城市"老年漂"一族易得心病 渴望子女"精神赡养" city"Old drift"Gens between heart desire to children"Spiritual support"

　　随着城市化进程加快，越来越多的年轻人选择离乡工作，不少老人也纷纷离开家乡来到子女所在的城市生活，他们被称为“老年漂一族”。面对陌生的环境，不少漂泊的老人不适应新的生活方式，容易产生各种消极情绪。

With the urbanization,More and more young people choose leaving the home work,Many old people have left their hometowns to children in the city life,They are called"Old drift gens".In the face of the unfamiliar environment,A lot of vagrant old is not adapt to the new way of life,Easy to produce all sorts of negative emotions.

　　老家在湖南汉寿县的张奶奶告诉记者， “女儿生孩子后，自己就离开家乡，来长沙带外孙。女儿和女婿平时工作忙，回家后也因为疲惫很少和我交流。除了在小区里散散步，我基本都在家里带孩子。”

Their hometown in hunan HanShouXian's grandma zhang told reporters, "Daughter after birth,His left home,To changsha take grandson.Daughter and son-in-law work at ordinary times busy,After coming home also because tired seldom communicate with me.In addition to a walk in the neighbourhood,I was at home all basic brought the child."

　　武警总医院心理学专家史宇认为，面对工作繁忙的子女和陌生的环境，一些漂泊在城市的老年人选择“宅”在家里，难免感到孤独难以排遣，从而产生一些不良情绪，长此以往可能患上心理疾病。

Armed police general hospital psychology experts ShiYu think,In the face of the job is busy children and unfamiliar environment,Some drift in the urban old people choose"home"At home,Lonely is difficult to dispel,So as to produce some bad mood,In the long run may suffer from mental illness.

　　专家指出，由于不适应陌生的环境，也没有朋友可以聊天，不少漂泊在城市的老年人开始失眠、食欲不振，渐渐变得沉默寡言，继而不愿意参加社会活动。老年人长期“宅”在家里，容易患上抑郁症等精神疾病。然而，许多子女由于工作繁忙或其他原因，忽略了父母的“情感需求”，使老年人的孤独感越来越重，与此同时心病也越来越重。

Experts say,Because do not adapt to the new environment,No friend can talk,A lot of drift in the urban old people began to suffer from insomnia/appetite,Gradually become silent,Then don't want to take part in social activities.Elderly long-term"home"At home,Easy to suffer from depression, and mental illness.however,Many children because the job is busy or other reasons,Ignore the parents"Emotional needs",Make the elderly loneliness is more and more heavy,At the same time heart also more and more heavy.

　　不少子女认为，孝顺老人就是多给钱，让他吃得好穿得好。事实上，老人最重视的还是亲情，子女要多关心老人，多与老人交流，让老人感受到天伦之乐，消除烦恼。

Many children think,Filial piety is the old man give money,Let him eat good wear well.In fact,The old man the most attention or affection,Children are more concerned about the old man,And the old man communication,Let the old man feel family life,Eliminate worry.

　　一些老年人告诉记者，相比子女给予的物质支持，老年人更希望得到“精神赡养”，希望子女们在工作之余，多和父母聊聊。

Some old people told reporters,Children compared to material support,The elderly are more hope to get"Spiritual support",Hope that their children are out of work,Many parents and have a chat.

　　专家指出，从社会到子女，应当尽力帮助“漂”在陌生城市的老人“入乡随俗”。子女下班回家后不要因为疲惫而忽视与父母交流，要多带他们出去活动，让他们建立自己的朋友圈子，发展一些兴趣爱好，在精神上有寄托和依赖。

Experts say,From the society to children,Should try our best to help"drift"The old man in a strange city"Do in Rome as Rome does".Children don't get home from work because tired and neglect and parents communication,To take them out activities,Let them set up their own circle of friends,The development of some interest,In spirit have hopes and rely on.

　　中南大学湘雅医院心理卫生中心副主任杨放如教授建议，预防老年人患上心理疾病，家庭与社会需形成合力：一是子女应多给予老年人精神上的关怀与慰藉；二是社区多组织老年人参加各种健身和娱乐活动，让老年人“老有所乐”；三是老年人应该注意调整自己的心态，通过参与社会活动和体育锻炼来结识新朋友，让生活更加阳光。(记者 帅才)

Central south university xiangya hospital mental health center, deputy director of the YangFang such as professor suggested,To prevent old people suffering from mental illness,The family and social need to form the joint effort:One is the children should be given more elderly spiritual care and comfort;The second is more than the old community organizations to participate in all kinds of fitness and entertainment activities,Let the old"providing";The third is old people should pay attention to adjust their own state of mind,Through participation in social activities and sports to make new friends,Let the life more sunshine.(Reporter command ability)