional degrees haughtiness matchmaker."Said,,Although it is to find the right partner's good way,But most of the time is difficult to fulfill a wish,You are only after,Somebody else were you;Were you the,The somebody else is coming on to you,The success rate is not so high.

　　刘勇告诉记者，这个长假，他们单位五六位还没有对象的“80后”青年回家后，几乎都被家人或亲朋带着去相亲了。

, told reporters,It's a long holiday,They unit WuLiuWei haven't object"After 80"Youth home,Almost all were family members or relatives and took them to the blind date.

　　8天长假相了6回亲的沈琳说，假期本来是休息的，频繁相亲并非她所愿，但她拗不过父母。为了她的成长，从小到大父母操了不少心，现在还要为她的婚事操心，她心里很过意不去，只好听父母的话，跟着亲戚朋友去相亲。“前两天，我在网上和一些还没结婚的朋友聊天时，他们告诉我，这个长假大家都在"被相亲"。”10月7日下午回杭州的沈琳说。

8 long final six back to close ShenLin said,The holiday was rest,Frequent blind date is not her wish,But she her parents.In order to her growth,Since the childhood parents hold a lot of heart,Now have to worry about her marriage,She was very bad,Have to listen to parents' words,With friends and relatives to go to."Two days before,I am on the net and some aren't married friends chat,They told me,It's a long holiday in everyone"Be dear to"."October 7 days afternoon back to hangzhou ShenLin said.

　　采访中，记者了解到，长假期间“被相亲”的大男大女们比比皆是。“女孩子过了25岁，男孩子过了28岁，如果还没有对象，那家人就急了，就会托亲找友为他们找对象。”市区一婚介所的工作人员说，长假期间，在他们那儿相亲的男女青年，70%以上是父母带着来的，也就是所谓的“被相亲”。

interview,The reporter understands,During the long holiday"Be dear to"Big men and women everywhere."Girls 25 years old,The boys had 28 years old,If haven't object,The family is nasty,Will "find close friends as they seek object."The city a matrimonial agency staff said,During the long holiday,There the young men and women of blind date,More than 70% of parents with,Also is the so-called"Be dear to".

　　而在网上，长假“被相亲”的事情更是层出不穷。一位网友在微博上调侃：“国庆，你被相亲了吗？”原来，在他身边，有不少“80后”被相亲。“五一、中秋、国庆，一个都不放过，真是每逢佳节被相亲啊！”

And on the Internet,holiday"Be dear to"Things but also emerge in endlessly.A net friend in micro blog ridicule:"National Day,You are blind date?"The original,At his side,There are many"After 80"Be dear to."The May Day/Mid-Autumn festival/National Day,A all don't pass,Is really sze was dear to ah!"