南艺女教师苦守十年“因为爱情” South art female teacher bitter guard ten years"Because love"

　　奔走于家庭和课堂间，她累到左耳失聪；微博扩散后网友赞她是江苏版“爱情天梯” Rushing in family and class room,She tired to the left ear deafness;Micro bo diffusion users praise after she is jiangsu edition"Love Jacob's ladder"

　　十年前，陶鹤山不幸罹患脑癌，手术后失去了行走能力，为挽救丈夫，南京艺术学院思政课老师张德琴开始了爱情苦守。现在陶鹤山终于站起来了。医生赞叹，这是爱的奇迹。最近这段爱情故事在微博上流传甚广，网友感叹执子之手与子偕老的爱情原来就在身边。扬子晚报记者 李冲

Ten years ago,Unfortunately TaoHeShan brain cancer,Surgery lost the ability to walk,To save her husband,Nanjing art college ideological and political lesson teacher ZhangDeQin began to love bitter guard.Now TaoHeShan finally stood up.The doctor praised,This is the miracle of love.Recently this love story in micro blog were spread widely,Net friend exclamation give me your hand and son xielao love originally in the side.Yangzi evening news reporter LiChong

　　同甘14年：癌症让这个家偏离了幸福航道 Joy 14 years:Cancer let the house off the happiness channel

　　昨天，扬子晚报记者来到张德琴老师家中进行采访。她说：“我不奢望大富大贵，只希望一家人平平淡淡、平平安安的生活。”在采访中，记者听到了他们的故事。张德琴和陶鹤山是大学本科同学，1984年，两个人一起考入南京师范大学。在大四时，爱情之箭射中了两个人。毕业后，张老师去扬州的一所中学任教，陶鹤山在北大读完硕士后，又回到南京，在南京大学从事教学工作，并攻读博士学位。不久，张老师调到南京艺术学院进行公共课的教学，两个人结婚了。随着女儿的诞生，他们的生活充满了快乐。

yesterday,Yangzi evening news reporters came to ZhangDeQin teacher home interview.She said:"I don't expect to be really rich,Only hope that the family go light/Life in peace."In the interview,Reporter heard their story.ZhangDeQin and TaoHeShan is undergraduate students,In 1984,,Two people together was admitted to nanjing normal university.As a senior,The arrow love two men.After graduation,Teacher zhang to yangzhou a middle school teaching,TaoHeShan at Peking University after reading master,Back to nanjing,In nanjing university teaching work,And the Ph.D. Degree.soon,Teacher zhang transferred to the nanjing institute of art in general course teaching,Two men married.With the birth of his daughter,Their life is full of happiness.

　　2002年，当时年近36岁的陶老师已经是南大新闻学院的副教授，他在国家一流期刊《新闻与传播研究》等杂志上发表了一些令国内外专家称道的论文，眼看就要升为教授了。

In 2002,,At that time in recent 36-year-old TaoLaoShi is an associate professor of school of journalism, ntu,He in the national first-class journals[Journalism and communication research]And published some papers to commend experts at home and abroad,See will rise to the professor.

　　然而，就在这时候，由于用脑过度常常熬夜，陶老师总是觉得右半身发麻，于是，张老师赶紧带他去做检查，CT、核磁共振，检查结果显示，陶鹤山得了脑癌。“他直到做手术，都不知道自己得了什么病。”手术结束后，陶鹤山的生命保住了，但是却瘫痪在床，失去了行动和说话的能力。

however,At this time,Due to the excessive often stay up the brain,TaoLaoShi always feel right half pins and needles,so,Teacher zhang hurriedly brought him to do check,CT/Nuclear magnetic resonance (NMR),Test results show,TaoHeShan has brain cancer."Not until he had surgery,Don't know if I get what disease."After surgery,TaoHeShan life saved,But paralyzed in bed,Lost action and the ability to speak.

　　共苦10年：女儿问她，“是不是把我当成爸爸了” Together 10 years:Daughter asked her,"Whether or not to me as a father"

　　老公瘫痪在床，张德琴的生活过得更加辛苦。她每天要照顾老公，还要看好女儿，并且还要给学生们上课。生活的重担，就这样压在当时年仅37岁的张德琴身上。

The husband paralyzed in bed,ZhangDeQin live more hard.Her husband to take care of every day,Also value daughter,And will give the students in class.The burden of life,So pressure at that time was only 37 years old ZhangDeQin body.

　　张老师有一个非常懂事的女儿，现在已经上高中了。“这些年，我一直都在照顾老公，忽略了女儿，但是女儿真的很懂事。”张老师说，老公生病时，女儿刚刚六岁，上小学一年级，有一次从仙林上课回来，已经一点多了。女儿踩在小板凳上，给我和她爸爸做蛋炒饭。“那么小的孩子，就给我们做饭吃，我抱住女儿就哭了。”十年来，每当张德琴与老公在一起的时候，就会帮他活动不能动的右手，这已经成了她的习惯。她接女儿放学回家时，习惯性的将女儿的手当成老公的手，慢慢活动起来。女儿说：“妈妈，你把我当成爸爸了！”

Teacher zhang has a very sensible daughter,Now on the high school."these,I have been to take care of her husband,Ignore the daughter,But the daughter really sensible."Teacher zhang said,The husband was ill,Daughter just six years old,Elementary school grade one,Once back from xianlin class,Have a little more.Daughter on the small bench,Give me and her father do eggs Fried rice."So the little children,Will cook for us to eat,Embrace me daughter wept."Ten years,Whenever ZhangDeQin and husband together of the time,Will help him activities do not move right hand,This has become her habit.She took her daughter came home from school,Habitual her daughter's hand as a husband's hand,Slowly activity up.Daughter said:"mother,You put me as a father!"

　　记者采访中得知，张德琴老师的左耳已经听不见了。她的声音也有些粗。“我现在是男人的声音。”张德琴笑说，当时老公生病以后，又急又累，为了贴补医药费，曾经一周上过36节课。“最后上课说话嗓子都哑了。由于劳累过度，还出现了左耳突然失聪的现象。”张德琴说，后来听力没有恢复。

Reporters learned that in,ZhangDeQin teacher left ear has couldn't hear.Her voice also some coarse."I now is the man's voice."ZhangDeQin smile to say,At that time the husband after illness,Again nasty and tired,In order to subsidize medical expenses,Once a week on 36 class."The last class all speak voice dumb.Because of overwork,Also appeared suddenly left ear hearing loss phenomenon."ZhangDeQin said,Later hearing did not resume.

　　守得云开：老公病情好转，“最懂我的人就是她” Keep to cloud open:The husband got better,"The most understand me the person she is"

　　张德琴的父母这些年一直帮她照顾着陶鹤山。“夏天天气热，我爸爸就那样给老公甩手、甩腿，帮他做康复训练，汗水直往地上掉。”张德琴感慨地说。

ZhangDeQin parents over the years has been to help her to take care of the TaoHeShan."It is hot in summer,My father just like that for a husband stopped/Left leg,To help him to do rehabilitation exercises,Sweat straight toward the earth away."ZhangDeQin regrets ground say.

　　十年弹指一挥间，在家人的悉心照料下，现在的陶鹤山已经可以下地行走，也可以简单地说一些话。但是这已经是奇迹了，因为手术时，医生说，这种情况挺不过三年。张老师说，丈夫的记忆还在，只是不能继续看书写作。“我倒希望他忘记以前的很多事情，要不然他会觉得难过、失落。”张德琴对记者说，病人的脾气很急，有时候不能理解他的意思时，他会很烦躁，生气，所以现在自己就把他当个孩子在哄。

Ten years a brief moment,In the family under the care,Now the TaoHeShan can walk,Also can simply say something.But this is a miracle,Because the operation,The doctor said,This kind of situation is but three years.Teacher zhang said,Her husband's memory is still in,Just can't continue to read a book writing."I would prefer he forget what we had before a lot of things,Otherwise he will feel sorry/lost."ZhangDeQin told reporters,The patient's temper very urgent,Sometimes can't understand his meaning,He will be very be agitated,angry,So now he took him when a child in coax.

　　昨天，扬子晚报记者见到陶鹤山老师的时候，他听着记者和妻子的交谈，时而加入表达一些自己的看法。陶鹤山艰难地说：“这十来年，只有她，是我的知心朋友，我爱她，非常非常爱她。”有时候他说话没有表达清楚时，张老师补充完整后，他就很开心地说：“最懂我的人，就是她，爱她，没话讲。”

yesterday,Yangzi evening news reporter saw TaoHeShan teacher,He listened to the journalists and his wife talk,Sometimes join express some opinions of his own.TaoHeShan difficult to say:"This ten years,Only she,Is my bosom friend,I love her,Very love her very much."Sometimes he speak not when express clearly,Teacher zhang after complete,He is very happy to say:"The most understand me,Is her,Love her,No words."

　　网友赞她十年坚守 是江苏版“爱情天梯” Users praise her ten year hold is jiangsu edition"Love Jacob's ladder"

　　微博上关于张德琴老师的爱情苦守，虽然大家所知道的只是只言片语，已足以感动很多人。“执子之手与子偕老”，多么美好的情感，原来就存在于我们身边。网友表示对爱充满了希望。有人称：“这简直就是江苏版的爱情天梯。

Micro bo on ZhangDeQin teacher love bitter guard,Although we know only a few words,Already enough to moved many people."Give me your hand and son xielao",What a wonderful feeling,Originally existed in our side.Net friend said to love is filled with hope.A person:"It's a jiangsu version of love Jacob's ladder.

　　学生被她人格倾倒 纷纷选她的课

Students were her personality dumping have chosen her class

　　据张老师的学生范旭阳说：“张老师很节俭，她都是骑着自行车去上课。她现在也是快五十岁的人了，不比年轻人，我们都很心疼她。”南艺学生牛超群得知老师的事情后，很心疼她，不想让她那么辛苦，于是提出要考研了，想让老师辅导一下政治课。牛超群对记者说：“但张老师坚决不要课时费，她说，辅导自己的学生怎么能收钱呢？”南京艺术学院的学生表示，最喜欢张老师的课，但是选了四次课都没选上，选的人太多了！

According to zhang teacher's students FanXuYang said:"Teacher zhang is very economical,She was riding a bicycle to school.Now she is also fast fifty years old,Than young people,We are all love her."South art students cattle supergroup learned that the teacher after things,Very distressed her,Don't want to let her so hard,Then offered to one's deceased father grind the,Want to let the teacher guidance about politics.Cattle supergroup told reporters:"But teacher zhang resolute don't KeShiFei,She said,Coaching his students how to receive money?"Nanjing arts students said,Like most of the class teacher zhang,But chose four class didn't selected,Too many people choose!

　　链接：爱情天梯 link:Love Jacob's ladder

　　上世纪50年代，20岁的重庆江津中山古镇农家青年刘国江爱上了大他10岁的“俏寡妇”徐朝清。为了躲避世人的流言，他们携手私奔至深山老林。为让徐朝清出行安全，刘国江一辈子都忙着在悬崖峭壁上凿石梯通向外界，如今已有6000多级，被称为“爱情天梯”。2007年12月18日，刘国江老人去世；2012年10月30日，徐朝清老人去世。李冲

In the 1950 s,20 years old of chongqing jiangjin zhongshan guzhen peasant youth LiuGuoJiang fell in love with the big his 10 years old"Qiao widow"XuChaoQing.In order to avoid the gossip,They hand in hand to elope to the mountains and forests.To let XuChaoQing travel safety,LiuGuoJiang lifetime are all busy in a precipice chisel stone staircase leads to the outside world,Now has 6000 multistage,called"Love Jacob's ladder".On December 18, 2007,LiuGuoJiang old man died;October 30, 2012,XuChaoQing old man died.LiChong