亲情关系 Family relations

　　谎称“中毒”让父亲彻底失望 Lied about“poisoning”Let father completely disappointed

　　13日下午，查建丰从无锡市区回到江阴家中。当他了解了扬子晚报记者的来意后，情绪一下子就激动起来，称不想再谈起这个儿子，同时表示不愿再接受这个行为怪异的儿子。

13 afternoon，Check from wuxi city jianfeng back to jiangyin home。When he learned of yangtse evening post reporters after the jamboree，Mood was excited，Say don't want to talk about the son，Also said don't want to accept the behavioral son。

　　据介绍，查建丰与前妻离婚时，查澄华被判给母亲抚养。查澄华七八岁时，由于母亲家里经济条件十分困难，查澄华又回到父亲身边，在父亲的安排下，他到当地的一所小学上学。查建丰本以为儿子从此以后就能在自己身边安安稳稳地生活，可没过多长时间，查澄华就给他惹出事来，“他也在学校上了一段时间学，但好景不长，没过多久，学校老师就找到我，说他经常逃学，没办法，只好让他辍学了。”

According to introducing，Check jianfeng and ex-wife of divorce，Check ChengHua was sentenced to up to her mother。Check ChengHua when he was eight，Due to the economic conditions are very difficult mother home，Check ChengHua returned to his father's side，In his father's arrangements，He to the local elementary school to go to school。Check jianfeng thought son from now on can next life steady，Not too many long time，Check ChengHua gave him to cause an accident，“He also in school for a long time to learn，But short-lived，Before long，The school the teacher will find me，Said he often playing truant，Can't，Let him drop out of school。”

　　没过几年，更让查建丰想不到的事情发生了：查澄华自己策划了一起“中毒”事件。

In just a few years，More let check jianfeng unexpected thing happened：Check ChengHua his plan together“poisoning”events。

　　在查澄华11岁那年的一天，父亲查建丰下面条给他吃，查澄华吃完之后就一个人出去了，结果没多久，镇上派出所的民警就来找查建丰了，要求他回去接受调查。

11 years old ChengHua check on the day，Father check jianfeng article below to him to eat，Check ChengHua finished eating it would go，The results before long，Police station in the town of police, come to check jianfeng......，Ask for him to return under investigation。

　　“我当时很是莫名其妙，不知道发生了什么事情，后来派出所的人告诉我，原来是查澄华跑到医院去投诉，称我在面条里下毒，想毒死他。为这个事情派出所还专门派了两个人盯着我，不过医院最终检查出我并没有下毒。”这件事情让查建丰对儿子彻底失去了希望。

“I was very is puzzling，Don't know what happened，Later the police station people tell me，It is ChengHua ran to check the hospital to complaints，Call me poison in the noodles，Want to poison him。For the things police station technically still sent two men staring at me，But the hospital final check out and I have not been poisoned。”This things make check jianfeng son to completely lose hope。

　　查澄华的爷爷奶奶提到此事，也非常生气。

Check ChengHua grandma and grandpa mentioned it，Also very angry。

　　“下毒事件”后，全家人都不愿意再照顾查澄华，后来没过多久查澄华就消失了。“我也不知道他去了哪里，当时猜想可能是去了他母亲家。”查建丰说。　

“Poisoned events”after，The whole family are not willing to take care ChengHua check again，Later before long check ChengHua disappeared。“I don't know where he was going，At that time may be to him that his mother's home。”Check jianfeng said。

　不堪其扰，父母都不想再见他 Unbearable the wall，All parents don't want to see him

　　今年6月下旬，查建丰曾经在江阴市中医院见到过查澄华，当时查建丰是被镇上派出所民警带过去的，原来查澄华逢人就说自己被“养父”查建丰强迫吃下铁钉，还不让他回家。查建丰被带到医院后，一眼就认出这个已经有近20年未见的儿子，“我20年没见他，怎么给他吃钉子？！”气愤之下，查建丰不仅当着众人的面说出真相，还大声责骂了儿子一通，然后他就离开了医院。　

This year in late June，Check jianfeng once in jiangyin hospital seen ChengHua check，Look at that time is the town jianfeng police station with the police in the past，The original check ChengHua told everyone he says he is“Adoptive father”Check jianfeng forced eat nails，Don't let him home。Check jianfeng was taken to the hospital，He recognized the nearly 20 years has not seen the son，“I haven't seen his 20 years，How to eat his nails？！”In anger，Check jianfeng not only in the presence of the people's surface to tell the truth，Also loudly scolded his son a phone，Then he left the hospital。

　　据介绍，查澄华已经不止一次在外面诬陷自己的父亲，一般套路都是先自己吃下钉子，然后跑到医院说是遭“养父”查建丰强迫吞下铁钉，接着当地的派出所和媒体就会给查建丰打来电话核对情况，对此查建丰大为苦恼：“我接到的电话不计其数，各个地方的都有，我实在是无法忍受了，当时就暗下决心，这样的儿子不要也罢。从今以后，我跟他再也没有任何关系。”

According to introducing，Check ChengHua has more than once in the outside framed his own father，General routines are to eat a nail，And then ran to the hospital by that“Adoptive father”Check jianfeng forced to swallow nails，Then the local police station and media will give check jianfeng call to check，This check jianfeng greatly distressed：“I received the phone is countless，Each place，I really can't stand it，Then decided，Such son don't need。From now on，He and I never any relationship。”

　　被查澄华屡次“骚扰”的还有当地的派出所。华士镇派出所的华教导员告诉记者，从去年开始，他们所里就经常接到其他地方民警打过来的电话，要求帮忙协助调查查澄华，“有些电话甚至是深夜打过来的，一开始，我们还比较重视，但时间长了我们也慢慢认识了这个人，也知道真相，说实在的，这样下去我们也有点吃不消。”

ChengHua checked frequently“harassment”And the local police station。The China town police station instructor told reporters，From the start of last year，They place is often receives other local police call phone，Ask for help ChengHua check in to help the investigation，“Some phone even call late at night，first，We have more attention，But a long time we also know this man slowly，Also know the truth，really，Go on like this we also is groaning。”

　　据悉，查澄华4岁时曾经与改嫁的母亲一起到了张家港。记者联系了他同母异父的妹妹张敏，张敏告诉记者，查澄华小的时候确实随母亲跟他们一起生活过一段时间，后来突然失踪，不知去向。家里面一开始也曾四处打探寻找过他，但一直没有消息，后来也就放弃寻找。

It is reported，Check ChengHua age 4 once and remarried mother in zhangjiagang together。Journalists have made contact with his father mother different with the sister zhangmin.i am，ZhangMin told reporters，Check ChengHua small of the time really with the mother lived with them for a period of time，Then suddenly disappeared，Do not know to。Home is a beginning and find out he was around，But there has been no news，Later also gave up searching for。

　　张敏向记者表示，她可以代表母亲做出决定，“我们家不会再与查澄华见面了。”

ZhangMin told reporters，She can make a decision on behalf of the mother，“Our house won't and check ChengHua meet。”

　　今晚10:20央视也将播出对“小伟”吞钉及其身世之谜的调查。

Now also will broadcast tonight on CCTV“Small wei”The mystery of life and swallow a nail investigation。

何去何从 Where to go

　　长不大的“男孩”去留成难题 Grow up“boy”Into problems remain

　　家人的态度让医院不知道怎么办 The attitude of the family to hospitals don't know what to do

　　常州市中医院在接到查澄华的“求救”后，立即对其进行手术，取出他体内的铁钉。一开始，医院方面还是持乐观态度的，认为在警方和媒体介入后，查澄华的家人会很快出面，将其领回。但随着事情的真相慢慢被揭开，医院方面越来越觉得查澄华成为一个“难题”。在查澄华刚做完手术的那几天，由于其家人不出面，查澄华一直都是由医生和护士在照顾。在这期间，一位在医院照顾老伴的70多岁的老人同情查澄华，也多有照顾。

Changzhou hospital in receive ChengHua check“For help”after，Immediately the surgery，Take out his body of nails。first，Hospital or optimists，Think in the police and the media after intervention，Check ChengHua family will soon come forward，Will get the。But with the truth of the matter being slowly uncover，And it's hospital check ChengHua become one“problem”。Check on ChengHua had just finished the operation that for a few days，Because the family did not come forward，Check ChengHua has been by doctors and nurses in care。In this period，A hospital care in the wife of 70-year-olds sympathy ChengHua check，Also much care。

　　如今，查澄华出院后何去何从，也成了一个难题。“现在他的身体恢复得很快，用不了几天就能出院了，医药费我们是免掉了，但我们需要有人来为他办理出院手续，我们也已经了解到了他父母的态度，看来这还真成为一个难题。”常州市中医院分管业务的副院长如此告诉记者。

now，Check ChengHua where after discharge，Also became a problem。“Now he's recovered quickly，In a few days can discharge from hospital，Medical expenses we are fired，But we need someone to go through the discharge formalities for him，We have also learned about his parents' attitude，It seems to really become a problem。”Changzhou hospital of the charge, vice President of the business so told reporters。

　　作为一个28岁的成年男子，理应有独立生活能力，但他的行为使他就像是一个永远长不大的孩子，出院后的他究竟何去何从，成了困扰所有关心他的人心中无法回答的问题。

As a grown man 28 years of age，Should have live independently，But his behavior made him like a never grown up children，After discharge he actually of what to do，A concern about his beset all your heart can't answer the question。

　　(文中除查澄华父子外，其余人均使用化名)

(This paper ChengHua except the father and son check，The rest of the per capita use alias)

-编后 -BianHou

　　“吞钉男”无人监护尴尬背后 “Swallowed nail male”There fore behind embarrassing

　　记者在采访中发现，过去的一年多时间里，查澄华走遍江浙地区，每到一个地方就会编出一段“骇人听闻”的故事，引起当地媒体的关注，一时间成为一个焦点。但事情过后，查澄华总是又流落到社会上，继续新的“吞钉剧情”。也许他的这种行为就如同心理医生所说，是因极端缺乏关爱而采取的一种极端手段。那么这种怪异行为是否属于精神疾病？这需要权威机构进行鉴定。据律师介绍，如果查澄华被鉴定为患有精神疾病，其母亲作为第一监护人应该承担起监护义务——父母离婚时，查被判给了母亲。

The reporter found in the interview，The past year there，Check ChengHua through all the jiangsu and zhejiang provinces area，Each to a place will make up a“appalling”story，Cause local media attention，Time become a focus。But after the fact，Check again ChengHua always went to the society，Continue to new“Swallowed the nail”。Maybe his this kind of behavior is as psychological doctor said，Because of the extreme lack of love is a kind of take extreme measures。So the bizarre behavior whether to belong to mental illness？This requires authority for identification。According to the lawyer introduced，If checked ChengHua were identified as suffering from mental illness，The mother as the first guardian should be responsible for monitoring obligations--parents divorce，Check was sentenced to to the mother。

　　但事实上，到现在还没有哪个权威的精神疾病鉴定机构来给查澄华做鉴定。更尴尬的是，即使找机构对其鉴定，也需要疑似患者家属提出书面申请，或者涉及刑事、民事案件时由司法部门提出司法鉴定，遗憾的是，“吞钉男”的父母均不愿接受他，他也没有牵涉到任何刑事、民事案件，也就无法进行专业的精神疾病鉴定。

But in fact，To now have no authority mental disease appraisal organization to check ChengHua do identification。More awkward is，Even looking for agencies to its identification，Also need to submit a written application to the patients with suspected families，Or criminal、Civil cases by the justice department puts forward the judicial authentication，unfortunately，“Swallowed nail male”Parents are not willing to accept him，He also not implicated in any criminal、Civil cases，It cannot conduct professional mental disease identification。

　　查澄华已是成年人，父母又不认这个儿子——精神疾病的委托鉴定貌似行不通，谁来监护就无从谈起。这样一个怪圈该如何破解？除了其父母，就没有人能承担起委托鉴定的角色？从这个行为怪异的“大男孩”身上，我们看到的不仅仅是其个人“缺少关爱”，更应该看到对这样的弱者，在社会救助体制上的缺失。

Check ChengHua already are adults，Parents and deny the son, the commission of the identification of mental illness as it won't work，Who will care cannot survive。Such a vicious circle how to crack？In addition to its parents，No one was able to take on the role of the entrusted identification？From the behavior of the weird“Big boy”body，We see is not only the individual“Lack of care”，Should see more about such the weak，In the absence of social assistance system。