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2012-08-15

  近些年,益智、促进情商发育等各种各样的胎教很受准妈妈们追捧。而典型的中国妈妈们,心里最惦记的还是孩子是否够聪明。心理专家指出,现代孩子的智商发育,所必须的信息刺激量并不缺乏,完全足够满足其未来生活学习工作的需要,无须特别人为的胎教刺激。研究表明,脾气暴躁、多动、爱反叛的孩子,有可能与孕期妈妈的情感焦虑、童年早期的家庭气氛有关。而我们的胎教或早教,更多是关注孩子的智力开发,忽视了对孩子心理能量的关注和保护。心理能量就是生命力,要由爱获得补充,贯穿支持每个人的一生。专家建议准妈妈们,带觉察生活,平静你自己。因为妈妈与胎儿身心相连,如果准妈妈自己欲望强烈,过于望子成龙,就会把自己的焦虑投射给孩子,那样只会传递焦躁,胎教效果可能适得其反。

In recent years,educational、To promote the development of emotion quotient (eq), such as all kinds of foetus education is well received by mothers-to-be chase after hold in both hands。And typical Chinese mothers,Heart is the most wanted or child is smart enough。Psychological experts point out that,The modern children's intelligence development,The information necessary to stimulate the quantity does not lack,Complete enough to satisfy the future life to learn the needs of work,Without special human foetus education stimulus。Research shows that,temper、hyperactivity、Love rebel children,May and pregnant mother's emotional anxiety、The early childhood family atmosphere。And our foetus education or development,Is more pay attention to children's intelligence development,Ignore the child mental energy attention and protection。Mental energy is vitality,To obtain the supplementary by love,Through support every person's life。Experts recommend prospective mothers,Zone detection life,Calm yourself。Because the mother and the fetus to body and mind,If prospective mother his strong desire,Too used to,Will put their anxiety projection to children,That will only transfer anxiety,Antenatal training effect may backfire。

  近些年,关于胎教有很多方法。有些侧重于促进大脑智力发育的,另一些更侧重心理情商发育。你是更多的考虑孩子的聪明?还是要一个好性格?很多母亲会脱口而出,要“聪明”,当然也要性格好。

In recent years,There are many ways of foetus education。Some focused on promoting the development of brain intelligence,Another some of the more emphasis on psychological emotion quotient (eq) development。You are more consider the child's smart?Or a good character?A lot of mother will blurt out,to“smart”,There should also be a good character。

  心理专家指出,其实这些母亲的反应,投射出了她们内心的生存竞争焦虑,这是典型的中国妈妈的心理:心里最惦记的,是孩子是否够聪明。不聪明,就可能意味着孩子能力低于别人,未来就存在生存竞争危机。

Psychological experts point out that,Actually these mother's reaction,Projected out to their inner struggle for existence anxiety,This is typical of Chinese mother's psychology:The heart of the most thinking,A child is smart enough。Don't clever,It is likely to mean that the child capacity than others,The future there is competition survival crisis。

  

足够的信息刺激量,让孩子普遍比上一辈聪明,智商早已不是问题 Enough information stimulus quantity,Let the child than common on one generation to smart,Intelligence quotient (IQ) had is not a problem

  现在的孩子们普遍都很聪明,普遍要比上一代两代高。而且,城镇里孩子们的认知水平、灵活程度、人际开放度,也稍强于农村地区。心理专家指出,现代城市孩子的智商发育,所必需的信息刺激量并不缺乏,他们长大后的智力水平完全足够满足其生活学习工作的需要,无需特别人为的胎教刺激。

Children now generally is very clever,Common than a generation high two generations。and,In the town the children's cognitive level、Flexible degree、Interpersonal openness,Also a slightly better rate than the rural areas。Psychological experts point out that,Modern urban children's intelligence development,The information necessary to stimulate the quantity does not lack,They grow up the level of intelligence completely enough to satisfy its life to learn the needs of work,No special human foetus education stimulus。

  根据很多心理咨询师的经验,许多前来求助的孩子,有心理困扰的孩子,他们的问题更多的是心理情绪障碍或行为问题,与智商无关。很多时候,我们的胎教或者早教,更多的是关注孩子智力开发这方面,而对孩子心理能量这一块,关注的特别少。心理能量就是生命力,要由爱获得补充,贯穿支持每个人的一生。比如我们一看到某个孩子,就觉得他很有“感觉”,有一种能量强的感觉,日后可能会成大器。、

According to a lot of psychological consultants experience,Many came to help children,Have psychological problems of children,Their problems is more of a psychological mood disorders or behavioral problems,Has nothing to do with intelligence quotient (IQ)。Most of the time,Our foetus education or development,Pays more attention to the child intelligence development this aspect,And to the child mental energy this one,Special attention is less。Mental energy is vitality,To obtain the supplementary by love,Through support every person's life。For example we see a child,Feel he has“feel”,There is a strong energy feeling,In the future may be a winner。、

  能量觉察疗法创始人陈祥志介绍,心理能量强的孩子,部分是与生俱来带来的;部分是怀胎时妈妈身心状态好,爱的传递做得好;还因为出生后得到细心照顾,能量耗得少,又有很多爱的补充,好能量充足。这样的孩子,培育过程一般都很顺利,身体健康和学习都无需父母担心太多,智力和性格也发展得很完善。有了这些内部动力能量,他可以有勇气面对今后一生的一切困难和障碍。

Energy detection therapy ChenXiangZhi founder is introduced,Mental energy strong child,Part is the inherent brings;Part is when pregnant mother state of mind is good,Love transfer well done;But also because get care after birth,Energy consumption less,There are a lot of love and supplement,Good energy enough。Such children,Cultivating process generally very smoothly,Health and learning are no parents worry too much,Intelligence and personality development also very perfect。With these internal power energy,He can have the courage to face the future life all difficulties and obstacles。

  国外有研究怀疑,某些孩子出生后多哭闹、多病、胆小、退缩,显得能量不足,跟孕期妈妈的内部紧张很有关系。胎儿跟妈妈心灵相通,完全能感受妈妈的紧张情绪,其心理能量早已被过度消耗。所以,胎教及出生后的早教,怎么保护好孩子的心理能量,已成为近年来心理学的一个新关注点。

Foreign studies have doubts,Some more after the child is born crying、sick、timid、back,Appear energy shortage,With pregnancy mother's internal tension is a relationship。The fetus and mother soul dwelling,Can fully feel mother's tension,The mental energy have been excessive consumption。so,Antenatal training and postnatal development,How to protect the child's mental energy,In recent years has become a new focus of psychology。

  

准妈妈关注自己的情绪,觉察自己的身体,传递爱的胎教更重要 Mother must pay attention to their own emotions,Detection oneself body,Transfer love foetus education is more important

  当一个孩子来到妈妈的肚子里时,尽管先天心理能量和父母基因遗传素质已经定了,可是爸爸妈妈还是有一些做法可努力,让孩子心理能量保存得最多,并补充得更多。陈祥志的看法是:带觉察生活,平静你自己。

When a child came to the mother's belly when,Although congenital mental energy and parents genetic quality are determined,But mom and dad or have some practice can be hard,Let the child mental energy save most,Adding more。ChenXiangZhi view is that:Zone detection life,Calm yourself。

  觉察,就是意识与身体建立连接,对身体内部有觉知有感觉。高度的觉察力可以释放内部紧张,消减负面能量,避免胎儿承受过多,消耗掉太多心理能量。如果将觉察运用于各种胎教方法中,效果一定会更明显。

detection,Is body consciousness and establish a connection,The inside of the body to have awareness feel。The height of the detection force can release the internal tension,To reduce negative energy,Avoid fetal bear too much,Consume too much mental energy。If the detection used in various foetus education method,Results will be more apparent。

  只要带着觉察,准妈妈的每天生活其实都是在做胎教。很多准妈妈们并没有专门去做什么胎教,却实际上已做了很多。比如,心里平静的妈妈们经常抚摸肚皮,和孩子对话沟通;在家聆听轻音乐放松自己;坚持做各种家务;和丈夫出门散步;去博物馆美术馆看展览;去商场超市到处看看好东西。这些准妈妈们至少已经做了抚摸胎教、语言胎教、运动胎教、音乐胎教,甚至艺术胎教都做了。

As long as take detection,Quasi mother's daily life actually is doing foetus education。Many would-be moms and no special to do foetus education,But in fact already did a lot。For example,Heart calm mothers often touch belly,And children dialogue communication;At home listening to light music to relax myself;Keep on doing all the housework;And her husband to go out for a walk;Go to the museum art gallery to see the exhibition;Go to the mall and supermarket around good things。These would-be mothers at least have done touch foetus education、Language foetus education、Movement foetus education、Music foetus education,Even art foetus education all did。

  需要注意的是那些情感焦虑的孕妇,她们生活在紧张当中,比如还在埋怨意外怀孕;有些还担心着丈夫出轨;有些还在埋怨孩子来的不是时候,拖累她的事业;有些还在被财产纠葛纠缠着;有些孕妇还总在挣扎着,要不要打掉孩子;有些还心怀怨恨,以整惨自己来报复男人。她们是太需要赶紧清理自己生活的准妈妈。

Note that the emotional anxiety of pregnant women,They live in a nervous of,Such as still complaining about the accidental pregnancy;Some also worry that her husband off the track;Some are complaining about the children came at a bad time of year,Drag her career;Some are still in with a property dispute;Some pregnant women have always struggled,Don't cut the child;Some still in bearing a grudge,Whole miserably to revenge man。They are too need to clean up their own lives quasi mother。

  有心理研究发现,脾气暴躁的孩子、多动的孩子、爱反叛的孩子,有可能与孕期妈妈的情感焦虑、童年早期的家庭气氛有关。例如怀孕期间夫妻感情不佳,或家庭内部气氛紧张,存在诸多人际关系冲突,其中的负面情绪能量会让孕妇和胎儿暴露于紧张压力之中。

Psychological research found,Peevish child、Hyperactivity children、Love rebel children,May and pregnant mother's emotional anxiety、The early childhood family atmosphere。For example pregnancy couples not beautiful,Or family internal tension,There are many interpersonal conflict,One of the negative emotions energy will let pregnant women and fetal exposure to stress of pressure。

  孕妇一定要清晰意识到,自己若紧张不安,胎儿因为身心相连,也在承受着压力能量。所以如果准妈妈自己欲望强烈,竞争焦虑强烈,过于望子成龙,就会把自己的焦虑投射给孩子。那样,只会传递焦躁,胎教效果可能适得其反。

Pregnant women must be clearly aware of,If his nervousness,Fetal because connected to body and mind,Also in under pressure energy。So if quasi mother his desire strong,Competition anxiety strong,Too used to,Will put their anxiety projection to children。that,Can only transfer anxiety,Antenatal training effect may backfire。

  

适度的音乐胎教,可渗入孩子的心灵,提供爱的能量 Moderate music foetus education,Can seep into the child's soul,Provide the energy of love

  音乐胎教真的有用吗?从生理心理学上讲,胎教音乐通过悦耳怡人的音响效果对孕妇和胎儿听觉神经器官的刺激引起大脑细胞的兴奋,改变下丘脑递质的释放,促使母体分泌出一些有益于健康的激素如酶、乙酰胆碱等,使身体保持极佳状态,促进腹中的胎儿健康成长。

Music foetus education useful really?From the physiological psychology speaking,Foetus education music through the musical pleasant sound effects to pregnant women and fetal auditory nerve organ stimulation cause brain cell of excitement,Change the hypothalamic neurotransmitter release,Prompted matrix secrete some healthy hormone such as enzyme、Acetylcholine, etc,Make the body keep good state,Promote fetus health growth。

  心理学家还认为,音乐能渗入人们的心灵,激起人们无意识超境界的幻觉,并能唤起平时被抑制了的记忆。胎教音乐能使孕妇心旷神怡,浮想联翩,从而改善不良情绪,产生良好的心境,并将这种信息传递给腹中的胎儿,使其深受感染。同时,优美动听的胎教音乐能够给躁动于腹中的胎儿留下深刻的印象,使孩子朦胧地意识到,世界是多么和谐多么美好。

Psychologists also thought,Music can penetrate into people's hearts,Stir the illusion of unconscious super realm,And can arouse usually suppressed the memory。Foetus education music can make pregnant women relaxed and happy,Random thoughts,So as to improve the bad mood,Produce a good state of mind,And this kind of information to the fetus,Make it was infectious。At the same time,Beautiful moving foetus education music can give restlessly in fetus leave deep impression,Make the child dimly aware of,The world is so harmonious how fine。

  但专家提醒,有些过度聆听胎教音乐的准妈妈要小心,不要贪多,别剥夺了胎儿平静休息的时间。(晓想)

But the expert reminds,Some excessive listen to foetus education music expectant mother, be careful,Don't bite off more than one can,Don't deprived of fetal quiet rest time。(Xiao want to)


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