开学季再议家长焦虑症：“不能让孩子输在起跑线上”？ Opening season reconsideration parents anxiety:"Can't let children lose in the starting line"?

　　又逢一年开学季。各地中小学的孩子们背起书包，开始新的学期。一度寂静的校园里又响起欢声笑语，一度畅通的校园门口又出现拥堵的车辆。伴随着新学期的来临，学生家长们的焦虑情绪，似乎也再度笼上心头：担心自己的孩子学习跟不上，着急自己的孩子比人家学的少，忧虑老师对自己的孩子关注不够。林林总总，归纳起来，似乎正应了那句被人常挂在嘴边上的话：“不能让孩子输在起跑线上”。

And every year opening season.All primary and secondary school children take up bag,Start a new semester.Once silent campus rings and laughter,Once clear campus the door appeared heavy vehicles.With the coming of the new term,Students' parents anxiety emotion,Seemed to mind again cage:Worry about their child to learn can't keep up,Worried their children learn less than the somebody else,Worry about the teacher for their children enough attention.numerous,To sum up,Seems the sentence was often hung in the words of the mouth:"Can't let children lose in the starting line".

　　家长的焦虑固然可以理解。但事实果真如此吗？难道起跑线上的争夺真的能决定孩子一生的命运和前途吗？

Parents' anxiety is understandable.But the truth was indeed the case?Don't scratch race really can decide the fate of a child's life and future?

　　据国外媒体报道，天生没有右手的英国男子尼古拉斯?麦卡锡，却弹得一手好钢琴。日前他从英国皇家音乐学院毕业，并举办了个人演奏会，成为该校130年历史上毕业的第一位单手钢琴师。尼古拉斯从小喜爱音乐，曾想进入音乐学校学习，但面试时有人告诉他，他永远都不可能成功。尼古拉斯并没有放弃，每天都在家中的电子琴上练习好几个小时，最终用自己不懈的努力和付出创造了生命的奇迹。

According to foreign media reports,Had been born without the right hand British man Nicholas?McCarthy,But play the piano well.Has he from the royal music college graduation,And held a personal concert,Become a school in 130 graduated from history the first single hand pianist.Nicholas from love music,Ever wanted to enter music school,But the interview someone told him,He will never be successful.Nicholas and didn't give up,Every day the electone at home on practice for several hours,Finally with their own unremitting efforts and pay created the miracle of life.

　　如果非要用赛跑来比喻的话，那么人生不是短暂的百米冲刺，而是一场漫长的马拉松长跑。起跑线上的争夺也无法决定谁将赢得比赛最终的胜利。起跑时的优胜，并不意味着你可以一路领先。如果经常观看长跑比赛，你会发现最后的冠军恰恰在起跑伊始并不那么锋芒毕露，而发令枪响后的领跑者往往并不能坚持多久。学习和长跑，人生和比赛，确有诸多相似之处：谁有持续的后劲，谁就更有希望；谁笑到最后，谁才笑得最美！

If does not want to use words to describe the race,So life is not short of the m sprint,But a long marathon run.Scratch race also is unable to decide who will win the final victory.The launching of outperformance,It doesn't mean you can be in the lead.If often watch long distance race,You will find that the final champion at exactly at the beginning of the start is not so fail to show restraint,But after starting gun leader often does not insist on long.Learning and run,Life and games,Have many similarities:Who has continues the stamina,Who is more hope;Who laughs last,Who is the only one that laughs best!

　　尽管当下的教育环境之中还有这样或那样的不尽如人意之处，但不论如何，家长们也不应该把自己的孩子训练成学习或考试的“机器”。在盲目的焦虑情绪之下，逼迫孩子去参加数不清的各种“学习班”和“兴趣班”，奔波在大大小小的培训机构以及考试场所，搞得家长和孩子身心俱疲，从而让孩子们过早地失去了学习本身应该带给他们的兴趣和快乐。种下一个行动，收获一种习惯；种下一种习惯，收获一种性格；种下一种性格，收获一种命运。为了给孩子们营造一个健康、自由、快乐成长的氛围，就请家长们首先调整好自己的心态，梳理好自己的心情。这样做既是给自己减压，更是给孩子们“松绑”。 (新华教育 商亮)

Although the current education surroundings have this or that kind of defects,But no matter how to,Parents should not put their children training into learning or test"machine".In blind under the anxiety,Force their children to go to countless various"classes"and"interest",In the big and small training institutions and the examination place,Parents and children to get tired,So as to let the children prematurely lost learning itself should bring their interest and happiness.Kind of the next action,Reap a habit;Kind of a kind of habit,Reap a character;Planted a character,Reap a destiny.In order to give children to build a health/free/Joyful growth atmosphere,Please parents first adjust their own state of mind,Comb your mood.To do so is to relieve the pressure,Is given to children"relax". (Xinhua education ShangLiang)

　　(来源:新华网)

(Sources: xinhua)