近几天，一条名为“兴趣班学习适龄期”的微博被转发近万次。里面罗列的兴趣学习内容涉及外语、音乐、书画等几大门类十余个项目，涵盖的年龄范围从零岁到小学四年级。这张兴趣学习时间表，成了家长们热议的焦点。

In recent days，A name“Interest learning school-age period”Micro bo be forwarding nearly ten thousand times。Listed in the interest of learning content involves foreign language、music、Several categories of calligraphy and painting, etc more than ten projects，Covers the age range from zero years to primary school grade four。This piece of interested in learning schedule，Parents become the focus of the hot debate。

两岁学 Two years to learn

　　英语

English

“一点不早”? “Don't early”?

　　在这张“兴趣班学习适龄期”表格上，倡议让孩子最早接触的是“游泳”，可从出生学起，而相对较晚的是书法、珠算和柔道，建议三、四年级以后学。家长们最关注的艺术、外语等兴趣则建议在学龄前阶段启蒙。如外语1至2岁，西洋舞2岁半至3岁，围棋3至4岁，钢琴4至5岁等。

In this piece of“Interest learning school-age period”form，Initiative let the child first contact is“swimming”，From the study of birth，But relatively late is calligraphy、Abacus and judo，Suggest three、Learn after grade four。Parents are the most attention to art、Interest in foreign language, etc is recommended in preschool stage enlightenment。Such as foreign language 1 to 2 years old，Western dance 2 1/2 to 3 years old，Go 3 to 4 years old，Piano 4 to 5 years old, etc。

　　有意思的是，这条有关 “兴趣班学习适龄期”的信息发布，无任何来源，仍然被不少家长当作“金科玉律”收藏。“兴趣培养就是广撒网，而且越早越好。”外资公司员工胡玲已经给三岁半的女儿报了四个班，有英语、绘画、舞蹈和钢琴，“虽然孩子小，学起来懵懵懂懂，但是早点让她接触，才能更早更准确地找到她的兴趣，培养起来也有目的。”

Interesting is，This article related “Interest learning school-age period”Information release，Without any source，Many parents were still as“The golden rule”collection。“Development of interest is casting a wide，And the sooner, the better。”Foreign employees hu ling has given three half years old daughter called the four class，English、painting、Dance and piano，“Although a child small，Learn MengMengDongDong up，But to let her contact，Earlier to more accurately find her interests，Train up also have purpose。”

　　“三四岁是兴趣启蒙的黄金时间。”一位母亲在自己的微博上说，孩子两岁时就给他报了英语班，被家人说太早，“其实一点也不早，三到六岁是学习语言的黄金时间，我身边有的孩子，才六岁就在学第二外语了。”

“Three or four years old is interested in the golden time of enlightenment。”A mother in their own small bo said，The child was two gave him for the English class，By his family say too early，“It is not early，Three to six years old to learn a language is the golden time，Me some children，It was only six years old in learning the second language。”

“早学”并非最佳方式 “Early learning”Is not the best way

　　对于“兴趣学习，越早越好”的观点，一些家长和教育专家给予否定。他们认为，孩子年龄小，缺乏足够的耐性和毅力，兴趣爱好随时会发生改变，“早学”并不是最好的方式。

for“Interested in learning，The sooner, the better”Point of view，Some parents and education experts give negative。They think，Children age small，The lack of enough patience and perseverance，Hobbies may change at any time，“Early learning”And is not the best way。

　　一位名叫“落叶知秋”的网友说，起初我看到别人家的孩子上了什么兴趣班或是学了什么特长，就不甘落后，要让自己孩子上更多的班，学更多的东西去竞争，其实这也是身边很多家长报兴趣班的“初衷”。“直到有一天，孩子对我说，妈妈，饶了我吧，我一想到钢琴就想吐。”这位母亲说。

A man named“Know autumn leaves”The net friend said，At first I see other people's house of in children what interest or learned what special features，Is unwilling to lag behind，Want to let their children more class，Learn more things to compete，In fact, this is also a lot of parents around for the interest“Original intention”。“Until one day，The child said to me，mother，Give me a break，The more I think of the piano will want to vomit。”The mother said。

　　《少先队活动》杂志执行主编赵小华曾经举办过各类家长讲座，很多家长反映，在为孩子选择兴趣班时往往很冲动，“报也匆匆，弃也匆匆。”她说，不少家长在孩子两三岁起报各类兴趣班，可是读小学以后，就完全放弃了。

《The young pioneers activities》Magazine executive editor ZhaoXiaoHua once held all kinds of parents lecture，Many parents reflect，For the child when choose programmes will often very impulse，“Report also in a hurry，Abandon also in a hurry。”She said，A lot of parents on a child is two or three years old up to all kinds of interest，But after primary school，Is completely give up。

　　“兴趣学习，不在于早学，而在于坚持；不在于多，而在于精。”赵小华说，在孩子的兴趣特长培养上，家长要有冷静的头脑，“不要一拥而上，也不要全部放弃。”

“Interested in learning，Early learning is not，And it is；Is not much，But in essence。”ZhaoXiaoHua said，In the child's interest in the special training，Parents should have a cool head，“Don't rush forward，Don't give up all。”

会说英语不会系鞋带 Can speak English not tie the shoelaces

　　不少幼教专家谈到一个有意思的现象：“孩子三四岁什么也没学，家长会着急；不会自己吃饭穿衣，他们倒很坦然。”一些幼儿园园长说，在养育孩子时，一些家长有“双重标准”。

Many preschool education experts talked about an interesting phenomenon：“Three or four years old children what also didn't learn，Parents worry；Won't eat dress，They have very calm。”Some kindergarten the principal said，In raising a child，Some parents have“Double standard”。

　　与家长们推崇的“特长热”形成鲜明对比的是，一些幼儿家长对孩子的吃饭、洗手等问题都包办代替，有的孩子五六岁了还不会自己系鞋带，没学会如何使用筷子，在家吃饭也是让父母喂。家长们认为，孩子年龄还小，长大了自然就会。

And parents recognized“Specialty hot”Contrast，Some children in your child's dinner、Wash your hands all arranged instead，Some children five or six years old still won't tie the shoelaces，Don't learn how to use chopsticks，Eat at home also is to let the parents feed。Parents think，Children age still small，Grew up will naturally。

　　“现在幼儿园里很多孩子，能说一口流利英语，但不会穿衣系鞋带，这也是教育舍本逐末的鲜明写照。”郭宗莉等教育专家说，有智慧的家长应该把孩子当一个独立的个体来对待，生活自理能力培养是人格教育最基础的一环。记者 彭薇

“Now many children in the kindergarten，Can speak fluent English，But won't dress to tie his shoes，This is education at the shadow and lose the substance bright reflection。”Education experts say GuoZongLi, etc，Wise parents should have the child as an independent individual to treat，Independent living ability training is the most basic personality education a ring。Reporter PengWei