【求学路】

【School road】

　　2011年计划去朝阳实验小学。

2011 plan to chaoyang experimental primary school。

　　放弃朝阳实验小学后在通州和燕郊的学校抉择。

Give up after sunrise experiment elementary school in tongzhou and yan jiao school choice。

　　选定通州，托朋友找学校。

Selected tongzhou，Joe friends find the school。

　　寻找可以接送孩子的小饭桌。

Looking for can pick-up the child's small dining table。

　　寻找保姆，最后决定由姥姥、姥爷来京带孩子。

Looking for the babysitter，The final decision by grandma、Grandpa comes the Beijing children。

　　收到后南仓小学录取通知。

After the receipt of the south bin elementary school admission。

　　人物：妞子

characters：NiuZi

　　年龄：6岁

age：6 years old

　　就读情况：今年开学，在后南仓小学就读一年级。

Studying situation：The start of this year，In the south bin elementary school grade one。

　　刚刚过去的暑假，对于6岁的妞子来说，既期盼又有点担心，因为开学，她就要上一年级了，“妈妈，上学了我是不是就得做很多作业，没时间玩了。”

Just the past summer，For six years old NiuZi speaking，Both hope and a little worried，Because the，She is going to last year's level，“mother，Go to school if I have to do a lot of homework，Don't have time to play the。”

　　而作为家长，妞子的妈妈刘伊莉为孩子上学这事的操心，却早在三年前就开始了。

And as parents，NiuZi mother liu Ellie for their children to school this worry about，But as early as three years ago began。

　　刘伊莉是内蒙古人，她老公是东北人，虽然两人收入不少，在北京有车有房，但自从有了孩子，“北漂”的感觉越发明显。“孩子一出生就得考虑找幼儿园，到了3岁，就得考虑上小学的事了。”刘伊莉说，根据北京的政策，要想让孩子未来在一个好学校就读，就得尽量住在这个学区里，居住时间不得少于一年。

Liu Ellie is Inner Mongolia people，Her husband is the northeast person，Although two people income many，In Beijing car have room，But since have children，“North drift”Feel all the more obvious。“A child was born may consider looking for kindergarten，To 3 years old，May consider the elementary school。”Liu Ellie said，According to the Beijing policy，Want to let the child future in a good school，Have to try to live in this in the school district，Live time shall not be less than a year。

　　妞子三岁的时候，夫妻俩开始逢人便打听哪个学校好，谁能帮忙把孩子办进好学校。去年的一次饭局上，好朋友的妻子答应，将来可以帮忙“活动”到朝阳实验小学。刘伊莉因此激动了很久。“我那时就考虑，在那学校附近租房子。”

NiuZi three years old，A couple began to meet a person then ask which school is good，Who can help the child to do to good schools。Last year the dinner party，Good friend's wife promised，Future can help“activities”To the chaoyang experimental primary school。Liu Ellie so excited for a long time。“I will then consider，In that rent a house near the school。”

　　不过，现实很快冲淡了这种想法。丈夫在燕郊上班，不可能每天大老远地往返，妞子也不能从那时就离开幼儿园，到朝阳那边等待就学。

but，Reality soon dilute the idea。The husband go to work in yan jiao，Could not every day came all the way round，NiuZi also cannot from then departed from kindergarten，To the chaoyang there waiting for school attendance。

　　入学地点

Entrance location

　　四处托朋友选定通州

"Around friends selected tongzhou

　　放弃了名校的诱惑，夫妻俩开始更实际地在燕郊和通州两地选择学校。

Give up the temptation of school，A couple began to more realistically in yan jiao and tongzhou both choose the school。

　　两人摆出利弊，一项一项地比。在距离上，如果在燕郊上小学，学校距离丈夫单位近，方便就近接送孩子。而在通州上学，可以去更好的学校，但因为离家远，孩子的午饭和接送都成了问题。

Two people set out advantages and disadvantages，A a than。In the distance，If in yan jiao elementary school，School distance husband unit near，Convenient nearest shuttle children。And in tongzhou to go to school，Can go to a better school，But because far from home，The child's lunch and shuttle has become a problem。

　　权衡的过程就是一种排除法，直到去年年底，全家一致决定，让妞子在通州上学，而且要去最好的学校。“倒计时了。”打定主意开始，刘伊莉就没停止过托人联系学校。

Weigh the process is a kind of exclusive method，Until the end of last year，Family unanimously decided to，Let NiuZi in tongzhou to go to school，And going to the best schools。“Countdown the。”Determined began，Liu Ellie haven't stopped contact the school subject。

　　那段时间，只要能搭上关系的朋友，刘伊莉就叫出来吃饭。“朋友的朋友，朋友的朋友的朋友，总有一个认识的。”刘伊莉平时爱交朋友，这关键时候，朋友的能力发挥了作用，有朋友说可以帮忙联系就读后南仓小学。

time，As long as it can build on the relationship between friends，Liu Ellie call come out to have a dinner。“Friends of friends，Friend's friend's friend，There is always a know。”Liu Ellie usually love to make friends，This critical time，Friend's ability to play a role，My friends say can help in contact after south bin elementary school。

　　夫妻俩双职工，工作单位半径大，刘伊莉的很多朋友，都是这种情况。她向过来人请教，有的家长把孩子托给小饭桌，接送和午晚餐都由小饭桌负责。于是，夫妻俩又踏上了小饭桌考察之路。

A couple working couple，Work unit radius big，Liu Ellie's many friends，Is this kind of circumstance。She told a n experienced person consult，Some parents send children to small dining table，Shuttle and WuWanCan are made by small table is responsible for。so，A couple and embarked on a small table investigation road。

　　一到周末，刘伊莉就在后南仓小学附近找小饭桌，但一直没找到合意的。“主要是我老公，担心很多，总觉得这家不干净，那家不安全。”

A weekend，Liu Ellie is in the south bin near the primary school to find small dining table，But haven't find pleasing。“Mainly is my husband，Worry a lot of，Always feel that this isn't clean，The unsafe。”

　　孩子接送

The child shuttle

　　几经周折决定老人来京

After several setbacks decided to those old man

　　小饭桌计划搁浅，刘伊莉又循着姐妹们的建议，打起了雇保姆的主意。一个多月，她去过很多家政公司，见过几十个保姆。刘伊莉看上几个合心意的，但又被老公否定了。

The little table plan run aground，Liu Ellie and followed the sisters' advice，Play up the idea of hiring a nanny。More than a month，She has been to many domestic company，Met dozens of nanny。Liu Ellie are only after several close the mind，But it was the husband denied。

　　“现在想想，觉得老公说的有道理，如果在孩子启蒙阶段，身边照顾她的人有不良习惯，很容易被孩子学去，影响就是一辈子。”刘伊莉说，她准备好了辞去工作，在通州照顾孩子。不过，少一个人工作，就意味着生活质量的下降。

“Now think of，Feel the husband said is reasonable，If the children enlightenment stage，Side to take care of her people have bad habits，It is easy to learn to children，Impact is a lifetime。”Liu Ellie said，She is ready to quit working，In the tongzhou to take care of the children。but，A less personal work，Means that a drop in the quality of life。

　　一天晚饭后，夫妻俩又一起谈论孩子接送的问题。结果，和以往一样，一筹莫展。

One day after dinner，Both the husband and wife and children together to talk about the problem of transport。The results，And usual，bewildered。

　　丈夫坐在沙发上，沉默了一会儿，低声说了一句“能不能让咱妈他们来”。

The husband sat down on the sofa，Was silent for a moment，In a low voice 1“Can you let me mom them”。

　　刘伊莉的父母在内蒙古鄂尔多斯，已经70多岁，从那么远来到北京常住，她是有担心的。那一夜，一项大大咧咧的刘伊莉没有合眼，她翻来覆去地想接父母来的可能性。

Liu Ellie parents in the Inner Mongolia erdos，Has more than 70 years old，From so far away came to Beijing permanent，She is worried about。That night，A careless liu Ellie didn't sleep a wink，She wants to take over and parents to possibility。

　　春节过后，老两口决定来北京照顾外孙女。对此，刘伊莉充满愧疚，“如果不是实在没有办法，我是绝对不会把父母找来的。”刘伊莉说，她考虑等孩子一年级以后习惯了，就让父母早点回老家。

After the Spring Festival，The old couple decided to come to Beijing to take care of her daughter's daughter。this，Liu Ellie is full of guilt，“If not really have no way，I am absolutely not the parents to find。”Liu Ellie said，She considered when the child is a year later the habit，Let parents back earlier。

　　接到通知

notified

　　为安全学校对面买房

For safety's opposite the school to buy a house

　　今年5月，刘伊莉在后南仓小学对面贷款买了房子。“我买这个房子其实也考虑孩子以后上下学有个去处。”刘伊莉说，她在通州的家距离学校还有五、六站地，有姥姥、姥爷接送还放心，如果以后孩子自己上下学了，还是住在学校附近比较安全。就在学校对面，走过一条小路就到，不用担心路上的车多不安全。

In may this year，Liu Ellie in the south bin primary school the loan to buy the house。“I bought this house actually also considered child later ShangXiaXue have a place。”Liu Ellie said，She in the tongzhou home distance school and five、Six station to，Grandmother has、Grandpa shuttle also rest assured，If your child after the ShangXiaXue，Or live near the school safer。In the school，Through a path to，Don't worry about the road car not more safety。

　　终于，一切准备妥当。8月份，妞子接到了后南仓小学的录取通知。孩子的姥姥、姥爷也来到北京，提前适应生活。上周，刘伊莉带着妞子上街，买了新书包、铅笔盒、水壶。

finally，After all preparations is appropriate。In August，NiuZi received after the south bin elementary school admission。The child's grandmother、Grandpa also came to Beijing，Early to adapt to life。Last week，Liu Ellie with NiuZi to go shopping，Bought a new schoolbag、pencil-box、kettle。

　　见完学校老师，刘伊莉拉着女儿的手走在校园里。

See the school teacher，Liu Ellie took her daughter's hand walk on the campus。

　　“妞子，你知道吗？为了让你成为最棒的孩子，妈妈费了很大劲儿才让你上了这个学校，很多孩子都想来这里。”

“NiuZi，You know what?？In order to let you become the best children，Mother fee the very big strength just let you go to the school，Many children wanted to come here。”

　　抬头看着妈妈，妞子天真地眨着眼睛，“妈妈，那是不是每个妈妈都希望自己的孩子是最棒的，那谁才是最棒的呢？

Looked up at his mother，NiuZi fondly blink eyes，“mother，Is that every mother all hope that their children are the best，Who is the best?？

　　新京报记者 郭超

The Beijing news reporter GuoChao

　　刘伊莉：我也担心9年以后孩子高考问题，回到户籍所在地天津，我没有亲人了，只能陪读。谁知道呢，走一步看一步吧，为了孩子，我什么都愿意付出。

Liu Ellie：I also worry about nine years after the college entrance examination problem children，Back to census register seat tianjin，I don't have a family，Or relatives can apply only。Who knows，Let go one step at a time，For the children，I'm willing to pay。