无论是在街头和小贩讲价，还是和亲人在家里聊天，讲话要是用上了商务辞令，这肯定会让对方莫名其妙。时下，有不少网友讨论起了这样一种现象：步入职场后，常不由自主地就将职场说话方式带入生活中，引发各种哭笑不得的状况，网友将这种说话方式称为“白领腔”。

Whether in the streets and bargain，Or and relatives at home to chat，If speech to use the language to the business，This will certainly let the other side puzzling。nowadays，Have not a few net friend discussion up such a phenomenon：Into the workplace after，Often involuntarily will workplace way into life，Cause all kinds of in distress situation of the situation，The way net friend called“White-collar cavity”。

　　对此，记者也走访了重庆江北茂业和红鼎国际的写字楼，受访的112名白领中，超过八成表示，在日常生活中，自己会出现不同程度的“白领腔”，但有的因此更受欢迎，有的却成为朋友眼中的笑料，会让人不知所措。昨日，中国心理学会会员、心理专家陈志林对记者采访的“白领腔”个案，进行了逐一点评。

this，Reporters also visited the chongqing jiangbei maoye and red ding international office，The surveyed 112 white-collar，More than eighty percent said，In everyday life，He would appear different degree of“White-collar cavity”，But some therefore more popular，Others become friends in the eyes of a joke，Can let a person at a loss。yesterday，Chinese psychological association、ChenZhiLin psychological experts to reporters“White-collar cavity”case，The one by one to comment。

　　数据 近八成有“白领腔” Data is nearly eighty percent“White-collar cavity”

　　7月12日至13日，记者通过调查问卷的形式，在两栋写字楼里对从事财会、销售、IT、广告、投资、摄影、美容行业的16家公司白领进行了调查。在“生活中，你是否会脱口而出‘白领腔’”这一问题中，33.7%的白领表示经常会如此，48.5%的白领表示偶尔会有，只有17.8%的白领表示从来不会。

July 12, to 13，Reporters through the questionnaire of form，In the two office building of working in finance、sales、It、advertising、investment、photography、The beauty industry 16 companies white-collar to conduct an investigation。in“life，If you can blurt out‘White-collar cavity’”The problem of，33.7% of the white-collar says will often be so，48.5% of the white-collar says occasionally，Only 17.8% of the white-collar say never。

　　在“生活中，什么情况下，最容易爆‘白领腔’”的问题上，35.6%的白领表示是在接电话时，尽量让自己声音更温柔。22.8%的白领表示是在和同为白领的朋友聊天时，22.9%的白领则表示是在吵架需要增加论证力时，剩下的18.7%白领则表示自己的“白领腔”无处不在，不由自主。

in“life，What circumstance，The most easily explosion‘White-collar cavity’”On the question of，35.6% of the white-collar says is on the phone，As far as possible let oneself more gentle voice。22.8% of the white-collar is said in the same for the white-collar and friends，22.9% of the white-collar said it is in need to increase the quarrel force argument，The remaining 18.7%, said his collar“White-collar cavity”everywhere，involuntarily。

　　建议 让你的情绪下班吧 Suggestions for your emotions's work

　　记者通过走访后发现，“白领腔”的形式多种多样，在不同的场合，往往带来不同的效果，对此，智联招聘重庆分公司的市场经理李翔宇认为，很多白领容易被职业同化，回到现实生活中，也难以完成社会角色的转换，让自己的情绪难以下班。而有的则是渴望自己的工作身份得到社会关注或认可。他认为，“白领腔”并非不能进入生活，只要认清自己目前的社会角色，有时“白领腔”的得当运用，也能成为生活的调剂。

The reporter found through visit，“White-collar cavity”In a variety of forms，In different occasions，Often brings different effect，this，Zhilian zhaopin of chongqing branch manager market LiXiangYu think，Many white-collar easy to be professional assimilation，Back to real life，Also difficult to complete the transformation of the social role，Let your emotions from work hard。And some is eager to their work status get social concern or recognition。He thinks，“White-collar cavity”Not can't go into life，As long as know yourself the current social role，sometimes“White-collar cavity”Proper use of，Also can become the life adjust。

　　怪“腔”怪调 blame“cavity”GuaiDiao

　　礼仪腔 她成了朋友的笑料 She became a friend of etiquette cavity laughs

　　“喂，您好，我是夏玲，请问您有什么事？”在茂业一家广告公司上班的夏玲负责前台接待，就算下了班，只要她手机有陌生来电，她也会压低声线，用轻柔的语调，极尽礼仪地接听电话。“我身边很多朋友常常为此捉弄我，让我很生气。”夏玲说，自己这种接电话方式常常受到朋友们的嘲笑，有的朋友还经常找陌生电话打给她，听她的开场白，以增笑料。

“hello，How do you do，I'm XiaLing，Do you have what thing？”In maoye an advertising company to work XiaLing responsible for the reception，Even if a class，As long as her cell phone calls a strange，She also drive down voice，With gentle tone，Best etiquette to answer the phone。“My side many friends often therefore playing tricks on me，Let me very angry。”XiaLing said，His phone this way are often friends laugh at，Some friends often find strange phone call to her，Listen to her opening remarks，To add laughter。

　　点评：很多白领因为工作需要，离开工作场合，也必须保持职场礼仪，但不要将这种客套礼仪带入亲友中，以免显得生疏、冷漠。同时，也应该和朋友恳谈，获得理解。

Comment on：Many white-collar because job，Leave the job situation，Must also keep workplace etiquette，But don't will this for ceremony etiquette to relatives and friends，Lest appear rusty、cold。At the same time，Should also 恳谈 and friends，Be understood。

　　洽谈腔 7岁女儿被吓哭 Negotiate cavity was 7 years old daughter cry

　　在红鼎国际上班的网友“虎皮青椒”从事销售行业已经十年，她告诉记者，自己有时甚至与7岁的女儿相处也会冒出“白领腔”。有一次，女儿不愿意吃饭，她便说道：“请你吃完饭再看可以吗，要是你不好好配合，后果很严重。”听完她一席严肃的话，女儿疑惑地看了她两眼后，突然哇哇大哭。事后，她觉得有些后悔，担心“职场”上的说话方式太过严肃，反而会吓坏女儿。

In the work of the international red“Tiger green pepper”Engaged in sales industry has ten years，She told reporters，Their sometimes even and 7 year old daughter get along with also will crop up“White-collar cavity”。once，His daughter would not eat，She then say：“Ask you to eat a meal again see can，If you are not well cooperate，The consequences will be severe。”After hearing her a seat in serious word，Daughter doubt see her after two eyes，Suddenly burst into tears for。After the event，She feel some regret，worry“workplace”On the way of speaking too serious，It will be terrified daughter。

　　点评：将洽谈腔带入生活中，无形中拉远了人与人的亲密关系，使聆听一方难以适应繁复的措辞。

Comment on：Will negotiate cavity into life，Virtually pull away the close relationship between，Listen to a party difficult to adapt to the wording of the heavy and complicated。

　　术语腔 哄女友的利器 The term cavity coax girlfriend's tool

　　今年24岁的陈先生，在一家投资公司上班，对他来说，自己的“白领腔”完全是对付女朋友的利器，每当个性强势的女友生气时，陈先生便会说：“莫发火嘛，是我对这件事的定位发生偏差”……女友听了这样的话语，往往忍俊不禁，怒意全消。而在一家人力资源公司上班的网友“DLL”，则经常把工作术语搬进聚会里，比如：“这个KTV不知道好不好，我去考察一下。”“这次该你结账了，兄弟，谢谢合作！”这类措辞，在“DLL”看来，有时候确实能够起到活跃气氛的效果。

The 24-year-old Mr. Chen，In an investment company work，For him, the，his“White-collar cavity”Completely is deal with girlfriend's tool，Whenever the strong individual character of the angry girl friend，Mr. Chen will said：“Don't blow a fuse，Is this matter to my location produce deviation”......Listen to the words of this girlfriend，Often can not help smiling，Anger disarm mind。And in a human resource company work of netizens“DLL”，The term is often work moved into the party，For example：“The KTV could not give upfinding bad，I went to look at。”“This time you the bill，brother，Thank you！”This kind of words，in“DLL”look，Sometimes it can rise the active atmosphere effect。

　　点评：以玩笑的语气，将工作词汇带入生活，有时会让别人会心一笑。但要注意，如果用错了对象或是场合，则会让气氛更加尴尬。

Comment on：With the tone of the joke，Will work vocabulary to the life，Sometimes give others a hearty laugh。But take note，If you use the wrong object or occasion，It'll make atmosphere more embarrassed。

　　英文腔 她点快餐要用英文 The English chamber she point fast food in English

　　25岁的李小姐所在的IT公司，每个同事都有自己的英文名，而且日常工作中，也常涉及很多需要英文表达的专业术语。但在李小姐看来，有的同事就因此不会正常说话了。“你好，请叫我Anna”，李小姐模仿起同事张姐自我介绍时的样子，她说，32岁的张姐无论什么时候都要用夹英文的方式说话。比如中午同事一起吃快餐，她会对递来菜单的服务员说“不用看了，everything is ok(随便)”，弄得对方一头雾水。“她还常常说，如果你出去讲话不带点english(英语)，会给人不professional(专业)的感觉。”李小姐对此评价道：“又不是不能用中文表达，让人觉得很装”。

At the age of 25 miss li in the It company，Everyone has his own English name，And daily work，Also often involves a lot to English expression of technical terms。But in miss li opinion，Some colleagues are therefore not speak normally。“hello，Please call me Anna”，Miss li imitate the ZhangJie colleagues introduces oneself appearance，She said，32 years old ZhangJie no matter what time the way to speak English with clip。Such as colleagues at noon eat fast food，She will be handed to the menu the attendant say“Don't look at the，Everything is OK(literally)”，Make the other party baffled。“She often said，If you go out with a speech not English(English)，Can give a person not professional(professional)feeling。”Miss li to this evaluation way：“And not can't express in Chinese，Let a person feel very outfit”。

　　点评：一些企业，尤其是外企，流利的英语是在职场中的重要技能。但用在生活中，就可能会让别人感到这是一种自我炫耀的方式，过分标榜职业身份，让人产生反感。(重庆商报 王薇 王姿又 朱婷)

Comment on：Some enterprise，Especially foreign company，Fluent English in the workplace is the important skills。But in life，It may be that others find it is a way of showing off oneself，Too much flaunt professional identity，Counterproductive。(Chongqing business newspaper wang wei WangZi ZhuTing again)