“裸跑弟”走红一年后，也许更值得关注 "Naked run brother"Popular a year later,Perhaps more worthy of attention

　　

“鹰爸”真实的教育实验 "Eagle dad"True education experiment

　　1月2日中午12点，南京新街口地铁，一位留着“小兵张嘎”头、不足5岁的小男孩，拉住一位路人：“阿姨，买份报吧！今天新闻可不少，不能闯黄灯啦……”下午2点，又冷又饿的他，小乞丐般接过爸爸递来的半个馒头和一瓶矿泉水，狼吞虎咽。

On January 2, at 12 at noon,Nanjing new street subway,Keep a"Dogface ZhangGa"head/Less than 5 years old boy,Took a passer-by:"aunt,Buy a newspaper,!Today many news,Can't rush yellow light la……"2 PM,Cold and hungry he,The little beggar, received the father to pass of half a steamed bread and a bottle of mineral water,gobble.

　　这小男孩，便是去年因一段在零下13摄氏度的雪地中裸跑的视频而出名的“裸跑弟”多多，他的爸爸，正是“严酷”训练儿子而被网友所称的“鹰爸”。“鹰爸”说，卖报，是自己鹰式教育法中的“财商”训练。

The little boy,Last year is for a period of 13 degrees Celsius below zero in the snow naked run video and famous"Naked run brother"of,His father,It is"harsh"Training son be net friend ""Eagle dad"."Eagle dad"said,Newsmen also bring colors,Is his own 6-under the education law"Money business"training.

　　过去一年中，和“裸跑弟”相关的新闻条条弹眼落睛：8月16日，参加青岛OP级帆船赛，成为世界年龄最小的国际帆船比赛选手；10月3日，在爸爸的陪同下，勇登日本富士山，拉出一条横幅：“钓鱼岛属中国，我要登岛去钓鱼”……

The past year,and"Naked run brother"Related news every play eyes in the program:On August 16,,Participate in Qingdao OP level programme,To become the world's youngest international sailing game player;October 3,,In the father, accompanied by,Yong climb Mount Fuji, Japan,Pull out a banner:"Diaoyu islands belong to China,I'm going to an island to go fishing"……

　　“鹰爸”不断炒作？质疑从未停止。然而，当记者走近“鹰爸”父子几天的日常生活时，“鹰爸”由衷地说：“媒体能不能不要老盯着那些奇怪好玩的，而是全面关注下我的教育探索？”

"Eagle dad"Constantly hype?Question never stop.however,When the reporter approached"Eagle dad"Father and son of everyday life in a few days,"Eagle dad"Sincerely said:"The media can not old stare at those strange fun,But overall focus on my education to explore?"

　　当前多多的另一身份，是南京市中小学生学习力研训中心的研究对象，采用了全市独一无二的上学方式，中心主任谷力说：“多多注定要一直当个特殊的孩子。无论探索成功与否，都会给后来者启示。”

The current status of another,Nanjing is the primary and middle school students' learning ability YanXun center object of study,Adopted the unique way to school,GuLi, director of the center said:"Many are doomed to always be a special children.No matter exploration success,Who can give enlightenment."

　　

最近一次数学测验，多多考了61分 Recently a mathematics test,Test of 61 points

　　对于这个成绩，“鹰爸”说自己很满意，特意带多多去了一趟肯德基，尽管他实在搞不懂“肯德基对孩子怎么如此有魔力”，尽管认为“小孩不能吃垃圾食品”，还是让多多吃了土豆泥，“只因为孩子喜欢”。

For this achievement,"Eagle dad"Said he was satisfied,Especially with great to go to KFC,Although he really don't understand"Kentucky Fried chicken to how the child so magic",Despite claims that"The child can't eat junk food",Let many eat mashed potatoes,"Just because children like".

　　鹰爸名叫何烈胜，是一位拥有十几亿元规模生意的企业经营者，曾当过10年教师。说话时，脸上带着温和的笑，口气却十分坚定。

Eagle dad called HeLie wins,Is a has more than yuan scale business enterprise operators,He worked as teacher ten years.speak,Face with a gentle smile,Tone is very firm.

　　去年2月，在一片质疑声中，鹰爸让只有4岁的多多成了小学一年级旁听生。今年9月，在南京市中小学生学习力研训中心的专家等建议下，对多多采用了全市独一无二的 “教育方式”上午上小学二年级，下午上幼儿园大班。

Last February,In a question in the sound,Eagle dad let only 4 years old was more a first-grade auditor.September this year,In nanjing primary and middle school students learning ability YanXun central expert advice, etc,Many of the unique in the city "Education mode"Morning in the second grade,Afternoon class in the kindergarten.

　　谷力解释，这是为了避免出现中科大少年班曾经遇到的问题：一群只有十三四岁的高智商少年上了大学，但情商并没有得到很好发展，导致进入社会后出现了问题。希望多多获取一种平衡方式，既可以让智力发展水平较好的他早些学习文化课，又可以在和同龄伙伴的交往中更快乐地成长。

GuLi explain,This is to avoid the problem of ZhongKeDa ShaoNianBan once:A group of 13 or 14 only high intelligence quotient (IQ) young went to college,But emotion quotient (eq) and not to obtain the very good development,Lead to enter the society after the problem.Hope to get a more balanced way,Can let the intelligence development level is good he early learning literacy class,And with their peers in the partner relationship more grow up happily.

　　研训中心曾用8岁孩子的智力量表对4岁多的多多做过测试，在最高成绩135分的情况下，多多得了128分。这意味着，多多的确智力超群。

YanXun center used eight years old children's intelligence scale for more than 4 years of doing the test,At the highest score of 135 points,Many got 128 points.This means that,Great indeed has a brilliant mind.

　　在那张得61分的考卷中，有这样一题：一堆箱子的总体积是30立方米，每个箱子是6立方米，请问有几个箱子？

In that piece of 61 points in the test,There is a problem:A pile of boxes overall product is 30 cubic meters,Each box is 6 cubic meters,Do you have a few boxes?

　　多多在题目下方写：6×5=30，换来一个大大的叉号。

In the subject of written below:6 x 5 = 30,For a big fork number.

　　他认真地抄上正确答案：30÷6=5。

He seriously copy the correct answer:30 ÷ 6 = 5.

　　问他懂了吗？他挠挠腮，笑嘻嘻：“之前就知道，写错了。”

Ask him got it?Nao nao his cheek,Smile happily:"Before they know,Write wrong."

　　鹰爸说，如果考试时老师用口语将题目解释一遍，他的正确率就会高很多，能超过90分。只是到了二年级，老师就不再采用这种针对一年级学生的考试方式了。

Eagle dad said,If the test, the teacher with spoken English topic will explain it again,He accuracy will be much higher,More than 90 points.It is only the second grade,The teacher will no longer use this for a grade student test way.

　　数学老师发现，多多的口算能力在班上都是领先的，就是考试时在一些题目的理解上，会有些问题。即便这样，她还是给多多爸爸打了电话：“孩子进步了，不容易，要表扬他一下！”

Mathematics teacher found,In the class of oral arithmetic ability is leading,Is when the exam in some topics on understanding,Have some problems.Even if such,She still give great father telephoned:"The child progress,Not easy to,Praise him up!"

　　多多现在班上成绩属于中下等，1米14的个子，在一群普遍1米3—1米4的8岁孩子中，只到别人肩膀。

Many now belongs to ZhongXiaDeng in her class,1 meter tall 14,In a group of common 1 m 3-4 1 meter of eight years old children,Only to others shoulder.

　　排队时，他铁定站在最后，小小的个子，始终一张笑脸。

line,He will be standing in the final,Small is,Always a smiling face.

　　

什么是鹰式教育 What is a 6-under education

　　“鹰爸”解释，当幼鹰长到足够大的时候，老鹰会狠心把它赶下山崖。当幼鹰往谷底下坠时，会拼命拍打翅膀阻止自己继续下坠，同时也掌握了基本的飞翔本领。要说鹰式教育的极端，则体现在对“断崖”环境的塑造和选择，更体现在家长内心的忍耐和对孩子所谓痛苦的承受。但遵从孩子内心诉求，从不采取暴力。

"Eagle dad"explain,When the young eagle long enough to big time,The eagle will be cruel cast it down the steep bank.When the young eagle bottom to fall,Will try very hard to beat their wings to prevent them from continue to drop,At the same time also mastered the basic skills to fly.Say 6-under education of extreme,Is reflected in the"bluff"Environment of the shaping and choice,More reflected in the heart of the parents to the child the patience and bear the pain.But follow the child heart appeals,Never resort to violence.

　　“这仅是核心。鹰式教育包含了健商、智商、情商、财商、德商、逆商、胆商的‘七商’训练，内容丰富。比如德商，又有孝顺、爱心、尊重、正直和宽容训练。”

"This is just the core.6-under education includes health quotient/Intelligence quotient (IQ)/Emotion quotient (eq)/Money business/DE business/Inverse business/Bravery business‘Seven business’training,Rich in content.Such as German business,And filial piety/love/respect/Integrity and tolerance training."

　　“鹰爸”最看不惯的，是总把孩子抱在手里的“熊爸”，“如果我的教育方式传播出去，让10%的家长对孩子严格一点，10%的家长溺爱少一点，能影响到20%的人，‘抛砖引玉’的目的就达到了”。

"Eagle dad"The most can't bear to see the,The baby is always in the hand"Bear daddy","If my education mode spread out,Make 10% of the parents to the child a little strict,10% of parents dote on a bit less,Can affect 20% of the people,‘something’Purpose to reach".

　　他多次参与抗震救灾和其他慈善事业，捐款超过千万元。但现在觉得，传播自己的教育理念，是更有意义的“教育慈善”。

He repeatedly involved in the earthquake relief and other charities,Donation of more than ten million yuan.But now feel,Spread their education concept,Is more significant"Education charity".

　　然而，网上的质疑甚至辱骂声，远超过了对他的支持赞赏声。

however,The question or even abusive,Far more than the praise of his support sound.

　　有网友直接在微博上骂他“脑残”，鹰爸也不删帖。他说，我的尝试本来就有争议。争议越大，对现有教育理念的影响冲击越大。很多批评出发点是好的，大家关心我儿子，我要感谢。这些批评也像一面镜子，让我反思自己的方式不成熟的地方。

Netizens directly in micro blog scold him"Brain damage",Eagle dad also don't delete.He said,I attempt was controversial.The dispute,The influence of the existing education idea the impact.A lot of criticism starting point is good,We care about my son,I want to thank.These criticisms are like a mirror,Let me reflect on their way to immature place.

　　对质疑最多的“狠心”，鹰爸反问：“哪个父亲不心疼儿子？更何况我41岁得子，孩子是一出生就被判为可能‘脑瘫’的早产儿？正因为此，我必须锻炼他的身体、磨练他的意志、培育他的心智。我的狠，在于让他穿上溜冰鞋、让他登上帆船那一刻的松手，为他创造鹰式教育环境。”

Most of the questions"cruel",Eagle dad ask:"Which father doesn't love son?Besides I have 41 years old son,The child is born was convicted of may‘Cerebral palsy’Premature infants?Because of this,I have to exercise his body/Hone his will/Cultivate his mind.My firm,Is to let him put on skates/Let him on sailing at that moment let go of,For his creation of 6-under education environment."

　　现在回想那段网上走红的雪地跑步视频，他说是偶然中的必然。“多多从保育箱中抱出来第10天，我就坚持让孩子游泳，水温控制在25摄氏度。多多两岁时，就跟着我爬紫金山，累了就歇一歇，自己坚持爬到山顶。我每天还陪他进行其他训练，诸如3公里快走慢跑，练习滑轮车、自行车、武术……估计不少上网都要红。”

Now looking back that online rising snow running video,He says it is necessary in the accident."Many from an incubator to hold out in 10 days,I will insist that their children to swim,Temperature control in 25 degrees Celsius.More two years old,Just follow me climb purple mountain,The tired stop for a while,To stick to climb to the top of the mountain.Every day I also accompany him in other training,Such as 3 kilometers go jogging,Practice HuaLunChe/bicycle/Martial arts……Estimate the Internet a lot to red."

　　5岁的多多，体质已很好，长这么大，没再进过医院。

5 years of,Constitution has very good,So long big,Didn't went to the hospital.

　　学这么多吃得消？“鹰爸”说，孩子4岁前，兴趣没真正形成，多种尝试是为了综合训练孩子的大脑和身体。能坚持，说明他有兴趣能适应。

Learn so many be able to stand?"Eagle dad"said,The child before the age of 4,No real interest in formation,A variety of try to comprehensive training children's brain and body.Can adhere to the,Shows that he is interested in can adapt.

　　“鹰爸”希望，儿子以后成为这样一个人：拥有健康的身体，宁静的心灵，和谐的人际关系，实现有价值的人生目标和财富自由。

"Eagle dad"hope,After the son become such a person:Have a healthy body,Quiet heart,Harmonious interpersonal relationships,Realization of a value goal in life and wealth free.

　　

多多是个活泼的男孩 Many a lively boy

　　他见人不怕生，会很有礼貌地打招呼，然后拉着你玩。

He saw people don't be shy with strangers,Will be very polite to say "hello",Then took you play.

　　第一次去他家里采访，他踩着小凳去拿饼干。然后，逐一分给大家，最后才给自己。

First go to his home interview,He stepped a small stool to take cookies.then,Shared by,Finally give yourself.

　　他想看动画片，让记者抱着他摁电视顶端的开关，然后指指身边一张椅子：“阿姨，你坐这儿吧。我可以一边看电视，一边回答你的问题。”

He wants to see animation,Let the reporters embrace him press the TV at the top of the switch,Then gestured to the side a chair:"aunt,You sit here.I can watch TV,Side to answer your question."

　　“你最喜欢做什么？”“玩。”

"What do you enjoy doing the most?""play."

　　“你喜欢上小学还是幼儿园？”“幼儿园。”

"Do you like elementary school or kindergarten?""kindergarten."

　　“爸爸让你在雪地上跑步，你冷不冷？”“阿姨你说冷不冷？”

"Dad wants you to run in the snow,You cold not cold?""Aunt you cold not cold?"

　　“你知道去爬富士山是为了什么吗？”“锻炼身体！我以前就爬紫金山的。你可以去看网上那段视频。”

"You know go to climb Mount Fuji is for the sake of what?""exercise!I've climbed the purple mountain.You can go to see that video online."

　　“你元旦去卖报感觉怎么样？”“累死了。你要买份报吗？一块钱一份。”

"Your New Year's day to newsmen also bring colors feel?""Dead tired.Do you want to buy a newspaper?A dollar a."

　　再问就不回答了，全神贯注地进入了动画片世界。

Ask is not the answer,Whole-heartedly into the animation world.

　　看完后，他就在屋里跑个不停，因为学了“跆拳道”，还拉着人要“比武”。

After watching the,He is running around in the house,Because learned"Tae kwon do",Also took the man to"mock".

　　第二次见他，是学校组织的游泳比赛现场。

The second time I saw him,Is the school organization the swimming competition.

　　换泳衣时，小小的他最后一个才出来，显得安静了许多，原来一件泳衣怎么也找不到了，只得勉强套上一条大点的。

In the suit,Small he the last one to come out,Appear quiet a lot,Originally a swimsuit how to also can not find,Had to reluctantly put on a big point.

　　比赛项目是25米自由泳，手扶气垫，双腿打水。也许情绪受到影响，第一回，多多落在了后面。只见他抿着嘴，眼含泪花，问教练“还要游几圈”，第二回，就游在了中间。

Event is 25 meters freestyle,Walking air cushion,Legs to draw water.Perhaps mood affected,For the first time,Many left behind.See his sip the mouth,Eye restraining tears flower,Ask the coach"And swam laps",The second time,Will swim in the middle.

　　之后，出乎意料的事发生了，多多居然主动提出还要游。就见空旷的泳道上，一个孤单小身影，足足游了4个来回。

after,Unexpected happened,Many actually offered to swim.He found an empty on the lane,A lonely little figure,Fully swim four back and forth.

　　班主任吴老师说，多多在5岁同龄孩子中是超群的，自理能力很强，注意力集中，能基本跟上8岁孩子的文化课进度不容易，和班上同学相处也不错，一些懂事的女孩还会照顾他，就是小手写字速度慢，作业考试会比较吃亏。

The teacher in charge teacher wu said,In 5 years of age in children is superior,Self-care ability,concentration,To keep up with the basic eight years old children's literacy class schedule is not easy,And the class get along well,Some sensible girl will take care of him,Is the hand writing speed slow,Homework is a test.

　　临走时，多多用力抱住吴老师，亲昵地靠了靠。

When he,Great force hold Mr Wu,Intimacy to depend on.

　　

“鹰爸”这一年挺纠结 "Eagle dad"This year's ravel

　　说起网上流传的那篇 《开学一月摧毁六年教育观》，“鹰爸”叹了口气：“我太赞同了。”

Speaking of online popular the article [On January destroyed six years of education],"Eagle dad"sighed:"I am too agree with the."

　　在“鹰爸”的观念里，学习成绩不名列前茅，一点关系也没有，哪怕只有六七十分，但孩子的综合素质高更重要，“我不是培养应试的精英”。

in"Eagle dad"idea,Study result not placed,Not a bit of it,Even if only six or seven very,But the child's comprehensive quality is more important,"I am not culture takes an exam the elite".

　　然而他发现，尽管和其他学校相比，这所国际学校已相当重视综合素质教育，但在大环境的影响下，孩子们还是不得不应付各种考试卷。

However, he found that,Although compared with other schools,The international school has importance of comprehensive quality education,But under the influence of the environment,The children had to deal with all kinds of test paper.

　　更让他困惑的是标准答案。“有道很复杂的数学题，多多用珠心算很快就算出了答案，可因为他没有列算式，一分没得到。”

More let he confused is a standard answer."Youdao very complicated math problem,Many use pearl mental arithmetic soon to figure out the answer,But because he is not listed formula,Didn't get a point."

　　“有的题目列方程很容易算出来，孩子很快能学会，但考试要求一定要用规定的方法，有这个必要吗？”

"Some of the topics listed equation is easy to work out,Children can learn quickly,But examination requirements must use the method of provisions,Have the necessary?"

　　“有些知识要反复学好多遍，浪费时间。孩子有这个时间，不如进行‘七商’训练。”

"Some knowledge to learn many times repeatedly,Waste of time.Children have the time,As to‘Seven business’training."

　　“有时候我真怕，这种方式对多多这样的孩子杀伤力更强，禁锢他的思维。”

"Sometimes I'm afraid,In this way many such children lethality stronger,Imprison his thinking."

　　另一方面，他又有些理解：“毕竟学校是大众化教育，要兼顾大家。当前中国最公平的依然是考试。分数面前人人平等。”

On the other hand,He and some understanding:"After all school is popular education,To give you.The current China's most fair is still test.Everyone is equal before marks."

　　他说：“有朋友向我建议，能不能组织一个针对孩子的教育培训机构？可惜我没有时间。”

He said:"Has a friend to my suggestion,Can you organize a for children's education training institutions?But I have no time."

　　“鹰爸”现在的想法，依然是让多多继续上学，哪怕成绩勉强跟上，也是知识熏陶和体验，而幼儿园里的玩耍，是为了与同龄伙伴的心灵沟通。

"Eagle dad"Now the idea,Is still a lot to continue to go to school,Even if the result barely keep up with,Knowledge is Shared and experience,In the kindergarten and play,In order to and playmates heart communication.

　　按专家建议的模式，以后的多多会继续小学高年级和低年级同时学，然后初中和小学高年级同时学……

According to the mode of expert advice,After the great will continue to the elementary school higher grades and lower grade at the same time to learn,Then the junior middle school and primary school senior at the same time to learn……

　　“我强烈呼吁，国家应更加重视智力超前孩子的精英教育。我没说让多多10岁上清华，但觉得按照我的教育方式，小学课程一年能学完，初中高中三四年能学完。”

"I strongly called for,Countries should pay more attention to intellectual lead children's elite education.I didn't say to 10 years of tsinghua,But think according to my education mode,Primary school curriculum a year to finish,Junior middle school high school three or four years to finish."

　　多多幼儿园的孟老师，则对这样一件事印象深刻：“有天上午，幼儿园安排孩子去郊外采摘棉花，偏偏多多的小学上午有场考试。最终，家里人选择送多多来参加野外活动，放弃了那次考试。”

Many kindergarten teacher meng,For such a thing is impressive:"One day morning,Kindergartens for children to go to the suburb picking cotton,Are many elementary school in the morning is field test.finally,Choice of family sent to participate in outdoor sports,Give up the examination."

　　孟老师记得，那天的多多，充满好奇，特别开心……

Meng teacher remember,The day of,curious,So happy……

　　

采访当天，“鹰爸”与妻子又吵了一架 Interview that day,"Eagle dad"And with his wife had a quarrel

　　“鹰爸”的另一个烦恼，来自妻子和家人与他教育观念的冲突。

"Eagle dad"Another trouble,From his wife and family and he education idea of conflict.

　　“我和妻子吵架99%是为了孩子，观念几乎天壤之别，到了差点要离婚的地步！”

"My wife and I quarrel 99% is for the children,Ideas almost a world of difference,The almost to the point of divorce!"

　　为了增强多多的体质，“鹰爸”在家严格规定：孩子的冬天衣服不超过3件。而妻子怕孩子冷，给他穿了保暖内衣、棉衬衫、毛衣，外加一件棉袄。采访那天晚上，“鹰爸”带多多一进饭店，发现他已满头大汗。

In order to enhance of constitution,"Eagle dad"Strict rules at home:The child's winter clothes not more than 3 pieces.And his wife fear the child cold,Give him through the thermal underwear/Cotton shirt/sweater,Plus a quilted jacket.Interview that night,"Eagle dad"Take a more into the hotel,That he has full head big sweat.

　　“鹰爸”说，妻子在女性中算得上十分温柔，娇惯孩子，让自己的理念无法完全施展。“连我让孩子使用筷子，锻炼他的手指和大脑，也被家里人常给他勺子而破坏。难道，用个筷子也会伤害他吗？”

"Eagle dad"said,His wife in women is very gentle,Spoil the child,Let his own ideas can't fully display."Even I let the children use chopsticks,Exercise his fingers and brain,Also be the family often gave him the spoon and destruction.Don't,Use a chopsticks will hurt him?"

　　然而，“鹰妈”也委屈。“他的教育理念不错，就是对孩子要求太超前、太严格了！”她说着摇起头。

however,"Eagle mother"Also injustice."His education idea is good,Is the child request too advanced/Too strict!"She said the first wave.

　　她说，雪地跑步那次，自己就在边上却没法阻止，因为挡15秒，他爸就会让孩子在雪地里多站15秒，孩子更遭罪！不如喊着“多多加油”让他跑完算了。

She said,Snow running the,Yourself on the side, but can't stop,Because in 15 seconds,His father will let the child in the snow multistation 15 seconds,Children suffer more!Cried out as"Try harder"Let him run well.

　　提到多多训练帆船，也让“鹰妈”心疼得要命。原本，学校每周一次帆船训练课。但多多太小，教练开始不让他独自驾船。“鹰爸”倔劲上来了，说你给他条船自己驾，我在边上看着负责，第一次开了半小时，第二次就加到一小时。这不算，“鹰爸”还给多多加了一对一小课，暑假别人都休息的时候，让他每天头顶烈日训练一个多小时。

Many training mentioned sailing,Also let"Eagle mother"Love dearly to death.originally,School once a week sailing training session.But too many,The coach began to don't let him alone to sail a boat."Eagle dad"Stubborn strength came up,Say you to his boat his coming,I look on the side is responsible for,The first open for half an hour,The second is added to an hour.It's not,"Eagle dad"Back to greatly the one-on-one small class,Summer vacation the other people all the rest of the time,Let every day he heads the training more than an hour.

　　尽管防晒霜已涂得像京剧脸谱，多多还是不可避免被晒伤了，他的皮肤出现了红疹。用多多的话说：“我从喜羊羊变成了灰太狼，又变成了黑猫警长！”但在医院确定无碍后，“鹰爸”继续横下一条心：“练！”

Although sunscreen has coat like Peking Opera styles of makeup,Many still do not avoid the sunburn,His skin appeared red rash.With many words:"I'm from pleasant goat into grey too Wolf,And into the black cat sheriff!"But in the hospital after determine clear,"Eagle dad"Continue to cross the bodies:"practice!"

　　此间，“鹰妈”多次和“鹰爸”吵架，没少为孩子流泪，但没有任何效果。8月，多多参加青岛OP级帆船赛拿了奖，之后，秋冬天坚持训练，一课不落。

here,"Eagle mother"Many times and"Eagle dad"quarrel,No less for children tears,But don't have any effect.August,In Qingdao of OP level sailing competition took prize,after,Qiu dong the day adhere to the training,A class does not fall.

　　帆船教练夏冰雨说，“鹰爸”是所见过的做事最持之以恒的家长。

Sailing XiaBingYu coach said,"Eagle dad"Is seen most persistent work of parents.

　　对妻子和自己的分歧，“鹰爸”说，好比一个球，我在前面打气，她在后面泄气，球的形状没那么好了，但好歹也算是个球吧。

To his wife and their differences,"Eagle dad"said,Is like a ball,I cheer in front,She behind discouraged,The shape of the ball is not so good,But somehow also a ball.

　　记者观察，多多的确在妈妈面前“不那么听话”。那天，妈妈正在开车，他坐后面玩手机，妈妈数着“一二三把手机给我”，他就是不放，妈妈无奈重新数起。

Reporter observed,Great indeed in front of mom"Not so good".That day,Mother is driving,He sat behind cellphone,Mother counted"YiErSanBa mobile phone to me",He is not to put,Mother but to several.

　　“多多，你恨爸爸吗？”“恨过”

"of,You hate my father??""hate"

　　随后，小家伙立刻对记者“警觉”起来：“你会忘记这话吧。”

then,Little one immediately to reporters"alert"up:"You will forget this it."

　　“鹰爸”听说后，笑笑：“小孩的爱和恨其实很模糊。”他说起自己的亲身经历。他六七岁的时候，曾经有一年被寄养在亲戚家，亲戚对他的严格训练超乎想象：每天雷打不动地早上6点晨跑、练珠算、写大字、画画。“当时觉得好累，对亲戚恨得要命。可我成年以后，最感激这位亲戚。晨跑锻炼体质，珠算训练大脑，写大字训练注意力。我能取得今天的成绩，那段经历让我受益无穷！”

"Eagle dad"After heard that,smile:"Children's love and hate actually very fuzzy."He talked about his experience.He is six or seven years old,Once a year in the city,Relatives of his strict training beyond imagination:Every unshakable 6 a.m. in the morning run/Practice abacus/Write characters/drawing."Felt so tired,Hate to death for relatives.But I as adults,The most grateful to the relatives.Running in the morning exercise constitution,Abacus brain training,Write top training attention.Can I get today's achievement,That experience let me benefit!"

　　“鹰爸”为多多制定的未来规划，是当一名企业家。

"Eagle dad"As for the future of planning,Is when an entrepreneur.

　　这一点，似乎得到了孩子的认同。问起“长大后想做什么”，多多说：“当企业家，赚很多钱，还能帮别人。”

this,Seems to get the child's identity.asked"Want to be when he grows up??????",Said a lot:"When the entrepreneurs,Make a lot of money,Can also help others."

　　“鹰爸”已为此做了很多准备。比如这次街头卖报。他拿出一本记账本，上面清楚地记录着：每份报纸，价格1元，成本0.7元，利润0.3元，一共100份，利润30元。

"Eagle dad"Has to do a lot of preparation.Such as the street newsmen also bring colors.He took out a pocket book,It clearly record:Each newspaper,Price $1,Cost 0.7 yuan,Profit of 0.3 yuan,A total of 100 copies,Profit 30 yuan.

　　“我不仅把账目写给多多看，还详细分析情况：同样在小区门口，下午比上午卖得好；同一时间，地铁口比小区卖得好；多多嘴甜一点比不说话卖得好，以此告诉他做生意需要天时、地利、人和。”

"I not only take account of to see,Also a detailed analysis of the situation:Also in the village,In the afternoon the morning than sell very well;The same time,Subway stations than district sell very well;More than a little sweet talk not sell very well,To tell his business need to days/Favorable location/and."

　　那天的另一个收获，是多多饿到两点才吃，让有时不好好吃饭的他知道“吃饭不容易”。

That's another harvest,Is more hungry to eat until two,Let sometimes don't eat well he know"Eat not easy to".

　　孩子对这些训练似懂非懂，只知皮毛，“鹰爸”不以为意：“知识需要传承，我现在教给他10句话，他能听懂一句，我就很满意了。广种薄收，潜移默化。”

Children begin to these training,Only superficial knowledge of,"Eagle dad"Care nothing for:"Knowledge requires inheritance,Now I teach him ten words,He can understand a word,I will be very satisfied.Extensive cultivation,leaven."

　　爬富士山那次，虽然多多到现在也说不出所谓“保钓”的含义，但他的意志力却让同去的23岁表姐大为惊讶：“15小时山路，海拔3000多米，我累得不想上去，多多居然边爬边为我鼓劲！”

Climb Mount Fuji the,Although many now also could not say the so-called"The fishing"meaning,But he will go but let the 23 years old cousin is surprised:"15 hours mountain road,At an altitude of more than 3000 meters,I'm too tired to don't want to go up,Many incredibly edge climb side for me encouragement!"

　　“鹰爸”想好了自己的角色定位：多多10岁之前，会严格按照我的规划行进，家长是教练；10岁到16岁，我作为参谋长，允许多多独立思想介入；16岁以后多多将以他的思想决定他的行为，我只是顾问；20岁以后，我成为观众，为他喝彩，为他疗伤。

"Eagle dad"To their own role:Before the age of ten more,I will be in strict accordance with the planning of travel,Parents is the coach;Ten years old to 16 years old,I, as chief of staff,Allow more independent thought intervention;After 16 years old of will to his thoughts to his behavior,I just consultant;After twenty years of age,I become the audience,cheering,For his healing.

　　随后，他有点痛心地提高了声调：“可惜很多家长搞反了。小时候放任不管，长大发现出问题了，再对孩子指手画脚！”

then,He's a little hurts to improve the tone of voice:"But many parents make inside out.Do it when I was a child,Grow up find out the problem,Again to have children!"

　　

“鹰爸”教育，可以复制吗 "Eagle dad"education,Can copy it

　　谷力说：“鹰爸为孩子花了那么多精力，十分执着，难能可贵。方法值得借鉴，但不适合每个孩子。”

GuLi said:"Eagle dad for children spend so much energy,Very persistent,commendable.Method is worth reference for,But not for every child."

　　根据谷力观察，多多是位机灵、话不多、动手能力强、擅长体育、注意力持久的孩子。在同龄孩子中，综合能力较高。目前特殊的教育方式，需在家长、学校和专家等各方有效配合下才能达到理想效果，切忌“以考分论英雄”。

According to the GuLi observation,Many is a clever/Few words/Beginning ability strong/Is good at sports/Attention lasting children.In the age of the child,Higher comprehensive ability.At present the special education mode,Need parents in/Schools and experts all parties with effective to achieve the ideal effect,Avoid by all means"To test scores of hero".

　　专家给“鹰爸”的建议是，争取发展孩子的独立兴趣。对孩子严格教育有助树立孩子的规则意识，但要避免孩子服从中埋下仇恨的种子。“让孩子感受到你的爱，比如当他完成任务后，抱抱他、亲亲他。”

Experts gave"Eagle dad"Suggestion is,For the development of children's independent interest.For children education helps children to set up strict rules consciousness,But to avoid children obey buried in the seeds of hatred."Let the child to feel your love,Such as when he after completion of a mission,Gave him a hug/Kiss his."

　　在家里，“鹰爸”让多多读一段课文，一直笑眯眯地看着他，之后爱抚地摸摸他的头。房间的墙壁上，一张拿破仑骑马的画，同样惹眼。

At home,"Eagle dad"Let more reading a text,Always smiling and looking at him,Then lovingly touch his head.On the walls of the room,A napoleon equestrian picture,Also had an enviable.

　　“鹰爸”说，自己也在摸索，战术上也许有失误，但战略正确。希望更多人有选择地参考，因为未来社会需要有毅力、能担当的人。他一位朋友受到启发，从以前天天汽车接送4岁孩子上幼儿园，到每天陪孩子走一小时，开始孩子不适应，现在孩子体质明显增强。

"Eagle dad"said,Himself in the dark,Tactics may have mistakes,But the right strategy.Hope more people selectively reference,Because the future society need to have perseverance/Who can bear.He inspired a friend,Every day from the former car shuttle 4 years old children in kindergarten,To walk an hour every day with their children,Children don't adapt to start,Now the child physical noticeably.

　　也有位邻居，想让孩子像多多一样，学习各种技能，可坚持几个月就不行了。“孩子坚持不了，90%以上是父母意志不坚定，心软。”“鹰爸”固执地认为，每位孩子都可以训练出来，“我儿子生下来被判可能脑瘫，哪有什么天赋？为什么帆船教练说他方向感好？因为我从小就对他进行前庭训练，在他荡秋千时用动感卡片给他识字，溜冰保持小脑平衡。为什么你觉得他有礼貌？因为他上幼儿园时，我就让他学会分享，常带吃的给别的小朋友，每天20分钟情商训练……”

Also a neighbor,Want to let the child as many as,Learn all kinds of skills,Can adhere to a few months can't."The child can't hold out much,More than 90% of the parents will not firm,softhearted.""Eagle dad"Thought that the,Every child can training out,"My son was born was sentenced to may cerebral palsy,What talent?Why sailing coach said his sense of direction?Because I grew up to vestibular training,In his play on a swing in the dynamic card to his literacy,Skating keep cerebellar balance.Why do you think he is polite?For him to go to kindergarten,I let him learn to share,Often brought food to other children,Every twenty minutes emotion quotient (eq) training……"

　　多多所在小学的外籍校长保罗认为：“每位父亲都有一套教育孩子的方法，哪种方法最好？适合自己孩子的最好。鹰爸没有触犯法律，通过挑战孩子体能极限的方式锻炼孩子的身体和意志，孩子也能坚持下来，就无可厚非。目前看来，多多性格也很阳光。”

In primary school of foreign President Paul think:"Every father has a set of education child's method,Which method best?The best for their children.Eagle dad did not violate the law,Through the challenge child physical limit way to train children's body and will,A child may persist,I will.Now it looks,Many character is also very sunshine."

　　保罗说，在欧洲，对孩子进行极寒训练、帆船运动，都很平常，但方法一定要讲究科学。可在中国，为什么很多父母那么舍不得孩子？也许，适度向“鹰爸”靠一靠，并非坏事。

Paul said,In Europe,Their children to be very cold training/sailing,Are very common,But must pay attention to scientific method.In China,Why so many parents to children?maybe,Moderate to"Eagle dad"On one by,Is not bad.

　　不过，他更希望包括“鹰爸”在内的家长都思考两个问题：“你的孩子开心吗？他是不是真正学会了做自己？”(记者 周楠)

but,He was more hope to include"Eagle dad"The parents are thinking, two questions:"Your child happy?Is he really learned to do yourself?"(Reporter ZhouNan)