本月几起网络直播自杀事件引人深思。

This month a few up webcast suicide event food for thought.

　　10月4日晚9时19分，大多数人还在欢度长假，网友“祭奠逝去的嗳”在天涯深圳版上发了一篇《活着好累，直播我的死亡。希望朋友还能记得我》的帖子，作出自杀宣告，并曾与网友对话。11时左右，版主“释小皇”看到帖子后，拨打了110报警。遗憾的是，当警方到达时，已无力回天。事后有媒体综合早期留言分析，该网友月薪过万，却因家庭、事业压力而走上不归路。

On October 4, 9 when 19 points,Most people also celebrate the holiday in,Net friend"Memorial fading eh"In the shenzhen edition hair a paper[Live so tired,Live my death.I hope you can remember me]post,Make suicide declared,And once and net friend dialogue.At about 11,moderator"Release small emperor"See after post,Make a 110 alarm.It is a pity that,When the police arrived,Has no turning back.After comprehensive media early message analysis,The net friend over yuan a month,However because of family/Career stress and to not return.

　　10月12日下午1时起，江苏句容一名16岁少年，以网名“冰境幻想”在百度贴吧发帖《说好了直播自杀的》，直播自己的“自杀之路”。幸好警方迅速出动，将他从死亡边缘拉回。早在10月10日，他就曾发帖预告即将自杀的消息，众多网友苦劝无果。据了解，这名少年因没考上重点高中，而患上抑郁症。

On October 12, afternoon 1 up,Jurong a 16 years old young,To net"Ice boundary fantasy"In the baidu stick post[Say the live broadcast of the suicide],Live their own"Suicide road".Fortunately, the police quickly response,Will he from death edge pull back.As early as October 10,He had to post to the news of the forecast of suicide,Many users to bitter fruit.It is understood,The young man did not take an examination for key high school,And suffer from depression.

　　“深圳少年网上直播自杀”、“重庆怀孕女子论坛发帖宣示自杀”……面对频频出现的直播自杀事件，网友们一边感叹“生命无常、网友有情”，一边又迷惑他们是“用生命来炒作”？

"Shenzhen young live webcast suicide"/"Chongqing pregnant woman BBS post declare suicide"...In the face of the frequent emergence of live suicide event,Net friends side exclamation"Life is change/Net friend sentient beings",Side and puzzled they are"Use life to hype"?

　　

感觉不到爱 她陷入孤僻 Do not feel love her into withdrawn

　　坐在记者对面的婷燕(化名)，说话声音甜美低软，偶尔还有低低的笑。

Sitting opposite reporter Christine yan(alias),Speak sweet voice low soft,Occasionally there are low laugh.

　　如果不看婷燕手腕上5厘米-8厘米长度不等的刀痕，记者很难想象，她曾是一位重度抑郁症患者。一年前，她曾尝试跳楼，导致脚踝粉碎性骨折，走路至今仍不太方便。

If don't see Christine yan wrist 5 cm - 8 cm in length unequal mark,Reporter it is hard to imagine,She used to be a major depressive disorder patients.A year ago,She tried to jump off a building,Lead to ankle comminuted fracture,Walk still is not very convenient.

　　“我现在已经好多了，能上班工作，还有聊得来的朋友。我想，这辈子可能与你有很多不一样的地方，比如很难发自内心地觉得世界一片灿烂。不过，我一直在努力，学着去面对了。”婷燕慢慢地说。

"Now I have much better,Can go to work,Come and chat friends.I want to,In this life may be and you have a lot of different places,Such as it is difficult to genuinely feel the world a piece of bright.but,I have been trying to,Learn to face."Christine yan speak slowly.

　　小时候，父母常在外地忙，自己在保姆看管下长大，婷燕在潜意识里觉得，父母其实并不爱她。

When I was a child,Parents often busy in the field,Himself in the care of a baby sitter to grow up,Christine yan subconsciously feel,Parents don't really love her.

　　“父母用关系把我送进重点中学，这种事情，很多人会羡慕，但我很自卑。”婷燕说，那时她已经开始采取了一些过激行为，这让周围的同学对她由嘲讽变为恐惧。她反而觉得有些轻松：“我一个人待着也挺好的。”

"My parents sent me to the relationship with key middle school,This kind of thing,A lot of people will envy,But I am very self-abased."Christine yan said,At that time she has begun to take some aggressive behavior,This let the students around to her from a taunt into fear.She would feel some relaxed:"I alone also quite good."

　　婷燕曾认识别班的一位女生，两人交往很久，晚上没事就通电话，后来，因为种种原因，这位女生和婷燕断绝了往来。“那时候我就想，朋友什么的，再也不要认识了。”

Christine yan had know no class a girl,Two people for a long time,In the evening it was on the phone,later,For a variety of reasons,The girl and Christine yan cut off exchanges."At that time, I thought,Friends or,Don't know."

　　毕业后，婷燕开了间网店，生意还不错，日子过得不温不火。“没什么开心，也没什么不开心，经营也是随随便便，有时候一睡睡一天。”上门取件、发货过程中，婷燕慢慢和一家快递的员工阿坤熟悉了起来。

After graduation,Christine yan opened between online,Business is good,Day tepid."Nothing happy,Also there's nothing happy,Business is also casually,Sometimes a sleep one day."Comes to take a/Delivery process,Christine yan slowly and a express staff, kun familiar with it.

　　

发微博自杀 想留下什么 FaWei bo suicide want to stay

　　没什么朋友的婷燕，很快将阿坤当成了男友，两人一起吃饭、逛街，阿坤还不时留宿在她家。但是，仅仅过了半年，婷燕发现阿坤早有女友，并且还准备结婚。而面对质问，阿坤却说，两人的关系本就是你情我愿，绝非恋爱，并很快消失得无影无踪，甚至卷走了一笔钱款。

No friend's Christine yan,Will soon be o kun as a boyfriend,Two people have a meal together/shopping,Ah kun also from time to time stay in her house.but,Only half a year later,Christine yan found of o early have a girlfriend,And also ready to get married.And in the face of the query,Kun said, o,The association between two people this is your love I wish,Is not love,And soon vanished into thin air,Even roll away a sum of money.

　　这样的结局，让婷燕始料未及。“吃安眠药睡醒，昏昏沉沉。看到拖鞋，想到他；看到牙刷，想到他；看到家里的包堆了一地，想到他……我觉得我再也没有办法开心……”婷燕那段时间的微博，充满了低落、压抑。

The end of this,Let Christine yan totally unexpected."Eat sleeping wake up,murkily.See slippers,Thought that he;See a toothbrush,Thought that he;See home bag pile of the ground,Think of him......I think I couldn't happy..."Christine yan that time micro bo,Filled with low/depressive.

　　“我试过从三层楼跳下，试过吃安眠药，试过放煤气，最后刀割其实真的很坚决，但是那条微博把我救了下来。”婷燕最后一次尝试自杀时，她发了几条告别微博，而其中一条微博正好被网店一位熟客买家看见，两人正好同城，出于关心，买家紧急拨打了110电话。通过婷燕的手机和发货单等线索，警方及时出动，救下了奄奄一息的婷燕。

"I try to jump from three floors,Tried to take sleeping pills,Tried to put gas,The knife is really very firmly,But the micro Po put I saved down."Christine yan last attempt to suicide,She made several farewell micro bo,And one of the micro bo just be online a frequent visitor buyers see,Two people just city,Out of concern,The buyer emergency call the 110 number.Through the Christine yan cell phones and invoice clues, etc,The police timely response,Save the dying Christine yan.

　　“醒来的时候，我看到我妈一直在哭，医生说我已经是重度抑郁症了……坦率地说，我也不知道还会不会有下一次，但至少现在觉得，还是应该活着。”婷燕的声音渐渐低沉起来。“我那时发微博是无意识的，我自己其实是很坚决地要离开，但是可能还是想留下什么，到底想说什么，我也不是很确定。”

"Wake up,I saw my mother have been crying,The doctor said I was severe depression......frankly,I also don't know will not have the next time,But at least now feel,Should still alive."Christine yan voice gradually deep up."I was FaWei bo is unconscious,I actually very firmly to leave,But may still want to stay,Really want to say,I'm not quite sure."

　　

怎样去救———很有讲究 How to save -- very exquisite

　　世界卫生组织一项统计显示，全球每天有3000人自杀。中国每年有11万左右的自杀者，多处于15岁—34岁。在中国，患有精神障碍疾病的自杀未遂者中，近四成患有焦虑症。住房、工作、婚姻成为引发城市居民焦虑的主要诱因。

The world health organization a statistics show,Every day around the world have 3000 suicides.China every year 110000 or so suicide,In more than 15 years old - 34 years old.In China,Patients with psychiatric disorders in the would-be suicide,Nearly forty percent had anxiety disorders.housing/work/The marriage be a city residents the main causes of anxiety.

　　根据婷燕的指引，羊城晚报记者注意到，在不少网站、论坛或QQ群，都会有一些涉及抑郁、自杀方面的小圈子，有人或发帖或留言，抒发情绪或表示求救。在一些微博群里，也有人留下只言片字，表达告别的欲望。网友自发组建的这些群里，往往弥漫着一种失落、阴郁的情绪。

According to the guidance of Christine yan,The yangcheng evening news reporter noticed,In many web site/BBS or QQ group,There will be some involved in depression/Suicide aspects of the clique,Someone or post or leave a message,To express emotions or said for help.In a slightly bo group,Also some people leave only words piece word,Say goodbye to express the desire.Netizens spontaneously formed in the group,Often diffusing a loss/Gloomy mood.

　　查阅早前“直播自杀”的帖子，记者看到，大多数网友都在竭力呼唤、救助他们，试图与直播者对话，但成效并不明显。

Refer to earlier"Live suicide"post,The reporter sees,Most users are trying to call/Rescue them,Trying to live with the dialogue,But the effect is not obvious.

　　记者联系到一位曾经处理过类似“直播自杀”事件的某知名论坛版主，他说，作为版主，遇到这种事情，第一反应是设法通过此人以往的留言、发帖，确定其所在地区，尽量联系认识的人，并立刻报警。“除了尽量控制这个帖子的情绪、走向，我们其实也不知道能做什么，也很怕做了什么反而出错。”

Reporter relates to a had a similar treatment"Live suicide"The event of some famous BBS moderator,He said,As a webmaster,Meet this kind of things,The first reaction is managed to get through the previous message/post,Determine the region,Try to contact know,And immediately alarm."In addition to try to control this post emotions/to,We actually don't know what to do,Also very be afraid do anything but go wrong."

　　他说，有些网友，包括他自己也会想，既然都进行直播了，说明直播者其实是有沟通意愿的，估计是因为平时沟通有问题，才采取这么极端的手段。“不过，很多发帖说要自杀，并不完全为了沟通。我至今迷茫的是，他们为什么要这样做呢，我们又能做什么呢？”

He said,Some net friend,Including himself will also want to,Since all the to broadcast live,Those that live is actually the will of communication,Estimate because usually communication has a problem,Just take this extreme means."but,A lot of post to say to want to commit suicide,Do not fully in order to communication.Till now I still confused is,Why do they do it,What can we do?"

　　

为何直播———需要关爱 Why live - need to love

　　“可能很少有人知道，网络直播自杀，其实是他们的最后一次自救努力。当他们开始直播时，和一个轻生者站在楼顶，随时准备跳下去其实没有两样。有千斤的重量，在拖着他们向下，而直播是他们给自己试图留下的最后一丝机会。”台湾大观心理治疗所院长、自杀防治协会秘书长林昆辉，正积极奔走发起“上海24小时危机干预与生命教育中心”及“希望24热线”。

"Possibly the very few some people know,Webcast suicide,It is their last efforts to save his life.When they begin to live broadcasts,And a light standing on the roof of the living,Ready to jump when there is no different.There are one thousand jins weight,In drag them down,And live is they tried to leave at the end of the ghost of a chance."Taiwan grand sight psychological treatment dean/Suicide prevention association secretary general LinKunHui,Is actively for launch"Shanghai 24 hours crisis intervention and life education center"and"Hope 24 hotline".

　　在接受羊城晚报记者专访时，林昆辉说，网络直播自杀，用意不在于控诉或伤害别人，而是宣告两件事：“一是让世界知道不幸的我，二是让这世界看到我的不幸。”他说，这种形式已经成为一种最新形式的呼救，“我敢说，这种呼救可能会‘泛滥’。”

In accepting the yangcheng evening news reporter when the interview,LinKunHui said,Webcast suicide,Intention is not accused or hurt others,But declared two things:"One is to let the world know that unfortunately I,The second is to let the world see my misfortune."He said,This form has become a new form of distress,"I dare say,This call may be‘flood’."

　　在接受羊城晚报记者采访时，著名留美心理咨询师冯大荣表示，自杀者的心理动机复杂，有些是因为小时候的生活、家庭背景，留下的潜在伤害难以治愈；有些对焦虑敏感的人，当感觉亲人和社会对他的预期和压力超过了他能承受的程度，很自然就会产生失落和恐惧，可能会让他反向选择自我破坏，自我伤害，乃至采取最极端的手段。

In accepting the yangcheng evening news reporter to interview,Stay in the famous psychological consultants FengDaRong said,Suicide psychological motivation complex,Some because young life/Family background,Leave the potential damage is difficult to heal;Some people who are sensitive to anxiety,When feeling relatives and society to his expectations and pressure more than he can bear degree,Very natural can produce loss and fear,May let him reverse choice self destruction,Self harm,And take the most extreme means.

　　冯大荣指出，利用网络来直播自杀过程，目的不外乎两种：一是期望得到家人和社会的关注，唤醒他们对自己的关爱；二是采用这种极端举动，扩大影响，来报复亲人，让有关联的人后悔。

FengDaRong pointed out that,Using the Internet to live suicide process,Purpose is nothing more than two kinds:One is expected to be the family and social attention,Wake up in their care;The second is to use this kind of extreme action,Expand influence,To revenge relatives,Let related people regret.

　　“深圳发生的那起悲剧，正是当事人打算用死来惩罚家人，让他们后悔终生。”冯大荣认为，对这类个案，要救助是比较难的，关键还是需要平时的关爱。

"Shenzhen happened since the tragedy,It is the parties intend to with dead to punish family,Let them regret lifelong."FengDaRong think,For this kind of case,To salvage is difficult,The key still need the usual care.

　　

遇到直播———敬请慎言 Meet live -- please stool pigeon

　　面对网友直播自杀，多数网友予以劝阻和安慰，但也有个别人认为这是炒作，反感这种“唯恐天下不乱的”行为，不但不进行劝阻，反而添油加醋进行煽动。

In the face of the net friend live suicide,Most of the net friend to dissuade and comfort,But there were notable think this is hype,Dislike this kind of"For fear that the world not disorderly of"behavior,Not only to dissuade,But add oil to add vinegar to incite.

　　林昆辉说，直播自杀的人，往往会看别人的评价，“这时网友的评论很关键，你骂他会让他生气，而你质疑他‘这样做你对得起谁’，也许会直接把他推向自杀。”

LinKunHui said,Live a suicidal person,Tend to look at the others evaluation,"When users comments is key,You scold him to make him angry,And you questioned his‘Do you who face’,May directly push him over to the suicide."

　　“如果你有热心有余力，遇到直播自杀者，马上联系警方，马上根据他以往的帖子，找到他的朋友、亲人，这很好；如果你很忙碌，或者有所顾忌，那么不转发，不点评，或者只是一句‘别死’，或者‘虽然不认识你，但是请你活着’，也是好的。但请千万不要做一个明明看到别人寻死，却在楼下大叫‘快跳！怎么还不跳’的人。”

"If you have enthusiasm spare capacity,Meet live suicide,Contact the police immediately,Immediately according to his previous posts,Find his friend/relatives,This is very good;If you are very busy,Or holding,So don't forward,Don't comment on,Or just a‘Don't die’,or‘Although do not know you,But would you live’,Is also good.But please don't make a clearly see others try to commit suicide,But in the down stairs shout loudly‘jumping!How to still don't jump’people."

　　是否真有人滥用“直播自杀”来炒作？林昆辉说，这种情况确实存在，但生命没有真假，要重视每一次的呼救。“恶作剧最大的敌人，是认真。”

Whether a person abuse"Live suicide"To hype?LinKunHui said,This kind of situation really exist,But life is not true and false,Attention should be paid to every distress."Mischief biggest enemy,Is serious."

　　“最重要的是，告诉当事人：我在乎你，我要你活着！”林昆辉建议，民众要学会观察和发现“自杀者的征兆”，“从我做起，做到自救、他救。如果每个人都能注意自己的身心健康，自己学会调整适应，就有更多避免此类危机的可能。”

"The most important thing is,Tell the:I care about you,I want you to live!"LinKunHui Suggestions,People to learn how to observe and find"Signs of suicide","Starts from me,Do save/He save.If everyone can pay attention to your physical and mental health,Learn to adjust yourself,There is more to avoid the possibility of such crisis."

　　冯大荣同样认为，正如防治比抢救更重要，自我的调整也比依赖他人的帮助重要，每个人都要找到适合自己的减少不满、排解压力的方式。

FengDaRong also think,As prevention is more important than rescue,Self adjustment than rely on others help important,Everyone to find suits own reduce dissatisfaction/The way to call the pressure.

　　

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面对轻生者 五要三不要 In the face of light the living five to three don't

　　五要：

The fifth is to:

　　1、立即报案，请公安部门动员营救；

1/Immediately go to the police,Please the public security department mobilization rescue;

　　2、立刻通报危机干预中心，借专业的力量来做个案紧急处理；

2/Immediately report crisis intervention center,Through professional strength to do case emergency treatment;

　　3、询问有没有人认识当事人，大家想办法找出住址和电话；

3/Ask anyone know the parties,Everyone to find a way to address and telephone;

　　4、搜寻当事人过去的帖子，试图找出住址、公司、学校、认识的人等等一切可能的，能马上联系到这个人的信息；

4/The search for the post,Tried to find out the address/The company/The school/Know and so on all possible,Can immediately linked to the man's information;

　　5、立即发帖子劝当事人不要自杀、不要死、活下来、只要活着。

5/Immediate post advised the parties don't commit suicide/Don't want to die/survive/As long as you are alive.

　　三不要：

Three don't:

　　1、不要责备、调侃、中伤、讽刺、谩骂、讥笑、侮辱当事人；

1/Don't blame/Poking fun at/slander/irony/abuse/Laughed at/Insult the parties;

　　2、不要说当事人会对不起父母夫妻手足子女亲人和爱你的人；

2/Don't say the parties will be sorry parents and brothers the children loved ones and those who love you;

　　3、不要和他讨论创伤事件，分析谁对谁错谁也有责任。(记者 楮韵 尹安学)

3/Don't discuss with him traumatic events,Analysis who to who wrong who also have the responsibility to.(Reporter YinAnXue rhyme to disappear)