职场在路上：你希望与谁一起出差 Workplace on the road:You hope and who travel together

　　在职场生活中，出差是一个特殊的情景：你有机会和领导近距离相处，有机会和日常工作之外的同事密切接触，甚至有机会发现他们和每天端坐在办公桌前完全不一样的另一面。千万别小瞧这些路上的点点滴滴，有时候一个微妙的细节或许就能成为你职场成败的转折点。

In the workplace in life,Travel is a special scene:You have the chance to get along and leadership close,Have the opportunity and daily work colleagues outside of close contact,Even a chance to discover them and sitting at your desk every day before the other side of the completely different.Don't question the way these dribs and drabs,Sometimes a subtle details perhaps can become your workplace the turning point of the success or failure.

　　

不可逾越上下级关系 Relation between the superior and the subordinate insurmountable

　　陈平在一家小有名气的电子仪器公司工作，因为是搞技术的，所以入厂5年来出差的次数并不多。就这有限的几次出差，对陈平来说却是绝好的职场教科书，经验教训皆由此而来。

Chen ping in a small famous electronic instrument company,Because it is make technology,So the factory is five years the number of travel is not much.Is this a limited amount of time travel,It is great to Chen ping workplace textbooks,Lessons are from this and come.

　　陈平当年刚进公司时是颇为自信的。名校名专业背景，业内一流的经验，又年轻，按说他应该在“种子选手”行列，三五年内完成普通职员到中层进而中上层的晋级。可是陈平兢兢业业地干到第三年，晋升的事还丝毫看不出苗头。说起来，竟然坏在一次陪上司出差的路上。

Chen ping when just entered the company is quite confident.Name names professional background,Among the best in the industry experience,And young,Ordinarily he should be in"seeds"ranks,35 years to complete ordinary staff to the middle and upper promotion.But Chen ping conscientiously to dry in the third year,Promotion is a bit can't see symptom.it,Unexpectedly in a bad way on a business trip with the boss.

　　那次是和公司人事部主任去厦门搞校园招聘。这是个相对轻松的活儿，工作结束后大家都比较放松，喝酒打牌，称兄道弟。陈平发现平日里总是端着架子的主任其实也挺亲民的，上下级之间的距离一下子近了许多。就在准备打道回府的时候，他们突然接到老板指示，行程里多出广州一站。

The is and company personnel director to xiamen make campus recruitment.This is a relatively easy work,After work we are more relaxed,Drink CARDS,Call each other brothers.P. Chen found daily always end the director of the shelf is also pretty close to people's,The distance between the superior and the subordinate a near to the many.Just when I was about to go back home when,They suddenly instructions from the boss,The journey more than a station in guangzhou.

　　主任吩咐陈平改机票订旅馆。对身为驴友的陈平来说，这根本是小事一桩，在常去的旅游网站上三下五除二便搞定了。然而大晚上赶到广州，办理入住手续时陈平才发现自己忙中出错，竟然订了间大床房。前台又表示这两天广州有展会，客房全满没法换。

Director commanded ChenPingGai ticket hotel reservation.For as the LvYou for Chen ping,That's simply a piece of cake,In often go to travel website three times five except ErBian done.However big night to guangzhou,When checking ChenPingCai found himself erroneously,Unexpectedly booked big bed room.Front desk and said that these two days have exhibition in guangzhou,Guest room full can't change.

　　大半夜的，就不折腾换宾馆了吧，反正俩男的也无所谓，陈平想。何况以前出差也不是没发生过这种情况，技术男们不讲究，各自抱床被子便鼾声如雷了。

gets,Will not flounder in hotel now,Anyway, two man also doesn't matter,Chen ping want to.How much more on a business trip before is not yet happened this kind of situation,The male attention to technology,Each hold quilt and snore like thunder.

　　“主任，咱们只能挤挤睡了。”陈平笑嘻嘻地说。主任也不言语，只嗯了一声。陈平后来回想，这一声“嗯”其实意味深长啊。可当时他完全没意识到，没心没肺地倒头便睡。第二天醒来见主任黑着个脸，陈平也没在意，心想也许是自己打呼吵到主任睡觉了。

"director,Let's you can sleep."Chen ping smiled said.Director also not words,Only well a sound.P. Chen later recall,The sound"well"In fact meaning ah.But he was completely didn't realize that,Mr Krabs to lie down and then sleep.The second day wakes up see director black a face,Chen ping also didn't care,Thought is perhaps his snore loud to the director of the bed.

　　回来没多久便是新一轮人事调整。大家都以为陈平会稳当当晋升科长时，他却意外落选了。相熟的前辈私下告诉陈平，人事主任觉得陈平做事不稳妥。“说你太毛躁，连订个房间都出错。”

Come back before long is a new round of restructuring of personnel.Everyone thought that Chen ping will be on the safe side when promotion when the section chief,But he accident wasn't in the squad.Familiar predecessors tell Chen ping in private,The personnel director Chen ping think do not sound."Says you're too short-tempered,Even the book a room all error."

　　陈平想起当时主任种种明示暗示的表情，这才恍然大悟，“恨不得找块豆腐撞死”。

Chen ping think of when director various express implied expression,This just take a tumble,"Can't wait to seek a piece of bean curd killed".

　　“看似粗心犯的小差错，其实还是跟自己职场阅历浅，经验不够有关。”陈平总结。他当时还是有很多弥补错误的机会的，比如先征求主任意见是否需要换宾馆，可以以睡沙发打地铺来表示对领导的尊重等。另一个心得是，“领导可以在酒桌上跟你称兄道弟，但领导毕竟是领导，不是跟你一起加班挤班车的兄弟，千万别给点儿阳光就灿烂，擅自逾越上下级关系。”

"Seemingly careless make little error,In fact or with my workplace experience shallow,Experience is not relevant."Chen ping summary.He was still have a lot of opportunities for mistakes,Such as ask director opinion do you need in the hotel,Can to sleep on the couch on the floor expressed to the leadership of the respect, etc.Another result is,"Leadership can be on the wine table with your call each other brothers,But the leadership after all is a leader,Not with you together to work overtime crowded bus brother,Don't give some sunshine bright,Passover hierarchy without authorization."

　　吃一堑，长一智。职场的经验都是在一件件小事中日积月累的。陈平后来升任技术主管，却也跟一次出差有关。

A fall into the pit,Gain in your wit.The experience of the workplace is into small manageable tasks in the accumulating over a long period of time.Chen ping later advancements technical director,But also with a relevant travel.

　　当时公司要从比利时引进一条新生产线，陈平等技术骨干被送到欧洲培训两个月。其间大家接到通知，说大老板要来待一周时间，与比利时厂商洽谈，并看望大家。陈平和同事们都明白，合同早已签好，看望下属也不过是名目，说白了就是大老板自己想出来转转了。

At that time the company from Belgium to introduce a new production line,Chen ping and other technical backbone be sent to Europe to get training two months.Meanwhile we have notice,Said big boss will come to stay a week,And Belgian manufacturers negotiate,And see everybody.P. Chen and his colleagues are all understand,Sign the contract already good,Visit the subordinate also however is nominal,Spoken parts in an opera is particieboard big boss around the you want to come out.

　　老板点名周末去罗马，陪同的任务落在陈平身上。虽然大老板平日里甚是亲和，但这回陈平可不敢大意。

The boss call the weekend to go to Rome,Accompanied task fell on Chen ping body.Although big boss daily were affinity,But this time ChenPingKe can't careless.

　　机票、旅馆、出发时间、相应的交通工具、景点周边的走马观花，各个点的衔接都要妥帖。陈平足足花了近一周时间，才搞定这些琐碎事项。因为攻略准备得详细，时间安排合理，老板一路轻松愉快。

ticket/hotel/Departure time/The corresponding traffic tools/Attractions surrounding skim the surface,Each point of cohesion are appropriate.P. Chen took nearly a week,To fix these trivial matters.Because strategy prepare detailed,Reasonable arrangement of time,The boss relaxed and happy all the way.

　　中间也发生过小插曲。他们在罗马近郊遭遇无良司机，10分钟的车程被绕路，走了将近半个小时。陈平心知不妥，一边装糊涂让司机往热闹处开，一边用手机搜索地图。到了人多的地方，陈平立刻拿出手机指责司机绕路，并拨打报警电话，结果司机连车费都没敢要就跑了。老板大赞陈平机警。

Intermediate has happened a small episode.They were in Rome suburban encounter no good driver,10 minutes' drive to be detours,Go for nearly half an hour.ChenPingXin know not,Side dissimulation let the driver to lively place open,Side by mobile phone search map.In many places,P. Chen immediately pulled out his cellphone and is accused the driver detours,And dial the alarm telephone number,Results the driver even fare didn't dare to running.The boss has a large praise Chen ping as sharp as a razor.

　　三天两晚的罗马之行圆满结束。陈平终于松了口气：“行程看起来轻松，其实也是个向老板证明自己能力的机会。”果然，老板回去就赞陈平不是个头脑简单的技术男：“外语好，擅交际，统筹安排能力强，是个可塑之才。”

Two or three days late Roman trip ended.Chen ping finally breathed a collective sigh of relief:"Stroke look easy,In fact, it is a boss to prove your ability to chance."Indeed as expected,The boss went to praise Chen ping is not a simple technology male:"Foreign language well,Good at communication,Comprehensive arrangement ability,A plastic only."

　　3个月后，新生产线上马，陈平被提升为技术主管。老板钦点的。

After 3 months,The new production line,Chen ping was promoted to technical director.The boss qin point.

　　

“客场”最考验团队协作 "away"The test team cooperation

　　钱钟书的《围城》里有一段名言：“旅行是最劳顿、最麻烦、叫人本相毕现的时候。经过长期苦行而彼此不讨厌的人，才可以结交朋友……”对马晓丽来说，经过出差而彼此不讨厌的人，才可以共事。

Qian zhongshu's[siege]There is a famous saying:"Travel is the most lawton/The most trouble/Call a person am when finish now.After a long austerity and each other do not hate,Can make friends..."For MaXiaoLi to,After travel and each other do not hate,Can work together.

　　马晓丽在市场部任职，出差是家常便饭。印象最深刻的是入职后的第一次出差，跟同部门的赵姐一起去跑客户。在义乌碰上个好酒的客户，非要每个人都挑瓶酒喝干，“买卖成不成，酒瓶说话”。马晓丽初入职场，哪见过这阵势。一紧张，一杯啤酒下肚就开始犯晕，一瓶是无论如何都干不完了。客户好面子，见强行劝酒无效就露出不悦的神态来。赵姐到底是“老江湖”，见状立马站出来周旋，气氛这才活跃起来，马晓丽也被放过去了。

MaXiaoLi office in marketing,Travel is a potluck.The deepest impression was after the appointment of the first time on a business trip,With the ZhaoJie with department to go to run the customer.In yiwu with a good wine customers,Don't want to everyone pick bottle of wine to drink dry,"Buying and selling into a,Bottle to speak".MaXiaoLi uncommon,Which once saw this appearance.A nervous,A glass of beer after began to make halo,A bottle of is no matter what, just do not finished.Customers good face,See forced QuanJiu invalid revealed long expression to.ZhaoJie exactly is"An old traveller",See this immediately stand up alongside,Atmosphere it alive,MaXiaoLi was also put past.

　　散席后一回到宾馆，赵姐就冲到卫生间狂吐，马晓丽心里又感激又愧疚。想到次日上午要跟部门经理电话会议，下午还要跟客户商讨合同细节，她不忍心辛苦赵姐早起，就独自一人开夜车，把各种材料该修改的修改，该翻译的翻译，然后分门别类准备好。第二天赵姐起来一看，案头工作堪称完美，连说感谢。

SanXi after a back to the hotel,ZhaoJie rushed to the toilet crazy vomit,MaXiaoLi heart and grateful and guilty.Think in the morning to talk to the department manager conference call,Afternoon with the customer to discuss the contract details,She can't bear to hard ZhaoJie get up early,It alone burn the midnight oil,The various materials this modified modification,The translation of the translation,Then classify ready.The next day ZhaoJie up a look,Desk work can perfect,Even say thank.

　　一个主打外联，一个负责内务，马晓丽的第一次出差顺利完成。她和赵姐也因为合作愉快而成为部门里的好搭档。后来很长一段时间，手上一有项目，她俩都愿意找对方合作。“我们常说团队协作，其实出差是最考验团队协作能力的，因为身处‘客场’，同事之间的相互帮衬尤为重要。”

A main public relations,A responsible for housekeeping,MaXiaoLi first business successfully completed.She and ZhaoJie also because cooperation happy and become of the department good partner.Then for a long time,Hand a project,They are willing to find each other cooperation."We often say that teamwork,In fact business is the test team cooperation ability,Because in‘away’,Colleague mutual assist is particularly important."

　　一年前赵姐跳槽去了别的公司，马晓丽依旧奔波在出差的路上。她和大部分同事合作愉快，但也有几次苦不堪言的经历。总结起来，马晓丽最怕的一类搭档，就是任性娇气型的。

A year QianZhao elder sister moved to other companies,MaXiaoLi is still on the run on the way to business.She and her colleagues most happy cooperation,But there are also a few times the experience of pain in the neck.Summarize up,MaXiaoLi most afraid of a kind of partner,Is capricious effeminacy type.

　　刘珍珍就是这样的典型。她是部门新招的大学毕业生，平日里总是细声细语很温和的模样。但马晓丽只和她出了一回差，就发誓再也不要跟她共事了。

LiuZhenZhen is such a typical.She is department new recruit university graduates,Weekdays are always in a whisper very gentle appearance.But MaXiaoLi only and her out of the time difference,Will swear don't work with her.

　　那次是去济南。刘珍珍从到宾馆开始就一直皱着眉头，一副受苦受难的模样。先是抱怨宾馆卫生间有怪味，叫了服务员折腾着要换房间。换了房间仍不满意，嫌这里太破旧，那里不干净：“这哪够得上三星啊，真不该订这里。”马晓丽起初也没在意，以为她是第一次出差不懂事，解释说这家宾馆离客户近，又是公司的协议宾馆，可以拿到最优惠的价格。

That is to jinan.LiuZhenZhen to start from the hotel has been frowned,A pair of the appearance of suffering.First complain that the hotel toilet have smell,Call the waiter maim want to change rooms.In the room is still not satisfied,Don't think it's too old,There don't clean:"This which enough for samsung ah,I really shouldn't be book here."MaXiaoLi at first also didn't care,Thought that she is the first time travel doesn't know any better,Explained the hotel near from customers,Is the company's agreement hotel,Can get the most preferential price.

　　没想到下楼吃饭，刘珍珍又不停地抱怨。嫌弃碗碟不干净，要了热水不停地涮，惹得服务员直翻白眼；嫌弃饭菜不合口，扒拉两下就靠在椅子上作痛苦状：“哎哟晓丽姐你怎么能吃得下？”

Unexpectedly went downstairs to eat,LiuZhenZhen and constantly complain.Abandon the dishes not clean,To the hot water kept rinse,Provoked the waiter straight roll his eyes;Avoid food not comfort,Pull-out twice upon a chair for TongGuZhuang:"Oh XiaoLi elder sister how can you eat?"

　　马晓丽没好气地想，公司派你出差是来干活的，又不是来旅游享福的，有什么好抱怨的啊。

MaXiaoLi didn't good the spirit ground want to,The company sent you on a business trip is to work,And not to travel the well,Have nothing to complain about.

　　之后也是麻烦不断。走路，没走多远就喊累，走一刻钟歇一刻钟，到后来马晓丽恨不能把她扛在身上。睡觉，晚上九点半就喊困，忍不了房间里开着的电脑，说是光线太亮，影响睡眠。气得马晓丽只好跑到卫生间里上网跟朋友诉苦。

Also after trouble.walk,Didn't walk far will shout tired,A quarter of an hour away from a quarter of an hour,To the later MaXiaoLi hate can't put it on her body.sleep,Night half past nine shout trapped,Can't stand the room open computer,The light is too bright,Affect morpheus.Spirit MaXiaoLi had to run to toilet online with friends complaint.

　　单是娇气也就罢了，更让马晓丽头疼的是刘珍珍的任性自我。客户招待吃饭，山东人好客，上桌就先敬酒。刘珍珍把酒杯一推：我不喝。客户笑眯眯地劝，那就喝一小口吧。刘珍珍坚定得很：我不喝。客户举着酒杯愣在那里，端着也不是放下也不是。马晓丽赶紧打圆场，又是代喝又是敬酒，费了好大劲儿才让尴尬的气氛缓和起来。

Single is effeminacy also just,More let MaXiaoLi have a headache is the LiuZhenZhen capricious self.Client entertaining dinner,Shandong hospitality,The first to propose a toast.LiuZhenZhen push the glass:I don't drink.Customer smiling advised,Then take a sip it.LiuZhenZhen firm very:I don't drink.Customers holding glass leng there,Holding is not down is not.MaXiaoLi hurriedly dozen circle field,Is the generation of drink is to propose a toast,Fee with great difficulty to let an embarrassing ease up.

　　马晓丽体谅刘珍珍是职场新人，当初她不也是靠赵姐帮忙挡酒才过关的吗。回到宾馆，她以过来人的身份委婉地告诉刘珍珍，出差在外要多想想公司的利益。

MaXiaoLi be considerate of LiuZhenZhen is new in job market,Had she not is also depend on ZhaoJie help stop wine didn't pass.Back to the hotel,She is a n experienced person's identity politely tell LiuZhenZhen,On a business trip to think more about the interests of the company.

　　“晓丽姐，我不是不会喝，我酒量好着呢，就是不爱跟他们喝，特讨厌死乞白赖劝酒的那种。”刘珍珍一脸不高兴地说。

"XiaoLi elder sister,I am not won't drink,I drink fine,Is love and they drink,Special hate dead qi white to depend on the kind of QuanJiu."LiuZhenZhen a face of not said happily.

　　马晓丽惊讶得合不拢嘴，而更让她吐血的话还在后面。“晓丽姐，我这个人是不喜欢应酬的，不如这样吧，以后我们分工合作，事情谈完了我就先回宾馆，你跟他们去吃饭好了。”

MaXiaoLi so surprised from ear to ear,But more let her hematemesis words still behind."XiaoLi elder sister,I this person is not like the dinner party,As well,Later we cooperate,Things had finished I'll back to hotel,You tell them to eat well."

　　马晓丽只觉得天雷滚滚，这是哪门子分工合作啊。工作又不是买菜，喜欢的就捡，不喜欢的就扔给别人。她不得不严肃地告诉刘珍珍，跟客户吃饭是大家共同的工作，如果缺席不仅是对客户的不尊重，而且会直接影响公司的订单。刘珍珍这才不情愿地点点头。

MaXiaoLi only think day thunder rolling,This is which son cooperate ah.Work is not to buy food,Like pick up,Don't like throw it to others.She had to tell LiuZhenZhen seriously,With the client eating is a common work,If miss is not only to the customer not respect,And will directly affect the company's orders.LiuZhenZhen this just reluctant nod.

　　各种哭笑不得，但总算把出差的任务完成了。马晓丽正在收拾行李，刘珍珍突然提着行李箱过来说，还有半天空闲，她要去青岛看同学。马晓丽觉得这太匆忙了，明天中午的飞机，可别误了。但刘珍珍执意要去：“肯定误不了，明天我们直接机场见。”

Various in distress situation,But finally put on business mission accomplished.MaXiaoLi are packed,LiuZhenZhen suddenly carrying luggage said,There is still half free,She wants to go to Qingdao see students.MaXiaoLi think this is too busy,The plane at noon tomorrow,Don't miss the.But LiuZhenZhen determined to go to:"Sure don't mistake,Tomorrow we see direct airport."

　　结果第二天在机场，马晓丽左等右等都不见刘珍珍的身影，打了无数次手机也没人接，只好自己先回上海了。

Results the next day at the airport,MaXiaoLi left and right are not LiuZhenZhen figure,Playing numerous cell phone also nobody answered,So go to Shanghai.

　　飞机落地后马晓丽收到刘珍珍的短信：晓丽姐，我赶不回去了，所以买了晚上的机票，直接从青岛飞回去。

The plane after landing LiuZhenZhen MaXiaoLi received text messages:XiaoLi elder sister,I cast not to turn back,So bought evening,Direct from Qingdao fly back.

　　马晓丽看着短信，恨不得大叫：你倒是早说啊！

MaXiaoLi looked at SMS,Itch to shout loudly:It is said ah you earlier!

　　这趟出差之后，马晓丽在工作中就尽量不与刘珍珍有交集，因为“实在吃不消”。

After this trip,MaXiaoLi in work as much as possible, not with LiuZhenZhen have mixed feelings,because"Really be unable to stand".

　　刘珍珍后来很快从公司辞职了，理由是不适合。不久之后，马晓丽忽然收到刘珍珍发来的邮件，说晓丽姐你人脉广，要有合适的公司帮我推荐。马晓丽敷衍地回复了邮件，心里暗想：就这脾气性格，谁敢啊？(记者 林蔚)

LiuZhenZhen later soon to resign from the company the,Reason is not suitable.Shortly after,MaXiaoLi suddenly received LiuZhenZhen of emails from,Said XiaoLi elder sister you wide connections,Want to have appropriate company help I recommend.MaXiaoLi perfunctorily reply mail,Thought to myself:The temper character,Who dare ah?(Reporter LinWei)