据《三秦都市报》等媒体报道，西安某市民的孩子今年小升初，成绩一般，家长最近却想办法花8万元为孩子在附近名校报了名，理由是：让孩子交一帮名校里的好同学，儿子有了这些同学就有了强硬的关系网，以后在社会上办个啥事也就很容易了。

According to《Shall metropolis daily》And other media reports，A citizen children xian after this year，Achievement general，Parents recently but to think of a way to spend 80000 yuan for children in school near signed up，Reason is：Let the child into a school of good students in help，These students have the son have strong connections，Later on in society do a what matter is easy。

　　此报道一出，继“拼爹”后，“拼同学”也成为流行词汇，引发众多网友热议。

The report a，the“Spell dad”after，“Spell students”Also become popular vocabulary，Cause many users of hot debate。

　　一些网友对家长花钱为孩子“拼同学”的做法，表示理解和认同。新浪网友“奶粉巧克力蛋糕”说：“绝对值！这家长太有投资眼光了。”

Some net PALS to parents spend money for kids“Spell students”practice，Understand that and identity。Sina net friend“Milk chocolate cake”said：“Absolute value！The parents too has the investment judgment。”

　　新华网网友“毕竟”则表示：“一千年前就开始拼同学了，唐朝杜甫有诗为证，‘同学少年多不贱，五陵衣马自轻肥。’一千年后，拼同学已从中学拼到大学，尤以商学院MBA为盛，同学身份是否显赫，成了品牌核心价值。”

Xinhua net net friend“After all”Said it：“One thousand years ago spell students，The tang dynasty DuFuYou poem as card，‘Students do not mean more young men，Five mausoleum since light fat clothes horse。’After one thousand years，Students from high school has spell spell to university，Especially in an MBA to hold，Classmate identity is glorious，Became the core value of the brand。”

　　更多网友则对此表示忧心。腾讯网友“阿曼”认为，一方面接触所谓的“上层社会”，有助于将来拓展优质人脉；另一方面，孩子如果把握不好度，极易诱发爱攀比等不良心理，产生负面影响。

More net friend is expressed worry。Tencent net friend“Oman”think，On the one hand contact so-called“Upper society”，Help to expand in the future high quality contacts；On the other hand，If a child grasp not good degrees，Extremely easy cause psychological love comparisons, etc，Produce negative influence。

　　“拼爹拼妈拼同学，圈子文化朝低龄化发展。”新浪网友“智者自知999”直言，现在的学校不再是单一的传道授业圣地，在某种意义上，更成为一种层次分明的社交场合。我们到底该给孩子树立怎样的价值观？

“Spell dad spell mom spell classmates，Culture DiLingHua development in circles。”Sina net friend“A wise man knows the 999”The truth，Now the school is no longer a single harness the holy land，In a sense，More become a distinct social occasions。We really should give kids how to values？

　　“什么‘拼爹’、‘拼同学’，说白了就是‘拼关系’。”腾讯网友“tuoysh”说，“出现这种现象的原因是，在现实生活中，有个好背景办事更方便有效。”

“what‘Spell dad’、‘Spell students’，Spoken parts in an opera is‘Spell relationship’。”Tencent net friend“tuoysh”said，“The reasons of this phenomenon is there，In real life，Have a good background work more convenient and effective。”

　　新华网网友“半瓶老陳醋”也认为，现在社会获得成功最重要的因素，可能不是个人能力和努力程度，而是社会关系网。只有极少数优秀的人才能不受社会关系的约束。

Xinhua net net friend“Half a bottle of LaoChenCu”Also think，Now the most important social success factors，May not be personal ability and best effort，But social networks。Only a handful of excellent talents can not be the constraints of social relations。

　　新浪网友“到底几个呛”说：“很多人感叹命运不公，痛骂腐败，鄙视金钱、权力，指责普世价值观的堕落，可与此同时，公务员考试依然趋之若鹜，相亲时依然青睐‘官二代’、‘富二代’，找工作先想到托关系，依然拼爹、拼亲戚、拼朋友、拼同学、拼子女……可见很多人在意的不是公平，而只在意自己是否站在命运这杆秤的优势一方！”

Sina net friend“Exactly several choke”said：“Many people sigh the unfair fate，Blackguarded the corruption，Despise money、power，Accused universal values of depravity，But at the same time，Civil service examinations are still lining up，When the blind date still favor‘Officer the second generation’、‘Rich the second generation’，Looking for a job first thought of "relationship，Still spell dad、Spell relatives、Spell friends、Spell students、Spell children……Many people care about is not visible of the fair，And only care about whether their standing in the fate of the steelyard advantageous party！”

　　一名腾讯网友则指出，我们的人际关系，如今已日渐庸俗。如果让孩子过早有关系意识，演练这些庸俗的关系学，会不利于孩子成长。“如果资源分配格局更加公平，仅凭个人努力就足以实现向上流动，他们何必把精力浪费在不相干的纷杂事务上？”

A tencent net friend has said，Our personal relationships，Now already is vulgar。If there is a relationship between children early to consciousness，Practice the vulgar relations，Will hurt children to grow up。“If resources distribution pattern more fair，Only with personal effort is enough to realize the upward flow，They will take the energy wasted in irrelevant distracting affairs？”

　　在讨论中，不少网友不约而同地给出了相同的建议与其拼爹、拼同学、拼关系，不如“拼自己”。

In the discussion，Not a few net friend to one of the same advice given its spell dad、Spell students、Spell relationship，as“Spell his”。

　　新浪网友“wowo928”说：“凭了熟人的关系，也许是能办成一些事，但若自己没实力，你拿什么回报别人？求人不如求己，回想自己的创业之路，虽然吃了很多苦，但也换回了很多做人做事的宝贵经验。想成功，还是得‘拼自己’。”

Sina net friend“wowo928”said：“With a friend relationship，Maybe some things can be，But if not their strength，You take what return someone else？Heaven helps those who help themselves，Think about your business road，Although eat a lot，But also change back to be a man with a lot of valuable experience。Want to succeed，Still have to‘Spell his’。”

　　“孩子们尚在人生观、社会观、价值观形成的关键时期，社会的公平正义，师长的言行一致，都无疑起到无可替代的教育引导作用。”一名腾讯网友认为，一个健康发展的社会，就应为大家建立一个通道，靠自己的拼搏与努力，就可以谋求向上和成功。“靠天靠地不如靠自己”才是最应该彰显的社会价值取向。（点评整理 黄冲）

“The children are in the outlook on life、society、The key period of values，In a society of equity and justice，The teachers congruent，Will play an irreplaceable education and guidance。”A tencent net friend think，A healthy development of society，It should be everyone build a channel，By their own struggle and hard work，Can seek up and success。“Dependent on the than on on their own”Is the most should reveal social value orientation。（Comment on finishing HuangChong）

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