新闻回放：一到教师节，“送礼”便成为一个热门话题。今年教师节又巧遇中秋节，不少学生和家长纷纷给老师送出“表示”。不少网友议论：“好端端一个教师节咋沦为‘送礼节’了呢，如何才能刹住教师节送礼之风？”

News playback：A teacher's day to，“gifts”Become a hot topic。Teacher's day this year and chance on the Mid-Autumn festival，A lot of students and parents are to the teacher sent out“said”。Not a few net friend about：“Good a teacher's day zha into‘Send etiquette’now，How to put on the brakes teacher's day gifts of the wind？”

　　家长“纠结”教师“喊冤” parents“ravel”The teacher“HanYuan”

　　近日，记者在百度“教师节吧”看到不少类似“教师节该买什么礼物给老师”的求助帖，许多网友纷纷留言。

recently，Reporter in the baidu“Teachers' day!”See a lot of similar“Teacher's day what to buy gifts for the teacher”Help for the，Many netizens have message。

　　网名为“妞妞9898”的初二学生发帖说：“我家里条件还算可以，可我特别反感我妈去送礼。她说这是人情往来，别人都送，也可以让老师多照顾我点。虽然我在班上的成绩还可以，班主任对我也挺好，可要是我妈一去送礼，我就会有很大的压力，上课都很紧张。可老师也确实挺辛苦的，所以我就真不知道这礼是该送还是不该送了。”“我们家长能图什么？还不是花钱买安心。”一位家长这样留言说。

Net is“Niuniu 9898”The teenager students post said：“I still can be the condition in the home，But I particularly dislike my mom to give gifts。She said this is human relations，Others send，Also can let teachers take care of my point。Although I am in the class results can also，The teacher in charge to I also quite good，But if my mother a gift，I will have a lot of pressure，The class are very nervous。But the teacher is really quite hard，So I really don't know this rite is the send or shouldn't be sent。”“We parents can map??????？Also not buy at ease。”A parents this message said。

　　家住福州市区的王女士，儿子在一所高中上学，她说，今年中秋节单位刚给自己发了一张300元的超市购物卡，“还没捂热就转手送给儿子的班主任了”。“听儿子说班上许多同学都送了，做家长的当然不能在这件事情上落下。但是想想怪憋屈的，公司难得发一次购物卡啊。”王女士向记者抱怨说。

Live in fuzhou city wang，Son in a high school to go to school，She said，This year the festival unit just give yourself hair a 300 yuan of the supermarket loyalty card，“Haven't wu heat will switch to the son of the teacher in charge”。“Listen to the son said many students in the class are sent，Do parents certainly can't fall in this matter。But think about the strange humbled，The company rare hair a loyalty card ah。”Ms. Wang complained to reporters。

　　说到收礼，不少教师也是“一肚子苦水”。“学生将礼物都送到办公室了，不收的话就太不给学生面子了，我们也很尴尬。”小杨是福建某高校的辅导员，共带了2009级3个专业的200多名学生。去年教师节，小杨收到了各个班级送的礼物，有盆景、康乃馨、水果，等等。小杨说，她更喜欢收到一些学生自己精心制作的小玩意，而不是花钱去买。“一些人将‘送礼’全部怪罪在老师身上，其实真是太冤枉了。”小杨无奈地说。

Said to the，, quite a few teachers is“Full of bitter”。“Students will present are sent to the office，Don't accept of words is not to give students a face，We also very embarrassed。”Xiao Yang fujian is a university counselor，With a total of 2009 grade three professional more than 200 students。Teacher's day last year，Xiao Yang received each class gift，A bonsai、carnation、fruit，, etc。Xiao Yang said，She prefers to receive some of the students' own elaborate gadgets，Instead of spending money to buy。“Some people will be‘gifts’All the blame on the teacher，In fact really wronged。”Xiao Yang helplessly said。

　　“不收礼”倡议受师生追捧 “Not to accept a gift”By the teachers and students initiative to chase after hold in both hands

　　要如何遏制“教师节成送礼节”这个不良风气，一些高校为此也做了些“动作”。

How to curb“Teacher's day into send etiquette”The bad atmosphere，Some colleges and universities to do some“action”。

　　冯小剑是福建农林大学金山学院2009级食品科学与工程专业（2）班班长，他清楚记得去年为了给辅导员送教师节礼物，“单单为买啥礼物，就讨论了足足一个多小时，真够累人。最后，大家通过举手表决，才决定了买什么礼物”。

FengXiaoJian is fujian agriculture and forestry university jinshan college level 2009 food science and engineering（2）Class monitor，He clearly remember last year to give counselor send teacher's day gift，“Just to buy what gift，We discussed for more than an hour，True enough tiring。finally，All through the show of hands，Before deciding what to buy gifts”。

　　而今年教师节，冯小剑不再为送礼的事烦恼了。原来，该校发出通知，要求“各班班委注意把班费省下，用到该用的地方，不允许以班级名义给老师送礼”。随后，辅导员陈挺婷特意给冯小剑发了QQ留言：“今年教师节我不收礼，大家不要再花钱买花花草草了。”在这样一封倡议书下，该校许多班级都取消了给老师送礼的计划，而采用发短信、打电话、在黑板上写祝福语等方式表达对教师的敬意。

Teacher's day this year，FengXiaoJian no longer for worrying about the gift。The original，The school notice，requirements“The BanBan committee that the expense save，Use the use place，Don't allow to class name give the teacher a gift”。then，Christine ChenTing counselors have to FengXiaoJian hair QQ message：“Teacher's day I don't accept gifts this year，You don't spend the money to buy the beautiful flowers and plants。”In such a proposal next，The school many classes are cancelled to give the teacher a gift plan，And use to send a text message、call、Written on the blackboard means such as message to express respect teachers。

　　在福建师范大学，今年流行给老师“送微博”。该校学生会特意在新浪、腾讯等多个微博平台放出“送微博”的“风声”，学生电视台还制作了相关视频。学生只需在微博前加上“老师听我说”，这条微博就会出现在学校教工餐厅的大屏幕上，每隔15秒自动刷新一次。

In fujian normal university，Popular this year to the teacher“Send micro bo”。The school students especially in sina、Tencent and other micro bo platform release“Send micro bo”of“wind”，Students television also made related video。Only students in micro bo and before“The teacher listen to me”，This article micro Po will appear in the school staff restaurant on the big screen，Every 15 seconds automatically refresh a。

　　据了解，福建不少高校辅导员也纷纷加入不收礼行列，纷纷通过博客、QQ群等形式倡导大学生不送礼，深受学生们赞许。

It is understood，Fujian many college tutors are also stepping into the ranks of not to accept a gift，Have through the blog、QQ group and other forms advocate college students do not gifts，Praise by the students。

　　送礼不是真正的“尊师” A gift is not true“teacher”

　　尊师重教，并不等于要给教师“送礼”。福建农大金山学院党委副书记林金菊认为，给老师送礼，除了在经济上给学生造成了负担外，心理上更是一种负担。其实，师生之间表达融洽感情的形式有很多，比如一句问候，一条短信，一封亲笔信，一张贺卡或者一首歌。

respecting，Not equal to will give teachers“gifts”。Fujian nongda jinshan college, vice secretary of party LinJinJu think，Give the teacher a gift，In addition to the student in economic burden caused by the outside，Psychological is also a kind of burden。In fact，Harmony between teachers and students in the form of expression of feelings there are many，Such as a word of greeting，A message，A holograph，A card or a song。

　　福建师范大学文明办主任范庆洪表示，尊师重教的优良传统值得弘扬，但一定要回归到本意。花钱买贵重礼物并不是真正的尊师，真正令教师感动的是那些学生发自内心表达对教师敬意的自制手工艺品、运用专业知识自制的作品等，“或许这些礼物不值钱、不起眼、不完美，却往往被教师看作是值得一辈子珍藏的”。

Fujian normal university FanQingHong civilization office director said，The fine tradition of respecting teachers worth carrying forward，But must return to the original idea。Buy expensive gifts and not really respect teachers，Really make teachers touched that those students from the heart to express respect teachers self-control handicrafts、Using professional knowledge homemade works etc，“Perhaps these gifts worth、small、Not perfect，But teachers are often regarded as is worth a lifetime treasure”。

　　湖北省五峰县第二高级中学教师杨华在博客中说，某年教师节，学生们送给他一份特殊礼物——“杨氏格言”，里面收集了他在课堂上教育学生时的精彩言论，以及一些个人习惯用语。这是全班学生专门为他整理定做的，有全体学生的签名，还有一些学生的精彩点评。“教师的富有不在物质而在精神，学生的礼物不在贵重而在‘真心’。”杨华说，这是让自己最感动的教师节礼物。

Hubei province WuFengXian second senior high school teachers in the blog, cnooc said，Some year teacher's day，The students gave him a special gift --“Young's motto”，Inside collect his education students in class the wonderful speech，And some of the personal idioms。This is the class specifically for his finishing custom-made，All the students' signature，There are some students wonderful comment on。“Teacher's rich in material and in spirit，Student's gift is not valuable and in‘really’。”Yang hua said，This is to let your most touched of teacher's day gift。

　　在倡议让教师节回归本意的同时，不少专家表示，谢绝学生和家长送礼不能光靠教师“自律”，也要靠“他律”。事实上，近年来，一些地方的教育行政部门多次就教育系统加强廉洁自律和厉行节约工作提出明确要求：严格禁止教师收受学生及家长的礼品、礼金、有价证券、支付凭证或其他财物；严格禁止违反规定从事有悖于教师职业道德规范的活动，严禁向学生索要或暗示索要财物。

In the initiative let teachers' day return to original idea at the same time，Many experts say，Decline of students and parents gifts can't light on teachers“self-discipline”，Also want to rely on“heteronomy”。In fact，In recent years，Some local education administrative departments many times just education system to strengthen the honesty and self-discipline and economize work give clear requirements：Strictly prohibited from teachers to students and their parents gifts、gift、securities、Payment document or any other property；Strictly prohibited in violation of regulations in contrary to teachers' professional ethics activities，Students are strictly prohibited to ask for hints or ask for property。

　　一些教育人士表示，不论什么节日，教师都要远离家长送的贵重礼品，教育部门也应加强监督，刹住收礼的不良风气。“学校要建立教师教育伦理委员会，把禁止收受学生和家长礼品纳入师德建设范畴进行考查和评判，从制度上消除双方的尴尬。”范庆洪建议。

Some education officials said，No matter what holiday，Teachers are far from parents send precious gift，Education department should strengthen supervision，Put on the brakes the bad atmosphere。“Schools to establish teacher education ethics committee，The banned from students and their parents gifts into the teacher's ethics construction category carries on the examination and evaluation，From the system to eliminate the embarrassed。”FanQingHong Suggestions。