来莞20多年的单亲徐女士独自含辛茹苦带大孩子，想获学位难比登天 Enterprise to more than 20 years of single ms xu alone with a big child suck it up，To the degree difficult than ascend days

为求公办学位母女齐跪教办 For the sake of public degree mother and daughter together JiaoBan kneeling

　　七年前，女儿出生前十多天男人跑了无音信；七年后，为了女儿能有一个公办学位，托人花了数千元仍无着落，唯有下跪教育部门，至今仍无下文。“女儿的学位没着落，这段时间我干活都没力气，一宿一宿失眠，去教育部门下跪那天我真的想从楼上跳下去了结了自己。”7月26日，记者在东莞莞城光明市场附近一栋农民屋的一楼见到了徐女士和她的女儿红红，来莞20多年的黑龙江人徐女士对记者说，下跪教育部门实在是无奈之举，女儿的学位一天不解决她就要坚持一天。

Seven years ago，Daughter was born a man run more than 10 days is heard from again；Seven years later，For a daughter can have a business degree，Anyone spent thousands of yuan still coming，Only education department kneel，Still no below。“Her daughter's degree didn't work，This time I work all have no energy，Night night suffer from insomnia，Education department to kneel down that day I really want to jump down from the upstairs settled himself。”July 26,，Reporters in the dongguan enterprise market near a building city light farmers the ground floor of the house meet xu woman and her NvErGong red，For more than 20 years of enterprise heilongjiang province xu lady told reporters，Education department is really kneel with trepidation，The daughter of a day don't solve her degree will insist on a day。

单亲妈妈坚持带大女儿 Single mother insisted that with a big daughter

　　1989年，从老家下岗后的徐女士和姐姐一块来到东莞谋生，在东莞一家娱乐城做服务员十多年。2002年前后，她认识了一名本地男子。“我只知道他姓李，连他住在哪儿我都不知道。”徐女士来自黑龙江省双鸭山市四方台区，那是个离东莞非常遥远的地方，从广州坐火车要五天时间。遇到这位李姓男子时，徐女士以为可以托付终身。2005年，徐女士怀孕后多次催李姓男子和她结婚，但李姓男子以各种理由来搪塞她。

1989 years，From his home after ms xu of laid-off and sister a came to the dongguan for a living，In the dongguan a city entertainment as a server for more than ten years。Around 2002，She knows a local man。“I know only his surname li，Even where he lives I don't even know。”Ms xu from heilongjiang province shuangya shan area four sides，That's a from the dongguan very remote places，By train from guangzhou to five days。Meet the man asked，Xu women think that trust can be for life。2005 years，Ms xu after pregnancy push asked many times man and she got married，But asked the man with all sorts of reason to fobbed off her。

　　那是2006年2月初，离徐女士女儿出生只剩下十多天时间，那个男人突然就消失了，从此再也没有回来。2006年2月11日，徐女士出现阵痛，她想可能是要生产了，于是赶紧打车到东城医院。当医生问她有没有家属签字时，她表示身边并没有亲人。“我当时是剖腹产，五天后就出院，然后一个人抱着女儿回到出租屋。”徐女士回忆起当时的情景说，没什么苦是自己吃不了的。徐女士还记得自己有多少次半夜抱着女儿上医院了，而一上医院就要打点滴才能退烧，每次都要花一两百元。

It is early February 2006，Ms xu from her daughter was born only ten days time，The man suddenly disappeared，Never came back since then。February 11, 2006，Ms xu in pain，She thought might be to the production，So hurriedly take a taxi to east hospital。When the doctor asked her if she signed by family members，She says she had no close relatives and side。“I was born by cesarean，Five days after discharge，Then a person holding the daughter back to the article。”Ms xu recalled the scene at the time said，Nothing bitter is with yourself。Ms xu remember how many times the midnight holding the daughter is in the hospital，And on a hospital will drip to fever down，Every time you want to spend is controlled yuan。

　　“女儿小的时候，周边一些邻居和工友看我这么辛苦，就劝我将孩子送人，有一次一对湖南夫妇差点就要将女儿抱走了。”徐女士说，幸亏姐姐打电话来劝她，说既然以后都不打算结婚了，女儿留下来可以陪伴她。

“Daughter small of the time，Surrounding some neighbors and co-workers see me so hard，I'll persuade the child away，Once a pair of hunan couples almost will walk away with her daughter。”Ms xu said，Thanks to sister called to persuade her，Said since, after all is not going to get married，Daughter to stay with her。

　　从这个时候，徐女士就决定自己一定要将女儿留在身边养大成人。虽然现在为女儿学位的事操心，但对于自己当初的这一决定，徐女士感觉很庆幸，她说：“多亏了当时姐姐的提醒，我才将女儿留了下来。”

From this time，Ms xu decided he must will raise adult daughter in side。Although now for her daughter about the degree，But for his original decision，Ms xu feel glad，She said：“Thanks to sister was the warning，My daughter will stayed。”

为家计奔波独留女儿在家 For the family to rush about left daughter at home

　　徐女士告诉记者，女儿还只有20天的时候，月子未完她就出去做家政了。那时她都是将女儿锁在家里，有时回家晚了女儿甚至连噪子都哭到嘶哑了。徐女士也尝试过出去做工时将女儿带在身边，但雇主都会有意见。

Ms xu told reporters，Daughter is only 20 days，Confined unfinished she went out to do home economics。At that time she was locked in the home for her daughter，Sometimes comes home late daughter even cry all the son to noise hoarse。Xu ladies also tried out when the daughter will work with him，But the employer will have opinions。

　　女儿还不是很会走路的时候，徐女士回家时经常发现女儿睡在地上；女儿现在会跑会跳了，晚上又经常找到钥匙后打开反锁的门半夜跑到路口去等她。现在每当徐女士锁上房门准备去上班时，女儿就对她说：“妈妈，你不要反锁房门么，不然着火了我都出不去啊！”而每次听到女儿这么说，徐女士都很难过，但为了生活她不得不狠下心。就在前不久的一天晚上差不多11点了，女儿跑到在路口大哭，说妈妈去上班了还没有回来很害怕。“刚好我已经赶回来了，要是遇上坏人怎么办？”

Daughter is not very could walk，Ms xu home often found his daughter sleeping on the ground；Daughter will now run will jump，Night and find the key often after the open door lock midnight ran to the crossroads to wait her。Now every time ms xu locked the door get ready to go to work，My daughter is said to her：“mother，You don't lock the door，Otherwise I caught fire outside it！”And every time I hear daughter say so，Ms xu is very sad，But for the life she had to malicious。Before long in one night about 11 o 'clock，Daughter run to at intersections and burst into tears，Said mom went to work hasn't come back very afraid。“Just I have to come home，If a bad man？”

　　“每当妈妈晚上出去的时候，我就很害怕，就想出去找妈妈。”记者采访时是小红红和妈妈少有的亲昵时间，她一会跑到妈妈身上蹭一下一会又跑回房间看电视。“以后晚上可不要出去找妈妈了，这样太危险了。”听到记者的话，小红红懂事地点点头。

“When mother go out at night，I get very scared，I just want to go out for mothers。”A reporter to interview is little red red and mother of rare intimate time，She'll run onto your mother wipe detailer for a while and ran back to my room watching TV。“Don't go out and find a night after the mother，It's too dangerous。”Hear reporters words，The little red red sensible nods。

托人求学位不成下跪教育办 Study a subject not kneel down to education do

　　在女儿两岁的时候，徐女士回老家托人给孩子上好了户口。徐女士对记者说，生女儿七年来只回过两次老家，一次是给女儿上户口，一次就是今年春节前为了女儿上学的事回去开社保证明，两次都是年前就回东莞了没敢在老家过春节。

In the two years old when her daughter，Ms xu back to anyone give children a good account。Ms xu told reporters，Born daughter only twice in the past seven years back home，A is for daughter on account，A is for a daughter to school before the Spring Festival of the social security back open proof，Both times years ago and returned to the dongguan the dared to in their hometown the Spring Festival。

　　“今年春节前回去弄社保也是为了女儿的学位。”徐女士告诉记者，去年无意中认识了一个说是可以帮女儿弄学位的人，后来这个人说要她的社保证明，还说要请人吃饭，“我也没想到，他不但学位没帮弄好还弄丢了我的材料。”徐女士告诉记者，她还给了那人3500元钱，但后来这个人说这个钱已经请人吃饭了，并跟她说今年学位要1万多元一个，这点钱太少了。

“Before the Spring Festival is in order to make social security back to her daughter's degree。”Ms xu told reporters，Last year accidentally met a daughter that can help get degree，Then the people said to her social security certificate，Also said to please people eat，“I never，He not only degree did not help done.i also lost my material。”Ms xu told reporters，Her back to the 3500 yuan，But then the man said the money has been please people eat，And she said to this year to 10000 yuan a degree，This money is too little。

　　到莞城教育办下跪也是徐女士的无奈之举，“我只想给女儿求得一个学位，我只有这么一个小孩，到东莞也20年了，为什么我的小孩就不能入读公办学校呢？”

Enterprise education do kneel down to the city of ms xu is also with trepidation，“I just want to give her daughter to get a degree，I only have such a child，To dongguan also 20 years，Why I can't read the child into public schools？”

　　莞城教育办有关负责人回复记者，徐女士的确带着女儿到教育办下跪了，但工作人员已经跟徐女士明确解释，因为她没有在东莞缴纳社保不符合积分入学的相关条件，所以没有办法跟她女儿解决公办学位，同时还告诉她，可以通过在东莞办理居住证和缴纳社保申请积分入学，计划生育政策现在已经不再一票否决。

Enterprise education do concerned controller city reply reporter，Ms xu indeed with daughter to education kneel do......，But with ms xu staff have clear explanations，Because she didn't in the dongguan pay social security is not in conformity with the integral of the entrance related conditions，So there is no way to solve with her daughter is business degree，At the same time also told her，Can pass in the dongguan for residence permit and pay social security admission application integration，The family planning policy now is no longer a ticket veto。

　　“我目前做的是家政、打零工，怎么买社保呢？其实我也一直想在东莞买社保，但是找不到地方。”徐女士说。她还告诉记者，老家因为是矿区，根本挣不到钱；自己只想留在熟悉的东莞，靠自己的双手将女儿养大成人，但眼下孩子的入学让她很揪心。“女儿的学位一天不解决我都要继续争取。”(文/记者 余晓玲)

“I currently do is home economics、Odd jobs，How to buy social security？Actually I have been think in the dongguan buy social security，But can't find a place。”Ms xu said。She also told reporters，Their hometown because it is mine，Fundamental to earn money；Want to stay at their familiar dongguan，By his own hands will raise adult daughter，But for now, the child's entrance let her very anxious。“The daughter of a day don't solve degree I will continue to fight for。”(Wen/reporter YuXiaoLing)