“非主流”？“脑残”？“无责任感”？ “non-mainstream”？“Brain damage”？“No responsibility”？

　　90后那些不想要的标签 After the 90 who don't want to want to label

　　各种各样标签，被强加到了“90后”的身上，按照社会学中的标签理论，这也意味着这批孩子将逐渐的与标签产生一种互动，并在不知不觉中修正了“自我形象”，与标签上所形容的含义逐步靠拢。

Various labels，Imposed by the“After 90”body，According to the theory of sociology label，This also means that the group of children will gradually and tag produce a kind of interaction，And in imperceptible in fixed“Self image”，And on the meaning of the tags describe a close step by step。

　　或许这也正是一部分专家学者们在不断地尝试着为“90后”进行“去标签化”运动。

Perhaps this is part of the experts and scholars in constantly try to“After 90”for“To label the”movement。

　　而与专家学者们的处心积虑所不同，“90后”们也正在尝试着与“非主流”、“脑残”等标签相互剥离。

And with specialists and scholars have different of deliberate，“After 90”Who also are trying to and“non-mainstream”、“Brain damage”Labels such as mutual detachment。

　　被“标签”的90后们 was“label”After 90 the

　　“我不是非主流，我不是脑残。”四年前，刚刚进入大学的卢克(化名)在自己的QQ签名上写下了这样的字迹。

“I don't are the mainstream，I'm not brain damage。”Four years ago，Just enter the university Luke(aliases)In his signature on the QQ wrote the script。

　　四年之后，卢克已经成熟，他不再会对这些标签评价进行反驳，而是淡然处之：“既然是非主流，那说明它只能是一种小众的东西，很难被大众所接受，早晚会被人们遗忘。”

Four years later，Luke is ripe，He will no longer to these labels to be refuted evaluation，But were at peace：“Now that is the mainstream，That means it is only a small all the things，It is difficult to be mass acceptance，As early as the party forgotten by the people。”

　　四年之前，卢克曾在论坛里跟不少网友们言辞激烈的辩论，他一再的反驳非主流、脑残的说法：“想想那时候自己也很搞笑，居然会为这件事儿跟网友们辩论。其实那时候自己之所以辩论，倒不是说自己真的懂得非主流的含义，只是不想让90后跟非主流画上等号。”

Four years ago，LuKeCeng in BBS in many Internet users with rousing debate，He repeatedly refuted the mainstream、Brain damage that：“Think about that time oneself also is very funny，Would this thing for with net friends debate。When in fact that the debate，Not that you really understand the meaning of the mainstream，Just don't want to let 90 heel non-mainstream picture of equality。”

　　非主流、脑残的说法究竟起源于哪一件事儿已经无法考证，但是可以确定的是，如今一提起“非主流”、“脑残”，网民们的第一反应可能就是“90后”。

non-mainstream、Brain damage that originated in which something what has been unable to research，But to be sure，Now a mention“non-mainstream”、“Brain damage”，Internet users may be the first reaction“After 90”。

　　爆炸头、花花绿绿的头发、诡异的妆容、奇怪的服饰，这些出格的打扮方式，往往会被人定义为“非主流”。

Explosion head、Brightly colored hair、Tricky makeup look、Strange clothing，The way to dress up out of bounds，Often can be defined as“non-mainstream”。

　　然而或许大部分“80后”们已经选择性的遗忘了这样一个事实，那就是他们的中学校规里，曾有着类似的规定：中学生不准染发、烫发、不准穿奇装异服、不准化妆。

But perhaps most“After 80”Have been selectively forgotten the fact，That is their middle school in the school rules，Had a similar rules：Middle school students are not allowed to dye hair、marcel、Can't wear clothes、No makeup。

　　“其实这些问题80后也有，只是那时候网络不够发达，人们对于80后的关注并不是太大。”然而，当90后们成长起来之后，网络的发达，人们对于90后的关注，使得90后身上的很多问题都暴露出来。

“Actually these problems after 80，Just when the network not rich，For 80 people after the attention and is not too big。”however，When the 90 after grow up，Network developed，For 90 people after the attention，After the 90 on the many questions are exposed。

　　也正因为如此，各种带有负面含义的标签，不容辩驳的贴在了所有90后的身上。

Also because of this，With negative meanings of the tag，Not the hard posted on the all the body after 90。

　　“标签化”的残酷 “Tagging appears”cruel

　　在社会学中，标签理论是以社会学家莱默特(Edwin M.lement)和贝克尔(Howard Becker)的理论为基础而形成的一种社会工作理论。这种理论认为，每一个人都有“初级越轨”，但只有被贴上“标签”，初级越轨者才有可能走上“越轨生涯”。

In the sociology of，Tag theory is based on social scientists mott's(Edwin M.l ement)And becker(Howard Becker)Based on the theory of and of the formation of a social work theory。The theory is that，Everyone has“Primary deviant”，But only be labeled“label”，Only the primary deviant may have to“Deviant career”。

　　“举个简单的例子，小学一年级的学生，如果老师认为他是一个差生、坏孩子，那么就等于给这个孩子贴上了一个标签，使得其周围的孩子都会认同这种标签，而这个孩子本身也会在不知不觉中逐渐的把自己当做一个‘差生’和‘坏孩子’，认同这种观点，确认自己是差生。”联正伟业管理咨询有限公司首席顾问杨虎在接受本报记者采访时这样表示：“所以我认为，前几年网民们给90后贴上的种种标签，例如‘非主流’、‘脑残’等标签，其影响非常恶劣，这可能会毁了一代人。”

“Give a simple example，In the first grade of primary school students，If the teacher thinks that he is a way out、Bad boy，So is to give the child with a tag，So that the child would agree with this around the label，And the child itself also can be in imperceptible in gradually put himself as a‘difference’and‘Bad boy’，Agree with this point of view，Confirming that he is a way out。”United are weiye management consulting Co., LTD YangHu chief adviser in accepting our newspaper reporter to interview say：“So I think，A few years ago to 90 Internet users with various labels the after，For example‘non-mainstream’、‘Brain damage’Labels such as，The effect is very bad，This may be destroyed for a generation。”

　　一个显见的例证，是近年来离婚率的逐渐走高，随着这种离婚率的走高，越来越多的人们也开始觉得，离婚并不是什么大不了的事儿：“我们可以想象一下，在50后，60后那一代人看来，离婚是一件非常丢人的事儿，整个社会的环境就是这样的，所以他们一般不会选择离婚。但是近年来各种新闻报道在不断渲染离婚率升高，反而给人们一种感觉，即离婚也没什么大不了的。长此以往就形成了恶性循环，离婚率肯定会升高。”

An example of it，In recent years, the divorce rate is higher，With the high divorce rate of walk，More and more people are beginning to think，Divorce is not a big business：“We can imagine，After 50，After 60's generation looks，Divorce is a very ashamed about，The whole social environment is so，So they generally will not choose divorce。But in recent years, all kinds of news reports in the rising divorce rate continuously rendering，But to give people a feeling，Divorce is also no big deal。In the long run will form a vicious circle，The divorce rate will rise。”

　　与杨虎看法相同的还有《治愈系心理学》一书的职场作家张然，作为一名职场心理学研究者，在张然看来，这种标签化的一大恶果，就是让人们无法一分为二的去看待90后：“其实哪一个时代的人，都有自己的问题，当年80后走上社会之前，社会对他们的标签也不好，认为他们是‘抱大的一代’、‘垮掉的一代’，但是其实现在看看，很多80后生活的非常好，事业有成。”

And YangHu view the same also《Cure is psychology》The book writer ZhangRan workplace，As a workplace psychology researcher，In ZhangRan seems，This kind of a bad effects of the label，That people can't split into two to look at after 90：“Actually which a time，All have their own problems，That year after 80 on social before，To their social tag has bad，Think they are‘Embrace a generation’、‘Collapse generation’，But in fact now see，A lot of life after 80 is very good，successful。”

　　如果在网上搜索一下或许我们会发现，其实很多90后都有着自己优秀的品质，或许他们的一些观点与社会有些格格不入，但是这并不代表他们真的就是“脑残”、“非主流”。当90后学警李博亚义无反顾地跳下列车去挽救自杀者的性命时，他已经让很多网民转变了对90后的看法。

If the search the Internet maybe we will find，In fact many after 90 has excellent quality，Perhaps some of their ideas and social some antipathetic，But this does not mean that they really is“Brain damage”、“non-mainstream”。When 90 XueJing after LiBoYa boldly jumped off the train to save the life of committing suicide，He had let many Internet users to change after 90 views。