一场拉锯战 A see-saw ride

　　病人的亲属要求捐赠器官换取经济补偿，高敏拒绝了，家属犹豫了一个小时后，最终放弃了捐赠

A relative of the patient required organ donation return for economic compensation，Gao min refused，Family members hesitate an hour later，Eventually give up a donor

　　家属内心的挣扎并不是器官协调员面临的最大挑战，更多的是现实带来的种种不可抵达。

Family members of the inner struggle and not organs of the biggest challenges facing coordinator，More is all not bring reality arrived。

　　5月26日，高敏接到了深圳光明新区人民医院一位病人家属的电话。病人脑溢血，仅靠呼吸机维持。高敏问了病人几个指标，初步判断符合捐献条件。

May 26,，Gao min received shenzhen new light people's hospital of a patient's family telephone。The patient cerebral haemorrhage，Only on the ventilator to maintain。Gao min asked the patient a few index，Preliminary judgment accord with gifts conditions。

　　高敏觉得希望很大，她一边打车，一边向器官捐献的专家团队打电话咨询。

Gao min feel hope is very large，While she was taking a taxi，One side to organ donation experts call advisory team。

　　在ICU病房外，高敏见到了病人的妻子和大哥。

In the ICU ward，Gao min met the patient's wife and eldest brother。

　　没说几句话，妻子就问，“捐献能有多少钱？”大哥补充，他们是打工的，没有钱；家里盖房子欠了八万，还有孩子。

Not to say a few words，His wife asked，“Contributions to how much money？”Eldest brother added，They are to work，No money；Home building a house in debt for eighty thousand，And the child。

　　高敏愣了一下，她解释说捐献是无偿的，“但实在困难的话，我们会通过社会各界，帮你解决困难。”

Gao min momentarily，She explained that donations are free，“But really difficult words，We will through the social from all walks of life，Help you solve difficult。”

　　双方都陷入沉默。

Both parties are involved in silence。

　　二哥插话说，“能具体给个数字吗，我们耗不起了。”

Two elder brother chime in and say，“Can give a specific number，We can't afford to consumption。”

　　高敏顶一句说：“你们这简直就是卖，我不可能承诺任何具体数字。”

Gao min top a said：“You this is is to sell，I can't promise any specific Numbers。”

　　她开始讲黄圆圆的故事。甚至讲到黄圆圆捐赠器官后，社会爱心人士捐献了几十万。

She started to tell yellow round story。Even talked about HuangYuanYuan after organ donation，Social love people donated hundreds of thousands of。

　　这种例子并没有减少疑虑。二哥说，如果有帮助，希望能签个协议。高敏立刻接了一句，不可能。

This example and not reduced fears。Two elder brother said，If there is help，Hope to sign an agreement。Gao min connected 1 immediately，Can't。

　　一家人到外面去商量。高敏说，这其实是一场拉锯战。他们商议的时间，也是在等待高敏的妥协。不过，一开始就当面锣背面鼓的谈钱，她还是第一次碰到。

The family to go outside to discuss。Gao min said，This is actually a tiebreak。They took counsel of time，Also waiting for gao min of compromise。but，A start on the back of the DangMianLuo drum to talk about money，She is the first time you meet。

　　一个小时之后，家属回来了。不捐，不再治疗，死亡后火化运回老家。

After one hour，Families back。Not to donate，No longer treatment，After the death of a back to hometown cremated。

　　高敏没有再努力。这个捐赠案例失败。

Gao min not try again。The donation case failure。

　　这虽然是个极端的个案，却暴露出器官协调员常遇到的一个困境。

Although this is an extreme case，But exposed the organs of a coordinator always meet difficulties。

　　家庭困难的捐赠者，付出爱心，到底应该得到什么？到底应该由谁来帮助他们？

Family difficult donors，Pay the love，What should I get??????？What should be the one to help them？

　　器官协调员可以在人力上帮捐献者家属们一些。出车祸的，器官协调员帮他们走交通流程；社保、医疗保险，器官协调员协助他们处理；火化时，可以帮忙排队协调。

Organs in human's help, coordinator of the donors some family members。Out of the car accident，For they go organ coordinator traffic flow；Social security、Medical insurance，To help them deal with organ coordinator；When cremated，Can help line up coordination。

　　但钱的问题不是他们可以解决的。

But the problem of money is not they can solve。

　　高敏因为在深圳是献血明星，和媒体熟悉，在她的帮助下，黄圆圆家欠下的医药费最终由社会捐助解决了。

Gao min because in shenzhen is blood donation star，And media familiar with，With her help，HuangYuanYuan home owe medical expenses by social donation solve the final。

　　黄圆圆可以，但王圆圆呢，李圆圆呢？深圳红十字会的副会长赵丽珍说，不是每个捐献者都可以引起社会的关注。

HuangYuanYuan can，But WangYuanYuan?，LiYuanYuan?？The Red Cross of shenzhen, vice President of ZhaoLiZhen said，Not every donor can cause social concern。

　　红十字会并没有器官捐献的专项基金。现在的做法是“四个一点”：社会筹集一点，政府给一点，移植医院给一点，受捐者出一点。

The Red Cross and not the special fund of organ donation。It is now“Four points”：Social raise a little，The government to a little，Transplant to a hospital，ShouJuanZhe out a little。

　　高正荣说，即使最困难的捐赠者家庭，红十字会最高只能给两万块。

GaoZhengRong said，Even the most difficult donors family，The Red Cross the highest can only give twenty thousand pieces。

　　经常遇到的情况是，捐赠者在ICU治疗的花费很高，患者有捐赠意愿，但还未脑死亡，患者家属已经付不起ICU的费用了。

Often meet with the situation is，Donors to the high cost of treatment in the ICU，Patients have to donate，But hasn't brain dead，Families can't afford to pay the ICU patients have the expense。

　　一天一两千块钱维持呼吸机的费用，对打工者家庭来说，不是一个小数字。所以最终会有许多家庭放弃。

One day 12000 dollars keep breathing machine costs，Families of migrant workers，Not a small Numbers。So there are many families will ultimately give up。

　　爱心屈服于生活的无奈。

Love of life to give in to helpless。

　　在一个器官捐献成功之前，还可能遇到种种障碍。有时候，是一张迟迟开不下来的死亡证明。有时候是病人所在的医院怕引发医患矛盾，不愿意配合移植医院。有时候是因为家族里一个亲属的一句话。有时候，仅仅是因为一次红灯。

In an organ donation success before，May also meet all kinds of difficulties。sometimes，Is a delayed the open down death certificates。Sometimes the patient in the hospital by fear of doctor-patient conflicts，Not willing to cooperate with transplant hospital。Sometimes because the family a relative of a word。sometimes，Just because a red light。

　　让高敏至今仍觉心疼的那次失败的捐赠，是一位叫庞泉的公交车司机。器官捐献审核的专家团队刚到医院的楼下，为庞泉做心脏复苏的医生在楼上就宣布庞泉心脏停跳。一上一下，是永久的遗憾。

Let gao min still feel love of the failure of the donation，Is a call PangQuan bus driver。Organ donation audit of the expert team just to the hospital downstairs，For PangQuan do CPR doctor in the upstairs, announced that it PangQuan stopped heart。A it，Is the permanent regret。