职场“表情暴力”让网友伤不起 workplace“Expression violence”Let netizen doesn't hurt

微博上有个段子“把脾气发出来叫本能，压回去叫本事”，专家告诫“压回去”容易内伤 The blog has a joke“A call to the temper instinct，Pressure back that skill”，Experts warn“Pressure back”Internal injuries to

　　奥运会上，周俊三次抓举失败，部分媒体在报道中用了“耻辱”的字眼，引发公众对这种“语言暴力”的批评。而就在昨天，另一种“暴力”又在网上引发热议——

The Olympic Games，ZhouJunSan times snatch defeat，Part of the media powers“shame”word，For this cause the public“Language violence”criticism。And just yesterday，another“violence”And in the online cause of hot debate--

　　“孙杨和朴泰桓并列拿银牌，我们经理脸阴得拧下水来！刚才不得不去送报表，劈头招来一顿骂！”昨天在南京一家论坛上，网友“小刀刀”的帖子引来众多“吐槽”：“南京这几天热吧？我一看我们老板的脸，再热的天也冷汗直冒”，“我们领导是个女人，看人那眼神像刀片……”

“SunYang and PiaoTaiHuan tied for take silver medal，Our manager Yin to twist to face in the water！Just have to send statements，PiTou recruit to scold！”Yesterday a BBS in nanjing，the“Knife knife”Post drew many“Vomit slot”：“Nanjing thermal it these days？Once I see our boss's face，The heat of the day and also take cold sweat straight”，“Our leader is a woman，Looking at the eyes like a razor blade......”

　　网友们说的这种情况，相信几乎所有人都遇到过。其实，大家不知道的是，这种行为有个专有名词，叫做“表情暴力”。

Net friends say the situation，Believe almost all met。In fact，You don't know is，This behavior has a proper nouns，called“Expression violence”。

　　那么，你遭遇过“表情暴力”吗？你是否也曾经对他人施“暴”？面对伤人伤己的“表情暴力”， 我们该如何应对？

so，You met“Expression violence”?？Do you ever done for others“Suddenly and violently”？Facing cuts hurt yourself“Expression violence”， How should we respond？

你看你看他们的脸“我们领导脸色随着金牌变” You see you see their faces“We face as the gold medal leadership change”

　　小王是南京一家进出口贸易公司的职员，部门领导是个体育迷。

Xiao wang is an import and export trade company of nanjing staff，The department leader is a sports fan。

　　“孙杨那天400米自由泳夺金，我们经理开心坏了，一整天阳光灿烂，还表扬我工作细致。”可小王没高兴多久：“眼看着孙杨又要和朴泰桓较量了，经理说了，赢了他请客。可没想到，两个人并列亚军！”接下来的日子小王欲哭无泪了：“一上班我就看到经理沉着脸，一上午都没怎么说话，打电话也是在骂人。”

“SunYang that day the 400-meter freestyle gold，Our manager happy is broken，All day the sun is shining，I also praised the work is careful。”But wang didn't happy long：“See SunYang and PiaoTaiHuan and competition，The manager said the，Won him to pay。But she didn't know it，Two men tied for second！”The next day wang tears：“A work I saw manager calm face，One morning how didn't talk，Call is in call names。”

　　到了下午，悲催的小王不得不去敲经理的门，“送上的是一样的报表。前一天他还夸我工作细致，没想到马上就骂我马虎大意，报告写的乱七八糟看不清楚！”委屈的小王气愤不已，偷偷跑到网上哭诉。

By the afternoon，Sad reminders of the wang had to knock on the door of the manager，“On is the same reports。The day before he also kua I work carefully，Didn't expect'll scold me careless carelessness，The mess on the report to see clearly！”Injustice of wang angry unceasingly，Secretly run crying out to the net。

“我最怕老婆没有好脸色” “I am afraid of wife no good face”

　　小王的帖子引起大家的讨论，网友们纷纷吐槽自己的遭遇。

Wang post cause the discussion，Net friends have spit slot what had happened to her。

　　“我简直怀疑你们经理就是我老婆！除了性别不同。”一位网友的跟帖引来大家围观：“我老婆不高兴的时候，那脸简直就像雕塑，一点表情都没有！”更让网友惊讶的是，该网友的妻子竟然是一位星级宾馆的前台。“她在外面整天和人家微笑，和蔼极了，回家就上演天地大反转！”

“I can doubt your manager is my wife！In addition to gender。”A net friend from all of the onlookers：“My wife is not happy，The face is just like sculpture，A little facial expressions are not！”More let netizen surprise，The net friend's wife unexpectedly is a star hotel desk。“She and the somebody else all day outside smile，Was kind，Came home and big reversal！”

　　“没错没错，我老婆是老师，也是这样的。哪怕她把外面的彬彬有礼给我一点点也好啊！”又一位网友“哭诉”。

“Yes that's right，My wife is a teacher，Is also such。Even if she put her out polite to me a little bit of that would be fine！”And a net friend“crying”。

“医生的脸让我看了更难受” “The doctor's face so I saw more uncomfortable”

　　“我觉得我受不了的冷脸是医生的。我小病自己买药，大病才不得不去医院。可是医生那张脸真让人难受！冷冰冰毫无表情，惜字如金，几分钟就打发掉人。我想多问问自己到底是什么病，都不一定得到回音。你说，我上医院不是为了治病吗？真是堵得慌。”一位网友的话得到大家的“认同”。

“I think I can't stand the cold face is a doctor。I ailment oneself buy medicine，A serious illness had to go to the hospital。But the doctor that face really make people uncomfortable！Cold has no facial expression，unfailingly，A few minutes away。I want to ask yourself what disease，Is not necessarily get reply。You said，Me in the hospital is not in order to cure？Is really plugging panic to。”A net friend words to get everyone“identity”。

　　“还有一些所谓的窗口行业，虽然态度比以前好了，但总有些人还是板着脸，让人小心翼翼地询问还不一定有回音。”对于这种感受，也有一些网友表示“经历过”。(记者 谢尧)

“And some of the so-called window industry，Although attitude is better than before，But there are always some people or a straight face，Let people cautiously about also doesn't have a reply。”For this kind of feeling，Some net PALS said“experienced”。(Reporter XieYao)