“同学，我大四了……工作、对象都有着落了……可我为什么还感觉被生活追的这么厉害呢？”2月20日，河北科技大学贴吧，网友“季节的阁子”在网帖《同学，我大四了》中，持续发布自己作为一名即将毕业的大学生所感受到的就业压力，感叹被蹉跎的大学岁月，鼓励大家珍惜时间为步入社会作准备。

"My classmates,I am a senior……work/Object has to fall……But why I still feel life after so much?"February 20,,Hebei university of science and technology, post bar,Net friend"Seasonal GeZi"In the web[My classmates,I am a senior]In the,Continue to post as a graduating college students feel pressure of employment,Exclamation is waste years of university,Encourage everyone to cherish the time to prepare for the step into society.

　　“季节的阁子”真名刘新宇，是河北科技大学2009级学生。《同学，我大四了》在“河北科技大学吧”引发共鸣，火速蹿红。截至3月2日，该帖点击量已达3万次，跟帖回复623条，被网友称为“悔过励志帖”。

"Seasonal GeZi"Real name LiuXinYu,Grade 2009 at hebei university of science and technology students.[My classmates,I am a senior]In the"Hebei university of science and technology"A chord,Urgent leap up is red.As of March 2,,This post hits has amounted to 30000 times,Article 623 the comments reply,Netizens called"Repent of self-help post".

　　懊恼大学时光虚度的网帖，似乎每年都会在大学毕业生中引发强烈共鸣，今年也不例外。目前，《同学，我大四了》已被网友自发转至成都信息工程学院吧、燕山大学吧、唐山学院吧、广东工贸职业技术学院吧等多所高校的百度贴吧中。

Annoyed at the university of time wasted posts,Seems to trigger a strong resonance in the college graduates every year,This year is no exception.At present,[My classmates,I am a senior]Transferred to chengdu information engineering institute has been of netizens spontaneously/Yanshan university/Tangshan college!/Guangdong let industry &trade vocational technical college and other colleges and universities more than baidu tieba.

　　“河北科技大学吧”更是借势举办了“勇于面对自己已经蹉跎或正在蹉跎的岁月，倡议大学生珍惜大学时光晒反思”的线上征文活动帖，目前点击量已达到4万多次。

"Hebei university of science and technology"Is held to borrow"Have the courage to face you have waste or are waste of time,Initiative of college students cherish the university time sun reflection"Line of the campaign,Click the volume has reached more than 40000 times.

　　网帖作者刘新宇在接受记者采访时表示，发帖的主要目的就是要告诉学弟学妹，不要等到毕业时再悔过！

Web authors LiuXinYu said in an interview,Post's main purpose is to tell the lower classwoman drove,Don't wait until graduation to regret!

　　

求职受挫，写帖警醒“后来人” Frustrated job,Write a post alert"Later time"

　　2月20日，正月初九，刘新宇拿着简历到石家庄学院参加河北省人才招聘会。

February 20,,The double ninth day,LiuXinYu with a resume to attend job fairs in hebei province shijiazhuang academy.

　　这名河北科技大学机械制造与自动化专业的大四学生面对“中铁”、“中石化”这样的“名企”，看着自己多是60分、70分的成绩单和未达标的六级成绩单，颇感“囊中羞涩”。

The hebei university of science and technology, mechanical manufacturing and automation professional senior year students face"China railway"/"sinopec"Such a"Big company",Looking at himself is 60 minutes/70 points of transcripts and not done six level of test,was"cash-strapped".

　　求职未果，下午5点左右，他又来到石家庄中山路的繁华地段，想在沿街商铺找一份服装导购的工作。在刘新宇看来，这既可以作为大四下学期的兼职工作，也能锻炼一下与人沟通、语言表达的能力。

Job failed,5 o 'clock in the afternoon,He came to shijiazhuang, of a busy section of zhongshan road,Want to buy in the shops along the street looking for a dress.It seems to LiuXinYu,这既可In order toAs a大四下学期的兼职work,Can also exercise to communicate with people/Language expression ability.

　　令刘新宇没想到的是，一天之中，他又再次经受了求职失利。询问的商铺都拒绝将这个在他看来能胜任的工作交给他不是嫌他没经验，就是觉得他干的时间太短。

To LiuXinYu didn't expect,In a day,He once again experienced job losses.Asked the shops refused to this in his opinion are capable of doing the job to he not think he has no experience,Just think he dry time is too short.

　　在回学校的公交车上，腰酸背痛的他用手机登录社交网站，放眼望去，作为“后来人”的学弟学妹显然还在安逸地享受着他们的假期时光，纷纷“抱怨”：“假期真没意思”、“在家闲死了”……

On the bus back to school,Waist sour backache with his mobile phone log on social networking websites,When we looked around,As a"Later time"The lower classwoman drove to appear to be at ease to enjoy their vacation time,In succession"Complain about":"A boring holiday"/"Idle died at home"……

　　这使刘新宇想到了自己曾经“浑浑噩噩”度过的大学时光。“难道非要等到大四求职时，才知道现实多艰难，社会多残酷吗？”

This makes LiuXinYu thought about her once"Getting sleepy"I spent most of my college time."Don't have to wait for senior manager,Don't know how hard the reality,How cruel society?"

　　回到宿舍，他借用同学电脑，把自己的感触记录下来，写下了网帖《同学，我大四了》，并一段一段发到“河北科技大学吧”，希望通过此帖使学弟学妹尽早“醒悟”。

Back to the dormitory,He borrow the classmate,Record their own feelings,Write down the net post[My classmates,I am a senior],And as a post"Hebei university of science and technology",Hope that through this post to the lower classwoman drove to as soon as possible"Wake up".

　　

就业难问题出在自己身上 Difficult employment problem on themselves

　　刘新宇告诉记者，在河北省人才招聘会上，他不断听到周围同学的抱怨之声：“现在这工作怎么这么难找？”“唉，这是社会不给我们机会！” ……

LiuXinYu told reporters,Job fairs in hebei province,He constantly hear students complain of around:"Now work how so difficult to find this?""alas,This is don't give us a chance to society!" ……

　　回首自己的大学四年，他感叹投入精力“充其量不过40%”：每天上网时间少则4小时，多则10小时；考试永远是划划重点，在高呼60分万岁中与奖学金无缘。

Looking back on his university for four years,He sighed into energy"At best 40%":Surf the Internet less time is 4 hours a day,More then ten hours;Examination is always highlighted,In cry, 60 points, long live and scholarship.

　　“关于大学生就业难问题我们总在抱怨现在的社会这样那样，大学生就不了业，可真的该这样吗？静下心来仔细想想，其实最根本的原因是不是出在了我们自己身上？是不是我们对这个社会要求的太多，做的又太少呢？”他在网帖中写道。

"About university students' employment difficult problem we always complain about the society so that now,College students is not a possession,But really this so?Calm down and think carefully,Actually, the most fundamental reason is the in ourselves?Whether we have too much of the social demands,Do too little?"He wrote in the posts.

　　在帖子中，他记录了正月初六与老舅的一番谈话。

In the post,He recorded the conversation of people with LaoJiu.

　　虽然已经签约一家公司，但是刘新宇对自己签的公司算不上满意。“那你甘心吗？”老舅问。“当然不甘心！”。老舅又问，“既然不甘心，你又做了些什么？58同城、赶集网能找工作能投简历知道吗？你知道这些是否去投简历了，为什么不投？”面对一连串的提问，刘新宇一时无语。而老舅告诉他，自己公司在大年初三便开始收到简历，到初六已经有几百份了。

Although has already signed a company,But LiuXinYu sign the company is not satisfied with yourself."Do you willing to??"LaoJiu q."Of course not voluntarily!".LaoJiu ask again,"Since unwilling,What did you do again?58 city/Market network, can find a job to resume you see?Do you know if these go to resume,Why don't you throw?"In the face of a series of questions,LiuXinYu speechless at the moment.While LaoJiu told him,His company in the annual grade begins to receive your resume,To the people already have several hundred.

　　这次谈话，让刘新宇突然“为自己的无所作为而悔恨，为自己的浪费时间而痛苦”。

This conversation,Let LiuXinYu suddenly"Regret for their inaction,Pain for their own waste of time".

　　

希望打破毕业季集中悔过“怪圈” Want to break the graduation season concentrated repentance"circle"

　　大学四年，在“想”和“做”之间，刘新宇感觉自己陷入了一个以学期为周期的“怪圈”而难以自拔：学期初定目标，学期末懊恼没努力实现目标，再定新目标。“之前虽然懊恼目标没实现，但总觉的还有时间和机会。”面临毕业，他终于意识到，那些没能实现的目标将成为大学时代永远的遗憾。

University for four years,In the"Would like to"and"do"between,刘新宇感觉自己陷入了一个In order to学期为周期的"circle"而难In order to自拔:At the beginning of the semester set goals,At the end of the semester regret not trying to achieve goals,To set a new target."Although upset before didn't achieve it,But I always have time and opportunity."Faced with graduation,He finally realized,Those who failed to achieve the target will become eternal regret college.

　　2009年，刘新宇考入大学时，就给自己的大学生活定下3个目标：拿奖学金、加入学生社团、交个女朋友。

In 2009,,When LiuXinYu was admitted to the university,It sets three goals for your university life:Get a scholarship/To join the student community/Hand over a girl friend.

　　如今面临毕业，拿奖学金这个目标已再没有实现的可能。

Now faced with graduation,Scholarship this target has no implementation.

　　每年毕业季来临前，总有人发“悔过帖”为虚度的大学时光而懊悔。“而学弟学妹却没能从中吸取教训。”在刘新宇看来，每到毕业季大学生便纷纷发帖“悔过”，似乎也成了大学生群体难以走出的“怪圈”。

Before the graduation season every year,Someone will send"Repentance post"Sorry for the use of university time."The lower classwoman drove to failed to learn from them."It seems to LiuXinYu,Every season to graduate university students were Posting"repent",似乎也成了大学生群体难In order to走出的"circle".

　　而他写下网帖《同学，我大四了》，是希望或多或少能对此带来一些改变。在“河北科技大学吧”中，对原帖的回复大多正如刘新宇所愿，是来自学弟学妹的“表态帖”。

And he wrote the net post[My classmates,I am a senior],Is the hope can bring some changes to this more or less.In the"Hebei university of science and technology"In the,Most of the pole reply as LiuXinYu wish,Is from the lower classwoman drove"Position 1".

　　“就好像重重地挨了一巴掌。”网友“1蓝魇蓅雲”这样形容读后感，这名大二学生表示：“看了这些想了很多，知道剩下的两年多大学生活该怎样过了。”

"Hit him like a slap."Net friend"1 blue Yan 蓅 cloud"Described the journal entry,The sophomore student said:"Look at these thought a lot,Know how the rest of the college students deserve it more than two years after."

　　网友“瞌睡鱼儿”也是一名大二学生，他表示：“大二的我感谢你能把这些分享出来。我会行动起来的，希望还不晚。”

Net friend"Sleepy fish"Is also a sophomore student,He said:"Sophomore year I thank you can share these out.I will act,It's not too late to hope."

　　在为此高兴的同时，刘新宇还不忘回帖分享奋斗的快乐经过努力，他终于找到了服装导购的兼职工作。

At the same time of happy for this,LiuXinYu don't forget to reply to share the joy of the struggle through efforts,He finally found a part-time job of buy clothes.

　　忙到晚上10点30分下班，刘新宇赶回宿舍时，被锁在了楼外面。“不得不把阿姨叫醒，实话实说，阿姨什么话都没说就把门打开了。”对此刘新宇颇为自豪：“你看，做正经事，连阿姨都给开绿灯！”

Busy to 10:30 at night after work,LiuXinYu when back to the dormitory,Locked on the outside of the building."Aunt had to wake up,To be honest,Aunt didn't say anything just open the door."This LiuXinYu proud:"You see,Do something useful,Even my aunt give the green light!"

　　（中国青年报）

(The China youth daily)