8月30日，博友“孤独云之心灵记忆”在看完沈阳博友“奔奔900900”写的一篇博文后，自称心灵受到了震撼，随后在博客上写了数千字的博文，并感慨“这篇博文，就像一本生命的教科书，让我感动得流下热泪……想想自己，有时因一点挫折而唉声叹气，真是汗颜……尤其是那一些视爱情、婚姻为儿戏的男女，更应该来好好阅读这篇文章，好好反思自己的所作所为！”随后，该博文被博友疯狂转发，访问“奔奔900900”博客的人数激增至70964人。

On August 30,,blog"Lonely cloud mind memory"By watching shenyang bo friend"Rushing 900900"Write an article after bowen,Claims to mind was shocked,Then in the blog wrote thousands of words of bowen,And regrets"This article bowen,Life is like a book of the textbook,Let I was moved to tears down...Think of yourself,Sometimes for a little frustration and moan,Is really shame...Especially that some see love/For the men and women of marriage,More should come to read this article,To reflect on their actions!"then,The bowen was bo friend crazy forward,access"Rushing 900900"The increase in the number of blog to 70964 people.

　　奔奔今年56岁，4年前，她的爱人大良意外摔倒导致全身瘫痪。在照顾大良的4年时间里，她面对如山的苦难，却用坚强和乐观感染了周围的所有人。正如奔奔在博客中所说：“大良啊！你再重，老婆也能托起你！”昨日，沈阳晚报记者在故宫附近一套租来的房子里见到了奔奔。

Rushing this year 56 years old,Four years ago,Her love's good fall accident cause paralysis.In taking care of big good 4 years,Her face like a mountain of suffering,But with the strong and optimistic infected all people around.As rushing in the blog said:"Big good ah!You again heavy,The wife also can hold up you!"yesterday,Shenyang evening news reporter in the palace near a rented house met rushing.

乐观展望：“你再重，老婆也能托起你！” Optimistic outlook:"You again heavy,The wife also can hold up you!"

　　2008年9月28日，奔奔的爱人大良骑自行车时突然栽倒在马路上。3天后，医院下了病危通知书，告诉奔奔，大良因颈椎折断导致昏迷，即使活下去，将来也是高位截瘫。

On 28 September 2008,Rushing love National People's Congress LiangQi bicycle when suddenly fall down on the road.Three days later,The hospital a notice under the terminally ill,Tell rushing,Big good for cervical broken lead to coma,Even if live,The future is also high paraplegia.

　　在经历了气管切开手术和颈椎手术后，大良暂无生命危险。在医院的ICU病房住了21天后，大良被转到普通病房，可刚转病房就开始发烧。药物不起作用，奔奔只能通过给大良擦澡来帮他物理降温。大良身高1.8米，体重90公斤，奔奔身高只有1.55米，体重55公斤。每次给大良擦完澡，奔奔的衣服都彻底湿透，人像刚生完孩子虚脱了一样，但她从未喊过半个难字。就像日后奔奔在博客中所写的：“大良啊！你再重，老婆也能托起你！”

After tracheotomy surgery and cervical spine surgery,Big good temporary not life-threatening.In the hospital the ICU in 21 days,Big good was transferred to ordinary ward,Can just turn ward began to have a fever.Drug doesn't work,Only by rushing to big good take a sponge bath to help his physical cooling.Big good height 1.8 meters,Weight 90 kilograms,Rushing height only 1.55 meters,55 kg weight.Every time give big good wipe out of the shower,Rushing clothes are completely wet,Like just give birth to the child to collapse the same,But she never shout over half a hard words.As future rushing in the blog in the writing:"Big good ah!You again heavy,The wife also can hold up you!"

动情软语：“现在起，你就是我的乖孩子” Estrus soft language:"now,You are my good boy"

　　大良瘫痪前，奔奔是大良百般呵护的“女儿”。奔奔还记得，当军官的大良从结婚那天起，就从未让她干过一件家务活，以至结婚几十年，奔奔都不知电饭锅怎么用。也许上天也开始嫉妒身在蜜罐里的奔奔，大良在这次意外后高位截瘫，不但大小便失禁，而且连吃饭喝水都不能自理。为了能更好地照顾大良，奔奔在足道店旁边租了一间房，一刻不停地守护着大良。“从早到晚，我几乎每一秒钟都不能停下来。白天去早市买菜、做饭、喂饭，给大良按摩、擦洗身子、接尿、抠便、拖地，晚上还要去店里照看。”奔奔说，每看到大良眼中溢满泪水，她都会用手点着大良的鼻子“责怪”他：“大良呀大良，你也太自私了，凭什么只有你能呵护我，我就不能照顾你？从现在起，你就是我的乖孩子了，听话哟。”

Big good before paralysis,Rushing is good in every possible way of care"daughter".Rushing remember,When the officer's big good from marriage that day,Will never let her do a housework,To get married decades,Rushing all don't know how to use the electric rice cooker.Maybe god also begin to envy body in the honeypot the rushing,Big good after the accident high paraplegia,Not only incontinence,And even eat food nor drink water all cannot provide for oneself.In order to take better care of big good,Rushing in the foot road shop next to rent a room,All the time the big good guard."From morning till night,I almost every second can't stop.The day go to market to buy food/cooking/Hello rice,Give big good massage/Body scrub/Joint urine/To dig and/Mop the floor,The evening will go to the store to look after."Rushing said,Every time you see the big good eyes overflow with tears,She would burn with the hand big good nose"blame"he:"Big good ah great good,You also too selfish,With what only you can love me,I can't take care of you?From now on,You're my good children,Obedient yo."

　　奔奔也有撑不住的时候，好多次，她累得昏倒在地上。醒来以后就想，干脆自杀算了。可一看到躺在床上的大良，她又妥协了。她将种种不易，在博文《谁能叫大良站起来啊？》中小小地发泄了一下。“一次我和女儿给他抠大便，女儿的汗珠滴落在大良的身上，大良看着我和女儿的脸，再也控制不住压抑的泪水，失声痛哭。几乎无力的我和女儿不约而同地抱着大良！我们三口人第一次抱在一起哭，仰望着天棚，尽情地哭！”

Rushing also have could not support time,Several times,She was too tired to faint in the ground.Wake up to,Simply commit suicide by.But a lie on the bed to see the good,She was a compromise.She will be a variety of not easy,In bowen[Who can call big good stand up ah?]In a small outlet."Once I and daughter gave him pick your shit,Her daughter's sweat rolled on big good body,Big good look at me and her daughter's face,Never control depressive tears,crying.My daughter and I almost powerless to hold big good!We three people first time holds together cry,Looked up at the ceiling,To cry!"

催泪告白：“但愿我们再牵手30年！” Tear confessions:"Let us hand in hand again 30 years!"

　　奔奔知道，大良现在就是靠精神的力量活着。但大良也是个凡人，也会想不开。想到这，奔奔立马买来两盆翠绿的植物挂在大良的床头，“让这种勃发的生命鼓励他”。随后，奔奔还特意把自己和女儿的照片放大成墙面那么大，贴在大良目光所及的地方。“我不是他的梦中情人吗？这回让他看个够，他就舍不得死了。”

Rushing know,Big good now which is by the power of the spirit alive.But the big one is also a mortal,Will also bear the.Think of this,Rushing immediately bought two basin green plant hung in great good bedside,"Let this prosperous life encouraged him".then,Rushing also specially and daughter's photo enlarged into metope so big,Stick in the big good vision and of the place."I'm not him in a dream lover?This time let him see enough,He won't die."

　　2011年12月23日是奔奔和大良结婚30周年纪念日。这天，奔奔店里的员工们背着她和大良，偷偷给他们的房间贴了喜字，布置成了“新房”。大良被员工们套上红色的毛衣抬到轮椅上，奔奔也穿上了漂亮的新娘装。父母亲从吉林赶来专门祝贺，四川博友和一个军人“长空铸剑”还精心给他们制作了生日礼物。那天，两个人就像回到了新婚岁月。

On December 23, 2011 is rushing and big good marriage 30 anniversary.This day,Rushing the store employees carry her and great good,Secretly to their room XiZi posted,Arrangement became"Bridal chamber".Big good be the staff to cover on the red sweater carried to the wheelchair,Rushing also put on the beautiful bride outfit.Parents came from jilin special congratulations,Sichuan bo friend and a soldier"Across the sky cast a sword"Also carefully to they made a birthday gift.That day,Two people just like back to the new years.

　　2012年2月7日，奔奔在博文《轮椅上的庆典》中说：“好了！把姐夫抬到轮椅上吧！举行婚礼！这帮孩子真敢整词。员工叫我们亲一个，本来咱的个儿就太矮，大良绑在站立床上；够不着大良，嗨！就这么亲一个吧！大良啊！ 但愿我们再牵手30年！”博友“大观鸟”评论：“很感动很感动很感动，你是大良心中最美的玫瑰。”

On February 7, 2012,,Rushing in bowen[The wheelchair ceremony]said:"good!The brother-in-law carried to the wheelchair it!wedding!This help a child is really dare to the whole word.Staff that we close a,Was my height is too short,Big good tied to stand on the bed;Reach big good,hi!So close a it!Big good ah! Let us hand in hand again 30 years!"blog"Grand sight bird"comments:"Very touched very touched very touched,You are the most beautiful roses in big conscience."

诚挚感恩：“博友们，请接受我们深深的感谢” Sincere gratitude:"Bo the friends,Please accept our thanks deep"

　　从2011年2月27日到2012年9月1日，奔奔共在博客上发表博文93篇，几乎每篇都拥有极高的点击率。奔奔与大良的故事感动着无数网友，他们也感受着来自博友们的关爱和鼓励。在奔奔看来，开通博客让她收获了意想不到的鼓励，让她更有信心把她和大良的爱继续下去。

From on February 27, 2011 to September 1st, 2012,Rushing in the blog were published bowen 93 pieces,Almost each have extremely high CTR.Rushing and big good story touched the numerous net friend,They also feel from Po friends love and encouragement.In the rushing it seems,To open a blog let her gain unexpected encourage,Let her more confidence and good her love to continue.

　　今年8月23日，奔奔在半夜发表的博文《我和大良向幸福出发了》中写道：“七夕节凌晨两点凌云告诉我，进军央视《向幸福出发》如愿了！我心潮难平，思绪万千，为这事多少博友劳力劳神。许多次在申请过程中我都想放弃……情系七夕，请接受我和大良深深的感谢！” (记者 张晓宁 摄影记者 王勇)

August 23,,Rushing in the middle of the published bowen[I and the big good set out to happiness]Wrote in the:"Tanabata festival at 2 a.m. lingyun told me,CCTV into[Start to happiness]Wish the!I's difficult flat,Thoughts of ten thousand,How much for this blog labor bother.Many times in the application process, I want to give up...Feeling system the Tanabata,Please accept my deep thank and great good!" (Reporter ZhangXiaoNing photographer wang yong)