数量看似庞大，依然供不应求，从业人员也是良莠不齐 May seem huge quantity,Still demand exceeds supply,Employees also is the good and bad are intermingled

三万名月嫂，如何找对那一个 Thirty thousand month sister-in-law,How to get to that one

　　据统计，目前济南能提供月嫂服务的家政公司有近300家，月嫂有3万余人。数量看似庞大，但依然供不应求，月嫂的价格也随之水涨船高，8小时的高级月嫂月收入已达4000元。然而，看似繁荣的月嫂市场，却因从业人员的良莠不齐产生不少问题，不少雇主遭遇“极品月嫂”。而网友对月嫂的吐槽，也让一些准妈妈陷入纠结：如何才能找到适合自家的那一位月嫂？又该如何与月嫂相处？我们试图帮您找到一些答案。

According to the statistics,At present jinan can provide month sister-in-law service domestic company has nearly 300,Month sister-in-law has more than 30000 people.May seem huge quantity,But still demand exceeds supply,Month sister-in-law price has a rising tide lifts all boats,Eight hours of senior month sister-in-law month income reached 4000 yuan.however,Seemingly prosperous month sister-in-law market,However because of the good and bad are intermingled employees have many problems,Many employers encounter"Gourmet month sister-in-law".And on the net friend to putting up tank,Also let some expectant mothers in ravel:How to find a suitable for their own that a month sister-in-law?And how to get along with month sister-in-law?We tried to help you find some answers.

雇主吐槽“极品月嫂”五大表现 Employers vomit tank"Gourmet month sister-in-law"Five performance

不专业 Don't professional

　　市民陆先生：我们家孩子还未满月，月嫂就说“不能输在起跑线上”，并开始教她学走路。民间流传的“三翻六坐，七滚八爬”是很有道理的，孩子的成长就要遵循身体的发展规律，不能拔苗助长。

Citizens Mr. Lu:Our home child is under month,Month sister-in-law said"Can't lose in the starting line",And began to teach her learning to walk.Folk history"Three turn six sit,Seven roller eight climb"It is quite reasonable,A child's growth will follow the physical law of development,Can't spoil things by excessive enthusiasm.

　　市民陈女士：我生完孩子之后奶水一直很多，甚至有点胀。月嫂说奶太多了，喝点老母鸡汤稍微回回奶吧。结果喝完之后不是稍微回奶了，第二天奶就直接没了。本来我一直坚持母乳喂养，可是这样孩子只能吃奶粉了。

Citizens ms. Chen:After I gave birth to the child has been a lot of milk,Even a little expansion.Month sister-in-law said too much milk,The old chicken soup to drink a little milk and from it.Results after a little drink is not back to the milk,The next day the milk have direct didn't.Was I always adhere to the breastfeeding,But so that the child can only eat the milk powder.

　　网友kelly1207:在月嫂的“指导”下，我前两个月一直采用挤奶—冰箱储存—热奶—喂奶的喂养方式，月嫂说这样能知道孩子的饭量并且能吃饱。直到“极品月嫂”干完两个月，新的月嫂进家后对我这种喂养方式瞠目结舌，坚决制止并给我纠正过来，直接让宝宝吸母乳，我才过上了正常的生活。

Net friend kelly1207: in the month of unequal"guidance"under,My first two months has been using milking - refrigerator storage - hot milk - nurse feeding way,Month sister-in-law said this can know the child's appetite and can eat satisfied.until"Gourmet month sister-in-law"Finished two months,The new month after putting into the house for me this feeding way gaping,Resolutely put a stop to and give me to correct it,Direct let the baby suction breast milk,I don't live a normal life.

偷懒 lazy

　　市民刘女士：我们家月嫂刚来的时候表现特别好，特别勤快。但是过了没几天，就发现她开始偷懒了，每天上午抱着孩子坐在阳台上晒太阳，一坐就是半天。也不给产妇洗衣服，还振振有词：“家里有老人的我都不给洗。”宝宝拉了尿了，她也不立马给换尿布，说什么“等宝宝拉完尿完了再换，不然折腾宝宝”，我就纳闷：她怎么判断出宝宝还没拉完尿完的呢？

Citizens liu:Our family month sister-in-law came to work very well,Special hard-working.But after a few days,He found that she began to the lazy,Every morning hold children sit on the balcony in the sunshine,Sat is half a day.Also not give mothers wash his clothes,Return eloquent:"Home is the old man I will not give to wash."The baby pulled the urine,She is not immediately give diapers,Say what"And baby finish pull urine over again in,Otherwise flounder baby",I wonder:How did she tell baby haven't finish pull urine out?

　　网友小气的小羊：今天月嫂午睡起来帮我带会宝宝，我在房间上网。我走出房间倒水，只见月嫂将电视开好大声，手上拿个摇铃，一见我出来了赶快摇两下。我进去了，她继续看电视。我过一会儿又走出去了，月嫂赶紧再晃晃手上的摇铃……

Net friend mean lambs:This month sister-in-law nap to wake up and help me take will be the baby,I am in room get to the Internet.I walked out of the room pour water,See month sister-in-law will open the TV so loud,A ring for hands,A see me out to shake twice.I got in,She continued to watch TV.I'll go out again,Month sister-in-law hurriedly to sway the hands of ring for...

搬弄是非 mischief-making

　　市民王女士：一提起我们家的月嫂我就来气，她闲着没事儿就打听我们家的隐私，我们一家人说私事儿的时候她也仔细听着。本来我跟婆婆关系挺好的，可是她总是在我面前说婆婆的育儿观念怎么不对，而且还不听她的，弄得我有点生婆婆的气。后来月嫂走了之后，无意间跟婆婆提起这件事，婆婆说月嫂也在她面前说过我的坏话，说我对孩子不上心，气死我了。

Citizens wang:At the mention of our family month sister-in-law I to gas,She at a loose end that's all right. Just ask our family's privacy,Our family's private said when she listened carefully.I was with her mother-in-law's relationship,But she is always in front of me saying that her mother-in-law educational idea how you,But also don't listen to her,I got the breath of life mother-in-law.Later month after putting away,Accidentally mentioned it with her mother-in-law,She said month sister-in-law also in front of her said about me,I said to the child not up,Piss me off.

贪小便宜 Some small cheap

　　网友美丽期待：我们家的月嫂，第一天在医院里就对我们说，隔壁床的给了月嫂多少多少红包，婆婆给了她600元。她回到家后又找我们要这要那。妈妈给我弄的汤我没喝，晚上的时候热了热给她喝，她居然说这都是热过了的，不肯喝。她临走时拿了一堆东西不说，还要我老公请假开车送她回去，最后老公给她50块钱要她自己回去的。

Net friend beautiful looking forward to:Our family month sister-in-law,The first day in the hospital is said to us,The next to the bed on how much under how many red packets,The mother-in-law gave her 600 yuan.She returned to the family and find we want this to that.Mother got me I didn't drink the soup,At night, hot hot to her drink,She incredibly say this is hot over,Would not drink.She when he took a bunch of things don't say,Will my husband leave to drive her back,Finally the husband gave her $50 back to her.

　　市民张女士：月嫂在我家期间，刚好有一天是清明节。晚上她突然跟我说，今天是清明节，要三倍工资，让我再给她两倍的现金。我们签合同的时候没人跟我们说过，合同上只写着她有权享受法定节假日，但是没说这钱由我们掏，她的三倍工资应该是她公司给。

Citizens ms. Zhang:Month sister-in-law in my period,Just one day is tomb-sweeping day.In the evening she suddenly say with me,Today is tomb-sweeping day,Three times the salary,Let me give her two times the cash.We sign a contract when no one and we said,The contract only write her shall have the right to enjoy statutory holidays,But don't say the money is at our tao,Her three times the salary should be her company to.

难以沟通 Difficult to communicate

　　市民吕先生：我们家的月嫂，我们觉得她哪里做得不对，给她出意见的时候她不吭声，却抱着孩子说：“宝贝啊，爸爸不理解咱，妈妈不理解咱，奶奶这活不好干啊。”并且在我们孩子的成长记录上写什么“爸爸太专制了，不听从我的意见，最后还是孩子受罪啊”之类的话。(见习记者 刘雅菲 实习生 孙宝琴)

Citizens Mr. Lu:Our family month sister-in-law,We think she is doing the wrong thing,Give her the opinion she don't utter a word,But hold the boy said:"Baby!,Dad doesn't understand me,Mother didn't understand me,Grandma this live bad dry ah."And in our children's growth record writing on??????"The father is too despotism,Don't listen to my advice,Finally the child suffer ah"Words like.(Trainee reporter LiuYaFei interns SunBaoQin)