这段微博对话，短短几天被转发了近3万次，尽管部分网友认为有炒作嫌疑，但很多90后的年轻网友直呼“太有共鸣了”，也表示担心父母正潜伏在微博上偷窥自己的动态，感到很不自在。

This period of micro bo dialogue,Within a few days by forwarding nearly 30000 times,Although part of the net friend think there are media suspicion,But a lot of 90 young net friend call"Too have resonance the",Also worried about parents are latent in micro blog peep own dynamic,Feel very uncomfortable.

学生：四成担心父母“悄悄关注” students:Parents worry about forty percent"Silently concern"

　　昨日，记者在长沙的部分中学和大学采访时，30%的学生称，自己的微博被父母关注，不敢畅所欲言，有人因此换微博账号躲避父母的“监视”；四成被采访的学生表示，不确定父母玩不玩微博，还是担心自己的微博被父母“悄悄关注”。

yesterday,Reporter in changsha part of an interview with high school and college,30% of the students said,His own micro bo be parents concern,Dare not speak out,Someone so in micro bo account from their parents"monitoring";Forty percent of the students interviewed said,Not sure parents play don't play micro bo,Still worried about their own micro bo by parents"Silently concern".

　　“90后伤不起啊，60后的父母太精了。”大二学生小莉说，他们这一代人的父母都挺“潮”的，QQ、微博都玩得很溜，妈妈不但会看她的每一条微博，还查看好友的评论，甚至她的粉丝和关注的人的微博，妈妈都会经常查看。“一回家，老妈就拿我开涮，哪个男生在我微博上留言多，肯定被妈妈误以为是我男朋友，还帮我分析这男孩的优缺点。”小莉有点受不了妈妈的干涉。

"After 90 injury not ah,After 60 parents too essence of life."Sophomore small li said,They generation parents are pretty"tide"of,QQ/Micro bo all had a slip,Mother will not only look at her each micro bo,Also see friends comments,Even her fans and the attention of micro bo,Mother often view."A home,Mom took me KaiShuan,Which boy in my blog more micro message,Must be mother mistake is my boyfriend,Also help me to analyze the advantages and disadvantages of the boy."Small li a bit can't stand my mother's interference.

　　初二学生小夏正处在“叛逆期”，很喜欢在微博里吐槽父母和老师。他说他的微博从来没告诉过父母，但有一次妈妈流露出一些他在微博上写的内容。一听就知道，肯定是自己的微博被他妈妈发现了，后来一番追问才知道，妈妈是通过同学知道了他的微博，并“悄悄关注”了他。所谓“悄悄关注”，就是关注人能看到被关注人的微博，被关注人的粉丝里却找不到关注人。小夏很不开心，火速注册了一个小号，把微博上吐槽学校和老师以及与同学之间一些大胆的玩笑话统统删除了，还删除一切在家上网的痕迹。

There XiaoXia students is in"Rebellious period",Like in micro bo spit tank parents and teachers.He said his micro bo never told my parents,But there is a mother reveal some he in micro bo top write of content.To know,Must be his own micro bo was his mother found,Then a cross-examine didn't know,Mother is through the students know his micro bo,and"Silently concern"his.The so-called"Silently concern",Concerns that people can see be pay more attention to person's micro bo,Be pay more attention to person's fans but can't find pay more attention to person.XiaoXia very unhappy,Speeding registered a trumpet,On the micro bo spit tank school and teachers and students between some bold teaser all deleted,Also remove all traces of the Internet at home.

家长：与孩子交流难只好关注其微博 parents:And children exchange difficult to have to pay close attention to its micro bo

　　“孩子长大了，很多事情不愿意和父母沟通，只好通过微博看看他在想什么。”家长冯先生说，读高中的儿子不愿把微博账号告诉他，前段时间，他在家里的电脑上发现了儿子已登录的微博网址。为了不惊动儿子，冯先生选择了“悄悄关注”，“我只想了解一下他的动态，只要他做事不出格，就不会干涉。”

"Children grow up,A lot of things is not willing to communicate with their parents,Have to through the micro bo see what was he thinking."Parents say Mr,The son of high school to the micro bo account told him,Some time ago,He at home computer has found the son already logged in micro bo site.In order not to disturb son,Fung chose"Silently concern","I just want to know what his dynamic,As long as he do it is in good taste,Do not interfere with."

　　自从女儿小琳去外地读大学，黄女士专门申请了微博账号，就为了看女儿的微博，只要小琳发一点小牢骚，就忍不住打电话嘘寒问暖。后来，小琳在微博中表示，妈妈的过度关注，让她“既温暖又倍感压力”。黄女士试着改变，在自己的微博上发一些时尚的内容，写写家里的情况，渐渐和孩子在微博上有了朋友般的交流，一些面对面说不出口的话也会在微博上相互@。

Since daughter small elim go abroad to read university,Ms wong special applied for micro bo account,Just to see her daughter's micro bo,As long as the little elim hair a little beef,Can not but make a phone call to be caring and attentive.later,Small elim in micro bo said,Mother's excessive attention,Let her"Both warm and feel more pressure".Ms wong try to change,In their own small bo on hair some fashionable content,Write about at home,Gradually and children in micro bo have made a friend of the communication,Some talk face to face not export words will also in micro bo mutually @.

专家：关注孩子微博最好先沟通 experts:Pay attention to children micro bo had better communication

　　长沙市心理学会心理学专家刘立京说，从日记本到QQ和微博，父母和孩子之间想了解与反了解的冲突一直存在。进入青春期以后，年轻人强调自我意识，更喜欢与同龄人分享，有些事不愿告诉父母，但不代表刻意隐瞒；而中国的父母往往希望全方位地关注子女，随着生活节奏越来越快，家庭成员之间沟通越来越少，父母越容易把了解孩子的途径寄托在微博上。但家长通过“潜伏”的方式偷看，甚至进行干涉并不可取，反而会引起孩子的反感。

Changsha psychological society psychology experts LiuLiJing said,From the diary to QQ and micro bo,Between parents and children want to know and reverse know there has been conflict.After puberty,Young people emphasize self consciousness,Prefer to share with their peers,Some things don't want to tell his parents,But do not represent deliberately hide;While Chinese parents often hope all-round attention to their children,With the pace of life more and more quickly,Between family members communicate less and less,The easier it is to understand the parents of children on the way in micro bo.But parents through the"latent"Way peek,Even interference is not recommended,It will lead the child's antipathy.

　　“关注孩子的微博，最好事先进行沟通。”刘立京建议，随着孩子长大，家长在与孩子相处的方式方面需要调整，少以家长的身份去干预和改变孩子，多以朋友的身份进行沟通。记者 彭放 实习生 侯新萍

"Pay attention to children's micro bo,The best communication in advance."LiuLiJing Suggestions,As children grow up,Parents and children get along with ways need to adjust,Less to the identity of the parents to intervention and change the child,Many friends with the identity of the communication.Reporter PengFang interns HouXinPing