婆媳关系一直被称为家庭关系中的“天下第一难”，而如今银幕上愈演愈烈的“婆媳大戏”也成为时下人们热议的话题。昨日，在沙坪公园就发生了这样一幕荒唐闹剧23岁的媳妇因为和婆婆吵架，将行李搬上大街，抱着10个月大的女儿，举着纸牌当街嚷着“卖女儿”。

Old woman daughter-in-law relation has been called family relationships“The first one difficult”，Now on the screen of the intensified“One.the old”Nowadays people has become a hot topic of discussion。yesterday，In the sand flat park in this scene ridiculous farce 23 years old daughter-in-law because her mother-in-law and quarrel，Luggage will be on the street，Hold 10 months old daughter，Holding card when the street cried out“Sell daughter”。

她坐街边举牌卖女儿 She sat street for brand sells his daughter

　　“卖女儿了，我要卖女儿！”昨日下午，记者赶到沙坪公园对面一陶瓷门市看到，一年轻女子正怀抱女婴，手里拿着纸板，坐在街边嚷着要卖女儿。记者看到，女子手中的纸板上写着“我是婊子，婊子要卖女儿”，而在女子身边，还堆放着四五个行李包裹和一台婴儿车，许多过往行人都驻足观看，对女子的荒唐之举表示惊异。

“Sell daughter，I want to sell his daughter！”Yesterday afternoon，The reporter arrived sand flat park opposite a ceramic outlets to see，A young woman is bosom baby girl，Hand board，Sitting on the side of the street cried out to sell her daughter。The reporter sees，Women's hand written on the board“I'm a bitch，Bitch to sell her daughter”，And in the women's side，Still piled up with four or five baggage packages and a baby carriage，Many passers-by are stopped to watch，A woman an absurd said amazing。

　　记者了解到，女子名叫骆海金，今年23岁。骆海金告诉记者，她和老公同为江西抚州人，4年前经人介绍认识后结婚，两夫妻于2010年辗转来到重庆，一起打工挣钱，今年年初才在沙坪公园对面租了一个门市，做陶瓷生意。本来小两口日子过得还算不错，每月也能赚上七八千元，可随着去年11月女儿的出生，一切都变了。

The reporter understands，The woman called LuoHaiJin，23 years old this year。LuoHaiJin told reporters，She and her husband as fuzhou people in jiangxi province，Four years ago have been introduced to then get married，Two couples in 2010 toss came to chongqing，Together to work to make money，At the beginning of this year it in sand flat across the park rented a outlets，Do ceramic business。Originally young couple days is not bad，Monthly also can earn 78000 yuan，But last November with the birth of his daughter，Everything has changed。

　　说到自己卖女儿的举动，骆海金告诉记者，4月份她和婆婆带着女儿童童（小名）从江西老家来到重庆后，两人便两天一小吵，三天一大吵。4天前，由于给孩子喂奶的事，两人再次发生争执，“她说我是婊子，在家骗吃骗喝！”骆海金说，自己感到很委屈，一气之下便收拾行李，坐在街边卖女儿，“我要和他离婚！”骆海金坚定地说。

Said to his daughter's move to sell，LuoHaiJin told reporters，In April she and her mother-in-law TongTong with her daughter（Childhood name）From jiangxi hometown after came to chongqing，Two people then two days small noisy，Big fight three days。Four days ago，Due to the nursing a baby things，Two people dispute again，“She said I'm a bitch，Cheat to eat at home cheat to drink！”LuoHaiJin said，Feel very grievance，In a pet will pack，Sitting on the side of the street sells his daughter，“I want to divorce him！”LuoHaiJin said firmly。

和婆婆吵架引发闹剧 And her mother-in-law quarrel caused farce

　　下午两点，室外温度高达40oC，骆海金抱着童童坐在街边，两眼无神地望着马路，而就在骆海金身后不到10米的地方，她老公正站在陶瓷店门口无奈地摇头。

At two o 'clock in the afternoon，Outdoor temperature as high as 40 oc，LuoHaiJin hold TongTong sitting on the side of the street，Two eyes without the god looked at the road，And in LuoHaiJin less than 10 meters place behind，Her husband was standing in the doorway ceramic reluctantly shook his head。

　　“她就是这样，一天乱闹！”骆海金的老公自称姓蔡，他告诉记者，妻子和母亲一直不和，常常大吵大闹。“前几天因为孩子洗澡哭，我妈叫她给孩子喂点奶，她不肯，两人又吵了起来。”蔡先生说，当日晚妻子还和母亲动了手，并将店里一陶瓷摔碎，喊着要自杀。

“She is such，One day rampage！”LuoHaiJin husband claims to surname choi，He told reporters，His wife and mother has been discord，Often kick up a fuss。“A few days ago because children bathe cry，My mother called her children to feed some milk，She refused to，Two men quarrelled again。”Mr. Tsai said，That day night wife and mother move his hand，And will the store a ceramic broke，Cried out, want to commit suicide。

　　街边馒头店一店员告诉记者，她经常看到骆海金婆媳俩吵架。“前几天晚上，她还要把娃儿丢进垃圾桶，实在太不应该了。”该店员说，婆媳吵架本是正常的事，但骆海金却一会要扔孩子，一会要卖孩子，实在荒唐。

Street steamed bun shop a clerk told reporters，She often see LuoHaiJin old two quarrel。“A few days ago in the evening，She ran to put in the trash can，The too should not。”The shop assistant said，Old quarrel this is normal matter，But LuoHaiJin but will throw a child，A child will sell，Really absurd。

　　“我现在已经疲了，不知道该怎么办。”蔡先生说，这段时间以来，他每天都夹在老婆和母亲之间焦头烂额，店里的生意也因此受到影响。“几天都没有生意，再过一个月门面也要到期了。”蔡先生无奈地说。

“I now have the arrived，Don't know what should I do。”Mr. Tsai said，This period of time，Every day he sandwiched between his wife and mother burned，Business at the store is so affected。“A few days all have no business，Another month appearance will expire。”Mr. Tsai helplessly said。

因结婚红包心有积怨 Because marry a red envelope heart have bitterness

　　为什么婆媳关系会如此恶劣？记者在采访中了解到，原来，两人在抚州是不同村镇的人，4年前结婚时，骆海金过门没有收到蔡家的红包，而蔡先生所在的村里并无结婚送红包的习俗，这成了骆海金心中的一大怨结。“我过门、生孩子，他们一分钱都没给。”骆海金说。

Why old woman daughter-in-law relation could be so bad？Reporter in the interview to understand，The original，Two people in fuzhou is different of the village people，When he got married 4 years ago，LuoHaiJin came to the house of CAI did not receive red envelopes，And Mr. CAI in the village and no marriage custom of a red envelope，This became LuoHaiJin heart a large quarrels with his "。“I came to、children，They didn't give a penny。”LuoHaiJin said。

　　对于妻子当街卖女儿的举动，蔡先生说，自己并不当真，“我已经习惯了她的无聊和恶作剧。”蔡先生告诉记者，结婚以来，妻子和母亲一直不和，而自从有了孩子后，两人矛盾不断激化。妻子“卖女儿”的荒唐之举伤透了母亲的心，“我妈叫我给她买火车票，她明天就回江西老家。”蔡先生说。

For his wife when the street selling her daughter's behavior，Mr. Tsai said，Don't take it seriously，“I have already become accustomed to her boring and tricks。”Mr. Tsai told reporters，Since married，His wife and mother has been discord，And since having children，Two people intensified contradiction。His wife“Sell daughter”An absurd break the heart of a mother，“My mother told me to buy her train ticket，She'll back to hometown in jiangxi province。”Mr. Tsai said。

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婆媳关系需要缓冲地带 Old woman daughter-in-law relation need buffer zone

　　“这位年轻妈妈的做法明显是错误的，极其荒唐。”重庆师范大学心理学教授婚恋咨询专家周小燕认为，‘卖女儿’的做法极有可能给孩子成长留下阴影，同样给社会也造成了不良影响。

“The young mother's practice is obviously wrong，Extremely absurd。”Chongqing normal university professor of psychology consulting experts ZhouXiaoYan think marriage，‘Sell daughter’Practice is likely to give the child grow shading，The same to the society also caused ill effect。

　　周小燕表示，要搞好婆媳关系，首先需要婆媳双方真诚沟通和交流，丈夫和家人应扮好“润滑剂”的角色，适时调节双方矛盾。而社会也可以为婆媳关系建立缓冲地带。一些老人可向年轻媳妇介绍相处经验，给婆婆做思想工作，帮助婆媳关系建立缓冲地带。见习记者 周舒曼

ZhouXiaoYan said，To improve the old woman daughter-in-law relation，First of all need to old both sincere communication and exchange，Her husband and family should dress up as well“lubricant”role，Timely adjustment dilemma。While the society can also for old woman daughter-in-law relation establish buffer zone。Some old people can get along to young daughter-in-law introduces experience，Give her mother-in-law do ideological work，Help old woman daughter-in-law relation establish buffer zone。Trainee reporter week schumann