苏州一女子，网购成瘾剁手指；宁波一对小夫妻，因为网购闹离婚；杭州有人全年网购开销超年收入—— Suzhou a woman,Chop the net addiction fingers;Ningbo a pair of small husband and wife,Because the net is getting divorced;Hangzhou someone annual net income expenses exceed --

　　

是什么让“网购之手”欲罢不能？ What makes"Hand of the net"Is unable to stop?

　　最近这两天，有条新闻不知你看了没？苏州有位女士，因为沉迷网购和丈夫发生争执，结果把自己的大拇指剁了。尽管这是一个极端的个案，但最近因为网购而发生的闹心事还真不少。

The last two days,There is a news do you see no?Suzhou is a lady,Because the net addiction dispute and her husband,Results the chop the thumb.Although this is an extreme case,But recently because of the net and the happened thing could really many.

　　宁波有对小夫妻，因为“双十一”的时候，妻子网购花了2万元，丈夫一气之下跑到法院起诉离婚。而这两天，19楼论坛上一个“网购狂晒账单”的帖子也被网友炒得火热，发帖人“viless”甚至怀疑自己是不是得了心理疾病，还开玩笑说，求“剁手”良方。

Ningbo to small husband and wife,because"Double tenth a"when,The net wife spent 20000 yuan,Her husband in a pet ran to divorce court.And this two days,The 19th floor BBS on a"E-commerce crazy sun bills"Post was also net friend Fried like a house on fire,Post people"viless"Or even suspect that you are got a mental illness,Also joked that,for"Mincing hand"Silver bullet.

　　眼下，“双十一”的硝烟还未散尽，“双十二”的促销活动又开始预热了。不少人猛然发现，自己对网购已是欲罢不能，甚至影响了生活。

the,"Double tenth a"The smoke is not over,"ShuangShiEr"The sales promotion activity began to preheat the.Many people suddenly found,To the net has been unable to stop,Even influence the life.

　　记者昨天采访了多位心理专家，他们均表示，“网购成瘾”其实是一种新型的心理疾病，严重者甚至需要心理治疗。

Reporter yesterday quizzed psychological experts,They are said,"Net addiction"In fact is a new type of mental illness,May even need psychological treatment.

　　

剁手指、闹离婚，网购引发的闹心事真不少 Mincing finger/Getting divorced,The net could caused by things really many

　　“这两天和一位姑娘相亲，她什么都挺好，可听说她的淘宝信用刷到了金皇冠，忽然觉得自己配不上她。这个等级得立刻反应为，全部都是白花花的银子呀。”今年10月底，网友“板鞋”发微博说：按照10001分升至金皇冠标准来计算，他新认识的姑娘至少点评了10000多份网购商品。就算每次购买的东西只有10元，那她也已经在网购中消费了10万元。

"These two days and a girl to skin,She's quite good,Can hear her taobao credit brushed the gold crown,Suddenly feel don't deserve her.This grade immediately for reaction,All of glistening silver ah."This year the end of October,Net friend"BanXie"FaWei bo said:According to 10001 points to gold crown standard to calculate,His new know girl at least more than 10000 comments on the net is a commodity.Even if every time to buy things only 10 yuan,Then she has been in the net price is 100000 yuan.

　　“板鞋”的这番吐槽，引来不少网友的口水。支持他的人认为，相亲时得先看淘宝等级，一两颗红星的是首选，碰到皇冠买家，一定要三思而后行。但也有人认为，网购只是消费的一种，不能以偏概全。更何况网购得当，还能节约不少钱。

"BanXie"'s comments vomit tank,Draw not a few net friend the saliva.Support his people think,When to have to see taobao level,One or two red stars is preferred,Crown buyers encounter,Must look before you leap.But also some people thought,E-commerce is a kind of consumption,Cannot overgeneralization.Besides the net properly,Also can save a lot of money.

　　而经过“双十一”的一番疯狂抢购后，近日网购引发的后遗症更是集体爆发。

And after"Double tenth a"After a snapping up,The net has triggered sequela is collective outbreak.

　　宁波的一对85后小夫妻，去年刚结婚，正在如漆如胶的新婚期。但妻子网购成瘾，一碰电脑就控制不住。“双十一”那天，她更是从前一夜凌晨开始奋战，直到第二天中午，下了近二十个单子，花费近2万元，而这些钱都是从信用卡中透支的。多次劝阻无效后，老公一气之下告到法院，要求离婚。

Ningbo after a pair of 85 small husband and wife,Who got married last year,Are such as paint such as glue XinHunQi.But the wife the net addiction,A touch control computer."Double tenth a"That day,She is at once night began to fight,Until noon of the next day,The nearly 20 list,Spend nearly 20000 yuan,And the money from the credit card overdraft.Many times after dissuasion,The husband in a pet against to the court,For a divorce.

　　无独有偶，本月22日，江苏苏州的张女士更是因为网购成瘾，差点丢了自己的左手大拇指。原来张女士平时下班后，没事就上网团购，光是“双十一”就在网购上投进了近万元。事发当天，张女士又在晚饭后，坐在电脑前淘起宝贝，甚至连正在哭闹的女儿都无心理会。夫妻俩为此大吵，张女士冲进厨房，手起刀落，剁了自己的左手大拇指。幸而抢救及时，她的手指被接了回来，但后遗症却难以避免。张女士也为自己网购成瘾付出了沉重代价。

similarly,This month 22,Jiangsu suzhou, ms. Zhang but because the net addiction,Almost lost his left thumb.The original ms. Zhang after work at ordinary times,It was a bulk on the Internet,Light is"Double tenth a"In the net is thrown into a nearly ten thousand yuan.The day,Ms. Zhang and after dinner,Sit in front of the computer tao up baby,Even is the daughter of crying all centerless ignored.A couple for this big fight,Ms. Zhang rushed into the kitchen,Hand up knife fell,Chop off his left thumb.Fortunately, rescued in time,Her finger was taken back,But sequela is difficult to avoid.Ms. Zhang net addiction for themselves also paid a heavy price.

　　

网购狂晒账单， 一年工资不够网购开销 E-commerce crazy sun bills, A year salary is not quite the net cost

　　这两天，在杭州19楼论坛上，自称网购狂的“viless”晒出了自己2011年的网购账单：过去一年，viless平均每个月要在网购上花销3000元左右，去年11月，是她全年网购最疯狂的时候，单月就花掉近6000元。但如果和今年11月相比，viless去年11月的网购记录就小巫见大巫了。光是这个“双十一”，她就花了一万多元在网购上。

These two days,In hangzhou on the 19th floor BBS,The net to the crazy"viless"Sun out of the 2011 years of e-commerce bills:In the past year,Viless average every month to the net costs 3000 yuan,Last November,Is she buys the most crazy time,Odd-numbered months will spend nearly 6000 yuan.But if this November and compared,Viless last November's e-commerce record is a fraction of the.Light is the"Double tenth a",She spent more than ten thousand yuan in the net.

　　“几个月前，我发现当快递来送包裹，而我根本不记得买的是什么时，我觉得问题很严重了。因为我买的都是对我来说根本不需要、不重要的东西，不然怎么会不记得呢？”viless说，原本以为网购能省钱，不料却是省了小钱，浪费了大钱。“比如说给孩子买帽子，本来想买一顶，可是为了省运费，一口气买了六七顶。”

"A few months ago,I find that when express to send a parcel,And I don't remember buy is what,I think the problem is very serious.Because I buy is to me don't need/The important things,Or how can not remember?"Viless said,Originally thought that the net can save money,Behold it is saved penny,Wasted a lot of money."For example give children to buy a hat,Originally want to buy a hat,But in order to save the freight,Breath bought six or seven top."

　　最要命的是，viless的年收入也就只有4万多，而今年光在网购的花销就已经远超过这个数字。“如果不算老公贴补的那些，结婚时候父母给的小金库，我绝对算个入不敷出的小负婆。”

Is the most terrible of,Viless annual income is only more than 40000,Now passage of time in the cost of the net has been far more than this number."If not the husband subsidize those,When parents married to a private coffer,I absolutely calculate deficits in the old trafford woman."

　　但viless也发现，她根本不能控制自己的购物欲和冲动。viless在帖子里向网友求助：“除了剁手，究竟要怎样才能克制住自己购物的欲望？这是不是一种病，需要去看心理医生吗？”

But viless also found,She can't control his shopping desire and impulse.Viless in the post to the net friend for help:"In addition to chop hand,What how can refrain from their shopping desire?This is a kind of disease,Need to see psychological doctor?"

　　戏剧化的是，viless发的帖子被她的丈夫任先生看到了。

Dramatic is,Viless hair post was her husband as sir saw.

　　昨天下午，记者联系到了任先生。“她一直都有网购的习惯，但2010年大学毕业后，经济独立了，网购的花销也飙升。”任先生说，因为妻子工作比较清闲，不少上班时间都贡献给了淘宝，下班回家后，还要继续在电脑前逛上一两个小时。

Yesterday afternoon,The reporter contact Mr. Responsible."She has always had the habit of the net,But in 2010 after graduation from the university,Economic independence,The cost of the net also soared."Said Mr. Let,Because his wife is at leisure,A lot of work time is a contribution to clean out treasure,When I get home from work,Continue to in front of the computer around an hour or two.

　　“我每天都会去接她下班，车后备厢里常会装满各种快递包裹。”任先生说，最夸张的是去年11月，因为收到的包裹实在太多，自己不得不去物业借了辆板车，然后分两次扛回四大箱东西。“我的神经已经被各种包裹锻炼得坚强无比。”

"I every day after work to meet her,The car backing car often filled with all sorts of express delivery parcel."Said Mr. Let,The most exaggerated is last November,Because he had received the package is really too much,She has to go to property borrowed wagon,Then at twice GangHui four big box of stuff."My nerves have been all kinds of packages do so strong."

　　尽管任先生表示，妻子现在的消费尚在小两口的经济合理承受范围内，但还是希望妻子能在买东西前多想想，理性购物。

Although Mr. Any said,His wife now consumption is still in the young couple economic reasonable bear range,But I still hope wife can buy things in former think more about,Rational shopping.

　　

网友戏称，“剁”完手才发现自己有无数双手 Net friend calls,"chop"The hand just detection oneself have countless hands

　　viless的帖子发出后，吸引了不少网友围观，有人力挺有人拍砖，而不少网友则跟帖晒出了自己的高额网购账单。从网友们晒出来的账单来看，最少也有2万多，多则近40万元，令人咂舌。

Viless post after the issue,Attracted many netizens onlookers,A human is someone clap brick,And not a few net friend is basked in the post a net is higher bills.From the net friends out of the sun to see bill,At least also has more than 20000,, nearly 400000 yuan,A scenario-in.

　　网友“大原”表示了不理解：“需要什么买什么不是很好吗？买这么多不需要的便宜东西，实属捡了芝麻丢了西瓜！”而“叶子”则表示，以后自己儿子找女朋友，得先查查她是几颗星。若是黄钻就实在太败家了，必须把感情掐死在萌芽中。

Net friend"Big original"Expressed don't understand:"What need to buy what is not very good?Buy so many don't need something cheaper,Is picked up sesame lost watermelon!"and"leaves", said,After his son to look for the girlfriend,Have to see she is a few stars.If it is too spends the yellow diamonds,Must the feelings of strangled in the bud.

　　更多的网友则表达了共鸣。网友“绣绣女生”跟帖说，“自从有了网购，花钱就如流水。自家除了儿子不是淘来的，其他都是淘宝淘的。”而“紫夜落雪”则感叹，因为快递收得太多，自己和很多快递员成了朋友。“小二郎”也跟着吐苦水：我天天和自己说再买就剁手。但剁了无数回手后，才发现自己有一千双手。

More net friend is expressed resonance.Net friend"Embroidery embroidery girl"Reply said,"Ever since the e-commerce,Spend money like water.In addition to his son is tao,The other is the tao taobao."and"Purple night like snow in"Is exclamation,Because express charge too much,Myself and many express became friends."Small ErLang"Also follow beefing:Every day I say to themselves that buy just hand chop.But marking the innumerable after your hand,It was discovered that he has one thousand hands.

　　当然也有不少网友给viless出点子。有人建议把淘宝密码交给老公保管，也有人建议降低信用卡额度或者干脆取消信用卡。而一旦买了多余的东西，则可以自己开个二手淘宝店，跟别人换，或者廉价卖掉，减少点损失。

Of course there are many net friend give viless make Suggestions.It is suggested that the taobao password to the husband custody,Also it is suggested that reduce the amount of credit card or simply cancel the credit card.And once bought extra things,It can open a second-hand taobao shop,With others in,Or cheap sell,Reduce point loss.

　　

心理专家：网购须理性适时调整生活模式 Psychological experts:The net shall be rational timely adjust life mode

　　“今天你网购了吗？”这几乎已经成了写字楼里的女白领生活中不可或缺的重要话题。对于相当一部分女白领而言，就算没有购物需要，浏览网购页面也已经成了每日例行之事。抢购时的刺激，收货时的愉悦都成了大家对网购“情有独钟”的原因。但收到货后发现是无用之物的抱怨也高频率出现。

"Today you the net?"This has almost become the office of female white-collar life indispensable important topic.For quite a few women in white-collar workers,Even if no shopping needs,Browsing the net page also has become a daily routine things.Snap up with excitement,When receiving pleasures all became everybody to the net"Have a special liking"reason.But the discovery after receipt of the goods is discommodity complaint is high frequency appear.

　　普华永道在今年初的时候，做过一项题为《顾客主导市场》的调查报告，报告显示，中国人网购热情颇高，在接受调查的中国消费者中，约七成每周至少网购一次，是欧洲消费者的近四倍、美国和英国消费者的近两倍。

Pricewaterhousecoopers in the earlier this year,Done a titled[Customer dominate the market]report,The report shows that,The Chinese net is quite high enthusiasm,In the investigation of Chinese consumers,About seventy percent of the net a week at least once,Is the European consumer nearly four times/American and British consumers nearly two times.

　　国家二级心理咨询师李丽琴刚刚在杭州某大学自己任教的班级里做过调查，发现9成学生都有网购习惯。

National secondary psychological consultants in hangzhou LiLiQin just a university teaching in the class of his made investigation,Found 9 into students have e-commerce habits.

　　记者采访多位心理专家后发现，绝大多数网购成瘾者，尚未意识到这是一种心理疾病。所以此类求医的案例还很鲜见，但这一新兴的现象，已经引起了心理学界的重视。

Reporter interviews the discovery after more psychological experts,The vast majority of e-commerce addict,Not yet realized that this is a kind of mental illness.So this kind of case is still very rare healed,But the emerging phenomenon,Has caused the psychological educational world attention.

　　“网购已成为目前生活的一个常态，但一旦过度就有可能成为一种心理疾病。”李丽琴说，网购成瘾其实和购物癖有很多相似之处，比如都有强迫倾向。

"E-commerce has become a normal life at present,But once excessive may be a kind of mental illness."LiLiQin said,The net addiction in fact and shopping bug has a lot of similarities,Such as have forced tendency.

　　李丽琴分析，容易出现网购成瘾的人群往往有几个特征：女性、30岁以下、性格内向、社会功能受损、生活空虚、爱好少，同时比较焦虑。“她们享受的往往是网购时精神的亢奋和愉悦，但一旦过了这个劲头，发现买了自己不需要的东西，而且信用卡也刷爆了，又会有强烈的失落感。”李丽琴建议，有网购成瘾倾向的市民，尽量少宅在家里，多去人多的地方，并且多运动，加强和大自然的接触。

LiLiQin analysis,The net addiction is easy to appear the people often have several characteristics:women/30 years old the following/introverted/Social function damage/Life empty/Hobby less,At the same time comparative anxiety."They enjoy the spirit of the net is often when stimulated and cheerful,But once the strength,Found that buy the things you don't need,And credit card is maxed out,And a strong sense of loss."LiLiQin Suggestions,Have the net addiction tendency of citizens,House less as far as possible in the home,Many to many places,And exercise more,Strengthen and the nature of the contact.

　　浙江省心理卫生协会秘书长傅素芬则把这种行为定义为冲动控制障碍。“成年人应该有自我控制能力，而网购成瘾的人，往往就是缺乏这种控制能力。”傅素芬说，如果市民发现自己买了很多不需要的东西，没钱时也控制不住购物欲望或者几天不买不看就难受，就很可能有网购成瘾的倾向。“如果出现这样的情况，就需要在生活中训练自己的控制力。例如计划好一个月的消费额度，并严格执行或者把物品在购物车里放一放，自己冷静几天后，仍然发现有买的必要的话再购买。若是情况还是没有缓解，则需要寻求心理治疗的介入。”(记者 纪驭亚/文 黄昕/图)

Zhejiang mental health association secretary general FuSuFen have this kind of behavior is defined as impulse control disorders."Adults should have self control ability,The net addiction and people,Often is lack of this kind of control ability."FuSuFen said,If people find themselves bought a lot of things you don't need,No money also control shopping desire or not buy a few days before they suffered,It is very possible to have the tendency of the net addiction."If appear such circumstance,Will need in the life training their own control.Such as planned a month of consumption quota,And strictly carry out or put the items on the shopping cart put a put,His calm after a few days,Still found to have bought necessary to buy.If the situation or failed to relieve,The need to seek psychological therapy intervention."(Reporter JiYuYa/text HuangXin/diagram)