泉州一家四口 染上艾滋病 Quanzhou a four AIDS

　　老人家8年前从邻镇那里买回越南媳妇，不曾想灾难从那一天开始；目前政府和爱心人士，都伸出援手

Eight years ago old man from the adjacent town there to buy back Vietnam daughter-in-law,Do not want to disaster from that day on;The government and people love,All lend a hand

　　如果8年前，在羊圈相遇的那一刻，自己不曾买那个越南媳妇，如今，家里的生活会不会简单一些？泉州南安58岁的梁玉(化名)心头常挂着这事。特别是，这一个多月以来，孙子小凯(化名)肺炎不见好，梁玉的心就更加纠结。不过，更多时候，梁玉操心的是家中三个病人的生活。梁玉口中的那个女人，正是她的儿媳妇。6年前，这个越南新娘疑似感染艾滋病去世。今年6月，儿子和两个孙子相继查出患了艾滋病。这个原本就贫穷的家，风雨飘摇。

If eight years ago,In the pen meet at that moment,Didn't own buy that Vietnam daughter-in-law,now,Home life will be not easy?Nanan 58 years old LiangYu(alias)My heart up frequently in this matter.especially,This over a period of a month,Grandson kai(alias)Pneumonia see good,LiangYu heart more entanglements.but,More time,LiangYu worry about is home three the patient's life.LiangYu mouth that woman,It is her daughter-in-law.Six years ago,The Vietnamese brides suspected infections died of AIDS.In June this year,Son and two grandsons have found suffering from AIDS.This was the house of poverty,precarious.

　1.家里穷还是花2万买媳妇 1. The home be poor or spend 20000 buy daughter-in-law

　　梁玉家是一座平房，前两年，亲戚们看这一大家子可怜，出资帮忙盖的，简单粉刷完就搬了进来。每天，儿子王阿炳(化名)照例吃完早饭就往房间里躲。今年6月份，阿炳确诊感染艾滋病后，生活几乎都是这样。望了望儿子，梁玉摇了摇头，和老伴带上两个孙子，准备出发去泉州市区。一个多月前，小孙子小凯得了肺炎，当天得到泉州市区复诊。小凯的情况还算恢复得不错，梁玉一颗揪着的心终于放了下来。

LiangYu home is a bungalow,Before two years,Relatives to see this a large family poor,Capital contribution to help cover,Simple finish painting is moved in.Every day,Son WangABing(alias)As usual to eat my breakfast went to hide in the room.In June this year,Bing diagnosed with AIDS,Almost all life is such.Hope lookout son,LiangYu shook his head,And his wife take two grandchildren,Ready to go to quanzhou city.More than a month ago,Grandson kai pneumonia,The day get quanzhou urban return visit.Kai situation still calculate recovery well,LiangYu a clench heart finally put down.

　　这个淳朴的农村妇女，讲起自家的故事，轻描淡写。大儿子阿炳24岁那年，娶了妻子，给这个清贫的家添了几分欢乐。只是好景不长，因为嫌家里穷，没过多久，媳妇就外出打工，从此不见踪影。7年后，阿炳和媳妇办了离婚。

This simple rural women,Speak up his story,Mention lightly.The first son bing 24 years old,Marry a wife,Give the poor home added a few minutes joy.Just a flash in the pan,Because too the home be poor,It wasn't long before,Daughter-in-law work out,Missing from.Seven years later,Bing and daughter-in-law did divorce.

　　尽管遭受挫折，做着杂工的阿炳并不自弃，努力挣钱。2年后，寻思着还是得给儿子寻一门亲事，梁玉四处找人打听。最后，在附近的英都镇，听说有一个越南媳妇要卖，梁玉便随中间人去看看。

Although suffer setbacks,Doing the jobs of bing not ziqi,Strive to earn.Two years later,Thinking or have to search a son seemed reassured,LiangYu around for someone to find out.finally,In the nearby town of the all,Heard that there is a Vietnam daughter-in-law to sell,Then LiangYu with middleman to see.

　　梁玉回忆说，第一次见儿媳妇时，她被关在一个羊圈里，眼神满是绝望，角落里还有一个1岁的男婴在哭，她看见梁玉，一直往梁玉身上爬。“我摸了摸男婴的额头，很烫，估计是病了。”梁玉说，双方语言不通，羊圈里的女子跟她拼了命地比划，求她救救那个男婴。

LiangYu recalls,The first time I saw the daughter-in-law,She is shut up in a shelter,Eyes is full of despair,The corner and a 1 years old baby boy crying,She saw LiangYu,Go straight on LiangYu climb."I touched the boy on the forehead,Very hot,Estimation is ill."LiangYu said,Both sides is a language barrier,The daughters of the shelter with her hard life signs,For she save the baby boy.

　　看着男婴，梁玉心软了，抱着他去附近诊所看了病。就这样，梁玉跟娘家大哥借了2万元，越南媳妇和大孙子跟自己回了家。

Looked at baby boy,LiangYu heart melted,Embrace him to a nearby clinic see the disease.so,LiangYu with maiden eldest brother borrowed 20000 yuan,Vietnam daughter-in-law and big grandson heel oneself home.

　2.今年6月一家三口才查出艾滋病 2. June 3 finished with AIDS

　　婚后，担心这个媳妇也嫌家里穷，跟人跑了，梁玉对儿媳妇特别好，婆媳间也很和谐。婚后第二年，媳妇生下孙子小凯。没想到，小凯生下来不久，儿子阿炳出了车祸，因没钱治疗，最后，阿炳落下腿脚不便的毛病。不过，媳妇并不嫌弃，照顾得十分周到。梁玉心想，一家人慢慢打拼，苦日子要熬出头了。

After marriage,Worry about the daughter-in-law is too the home be poor,To run,LiangYu daughter-in-law to very good,Between her mother-in-law is very harmonious.The second year after marriage,Grandson daughter-in-law gave birth to little kay.Didn't expect,Small KaiSheng down soon,Son bing a car accident,Because have no money treatment,finally,Bing drop ability to walk is disadvantageous problem.but,Daughter-in-law is not abandon,Take care of very thoughtful.LiangYu thought,The family played slowly,Bitter days to boil over.

　　只是，祸不单行，小凯出生才8个月，媳妇就病得特别严重，却怎么也查不出病因。媳妇久治不愈，在小凯一周岁后，终于撒手离去。媳妇去世后，儿子也没什么心思再娶，靠着打工，艰难地维持着家里的生活。

just,It never rains but it pours,Little kay was born just eight months,Daughter-in-law is especially serious ill,But how also do not find the cause.Daughter-in-law is better,In a little kay after one full year of life,Finally fold up leave.Daughter-in-law died,Son also no mind to marry,Work by,Struggling to maintain the life at home.

　　今年6月，儿子身体开始不舒服，手上、身上长了很多疱疹。到了许多医院看了半天，也没查出什么问题。有一次，梁玉无意中跟当医生的亲戚说起越南媳妇死前的症状，亲戚建议让阿炳查查HIV这个项目。不久后，阿炳便确诊感染上艾滋病。

In June this year,Son the body begins to uncomfortable,hand/The body long a lot of herpes.To many hospitals see half a day,Also didn't find out what is the problem.once,LiangYu accidentally with when the doctor's relatives about Vietnam daughter-in-law died symptoms,Relatives suggested that bing check HIV this project.soon,Bing was diagnosed with HIV/AIDS on.

　3.孩子得到资助希望他们能快乐 3. Children get funding hope they can be happy

　　梁玉说，媳妇在自己家呆了不过2年8个月的时间，被四处贩卖的她，也是个可怜的女人。临终前，媳妇死死地拉住她的手，说着自己死后，丈夫最苦，婆婆第二苦，但希望无论如何，不要卖了孩子，步她的后路。“地瓜和稀饭，也要养活他们。”

LiangYu said,Daughter-in-law in their own home for but 2 years 8 months time,By selling her around,Is a poor woman.Before his death,Daughter-in-law will never took her hand,Said after his death,Her husband's bitter,Mother-in-law second bitter,But I hope no matter how,Don't sell a child,Step her posterior."Sweet potato and rice porridge,Also want to feed them."

　　艾滋病，到底是什么？至今，梁玉也只是知道个大概，知道会传染，但怎么个传染法，不识字的她，并不知道。心里也会怕，但还是每天哄着两个孙子吃饭、睡觉。只是，如今这样的家庭，让她不敢轻易在村里走动，担心对别人造成不好的影响。“这是我们的命运，遇到了也没办法。”梁玉的丈夫在一旁，抹着眼泪，接过话。

AIDS,Exactly is what?So far,LiangYu also just know a ballpark,Know could spread,But how a transmission method,Illiterate she,Don't know.Heart will also be afraid,But every coax two grandchildren to eat/sleep.just,Now such family,Let her can't easily walking in the village,Worry to others cause bad influence."This is our fate,Met didn't also way."LiangYu husband on one side,Wipe tears,Took the words.

　　让梁玉和丈夫欣慰的是，女儿和女婿一家特别支持她。特别是女婿，还特地带了小孩过来与孙子们玩在一起，说“管吃饱”，让梁玉不要想太多。前不久，泉州“爱之城堡”防艾志愿者组织也与梁玉对接上，志愿者陆风帮忙联系了疾控部门和爱心人士，两个孙子接下来可以享受“四免一关怀”的政策，免费服药；每月，爱心人士支援350元费用给这个家庭。

Let LiangYuHe husband is a comfort,Daughter and son-in-law a special support her.Especially the son-in-law,Also specially take the child come over and grandchildren playing together,said"Tube eat satisfied",Let LiangYu don't think too much.Not long ago,quanzhou"Love of castle"AIDS volunteer organization and the LiangYu butt,Volunteers land breeze help contacted the disease control department and love people,Two grandchildren next can enjoy"SiMian a care"policy,Free medication;monthly,Love people support cost 350 yuan to the family.

　　只是，对于未来，梁玉很迷茫。自己和老伴种了一点地瓜和玉米，每月300元的低保，加上女婿的接济，维持温饱不成问题。两个孙子也大概都知道自己有病，只是，年幼无知的他们，没有病状，依然天真无邪。但自从确诊后，儿子阿炳几乎一言不发，不愿与人沟通，每天吃完饭、看会电视，又立即躲回自己的世界。梁玉也不敢问儿子今后有什么打算。(海峡都市报 记者 陈丽娟 谢杨 文/图）

just,For the future,LiangYu was very confused.His wife and a little sweet potato and corn,300 yuan a month of residents,Add an son-in-law,Maintain food and clothing is a problem.Two grandsons also probably all know his sickness,just,Young and innocent of them,No symptom,Still innocent.But since after diagnosis,Son bing almost not say a word,Don't want to communicate with people,After dinner every day/Watch TV,And immediately hide back to your world.LiangYu were afraid to ask son in the future have any plan.(Channel metropolis daily reporter Chen lijuan XieYang text/diagram)