“男孩危机”真的存在吗？ "The boy crisis"Really exist??

　　中国青少年研究中心的一份调查报告就表明，中国0岁~18岁男孩在学业、体质、心理、社会适应能力等方面均呈现出落后于女孩的迹象，并将这一现象命名为“男孩危机”。

China youth research center of a research report shows,China 0 ~ 18 years old boy in school/constitution/psychological/Social adaptation ability are present grow after signs of girl,And this phenomenon named"The boy crisis".

　　近年来，“男孩危机”并不是危言耸听，男生在学校中的表现较女生弱，这在低年级表现得尤为明显。在担任班干部的比例、人际交往能力、学习成绩等方面，许多老师和家长都认为，女生表现更为优异。能同时出色完成学业与担任班集体事务的大多是女生。

In recent years,"The boy crisis"Are not exceptional,The boy in school performance is weak girl,The junior in particularly.As the proportion of the class cadre/Interpersonal skills/Study result, etc,Many teachers and parents think,The girl is more excellent performance.At the same time can well finish school and class affairs as the mostly girls.

男孩越来越不像男孩 The boy is more and more like the boy

　　在某小学的二年级老师办公室，一个男生正在啜泣，他刚刚被班上的一男一女两个同学玩恶作剧欺负，只好求助于班主任。“现在班上女孩子有很多厉害的，男孩子怯懦的越来越多。”班主任说。

In a primary school second grade the teacher's office,A boy was sobbing,He had been a man and a woman in the class two students playing pranks bullying,Had to turn to the teacher in charge."Now there are a lot of girls in the class of severe,Boys cowardly more and more."Teacher in charge said.

　　一位老师说，“男孩子越来越呈现出女孩化趋势，有时我们都会担心他们长大会变成‘娘娘腔’，老师们感觉这跟家长的宠溺有关，跟现在食物里的激素也有关。”一位老师认为，另一个令男孩无所适从的地方则是校园的纪律。为防止学生在校期间发生磕碰受伤的意外，很多学校禁止学生课间休息时在楼道跑动，对学生到操场活动也有所约束，“追赶打闹”很容易遭到斥责，这对于男孩子们好动的天性多少有些拘束。

One teacher said,"Boys more and more present a girl trend,Sometimes we are afraid that they will grow up into‘nance’,Teachers and parents feel the pet drowned relevant,With the present in food is also linked to hormones."A teacher think,Another make boy at loose ends place is the campus discipline.To prevent students during the period of school happen knock against injury accident,Many schools banning students during the break in the corridor to run,To the student to the playground activities will be constraint,"After pillow fight"Very vulnerable to rebuke,The boys active nature somewhat at home.

　　“我们还发现一个问题，就是大型活动的男孩儿主持很难找。”某小学负责人说，每次举办活动找主持人时，形象阳光、表现大方、综合素质优秀的女同学可以找到一批，但相同素质的男生就很少有。老师们还发现，男孩们体能在下降，运动的能力也变弱了，每个班里都有好几个“小胖墩”。而他们认为，网络游戏是“谋杀”掉很多男孩子阳光活力的元凶。

"We also found a problem,It is large activities presided over by the boy is hard to find."A primary school officials said,Each activity when looking for the host,Image sunshine/Performance and easy/The comprehensive quality excellent female classmate can find a batch,But the same quality of boys have less.Teachers also found,The boys fitness on the decline,Sports ability also become weak,Each class has several"Small overweight".And they think,Network game is"murder"Drop a lot of boys sunshine vigor of the culprit.

多数教师对此不以为然 Most teachers to disagree

　　“我觉得氛围是最重要的，有的班级有优秀的男生带动，整个班的氛围就很好。”一小学老师说。随着年龄的增长，女生在高年级开始出现青春期的害羞、封闭现象，在大队部中这几年都是男生占大多数。老师们认为，应试教育体制在整体上对女生较为有利，但如果放眼于走出校园后在社会上的发展后劲，目前“男孩危机”似乎还不明显。尽管承认男孩子在学校表现有不如女生之处，但在采访中，许多教师都对“男孩危机”的提法不以为然。

"I think the atmosphere is the most important,Some classes have excellent boys drive,The whole class atmosphere is very good."A primary school teacher said.As the growth of the age,The girl began to appear in the senior adolescent shy/Closed phenomenon,In the part of this a few years were all boys majority.The teachers think,Exam-oriented education system on the whole for girls more favorable,But if looking out of the campus in after the social development in the future,At present"The boy crisis"Do not seem to clear.Although admitted that boys in school performance is better than the place of a girl,But in the interview,Many teachers are on"The boy crisis"Formulation to disagree.

　　现在的男生缺乏传统男生应有的“阳刚之气”，是否与学校里女老师居多有关？不少老师也开始思考这一问题。教育专家认为，现在学校里大多是女教师，家庭中也多由母亲管孩子，这可能会让男孩子在成长过程中缺乏男性特质的影响，对以模仿作为重要成长方式的儿童而言，一个男性榜样力量的缺失，会造成不利的影响。

Now the boy lack of traditional boy due"masculinity",Whether with the school about female teacher is in the majority?Many teachers also started thinking about this problem.Education experts say,Now the school are mostly female teachers,The family also is much by mother tube children,This may let the boy in the process of growing up the lack of the influence of male traits,To imitate as an important way to grow in children,A male model the lack of power,Can cause adverse effects.

生理特点与教育体制所致 Physiological characteristics and education caused by system

　　校园中的“男孩危机”是否存在？这种危机是否意味着男孩子们“变差了”？北京师范大学教育心理学博士侯炳轩认为，所谓“男孩危机”，与儿童发展的生理、心理发展的特点和规律有关。但这并不意味着男孩变差了。

Campus in"The boy crisis"Whether there is?The crisis does that mean the boys"Variation the"?Beijing normal university education psychology doctor HouBingXuan think,The so-called"The boy crisis",And children's development of physiology/The psychological development of the relevant characteristics and laws.But this does not mean that the boy variation.

　　“从现在对大脑发育的研究来看，男孩女孩的总体智商差异不大，但特点不同，女孩子的优势与学校教育的要求较为一致。”女孩在语言类具有优势，体现在阅读、写作、联想记忆、感知的速度上，背诵的能力强，这些刚好都符合了应试教育体制的要求。而男孩子的优势则体现在数学、科学、动手操作、空间感觉等，其中不少都在中小学试卷所能考查的范畴之外。

"From now on the brain to see the development of research,Boys and girls overall intelligence quotient (IQ) difference is not big,But different characteristics,The girl's advantage and the requirements of the school education is the same."The girl in the language class has the advantage,Reflected in reading/writing/Associative memory/Perception of speed,Recite the ability,These just meet the exam-oriented education system requirements.And the boy's advantage is reflected in mathematics/science/operate/Space feeling, etc,Many of which are in primary and secondary school examination paper can investigate outside category.

　　另一方面，从发展心理学的角度来看，男孩子的发展速度比女孩子慢，也是男孩在学校里表现不如女生的原因。2007年，美国国家精神卫生研究所的一项研究表明，人的大脑在发育过程中，女孩会在11岁就达到发展的高峰，其后发展速度呈下降趋势。而这一峰值男孩要到15岁才能达到。其后，女性在21岁~22岁将完全成熟，而男性则是30岁。这决定了男孩在学校的整个教育阶段中，发展速度都比女孩慢，如果从小就以同一尺度去衡量男孩女孩，只会更加挫伤男孩的积极性。

On the other hand,From the point of view of developmental psychology,Boys are better than girls "is the development speed slow,Is the boy in school performance as the cause of the girl.In 2007,,The national institute of mental health according to a study,The human brain in the development process,Girl will be at 11 years of age is at the peak of the development,Subsequently declined development speed.And this one peak boy wanted to 15 years to achieve.subsequently,Women in 21 ~ 22 will fully mature,While men is 30 years old.This determines the boy in the school the education stage,Development speed slow than girls,If you grew up in the same scale to measure boys and girls,Will only become more contusion boy's enthusiasm.

　　“在这种客观的发展规律和现行教育制度之下，男孩女孩的区别可能在很长一段时间还会存在。这时，对孩子的评价是非常重要的。”侯炳轩说，“男孩危机”的提法不尽可取，虽然可能在校园里男孩稍显劣势，但应以平常心来看待。“孩子的自我评价体系没有形成，特别相信权威，如果周围的人对他们有太多负面的评价，会影响孩子们的自我发展和信心。”他认为，家长和教师可以建立起“多元评价”的体系，发现孩子们的长处，以鼓励教育为主。如果觉得男孩在发展上出现迟滞，也无须太多担心，而是要尊重孩子的发展节奏和发展规律。(大河)

"In the objective law of development and the current education system under,The difference between boys and girls may be in for a long time will also exist.At this time,To the child's evaluation is very important."HouBingXuan said,"The boy crisis"Formulation not desirable,Even though there may be on the campus boy slightly disadvantage,But should be common in mind to look at."The child's self evaluation system has not been formed,Special believe the authority,If the people around them to have too many negative evaluation,Can affect children's self development and confidence."He thinks,Parents and teachers can set up"Multivariate evaluation"system,Find the children's strengths,To encourage education is given priority to.If feel the boy appeared on development lag,Also do not need to worry about too much,But to respect children's development rhythm and the law of development.(The river)