腼腆代表喜悦 嫉妒说明愤怒 On behalf of the joy that shy jealous anger

读懂4种性表情(两性研究) Read four kind of sexual expression(Gender research)

　　每个人都有喜怒哀乐，情绪常常起伏不定，性爱时也一样。积极的情绪往往能变身性爱催化剂和调节剂，消极的情绪则会带来不同程度的心理损害，甚至导致性障碍。近代心理学家把情绪概括为喜悦、愤怒、恐惧、悲哀4种，它们又会衍生出以下一些复杂的情绪反应。

Each people all have laughter, anger, sorrow and happiness,Often emotional ups and downs,Sex is the same.Positive emotions often can change sex catalyst and regulator,Negative emotions will bring different degree of psychological damage,Even cause disorder.Modern psychologists call emotional summarized as joy/anger/fear/Sorrow four,They will be derived the following some complicated emotional reaction.

　　喜悦。主要表现为性愉悦和性羞怯。和谐的性爱不但令身体感到舒适，也会让精神上感到愉悦。性愉悦可以促进机体内的环境平衡，协调身心机能，还能激发生活热情。性羞怯在性爱中的作用很重要，不但能增加性爱的吸引力、进一步和谐两性关系，还能启动性兴奋，诱发性高潮。一般来说，面红耳赤、腼腆、含情脉脉、依偎、半推半就，都是性羞怯的表现。

joy.Main show is sexual pleasure and sexual shyness.Harmonious sex not only make the body feel comfortable,Will make mental feel cheerful.Sexual pleasure can promote the body balance in the environment,Coordination psychosomatic,Also can stimulate the enthusiasm of life.The role of shyness in sex is very important,Not only can increase the sex appeal/Further harmonious relationship,Still can start sexual excitement,Induced orgasm.Generally speaking,Blue in the face/shy/Consist in gazing/Snuggle up to/'s half yield,Is sex all shy performance.

　　愤怒。主要表现为性嫉妒和性冷酷。性嫉妒其实是对性爱的一种保护，积极的性嫉妒有助于爱侣双方的情感建设；消极的性嫉妒可能产生怀疑和仇恨，从而损害两性关系。性嫉妒在性爱中是必要的，但要注意掌握尺度。性冷酷是两性关系中最具破坏作用的情绪。有的性冷酷表现为“施虐”，把对方当作发泄性欲的工具；有的则表现为“冷暴力”，表面相敬如宾，内心冷酷如冰，这在文化程度和社会地位较高的人身上比较突出。

anger.Main show is sex jealousy and sex cold.Sexual jealousy is actually a kind of protection for sex,Positive sex envy lovers to both sides of the emotional construction;Negative sexual jealousy may suspicions and hatred,Thus damage relationship.Sexual jealousy in sex is necessary,But should pay attention to master scale.Sex is cold sexual relations in the most destructive emotions.Some sex cold for performance"abuse",Take each other as a vent sexual tools;Others for performance"Cold violence",Surface respect each other like guests,The heart cold as ice,This in the cultural level and social status higher person is more outstanding.

　　恐惧。主要表现为性焦虑和性恐惧。性焦虑往往与性爱失败有关，缺乏科学性知识的人，偶尔一两次性交失败就可能引发焦虑不安。性恐惧主要出现在婚前或婚外性行为。长期性恐惧，会降低性兴奋的感受性，甚至产生性厌恶或性欲抑制。

fear.Main show is anxiety and fear of sex.Anxiety often and sex on failure,Lack of scientific knowledge,Occasionally a two sexual failure may cause anxiety.Sexual fear mainly appears in premarital or sex outside marriage.Long-term fear,Will reduce sexual excitement sensitivity,Even produce sex dislike or sexual inhibition.

　　悲哀。主要表现为性失望和性抑郁。如果性爱中配偶表现得冷淡和应付，或初次性爱时过于急躁、缺乏前戏等，都可能导致性失望。如果爱侣双方不断总结经验、加强情感交流，失望情绪会逐渐消失。否则将会出现性抑郁。性抑郁一般表现为胆小怕事、敏感多疑、兴趣狭窄、心眼小、对性生活没有兴趣。(国际中华性健康研究会会长 邓明昱)

sorrow.Main show is sex disappointed and sexual depression.If the sex partner behaved coldness and deal with,Or first sex too impatient/Lack of foreplay, etc,Could lead to sexual disappointed.If both lovers constantly sum up experience/Strengthen the emotional communication,Disappointment will gradually disappear.Otherwise there will be sexual depression.Sexual depression average performance is timid/Sensitive suspicious/Narrow interest/Mind's eye small/Not interested in sex.(The international Chinese sexual health research association DengMing yu)