本周四就是中国情人节“七夕”了，就在刚刚过去的这个周末，来万松书院参加相亲会的姑娘小伙们比平时多了两三成。“星期四就是龙年的七夕啦，就算没找到心仪的那一半，可是，至少在那个夜晚，希望我不是‘孤独症患者’，能找个人聊聊天、喝咖啡，也挺好。”一张相亲资料单上这样写着。

Thursday is the Chinese valentine's day“Chinese”the，Just in the past this weekend，To WanSong academy to blind date will be girl boys more than usual two thirty percent。“Thursday is the year of the dragon's seventh，Even if I don't find the right half，but，At least in the night，I hope I am not‘autistic’，Can seek personal have a chat、Drink coffee，Also quite good。”A blind date material list so write。

　　现在的杭城相亲“行情”有啥新变化？七夕将至，我们从万松书院、黄龙洞等杭城相亲热地探得民间最新“情报”：“90后”女孩已经开始出动；“85前”的1000多位姑娘有点“搁牢”；“70后”男生条件开得蛮高，要求女方1988年左右出生才行。

Now to hangzhou“market”Have what the new changes？Chinese will to，We WanSong from college、Hangzhou huanglong hole, etc to thermally found folk latest“intelligence”：“After 90”The girl have already started to attack；“Before the 85”More than 1000 girl a little“Shelf prison”；“After 70”The boy condition open pretty high，The requirements about 1988 years was born to just go。

　　

为了找缘分 In order to find the fate

　　

大一女生都开始出动了 Freshman girls started to go

　　为了了解最新的相亲“行情”，我们先来黄龙洞“相亲达人”金大姐这里灵市面。

In order to understand the latest blind date“market”，We first come huanglong hole“People to”JinDaJie spirit market here。

　　金大姐面前有两箩筐本子，一筐放的是女孩子资料，另一筐放男孩子资料，每筐都起码有七八本登记册，每册有2厘米厚。

Before JinDaJie two full of book，Put a basket is girl material，Another basket put boys material，Every basket is at least eight have this book，Each book have 2 centimeters thick。

　　轻轻翻开塑料册子，有两本簇新的，里头登记着最年轻的姑娘小伙儿的资料，连封面都是粉红色。“最年轻的，1994年生，杭州人，在杭州一所大学读大一，别看年龄小，很有家教，又稳重，大大方方跟着爸爸妈妈来见我。”金大姐说，小姑娘虽然不急，不过，爸爸妈妈们认为，如果遇见有缘分的，早点结婚也无妨。

Gently open plastic brochure，There are two this new，Registration is the most young girl small son of material，Even the cover is pink。“The young，Born in 1994，Hangzhou people，In hangzhou university freshman year，Although the age small，Is a tutor，And sedate，Consumedly square square follow mom and dad to see me。”JinDaJie said，The little girl although no hurry，but，Parents think，If you met the decree by destiny，Get married also just as well。

　　有3本相亲册子有些泛黄，册页边角微卷。“呵呵，看得多了，就变这样了，资料记得熟，配对就快。”金大姐笑着说，这是1985年前出生的女孩们的相亲登记册。

There are three this dear to book some yellow，Album edge small roll。“Ha ha，See much more，This will become，Material remember cooked，Pairing is。”JinDaJie said with a smile，This is 1985 years ago was born girls mutually to register。

　　“如果有1976到1979年的男士来相亲，我都尽量先帮1985年前生的姑娘安排。”金大姐叹一口气，“这个年龄段的女孩子真当已经‘搁牢’，我这里登记在册的，大约有1000个，占所有姑娘的35%。”上半年，金大姐已经成功做了367回“月老”，配对成功率也达到了25%，不过，其中“85前”姑娘儿份额只占三分之一。

“If there are 1976 to 1979 years of man to blind date，I first as far as possible to help 1985 prelife girl arrangement。”JinDaJie to give a sigh，“This age girl really when already‘Shelf prison’，I am here to register as，There are about 1000，Accounted for 35% of all girls。”In the first half of，JinDaJie has successfully made 367 back“joking”，Pairing the success rate was 25%，but，the“Before the 85”GuNianEr only about one-third of the share。

　　

“85前”姑娘老是找不好 “Before the 85”The girl is always looking for good

　　

门槛高是一大原因 High threshold is one big reason

　　万松书院相亲会虽然每周六举办，不过因为接近七夕，周日也有些劳心的父母来大牌坊下面转转，“碰碰运气”。

WanSong academy to will although held every Saturday，But because close to Chinese，Sunday also some headwork parents to big memorial arch around below，“His luck”。

　　“我女儿1983年生的，现在都29岁了，想想我29岁的时候，孩子都会上幼儿园了。”帮女儿来物色对象的吕先生拉着记者的手，希望能“帮忙开开后门”，请记者能找相熟的“相亲达人”格外推荐一下，“我和妻子在台州工作，常常赶到杭州来参加相亲会，就是操心啊，我妻子整夜整夜都睡不着，头发掉了许多。”

“My daughter is born in the year of 1983，Are now 29 years old，Think of me at the age of 29，Children are at the kindergarten。”For my daughter to looking for object Mr. Lu took the reporter's hand，Hope to“Help open the back door”，Please press can look for familiar“People to”Particularly recommend，“My wife and I work in taizhou，Often to hangzhou to blind date will be，Is worry about ah，My wife all night to sleep all night，The hair off many。”

　　万松书院工作人员告诉记者，不少1983、1984年出生的女孩们都条件蛮好，有老师、律师、公务员等等，谈吐、气质也在职场中锤炼了出来，正是风姿绰约时，不过，也正因为眼界开阔，见识多了，对男方的要求也高。

WanSong academy staff, told reporters，Many 1983、Born in 1984 girls conditions pretty good，A teacher、lawyer、Civil servants, etc，talk、Temperament also on-the-job field temper out，When it is graceful figure，but，Also because of eyes open，Live and learn the，For the requirements of the man is high。

　　比如小王，身高1.65米，年薪8万左右，曾经美国留学，她希望男生的收入16万以上，也有相同的留学经历，家世相当，身高1.78米以上，还要不抽烟、不喝酒、不近视……否则，根本不见面。一年下来，跟小王有一面之缘的男生也只有两三个。

Such as wang，Height 1.65 meters，The annual salary of 80000 or so，Once study in the United States，She hope the boy income of more than 160000，Also has the same study abroad experience，Family quite，Height 1.78 meters，Also don't smoke、Don't drink、Don't myopia……otherwise，Don't meet。A year off，With wang's one side of the edge boy also only two or three。

　　“仅不近视一条，就放弃了许多优秀的‘眼镜男’，她失去了多少机会。”工作人员说。

“Only do not myopia a，Give up a lot of good‘Glasses male’，She lost much of a chance。”Staff said。

　　

“相亲达人”心里话： “People to”My mind：

　　

相亲，最要紧的是“切实际” to，The most urgent is“Cut actual”

　　有一个现象，现在让杭城各位“相亲达人”都觉得有点不可理解。

There is a phenomenon，Now let you in hangzhou city“People to”All feel a little do not understand。

　　“男生对年龄的要求越来越高。”万松书院工作人员分析，前几年，男生普遍认为找比自己小三五岁的女生，比较有共同语言。不过今年以来，35岁左右的男士，往往希望找1988年左右出生的女生；而30岁左右的男士，如果介绍1986年左右的女生，就觉得有点“老”……

“The boy to the age of the demand is higher and higher。”WanSong academy staff analysis，Before a few years，The boy is generally believed that find smaller than oneself 35 years old girl，More common language。But since this year，35 years old man，Often want to look for 1988 years or so was born of girl；But 30 years old man，If the introduction of 1986 or so years for girls，Feel a little“old”……

　　黄龙洞金大姐说，比如有个1976年出生的男人，条件很好，是自己开公司的，还有排屋，是标准的“钻石王老五”。不过他要找比自己小8到10岁的，还要漂亮又有稳定工作，最好是事业单位的：“我都36了，要是找个35的，两个人加起来71岁，都老了！为了下一代考虑，还得找个稍微小点的。”

Huanglong hole JinDaJie said，For example a man was born in 1976，The condition is very good，Is his own take one of the company，And row house，Is the standard of“A great catch”。But he wanted to find smaller than oneself 8 to 10 years old，Also beautiful and have a stable job，It is best institutions：“I and the，If find a 35，Two people added up to 71 years old，Are all old！In order to consider the next generation，Still have to find a slightly small point。”

　　“现在他和一个银行里管档案的姑娘儿在谈恋爱，1988年出生，感情还蛮稳定。”金大姐说，“你自己条件好要个条件好的姑娘，大家都可以理解。”

“Now he and a bank tube files GuNianEr in love，Born in 1988，Feelings are quite stable。”JinDaJie said，“Your own conditions are good for a condition good girl，Everyone can understand。”

　　金大姐说，有几个男孩，要求不切实际，被她“冷藏”。

JinDaJie said，There are several boy，Requirements unrealistic，By her“refrigerated”。

　　男的长得还可以，但1973年到1978年出生，年薪不过5万，却要求女方1988年以后出生或是长得漂亮、年薪10万以上还得有房。

Men grow can also，But in 1973 to was born in 1978，But 50000 annual salary，But for the woman born after 1988 or beautiful、Annual salary above 100000 also have a room。

　　金大姐摇摇头说，还有些男孩子的条件很稀奇古怪，比如有个男人是1978年出生的，他很喜欢研究星座，一定要找1987年、1988年、1989年1到3月份出生的姑娘儿；有男孩子不喜欢介绍给他的姑娘，是因为她走路“外八”，还说走路“外八”，财气会外撇；还有说姑娘老虎牙，会克夫……（记者 杨晓政 实习生 周何燕 杨可威/绘）

JinDaJie shake to say，Some boy's condition is very strange，For example a man was born in 1978，He really likes to study constellation，Must look for 1987 years、In 1988,、1989 1 to march GuNianEr born；Have boys don't like introduced to his girl，Because she walk“External eight”，Also said to walk“External eight”，Type will be left outside；And girl tiger tooth，Will g husband……（Reporter YangXiaoZheng interns weeks can be HeYan Yang wei/drawing）