据中国之声《新闻纵横》报道，前不久，有媒体报道说，北京的五岁男孩帅帅身患白血病，骨髓移植的最后关头，配型成功的父亲放弃捐献。而就在这个月17日，帅帅终因病情过重离开了人世。

According to the sound of China[News aspect]reports,Not long ago,Media reports said,Beijing five years old boy Derek with leukemia,Bone marrow transplant the last moment,The success of type-specific father give up gifts.And is this month 17,Derek eventually passed away because of illness overweight.

　　一时间，“父亲配型成功拒绝骨髓移植”的帖子在互联网上引起热议，把这个五岁男孩的父亲推到了舆论的风口浪尖。人们一面悼念幼小生命的逝去，一面对这位父亲的做法表示不解。

time,"Father type-specific success refused to bone marrow transplantation"Post on the Internet cause of hot debate,The five years old boy's father pushed the public opinion in the teeth of the storm.People mourn the loss of a young life,A in the face of the father's practice said don't understand.

　　但就在这两天，这位父亲开通微博公开说明，表示自己并非残忍，而是背后另有隐情。到底是什么隐情呢？

But in this two days,The father opened micro bo public explanation,Said he not cruel,But otherwise to hide behind.What is something?

　　“帅帅-2007”是帅帅的妈妈经常使用的微博名字，最近的更新里已经有这个五岁男孩的灵堂照片。记者犹豫是否该在这样的时候打扰他的家人，在微博页面做了短暂留言之后，接到了帅帅的母亲李洋洋的电话。

"Derek - 2007"Is Derek's mother often use micro bo name,The latest update has been the five years old boy's mourning hall photos.Reporter hesitate whether this in such time disturb his family,In micro Po page and make a short message,Received Derek's mother LiYangYang telephone.

　　李洋洋：我说孩子刚走，哎，实在是……我现在实在是……可我怎么办呢，把我推到这个份上了，我没有别的办法了。

LiYangYang:I said children had just left,ah,It is...Now I was...Can I do,Push me to this copy of the,I have no other way.

　　母亲李洋洋是北京人，她短发戴眼镜的形象从今年8月起在媒体中已经多次出现，随之出现的是对帅帅父亲的指责——明明成功配型却在捐献最后时刻放弃，平时对孩子疏于照料……而这一次，她所说的“把她推到这个份上”的最后力量，是孩子的父亲这两天刚刚开通的微博。

Mother LiYangYang is from Beijing,Her short hair wear glasses image from August this year in the media have surfaced several times,Appears to Derek father's blame - clearly, type-specific success but at make a contribution the last moment to give up,For children at ordinary times she was neglected...This time,She said"Push her to this sake"Last strength,Is the father of the child this two days just opened micro bo.

　　李洋洋：我从来没有否认过，他爷爷出钱给孩子治疗，我也从来没有否认过，他小姑家帮助我们，但是他们现在开始胡说八道。

LiYangYang:I have never had denied,His grandpa to pay child treatment,I never have denied,He husband's younger sister home to help us,But they are now beginning to talk nonsense.

　　“帅帅父亲2012”的微博21日晚上发出第一条，两天内连续发了二十一条，全部关于孩子病情和自己表现的陈述。“孩子已经错过去年11月和今年3月两次最佳治疗时机，5月9日那次所谓‘最佳治疗时机’简直就是送孩子去死，如果当时移植，孩子早就没了……”这样的文字配以大标题“天堂有知，爸爸祝帅帅一路走好”。父亲的自述与此前孩子母亲的描述判若两人，李洋洋说，这也是她现在最不能接受的。

"Derek father 2012"Micro bo 21 article sent out the first night,Two days of continuous hair 21,All about a child and his performance statement."The children have already missed last November and march this year two best treatment opportunity,On May 9, the so-called‘Optimal timing of treatment’It is sending the child to death,If at that time transplantation,The child would have gone..."This text with the headline"Heaven knew,Dad ZhuShuai handsome all the way walk good".Father and mother the sweat after the description of the child is changed,LiYangYang said,This is she now the unacceptable.

　　李洋洋：不光是不出医疗费，他们都不看望，8月2号之后，他们在那待了一个多小时就走了，他们就再也没来过，再也没看过孩子了。直到孩子最后走，直到孩子最后火化，他再也没有出现过。

LiYangYang:Is not only a medical treatment,They did not see,On August 2 after,They are that for more than an hour left,They have never been to,Never seen the child.Until the child finally go,Until the child finally cremation,He never appeared.

　　帅帅的爸爸不仅在微博中表达了对自己的澄清，也有对帅帅妈妈的指责——之前错过了两次最佳移植时机；同样是配型半相合，如果父亲不能移植为什么妈妈不愿意移植；孩子病重为什么每天花费大量精力发微博……李洋洋对所谓“两次最佳时机”不以为然。

Derek's father not only in micro bo in the expression of their clarification,But also to blame - dressed mother before missed two best transplant time;Is also matches in half,If father can't transplant why does mother is not willing to transplant;The child seriously ill why spends a lot of energy FaWei Po...LiYangYang for so-called"Two best time"Think it.

　　李洋洋：12月的时候应该进仓，但是专家建议应该加强医疗，因为他这个双表型白血病癌细胞比较顽固，所以要加强医疗，把癌细胞杀得干净一点再移植，这样效果会比较好。

LiYangYang:12 month should warehouse entry,But experts suggest should strengthen medical,Because he is the double phenotypic leukemia cells is stubborn,So to strengthen medical,Kill the cancer cells have a clean retransplantation,So the effect will be better.

　　记者：这也是医生态度的吗？

reporter:This is the doctor attitude?

　　李洋洋：对，这是主任说的。

LiYangYang:to,This is the director said.

　　李洋洋说，正是因为孩子父亲前期做了“高配”，她才没有配型，而得知父亲放弃，作为母亲，她也已经无能为力。

LiYangYang said,It is because the child the father did"With high",She was no matches,And know that father to give up,As a mother,She has also powerless.

　　李洋洋：只能是我俩配型，配型之后我俩都是半相合，当时移植科的主任就说，一是孩子的父亲和孩子是同性，和孩子同血型。所以是首选父亲供体，他就去做高配，我就没有。就像他们说的，妈妈的配型也可以，为什么妈妈不给配，我再去做高配，已经来不及了。做高配至少十多天才能出结果，孩子从五月九号开始，也就一个多星期，孩子癌细胞就开始有冒头的迹象了。

LiYangYang:We can only be matches,After the matches we are half consistency,When the director of the department of transplantation said,One is the father of the child and the child is gay,And children with blood type.So is the best father donor,He will go to do with high,I have no.As they say,Mother's heart patient can also,Why does mother not to match,I'll go to do with high,Already too late.Do with high at least more than ten days to the results,The child may start from 9,Is more than a week,The child cancer cells began to have the signs of rail.

　　事实上，今年九月，孩子的父母已经因为对帅帅的照顾抚养对簿公堂，妈妈李洋洋以五岁孩子帅帅的名义起诉父亲胡庆森，要求抚养费。她提供给记者的海淀区法院判决书上写明，胡庆森每月给付抚养费3000元。包括孩子的姥姥在内的很多人都曾接受媒体采访谴责这位父亲。

In fact,In September this year,The child's parents have for Derek care raise to court,Mother LiYangYang to five years old children in the name of the father HuQingSen dressed prosecution,Request support.She offered to reporters on the haidian district court judgment,HuQingSen monthly payment support 3000 yuan.Including the child's grandmother, a lot of people have accepted the media interview condemned the father.

　　姥姥：在孩子病重这种情况，第一不提供钱，而且还提出离婚，抛弃妻子，这是什么人啊，谁能容忍，等于就是活生生看着这个孩子去死啊，我就想不通。

grandmother:In the child seriously ill this kind of situation,The first does not provide money,But also put forward a divorce,Abandoned his wife,What is this person,Who can tolerate,Be equal to is living at the child go to dead ah,I think impassability.

　　作为父亲，胡庆森曾经在接受媒体采访时说，自己工作性质特殊，经常出差，不能常去看孩子，而且也怕受到孩子母亲对他的人身攻击。而李洋洋说，从今年5月9号丈夫拒绝移植开始，对她的打击已经接二连三。

As a father,HuQingSen once in an interview with the media,His work with special nature,travel,Can't often go to look after the children,But also afraid of is the child of his mother's personal attack.And LiYangYang said,From this year on May 9 husband refused to transplant began,To her blow has been in rapid succession.

　　李洋洋：后来等出这个办公室，我公公就和我说，你婆婆和他儿子说了不让他出供体了，钱我们也不出了。晴天霹雳，是孩子爷爷说出来的。他先是五月九号，拒绝捐献骨髓。五月十几号，就收到法院的离婚起诉书，后来法院驳回。

LiYangYang:Afterwards out the office,My grandfather and I said,Your mother-in-law and his son said don't let him out of the donor,The money we don't out.A bolt from the blue,Is the child out of the grandpa said.First he May 9,Refused to donate his bone marrow.More than a dozen number may,Just received the court's divorce indictment,Later the court.

　　她表示自己作为母亲不愿放弃最后的移植机会，父亲口中的“移植高风险”在她看来仍是拒绝移植的借口。

She said he as a mother is not willing to give up the last opportunity to transplantation,Father mouth"Transplantation high risk"In her opinion is still refused to transplant excuse.

　　李洋洋：风险是都有的，风险是非常大的，肝脏像孩子那样，风险会比平时加大一些，但被他夸大了，他所表达的东西夸大了，因为这种东西是正常的，风险必须有。

LiYangYang:Risk is all some,The risk is very big,Liver as a child like that,Risk will increase some than usual,But was he exaggerated,What he say what the exaggerated,Because this kind of thing is normal,Risk must have.

　　帅帅在这个月17日凌晨不幸去世，以他的父母亲名义这两天在互联网所发出的长篇文章，有大量对彼此的指责，细节很多，似乎也难以一一还原。从白天到深夜，父亲胡庆森的电话一直无人接听。

Derek in this month 17 died in the morning,With his parents name this two days in the Internet issued by a long article,With a lot of criticism for each other,Detail many,One also seems to be difficult to restore.From the day late into the night,Father HuQingSen phone has no one to answer.

　　10月21日，帅帅被送往八宝山殡仪馆。爸爸没有出现。

On October 21,,Derek was sent to babaoshan funeral home.Dad did not appear.

　　我们不便评说谁对谁错，在这里，借用一位网友的留言来作为我们这篇报道的结尾：“我们无法明辨你们之间的对与错，你们一直在相互指责对方害了孩子，但你们都忘记了，帅帅，那个惹人怜爱的孩子，他在你们无休止的恩怨纠结中，是最大的牺牲品。尽管你们都描述了事件的另一面，但你们的出发点依旧是为你和家人讨还一个‘公道’。是否想过，你们5岁的儿子，是如何度过他生命中最痛苦的岁月的吗？”(王娴)

We inconvenience comment on who to who wrong,here,Borrow a net friend message as we come to the end of the story:"We can't distinguish between right and wrong of you,You have been accused each other against the child,But you forgot,Derek,The adorable children,He is in your endless hatred in ravel,Is the biggest victim.Even though you are described on the other side of the event,But your starting point is still for you and your family TaoHai a‘reasonable’.Ever thought,You 5 year old son,Is how to spend the most painful of his life time?"(WangXian)