3岁的孩子学“经济学”,2岁的幼儿双语交流,1岁的宝宝伴着音乐学跳舞……这些匪夷所思的事情似乎正日渐成为时尚,而近年来,各种打着“开发宝宝潜能”、“绝不输在起跑线上”旗号的早教中心如雨后春笋般涌现,孩子读幼儿园之前就被送去上所谓的“早教班”更是不足为奇。可是,这些所谓的提前教育真的能实现家长的美好期望吗?记者实地进行了调查。

3 years old children to learn“economics”,2 years old children bilingual communication,1 years old baby with music and dancing……These freak things seem is increasingly fashionable,And in recent years,Various under“Baby development potential”、“Never lose on the starting line”The banner development center have mushroomed,Read the kindergarten children before they are sent to the so-called“Ecd class”Is not surprising。but,These so-called advance education really can realize the expectation of parents?Reporter field are studied。

　抱着孩子上早教班 Child in her childhood in class

　　“现在的年轻人是不是疯了?”一提起邻居夫妇将出生没多久的孩子送去上早教班,南京市民王奶奶就感慨万分,“三个月大的奶娃娃,连坐都不会坐,就被强制教育,实在是太残忍了!”

“Now young people crazy?”A neighbor couples will be born didn't mention how long children to go to ecd class,Nanjing citizen king grandma regrets thousand times,“Three months of milk doll,Pants are not going to sit,Will be forced to education,It is too cruel!”

　　一家早教机构的负责人介绍,早教班从一开始只针对2岁半到6岁的孩子,逐渐发展到刚出生的小婴儿也教，早教正逐渐呈现“初生儿化”。记者在南京某著名早教机构的0-1岁年龄段的班上就看到,有的家长甚至一边喂奶一边上课。初生儿早教课程的热捧,使得各早教机构越来越在宣传噱头上花心思。打着各种旗号的“幼儿精英教育”逐渐流行起来,一两岁的孩子就学习双语交流,连儿童高尔夫、幼儿瑜伽、儿童美式橄榄球等“舶来品”也开始现身国内早教领域。

A childhood the chief introduction of the organization,From the start early class only for 2 years old and a half to 6 years old,Spread to new baby also teaches，Childhood is gradually appear“Primary suffixation”。Reporter in nanjing some famous ecd institutions 0-1 years of age class will see,Some parents even side while nursing in class。Born early course hot holds the son,Make the ecd institutions in publicity stunt more and more on beautiful idea。Under the banner of the“Children's elite education”Gradually popular,A two year old child will learn bilingual communication,Even the children's golf、Children yoga、Children's football, etc“exotic”Also begun to appear in the domestic field development。

　　但这种精英教育真的能造就一个个的“小精英”吗?一位幼儿教育专家表示:“目前不少早教机构对家长有所误导,课程开发混乱,体能的锻炼、人际交往和人格发展的培养缺乏。1岁多的小孩,学会说的第一句话竟然是英语而非汉语,这太可怕了。事实上,在美国知名的早教中心里,老师们也只是单纯使用他们的母语进行教学。”早教中的双语课程,在一定程度上是对幼儿语言认知的一种扭曲。

But this elite education really can bring up one by one“Small elite”??A preschool education experts say:“At present a lot of parents have misled development institutions,Curriculum development chaos,Physical exercise、Interpersonal and personality development of lack of training。More than 1 year old child,Learn to say the first word of unexpectedly is English rather than Chinese,This is terrible。In fact,In the United States in the famous development center,Teachers also just to use their native language teaching。”The childhood bilingual courses,In a certain extent of infant language of cognitive a distortion。

　“赢在起跑线上” “Win on the starting line”

　　据了解,相比前几年对早教的“懵懂”与“怀疑”,现在,给3岁以下的宝宝报名上早教班已经越来越为年轻的家长所认可。这到底是何缘故?

According to understand,Compared to the early a few years ago“ignorant”and“doubt”,now,To 3 years old of the following the baby on the development class already more and more for the young parents recognised。What the reason?

　　相对于一些想借早教班给孩子找玩伴的家长,更多的则是出于“望子成龙”的迫切愿望或“我的孩子不能比别人差”的攀比心理。

Relative to some want to borrow ecd class to find the children play with their parents,More were out of“competitive”Urgent desire or“My children can't are worse than others”Competition with the psychological。

　　在外企工作的孙女士告诉记者,她和老公都是白领,收入不低,“身边很多朋友的孩子都参加了早教班,我不能让女儿落后于其他小孩,便也给她报了。”不过,孙女士也无奈地表示,两岁多的女儿好像并不接受自己的这番“好意”,每次送去上课总是要大哭大闹一番。“我也不想这样折磨孩子,可看看别人家的孩子都会背唐诗宋词,会说流利的英语,我能让自己的孩子输在起跑线上吗?”孙女士的反问让人无言以对。

In a job sun told reporters,She and her husband are white-collar workers,Income not low,“Many friends around the children were involved in the ecd class,I can't let daughter behind the other children,He also gave her report。”but,Sun also helplessly said,Over two daughter didn't seem to accept his own comments“kindness”,Every time go to class always want to send out the devil。“I also don't want that torture children,Can look at other people's children will carry on the back of tang song lyrics,Fluent in English,I can let their children lose at the starting line?”Sun counter-question let a person with a quick reply。

　　江苏省教育科学研究院党委书记管向群教授认为,现代家庭大都是一个孩子,家庭结构的改变、社会竞争的激烈,使更多的家长越来越重视孩子的教育问题尤其是早期教育。而“望子成龙”的心态,让家长在为孩子早教的时候,多少带了些功利的思想。因此,对于“不要输在起跑线上”中所谓的“起跑线”,现在家长普遍认识片面。“起跑线”应该指孩子的个性、品格、习惯等多方面,并不仅仅指智力开发,相反如果过早地就让孩子体会到学习的压力,使其产生逆反心理,对他们的身心成长反而不利。

Jiangsu education scientific research institute in the communist party secretary, GuanXiangQun professor considered,The modern family is mostly a child,Family structure of the change、Social competition fierce,Make more parents pay more and more attention to the child's education problem especially early education。and“competitive”mentality,To let the parents for the children in the early time,How many took some utilitarian thought。so,for“Don't lose on the starting line”so-called“Starting line”,Now parents general recognition one-sided。“Starting line”Should refer to the children's personality、character、Habits and so on various,Not only refers to the intellectual development,If prematurely let children realized to the pressure of learning,So as to produce psychological resistance,Their physical and mental growth adverse instead。

　　家庭教育最重要 Family education is the most important

　　怎样的早教才是值得推崇的呢?专家表示,早期教育主要是家庭教育,家长的观念、态度、方法,将对孩子产生最重要的影响。因此,家长应该重视家庭环境对孩子的影响以及孩子的全面发展,对孩子的早期教育的心态不能带有功利色彩。孩子终究是孩子,无论是生理还是心理的发育都尚未达到成人的水准,他们不具备自我判断能力,早教是必要的,但是“揠苗助长”式的过度早教只会对孩子产生反作用。

How early education is highly worth?Experts say,Early education mainly is the family education,The idea of parents、attitude、methods,Will produce the most important to the influence of the children。so,Parents should pay attention to the family environment to the child the influence and the children's all-round development,The early education to children with the mentality cannot utility color。The child is ultimately children,Whether physical or psychological development have not yet reached the adult level,They don't have the ability to judge themselves,Childhood is necessary,but“Push them”The development of excessive would only child counterproductive。

　　两岁的小宇原本活泼好动,爱玩爱笑,可是最近半个月来,小宇的脾气变得越来越坏,夜里还常常惊醒、做噩梦。经检查,小宇的身体状况并没有任何问题,医生向小宇的妈妈仔细询问孩子最近的生活习惯,才了解了病因所在:从两个月之前,望子成龙的妈妈开始对小宇实施早教:每天让小宇看一个半小时的英语会话光盘,再做一个小时左右的智力开发游戏,这让生性好动的小宇很不适应。不难看出,小宇妈妈的早教方法,违背了孩子的天性。

Two old xiaoyu was lively and active,Love to play love to laugh,But recent half a month,Xiaoyu temper is becoming more and more bad,The night was often woke up with a start、nightmares。Through the check,Xiaoyu physical condition and have no problem,The doctor to xiaoyu mother carefully ask children recently living habits,To know the cause: from two months ago,These mother began to implement xiaoyu development: every day, let xiaoyu see an hour and a half English conversation CD,To do a hour or so intelligence development game,It makes a lively xiaoyu are just not used to it。It is easy to see,Xiaoyu mother early education method,Violated the child's nature。

　　淮阴工学院党委副书记江应中教授指出:在早期教育中,家长是孩子最重要的老师,如何给孩子做好早期阶段的家庭教育才是家长们所真正应该做的。给孩子们营造一个良好的家庭环境,给他们以人格上的示范,培养他们良好性格和品质,从育人角度出发,给孩子一个健康的人生起点。（记者 郑晋鸣 通讯员 段晨澄）

Engineering is considered, vice secretary of party should be in the river professor noted that: in the early education,Parents are the most important teacher children,How to give children do the early stages of the family education is the parents have really should be doing。Give the children to build a good family environment,Give them a personality of the demonstration,Cultivate their good character and quality,From the Angle of education,Give children a healthy life starting point。（Reporter zheng jinming correspondent DuanChen chengcheng）