南昌市民吴女士的儿子喜欢穿女性内衣内裤，这让吴女士感到异常忐忑。

Nanchang citizens ms wu son likes to wear female underwear,This let ms wu in feel abnormal.

　　吴女士告诉记者，她儿子今年13岁，性格比较内向，今年暑假竟然发现他喜欢偷偷穿她的内衣内裤，且事情被发现后，儿子更加内向了，还学会说谎话了，她不知道怎么办才好。

Ms wu told reporters,Her son 13 years old this year,Character rather introverted,This summer I found he likes secretly wear her underwear,And things were discovered,The son more introverted,Also learn to say a lie,She didn't know what to do.

　　对此，华东交通大学心理专家舒曼教授称，13岁的男孩正处在性发育的高峰期，生理上比较冲动，看见异性的东西，都会比较感兴趣。建议家长不要把这件事情当一回事，让孩子的爸爸去和儿子沟通，不要引发孩子的逆反心理，谈及此事不要让孩子有负罪感。以后生活中，家长也不要刻意去避开，和平常一样就可以了，把孩子的能量和激情通过其他途径释放。

this,East China jiaotong university psychology professor schumann experts said,13 year old boy is in sexual development peak,Physical comparative impulse,See what the opposite sex,Will be more interested in.Suggested that parents don't take this matter when one and the same,Let the child's father and son communication,Don't cause the child's psychological inversion,About this don't let children have guilt.Later in life,Parents also don't try to avoid,As usual it,The child's energy and passion released by other means.

　　另外，孩子适度说一些谎，只要不伤害别人也不伤害自己，是允许的，这是孩子有想法和主见的表现，应该多培养孩子一些幽默感。(江南都市报 记者罗素静 实习生谭婉春 李玲)

In addition,The child moderate said some lie,As long as it does not hurt others don't hurt yourself,Is allowed,This is children have thoughts and ideas performance,Should cultivate children some sense of humor.(Jiangnan metropolis daily reporter Russell static interns TanWanChun LiLing)