心里有委屈，嘴上却不能说，这是两性关系的大忌。无论男女，一旦在性方面感到委屈了，内心可能会遭遇巨大的打击与痛苦，性生活也会大打折扣，甚至造成两人感情破裂。近日，美国《男性健康》联手《女性健康》杂志，共同对数千名已婚男女进行了访问，选出了男女憋在心里的“性委屈”。

心里有委屈,I still can't say,This is a strict no-no that relationship.Both men and women,Once in sexual feeling wronged,Inner may encounter great blow and suffering,Sex will be discounted,Even two people relationship.In recent days,The United States[Men's health]Teamed up with[Women's health]magazine,Common to thousands of married men and women,Men and women have chosen to suppress in mind"Sexual injustice".

　　男人心里的“委屈事儿”：

男人心里的"Wrong things":

　　“我们不是整天想着性，心里没有爱。”90%的男人认为这是女人对他们的最大误解，其实男人内心渴望与心爱的人合二为一，他们认为，性爱是表达爱意的最具体方式，比“我爱你”更有激情和行动力。让心爱的女人在床上获得满足就是男人在说“我爱你”。

"We are not thinking about sex all day,There is no love in heart."90% of men think it is a woman the biggest misconception about them,Actually man inner desire and beloved people together,They think that,Sex is the most specific way to express love,than"I love you"Line has more passion and motivation.Let the beloved woman get satisfied is the man talking in bed"I love you".

　　“我们不是忽略前戏，总想长驱直入。”男人的性欲望并不是都要通过做爱来满足。尤其成熟男性，他们更多的需要情感方面的交流。有时候，男人所要求的就是拥抱、接吻或者说说关心的话而已。

"We don't skip,Always want to enter."Men's sexual desire is not to make love to meet.Especially mature men,They need more emotional communication.sometimes,A man is required by the hug/Kiss or say care about words.

　　“我们不是天生的性强者。”调查显示，60%的男性认为“总是由自己提出性要求，会降低他们对性生活的渴望”。很多时候，男人希望另一半能主动一些，带他们达到高潮。

"We are not born strong."According to the survey,60% of men think"Demand always by himself,Will reduce their desire for sex".Most of the time,Hope the other half will take the initiative to some men,Take them to orgasm.

　　“看美女并不代表我们好色。”看美女是男人的天性，但并不代表这个男人花心、好色。女人不要因为这个生气，如果真的在意，善意提醒他们一下即可。

"See beauty does not mean we are lewd."See beauty is the nature of man,It doesn't mean that men flower heart/lewd.Women don't get angry because of this,If you really care about,Kindly remind them.

　　女人心里的“委屈事儿”：

女人心里的"Wrong things":

　　“我们不是总爱唠叨男人不讲卫生。”男人如果在性爱前不注意清洗，很容易让女人患上妇科疾病。女人让男人清洁，其实也是一种性暗示，她们希望性爱时能全心投入，不再担心卫生问题。

"We are not always nagging men don't love speak hygiene."Men who do not pay attention to cleaning before sex,It's easy to make women suffer from gynecological diseases.A woman let a man clean,Actually is also a kind of sexual,They hope to devote during sex,No longer worry about health.

　　“我们不是对前戏要求太多。”女人将温柔的前戏当作男人体贴的表现，接吻、拥抱、抚摸，这会让女人感受到浓浓爱意。不过，只要男人珍惜她们，短暂的前戏甚至没有前戏，她们也可以接受。

"We are not demanding too much for foreplay."Woman will gentle foreplay as a considerate man,kissing/hug/touch,This will make a woman feel thick love.but,As long as a man to cherish them,Brief foreplay doesn't even have foreplay,They can accept it.

　　“性爱后我们还想聊天不是没得到满足。”性爱后，男人倒头大睡，女人心里总会有些失落感。其实女人不是不让他睡觉，只是希望能有个拥抱和一些温存。

"Sex we would also like to chat after not satisfied."After sex,A man fell into sleep,Women will always be some loss in heart.In fact a woman is not don't let him sleep,Just want to have a hug and some tenderness.

　　“我们没那么看重性爱时间。”在女人看来，性能力不是单纯的“硬度”和“时间”，关注女人的感受，让她们获得精神和身体的双重满足，才是性能力强的体现，才是女人想要的。▲

"We don't have that time value having sex."It seems to a woman,Sexuality isn't simple"hardness"and"time",Attention to the feelings of a woman,Let them get mental and physical double satisfaction,Is the embodiment of sexual ability,Is what women want.Bring about