自认很划算 俩月花3万 常买无用品 变成“月光族” Identity is a steal two month spend 30000 often buy no supplies into"Moonlight clan"

“网购狂”天天淘货停不住 "E-commerce crazy"Clean everyday goods not stop

心理专家：“网购控”是心理疾病 需增加自控力 Psychological experts:"Net control"Is psychological disease need to increase self-control

　　近日，读者文丽(化名)打来热线电话向本报求助，希望本报能帮助她找到一位心理医生，治治自己疯狂网购的“毛病”。原来，文丽两个月花了3万多元在网上购物，除了一些必需品之外，其余的都是一些用不上的东西，现在，自己和老公的工资都花了，这个月的房贷还没有还，老公也因为她的不节制跟她争吵。文丽意识到自己有些疯狂，但是难抵网上购物的诱惑。

recently,Readers WenLi(alias)Call hotline to our help,Hope this can help her find a psychological doctor,Help yourself crazy of the net"fault".The original,WenLi two months spent more than 30000 yuan in online shopping,Apart from some outside necessities,The rest is not some things on,now,His and her husband's wages are spent,This month's mortgage still have,The husband also because her intemperance quarrel with her.WenLi aware some crazy,But difficult to the temptation of online shopping.

　　文丽从事一份文职工作，月薪3000元左右，以前只是在网上买一些几十元的小东西，很少有上百元的。大约在半年前，她在大商场促销时买了一件1800元的反季皮大衣，单位同事觉得好看，在网上只花了999元，就买到颜色款式跟文丽一模一样的大衣，这件事对文丽触动很大。从此文丽迷恋上了网购，并享受网购带来的“划算”、“兴奋”、“返利”等乐趣。

WenLi in a clerical work of the office,Monthly salary of 3000 yuan,Used to be on the Internet a few yuan to buy some little thing,There are few hundreds of yuan.At about six months ago,She was shopping mall when sales promotion bought a 1800 yuan against season fur coat,Unit colleague feel good-looking,In the online took only 999 yuan,Just buy color design with WenLi the same coat,This WenLi touches is very big.From now on WenLi have a crush on the net,The net brings and enjoy"deal"/"excited"/"rebate"And fun.

　　没想到的是文丽网购上了瘾，双十一那天“血拼”了4000多元的东西，衣服、棉被、包、多功能豆浆机、晾衣架、煮蛋机、酸奶机、按摩器……用文丽老公的话说，“那些东西有的确实便宜，但是很多东西都用不上。”

Thought is WenLi addicted to the net,Double tenth day a"shopping"The 4000 multivariate things,clothes/quilt/bag/Multi-function DouJiangJi/clothes-horse/Egg machine/Yogurt machine/Massager...With WenLi husband's words,"Those things some really cheap,But many things can't be used."

　　文丽跟记者说：“我也知道网上购物最好适可而止，但是购物网页就像一个‘潘多拉’的魔盒，一旦打开就很难控制自己的欲望，半夜都要起来看看购物网页。”文丽沉浸在网购的乐趣中不能自拔。

WenLi with reporters:"I also know that online shopping best leave well enough alone,But shopping web is like a‘Pandora's’Magic box,Once open will be very difficult to control their own desires,Midnight will look at shopping web page."WenLi immersed in the joy of the net cannot extricate oneself.

　　“你是XXX吧，你的快递到了，下楼来取一下。”这是小蕊(化名)最期待并喜欢的声音，接到电话通知，她总会飞奔下楼。现在，几乎每个快递公司的快递员都跟小蕊熟悉了，电话直接变成了简洁的“小蕊，你的快递”，同事、朋友都叫她“网购狂”，小蕊却不以为然，自豪地展示着她的“战利品”。“每次拆开快递包装之前都会很期待，那种兴奋、幸福、拥有的感觉真是太好了。”小蕊说。

"You are XXX,,You express to,Go downstairs to get some."This is a small core(alias)The most looking forward to and like voice,Got a phone call telling,She always run downstairs.now,Almost every express the company's express with small core familiar with,Telephone directly into a concise"Small core,You express",colleagues/Friends all call her"E-commerce crazy",Small core is to disagree,Proud to show her"trophies"."Every time apart express before packaging will be looking forward to,The excitement/happiness/Have feels so good."Small core said.

　　27岁的小蕊是个编辑，月薪4000元左右，打开她的网上消费记录可以发现，9月份她网购46笔，消费5000多元，购物项目从几元钱的水杯到几百元的衣服不等。“我太喜欢网购了，确实到了疯狂的地步，一天不拍下点东西，心里就感觉空荡荡的。跟周围的姐妹相比，我的工资大多数都花在了网购上，也想过拿工资做些储蓄或者按揭买个小公寓，但是一看到购物网站，我的这些想法就被抛到九霄云外了。”小蕊说。

The 27-year-old small core is an editorial,Monthly salary of 4000 yuan,Open her online consumption records can be found,September she buys 46 pen,Consumption 5000 multivariate,Shopping project from several dollars to hundreds of dollars as the clothes inequality."I really like the net,Really came to the point of madness,One day does not take something,Heart feel empty.Compared with the sisters around,My salary most was spent on the net,Also want to have a salary do some savings or mortgage to buy a small apartment,But a see shopping website,My these thoughts will be cast to the outside the cloud nine."Small core said.

　　著名心理学教授张聪沛指出，快速发展的电子商务正在迅速影响着许多人的生活方式，一些年轻人对网上购物越来越热衷，甚至出现痴迷上瘾的情况，成为“网上购物狂”，严重的发展为“网购控”。

The famous professor of psychology ZhangCongPei pointed out,Rapid development of electronic business is rapidly affect many people's way of life,Some young people on online shopping increasingly keen,Appear even crazy addictive situation,become"Online shopping crazy",The development of serious"Net control".

　　文丽的行为就可以称作“网购控”，她的行为已经影响了她的正常工作和生活，也严重影响了她的生活质量，伤害到了她的家人；而小蕊是处于单身状态，疯狂网购带来的弊端没有文丽明显，但是也有向购物狂发展的苗头，相比周围其他人，没有储蓄计划，一味地沉浸在消费的刺激当中，结果也是不乐观的。

WenLi behavior can be called"Net control",Her behavior has affected her normal work and life,Also seriously affected her quality of life,Damage to her family;And small core is a single state,The net crazy the malpractices WenLi not obvious,But there are also shopping crazy to the development of symptom,Compared with other people around,No savings plan,Blindly immersed in consumption of stimulation,The results is not optimistic.

　　张教授表示，有些盲目消费者，即使买到家里的商品对自己或者家庭来说用处不大，可还是在网购的过程中享受那种快乐、兴奋、刺激。这在心理学上称为“管状意识”，能使人盲目。

Professor zhang said,Some blind consumers,Even if buy the home goods to their families or useless,But in the process of net to enjoy that kind of happiness/excited/stimulus.This is called on in psychology"Tubular consciousness",Can blind.

　　张教授提醒，在网购之后，面对大堆的东西，冷静地想想除了网购带来的兴奋之外还有什么收获。“网购狂”最重要的还是要靠自己的自控能力，必要的时候就要通过心理疏导来戒除网购瘾。(记者 张海霞)

Professor zhang remind,After the net in,In the face of the pile of things,Calmly think about except with the excitement of the net what else is harvest."E-commerce crazy"The most important still is to depend on his self-control,The necessary time will pass through psychological counseling to kick the net addiction.(Reporter ZhangHaiXia)