中大女生伦子休学产子哄动一时，羊城晚报记者走进其家对话当事人       The girl was delivered a son Aaron off，Yang cheng evening news reporter walked into the house of the dialogue

　　“我不在乎有多种解读” “I don't care a variety of interpretations”

　　事态进展 How things are

　　因为“休学产子”、“丈夫大她18岁”、“枕头裸照”等标签，中山大学(微博)新闻系学生曾佩伦(昵称“伦子”)登上许多网站热点新闻的榜首。全国媒体争相约访，甚至百度百科，也出现了她名字的词条。还未毕业便嫁人生子，伦子此举引发强烈的观念冲击。

because“Such suspension”、“Her husband she 18 years old”、“Pillow nude”Labels such as，Sun yat-sen university(Micro bo)Journalism students have PeiLun(nickname“Aaron son”)On top of the hot news many websites。The national media scramble to YaoFang，Even baidu encyclopedia，Her name has also appeared in the entry。Also did not graduate and then get married，Aaron son this cause strong impact concept。

　　如今，风波渐退，伦子的生活日趋平静。记者来到伦子远离市中心的家，品尝其故事中的酸甜苦辣……

now，Storm gradually back，The sons of Aaron life increasingly calm。The reporter comes to Aaron the son of downtown far away from home，Taste the bitter and the sweet in the story……

　　“我的故事会被写得很煽情吗”

“My story will be write very touchy-feely”

　　“当这个18岁的男孩和他的17岁女友结婚时，他们自己还是孩子，但是他们爱得疯狂。不久之后，他们有了一个女儿。”5月一天，1989年出生的伦子将美国作家卡佛《距离》中的这句话抄在微博上。彼时，她离产子还有9天。结婚时，丈夫40岁，她22岁，婚后数月，他们有了孩子。

“When the 18-year-old boy and his 17 years old when married his girlfriend，They are children，But they love madness。Soon after，They have a daughter。”On May Day，Born in 1989, the son of Aaron will be American writer carver《distance》In this sentence copy in micro bo。Back then，She delivered from just nine days。Got married when，Husband 40 years old，She 22 years old，Married a few months，They have children。

　　本来，生活波澜不惊。伦子之所以会被媒体“发现”，源自于同学向纸媒的一次投稿。7月初，同学将伦子从孕期到育子的系列照片投稿给广州的一家报纸。几乎一夜之间，伦子登上许多网站热点新闻的榜首。媒体基本这样描述———

was，Life still waters。Aaron's son by the media“found”，Originated from students to print media usage a contribute。In early July，Students will be Aaron from pregnancy and the son to the son of photos write to a series of guangzhou a newspaper。Almost overnight，Aaron on many websites son hot news of the top spot。Media in the basic--

　　两年前，伦子在中山大学新闻系读大二，认识大她18岁的“大叔”风子。两人不仅“爱得疯狂”，而且火速结婚生子。热恋至今，甜蜜不改。风子坚持每晚睡前，用自己正在推广的软件，给伦子拍“pillow(枕头)照”，并传上网。照片已经拍了几百张，其中大多是不露点的裸照。这些大胆、风格化的照片拥有众多的铁杆粉丝。

Two years ago，Aaron son in sun yat-sen university journalism read sophomore year，Know big she 18 years of age“uncle”The wind son。Two people not only“Crazy love”，Come and get married and have children。Madly in love so far，Sweet don't change。The wind to the son before sleeping every night，With their own are promoting software，Son clap to Aaron“pillow(pillow)as”，And the Internet。Photos have took hundreds of copies，Most of which are not dew point's naked pictures。These bold、Photos of the stylized have many die-hard fans。

　　此后，国内的多家纸媒、电视台的电话，都打到了伦子家。湖南一家电视台的记者，在伦子尚未回复其采访要求前，便坐上了赶往广州的火车，连夜抵穗。此外，还有《知音》等畅销杂志的热情约稿。伦子一时不知所措，“我的故事会被写得很煽情吗？”

Since then，Domestic several print media usage、TV phone，Play to Aaron's son。Hunan a television reporter，In reply to the son Aaron has not yet before the interview requests，She sat on the train to guangzhou，Presided over the ear。In addition，and《friend》Popular magazines such as the enthusiasm of the manuscripts。Aaron was a son，“My story will be write very touchy-feely？”

　　

“只要家在，做什么事情都行” “As long as the home in，Do things will do”

　　“伦子，你最近很‘红’啊！百度百科都有你的词条。”“天涯上有人专门开帖讨论你。”……

“Aaron son，You is the latest‘red’ah！Baidu has your wikipedia entry。”“Tianya someone special open discussion for you。”……

　　一开始对于媒体的采访要求，伦子几乎来者不拒。但她几乎不会主动去看最后出来的报道，“我故意不去看的，但还是会无意中看到，比如有人在微博上@我。当看到有些人质疑我的学校和专业，还有人说我‘玷污了大学校园’，我还是挺伤心的。”

A start for the media requests for interviews，Aaron son almost to the net。But she almost can't active to see out of the final report，“I deliberately not to see，But will still be accidentally see，Someone in the blog @ me。When I see some people doubt the schools and professional，Some people said I‘Defiled university campus’，I'm still quite sad。”

　　最近一周，因为要帮风子的软件做推广，她索性回绝了所有的采访，但仍有媒体引用她的故事来讨论“大学生生子”这一话题，视频上，她的眼睛被打上马赛克，这让她心里很不舒服，“好像我做了什么坏事似的，我没什么见不得人的，只是最近比较忙才拒绝采访。”

The recent week，Because want to help the wind to the sons of software do promotion，She simply rejected all of the interview，But there are still media quoted her story to discuss“College students and”This topic，Video on，Her eyes were a Mosaic，It made her heart is very uncomfortable，“Like what I do as a bad thing，I have nothing to hide，Just recently busy just declined to be interviewed。”

　　而今，日子渐复平静。“大家都是抱着八卦心态来看我，很少人关注我的努力。”事实上，伦子一直在卖力为丈夫的事业奔波。

now，Days after calm gradually。“Everyone is holding gossip mentality to see me，Few people pay attention to my hard work。”In fact，Aaron son has been hard for her husband's career anyway。

　　两人刚结婚时，风子便从杂志社辞职出来创业，做一款IPHONE拍照软件“闪影”的运营。即便是伦子临盆前几天，她还在忙着帮风子的软件做推广。为了省钱，他们从市区的家搬回与父母同住。“我们对物质要求很低，赚的钱也够一家人花。只要，我在，他在，家庭在，做什么事情都可以。”

Two people just get married，The wind will resign from the magazine son out business，Do a IPHONE software taking pictures“Flash shadow”operation。Even a few days before the son Aaron looking，She is still busy help wind the son software to do the promotion。In order to save money，They moved back to the home from the city of living with her parents。“We to the material requirements are low，Earn money also enough family flowers。As long as，I，he，Family in，Do what thing。”

　

　特写 close-up

　　伦子一家的幸福生活 Aaron the happy life of a son

　　诚如伦子所言，她和她的家人被套上了许多顶“帽子”。近日，记者来到伦子远离市区的家中，近距离接触这一家人。

As Aaron son said，She and her family bedding bag many top“hat”。recently，The reporter comes to Aaron son away from urban's home，Close contact with the family。

　　7月普通的一天，伦子的妈妈正张罗晚饭。婴儿还在睡，伦子夫妇守在房中。“亲爱的，我喜欢吃汤面，这面太干了。”伦子刚吃完芒果糖水，对风子盛上来的面稍稍皱了眉。风子折返身下楼，给她加上热汤。

July an ordinary day，The sons of Aaron mother was prepared dinner。The baby is still sleeping，Aaron couple in the room to keep the son。“dear，I like to eat noodles in soup，The plane was too dry。”Aaron son just finish eating mango sugar water，The son of the wind and the surface wrinkled up a little eyebrow。The wind turned the son on floor，Give her plus hot soup。

　　“他对我真的非常非常好。”面对记者，伦子难掩一脸满足。她还穿着高中华附的短裤校服，“本来穿得比较正式的，但宝宝吐了我一身，我让风子帮我拿套衣服，他就拿了这套。哈，不过这是我平时最喜欢穿的。”她觉得这位已经41岁的“大叔”很懂她。

“He really is very, very good。”Facing journalists，Aaron son a face mask to meet。She still dressed in the uniforms of high with shorts，“Originally wear more formal，But the baby up all over me，I let the wind son help with my clothes，He took the set。ha，But this is my most at ordinary times like to wear。”She felt the has 41 years old“uncle”Very understand her。

　　热恋期间，风子不断求婚，听到伦子“耳朵都起茧了”，“他总说好爱好爱我，除了结婚，想不到还有更高的表达爱的方式了！”

During madly in love，The wind son constantly to marry him，Hear Aaron son“Ear cocoon”，“He always say love me，In addition to get married，That also have higher way to show your love！”

　　伦子与记者谈话间，风子一直背对着玩电脑。听到感兴趣的话题，他会忽然转过身来，插上几句话。

Aaron son and reporters conversation among，The wind has been his son playing on the computer。Hear a subject of interest，He will suddenly turned around，In a word。

　　风子坦言，结婚对他的生活完全没有影响。“很多人觉得，婚姻应该按照某种规则，比如要攒钱要有房。可以确定的是，我一直不是那种人。不然我在20年前，就正正常常地结婚了。我是及时行乐的性格，因为我觉得再多的‘计划’也改变不了‘变化’，特别是你身边有人去世时，这种感觉就更强烈了。”这位曾经的杂志编辑、资深文青，谈过许多场恋爱，却一直没有定下来。“身边的人都觉得我不会结婚，结婚了也不会要孩子。”而她，便是他计划外的大变化。

The wind son said，Married to his life no influence。“Many people think，The marriage should according to certain rules，Such as saving money to have a house。To be sure，I haven't been that kind of person。Or I in 20 years ago，Being married is often......。I'm relished character，Because I think the more‘plan’Will change‘change’，Especially your side people die，The feeling is more powerful。”The former editor of the magazine、Senior WenQing，Talk about many field in..，But has not decided。“People close to think I won't get married，Married also won't want the child。”And she，Is he unplanned big change。

　　儿子“曾繁魜”(意“真烦人”)的降临，也不在计划内。升上大四，伦子意外怀孕。2005年9月1日起，教育部取消对大学生结婚的限制，只要符合男22岁、女20岁的法定要求即可成婚。但在校学生生子，则还未放开。听从辅导员的建议，伦子办了休学。

son“Had numerous strolling”(meaning“It's very annoying”)come，Is not in plans。Up on senior，Aaron son unplanned pregnancies。As of September 1, 2005，The ministry of education on college students' married limit cancelled，Want to accord with male 22 years old、Female 20 statutory requirements can be married。But in the school and students，Is still not let go。Listen to their advice，Aaron son do drop out of school。

　　正说着，儿子“烦人”在迷糊中醒来，呢喃地哭。风子抱起儿子，让他整个人贴在自己的胸前，头倚靠自己的肩膀。“烦人”安然睡去。

just，son“annoying”Wake up in the dim，Muttering to cry。The son picked up son，Let his entire people posted on his chest，The head of the trust in your own shoulders。“annoying”Enron sleep。

　

　对话 dialogue

　　“让不同版本的我存在各种载体中” “Let different versions of my existence in all kinds of devices”

　　羊城晚报：如果有人问你：“伦子，我现在在读书，我也跟我男朋友爱得死去活来，我能嫁给他吗”，你会怎么答？

Yang cheng evening news：If someone asked you：“Aaron son，I am now in reading，I also with my boyfriend love die again and again，I can marry him”，How would you answer？

　　伦子：确实有很多人这么问过我。很多人会觉得在校结婚生子，需要很多勇气和执着，会觉得我很伟大。事实上，我做这件事，是“恰恰好”的，是条件允许下做的，并不是克服了很多阻碍什么的。如果没有父母支持，我们也不可能结婚。我和他的父母都很“神奇”。我能给出的建议就是，结婚要看条件成不成熟，不要勉强太多，顺其自然。

Aaron son：Do have a lot of people so asked me。Many people will think school get married and have children，Need a lot of courage and dedication，Will feel me very great。In fact，I do it，is“Just right”of，Is done under conditions allow，And not overcome many barriers to what。If no parents support，We can't get married。I and his parents are“magic”。Can I gave the advice is，Married to see conditions to not mature，Do not force too much，Let nature take its course。

　　羊城晚报：忽然有这么多媒体关注你，你怎么看？

Yang cheng evening news：Suddenly there are so multimedia pay attention to you，How do you see？

　　伦子：受到关注有种奇怪的滋味，我更加希望的是工作上做出了成绩受到关注，而不是这样。身边有人为我抱不平，说没有人去关注我拍的照片、做的努力，更多的人是抱着一种八卦心态。但我告诉他们这很正常，我本身就是读新闻的，我知道什么东西更吸引眼球。

Aaron son：Attention have a strange taste，I more hope is on the work made his mark attention，Not so。For I BaoBuPing around someone，That no one to pay attention to the photos I took、efforts，More people are holding a gossip mentality。But I tell them it's normal，I itself is reading the news，I know something more appealing to the eye。

　　羊城晚报：传统的人或许会给出“大学生不好好读书”、“性知识不足”等的评价，你介意吗？

Yang cheng evening news：Traditional people may be given“College students do not study hard”、“Insufficient knowledge of”Etc of the evaluation of the，Do you mind if？

　　伦子：结婚完全不影响我的学业，当时我基本都没课了。休学一年，我能更好地找工作。现在生孩子，而不是工作了一段时间、要停下工作去生，更有利于我的职业发展。再说，我也不是奉子成婚。人，本来就有各种不同的样子。无论是媒体上呈现的我，百度百科上的我，还是挚友所认识的我，又何必计较哪个最真切呢，就让这么多种不同的解读存在那里吧。

Aaron son：Marriage does not affect my studies，At that time I didn't basic lessons。Took a year off，I can better looking for work。Now children，Rather than work for a period of time、To stop work to have，More conducive to my career development。besides，I'm not married in the son。people，Had a different way。Whether the media present me，Baidu encyclopedia of the I，A close friend or have knowledge of me，Why dispute which the true，Let so many different reading there now。