前天上午10时许，安溪17岁男孩小军(化名)在家中挥刀自宫，阴茎几乎全部离断。在就诊时，他向医生讲述，因为他阴茎经常勃起，所以才用刀子去割的。

The day before yesterday morning at about 10,Anxi 17 years old boy small army(alias)In the home with knife from the temple,Almost all the penis from broken.When the interview,He told the doctor tells,Because he often erect penis,So we use the knife to cut.

　　经过手术，小军已脱离生命危险，他的阴茎保住了，随着时间推移，性器官和性功能有望恢复完好。

After surgery,Small army already out of danger,His penis saved,With the passage of time,Organs and sexual function to restore intact.

　　据安溪铭选医院急诊科的一名医生介绍，前天上午他们接诊了一个病人。这个病人在家中床上用刀子割自己的阴茎，他的惨叫声惊动了父母。父母立即让邻居开车将小军送到安溪铭选医院。医生先给病人止血，因伤势严重，院方让病人立即转院到福建医科大学附属第二医院就诊。

According to the anxi inscription choose hospital emergency departments of a doctor is introduced,The day before yesterday morning they accepts a patient.The patient in the home in bed with a knife to cut your penis,His shrieks stirred parents.Parents immediately let neighbor drive small army to anxi inscription choose hospitals.Doctors give patients hemostatic,Because the condition of an injury is serious,The hospital let the patient to a hospital immediately to fujian medical university in the 2nd affiliated hospital.

　　这个病人就是小军。医生说，小军曾告诉他，因自己的阴茎经常勃起，有时，在大白天公开场合也会，这让他感觉很羞耻、很讨厌，苦闷了很久，才这样做。

The patient is a small army.The doctor said,Small army had told him,Because of his penis often erect,sometimes,In broad daylight public will also,This made him feel very ashamed/hate,Depressed for a long time,Just do so.

　　小军转院到福建医科大学附属第二医院后，马上接受手术。该院泌尿外科值班医生介绍，小军的手术从前晚开始，一直持续到第二天凌晨，手术很顺利。随着时间的推移，小军的性器官与性功能将恢复完好。

Small courtyard has to fujian medical university after the 2nd affiliated hospital,Immediately surgery.The hospital uropoiesis surgical department introduced the doctor on duty,Small military operation began from the night before last,Lasts till the next morning,Surgery very well.With the passage of time,Small army to sexual organ will restore intact.

　　昨日上午，记者来到小军病房时，小军正半躺在床上，叉开双腿，用不锈钢饭盒吃饭。面对记者的询问，他始终一言不发。

Yesterday morning,The reporter comes to small army ward,Small army is half lying in bed,Opened her legs,Use stainless steel to eat lunch box.In the face of the reporters' queries,He always not say a word.

　　小军的妈妈说，小军只读到初二，因成绩不好不愿再读，就辍学回家了。随后他到外地学了一段时间的计算机，没过多久又再次回家，已在家呆了近一年。“他平常很乖，让他煮饭做菜也都没问题”，只是不愿与人交往，性格比较内向，在家基本上不说话，家里没有电脑，孩子也无事可做。而对于小军突然自残，在家如何自残，小军妈妈说，她也不知道。

Small army's mother said,Small army read only to 2,Because of the bad grades don't want to read,Had dropped out to go home.He then to field learned a period of computer,It wasn't long before go home again,Already at home for almost a year."He is usually very good,Let him cook are no problem",Just don't let with people,Character rather introverted,At home basically don't talk,Don't have a computer at home,Children also have nothing to do.While for small army suddenly self-mutilation,At home how to self-mutilation,Small army mother said,She also don't know.

专家说法 Experts said

心理医生叶彦琪：或因错误的性认识 The psychological doctor YeYanQi:For the wrong or sexual knowledge

　　黎明大学心理学教师、国家心理咨询师叶彦琪说，17岁少男阴茎经常勃起是正常的。小军采取如此极端的措施，应该是接受了错误的性认识。他可能认为阴茎老是勃起，频率比较高是一件不好的事，认为这是不道德的、不干净的。由于他没有和朋友、父母与医生沟通，想要规避这件事，只好采取自残的方式。

The dawn of psychology at the university of teachers/National psychological consultants YeYanQi said,17 years old young man penis often erection is normal.Small army to take such extreme measures,Should is to accept the wrong sexual knowledge.He may think that the penis is always erect,Frequency is higher is a bad thing,Think it is immoral/Don't clean.Since he had no and friends/Parents and doctors communication,Want to avoid it,Had to take self-mutilation way.

　　小军应该如何走出自残事件的阴影呢？叶彦琪说，他应该多看一些青春期性教育等方面的书籍，接受自己以前所有的行为，并做专业的心理咨询，在心理医生的帮助下，抚平心理创伤，跳过这个坎。

Small army should be how to go out from the shadow of the event?YeYanQi said,He should see some adolescent sex education and books,Accept yourself before all the behavior,And do the professional psychological consultation,In psychological doctor's help,Ease psychological trauma,Jump over the bar.

　　父母更要给小军爱的氛围，无条件接纳孩子所发生的一切行为，好好爱他，让他明白，不管他怎样，他们都是爱他的。

Parents even want to the small army loving atmosphere,Unconditional acceptance children what was happening behavior,A good love him,Let him know,No matter how he,They are all love him.

心理医生林成：要懂得转移注意力 Psychiatrist Stanley:Want to know distracting

　　泉州市关工委心理关爱服务团副团长、国家心理咨询师林成说，小军对阴茎经常勃起感到恐慌，是因为没有人告诉他这是一种正常的生理反应；同时，他在平时的生活中，不懂得转移注意力，不懂得坦然对待正常的生理反应，不能悦纳自我。小军是一个缺少与父母沟通的孩子，其父母应该对其进行积极的正向引导，让他与身边的人建立良好的人际关系，与身边的人和谐相处。

Quanzhou closes working committee psychological care, vice leader interact/National psychological consultant Lin Lin,Small army to the penis erection often feel panic,Because no one told him this is a normal physiological reaction;At the same time,He in the life of the peacetime in,Don't know distracting,Do not know how to come to the normal physiological reaction,Can't accept yourself.Small army is a lack of communication with the parents of the children,The parents should carry on the positive positive guide,Let the people around him and establish good interpersonal relationship,The people around and harmony.

　　林成说，小军要学会自爱，要去学一门技术，自立自强，要去参加体育锻炼，多阅读一些健康的书籍，让自己过上充实的生活。此事的发生，凸显小军父母亲教育的缺失，其父母应该与孩子坦诚沟通，多与孩子谈心，给他提供精神营养。 (海峡都市报 记者 俞志村 谢杨 见习记者 林莉莉)

Lin Lin,Small army must learn to self-love,Want to learn a technique,self-reliance,To take part in physical exercise,Read some health books,Let yourself live a full life.It happened,Highlights small army parents the lack of education,Their parents and children should be honest communication,And the child commune,To offer him spiritual nutrition. (Channel metropolis daily reporter YuZhi village XieYang trainee reporter LinLiLi)