发帖人“antony”称：8月31日，我们乘坐203去通惠钓鱼，在512(车站)上来一位老人，穿得很整洁，可能有80多岁了，我立即站起来给他让座，请他坐下。他坐下后拿出一个红包，非要给我，说他年纪大了，腿脚不方便。内心很感谢那些为他让座的人，因此就准备了红包，来表示自己感谢的心意，希望让座的人万事如意！我听他这样说，不禁肃然起敬，伸手恭敬地接了过来。回家后打开红包，是2元钱和一张卡片，卡片上印着：“你高风格让座和帮助，感谢您！綦江代正兴”。在这里，我也祝愿代正兴老人万事如意，健康长寿！

Post people"Antony"says:August 31,,We took a 203 to tonghui fishing,In 512(station)Come up an old man,Wear very neat,There may be more than 80 years old,I immediately stood up to his seat,Please him to sit down.He sat down and started out a red envelope,Have to give me,Said he is old,Ability to walk not convenient.The heart is very thank those for him to let people,Thus prepared red packets,To show their thanks to mind,Hope to let people everything goes well!I heard him say so,Can not help but respect,Stretched out his hand and reverently pick up.After coming home open red packets,Is 2 yuan of money and a card,CARDS printed with:"You high style seats and help,Thank you for your!QiJiangDai zhengxing".here,I also wish generation zhengxing old man everything goes well,Longevity and health!

　　老人名叫代正兴，退休前是当地一所财贸技术学校的校长，一年半来他已送出61个红包。（9月5日《重庆晨报》）

The old man named generation is xing,Before retirement is one of the local finance and trade technology the headmaster of the school,A year and a half to he has sent 61 red packets.(On September 5,[Chongqing morning paper])

　　

赞成 In favor of

　　

驱动道德血液回流 Drive moral blood backflow

　　赠人玫瑰，手有余香；尊老爱幼，举手之劳。在一个温暖而成熟的社会，很多激活于不经意间的“微关怀”“微帮助”“微慈善”，恰恰就是芸芸众生“微生活”的重要幸福来源。围绕代正兴老人，61名让座者和61个红包即构成了一个城市的美丽风景。

Send person rose,Hand have lingering fragrance;Aged respected,Lift a finger.In a warm and mature society,A lot of activation in the casual"Micro care""Micro help""Micro charity",Is precisely sentient beings"Micro life"An important source of happiness.Around the generation is the old man,61 let person and 61 red envelopes that constitute a beautiful scenery of the city.

　　爱与关怀从来就不是单向度的情感。道德的力量，在于传递、在于互动、在于复制、在于放大，在于社会的肯定和认同，在于示范引领下的追随模仿。现实中，某些地方之所以屡屡出现“不让座被扇耳光”的尴尬新闻，少数年轻人之所以难以形成让座的良好习惯，其中一个原因即在于，他们的让座不仅很少得到一声“谢谢”，甚至连起码的正面评价和人际互动也没有。缺乏评价和道德回流，使其逐渐流失了继续做好事的勇气和动力。毕竟，绝大多数普通民众的道德境界和道德标准，与社会道德高地上的雷锋、郭明义、杨善洲、李素丽等先锋楷模不可同日而语，他们仍然需要口头鼓励、精神激励和人格尊重。

Love and care is never one dimensional emotions.Moral strength,Lies in the transfer/Lies in the interaction/Is to copy/Lies in the amplification,In the society and recognition,Demonstration is guided by imitation to follow.reality,Some places are often appear"Don't let be fan a slap in the face"Embarrassing news,A few young people is difficult to form good habit of his seat,One of the reasons is,Their seats not only rarely get a sound"thank you",Even at least positive evaluation and interpersonal interaction also have no.The lack of evaluation and moral reflux,Make it gradually lost continue to do good courage and power.After all,The vast majority of ordinary people's moral realm and moral standards,And social moral highland of lei feng/GuoMingYi/YangShanZhou/LiSuLi etc pioneer model cannot be mentioned in the same breath,They still need to oral encourage/Spiritual motivation and personality respect.

　　“让座红包”是一种温暖的道德血液回流，同时也蕴藏了一个退休老教师的人生智慧和教育智慧它明确地为受助者作了表达，向让座者作出道德肯定，完成了一次道德与心灵的对话，为他们所付出的正能量进行有益的“情感补充”“良善交流”；它更使让座者在实施道德行为的同时，充分感受助人之乐，从情感反馈及道德评价中净化灵魂，从而进一步固化和延续自身的良好行为习惯，在未来能够更加持之以恒地做好事、行善事。张培元

"Let red envelopes"Is a kind of warm moral blood backflow,At the same time also contain a retired old teacher wisdom of life and education wisdom it specifically for the recipients to express,Make sure to let person moral,Completed a moral and spirit of dialogue,For they gave positive energy out helpful"Emotional added""Good communication";It more make the seat in the implementation of moral behavior at the same time,Fully experience the joy of helping,Feedback from the emotion and moral evaluation of soul purification,Thus further curing and continue their good behavior habits,In the future will be more consistently good/Doing good.ZhangPeiYuan

　　

身体力行感化社会 Physically influence society

　　重庆这位叫代正兴的老人，对那些主动让座的人派发“红包”，一方面说明了老人家知恩图报的感恩情怀，另一方面则说明，当下社会语境里中华民族的传统美德正在离我们渐行渐远。

Chongqing the call generation zhengxing old man,For those who let person active distributed"Red envelopes",On the one hand illustrates the old man honest Abe grateful feelings,On the other hand, explain,Then in the social context of the Chinese nation's traditional virtues are away from us further away from it.

　　尊老爱幼乃中华民族的传统美德，可近几年来这一传统美德正在被扭曲变形，正在成为一种稀有的精神资源。一些人任性、自我，完全一副“唯我独尊”的架势，孕妇乘车他们可以视而不见，耄耋老者乘车无动于衷，由此人们发出了“人心不古，世风日下”的叹喟。

The elderly and care for the young is the traditional virtue of the Chinese,But in recent years the traditional virtue is being distortion,Is becoming one kind of rare spiritual resources.Some people capricious/self,Completely a pair of"Just me"attitude,Pregnant women ride they can turn a blind eye,Old man MaoDie indifferent to ride,Thus people sent out"RenXinBuGu,Going to the dogs"Kui sigh of.

　　在这样一种社会语境下，代正兴老人身体力行，试图以自己的“回报”来感化社会，其用意和初衷是好的，但是靠“发红包”能否救赎我们的社会良知，有待经受社会的检验。拯救社会道德是一个系统工程，单凭一个人的单打独斗是难以成气候。但是，代正兴老人的这种“示范效应”也不可小觑，如果我们每个人都能像他那样知恩图报，对帮助过自己的人心存善念、心怀感激，我们离文明社会就会越来越近。

In such a social context,Generation zhengxing old man practice what one preaches,Trying to own"return"To reform social,Its purpose and original intention is good,But by"Us red envelopes"Can redeem our social conscience,To be the society's inspection.Save social morality is a system engineering,Single by a person's contribution is difficult to ChengQiHou.but,Generation zhengxing old man's this"Demonstration effect"Also cannot small gaze,If each of us can like him honest Abe,To those who have helped us be good thoughts/grateful,From our civilized society will be more and more nearly.

　　倡导社会公德是一个循序渐进的过程，不能一蹴而就。但是，我们又不能麻木不仁，任其社会风气每况愈下，必须有完善的教化措施和制度设计。

Advocate social morality is a gradual process,Does not come easily.but,And we can't insensitive,Let the general mood of society from bad to worse,Must have a perfect enlightenment measures and system design.

　　“有奖让座”它是一种感恩，不是施舍，是道德老人对道德的敬畏。那些手接“红包”的人可汗颜否？对老人让座本该是天经地义的事情，可老人却“知恩图报”，需要反思的不仅是让座者，我们整个社会都需要反思，他的这一“友善之举”拷问着世人的道德底线。

"Premium seats"It is a kind of gratitude,Not giving,The old man is moral to moral fear.The fielder"Red envelopes"People can no shame?His seat to the old man was supposed to be god's truth things,But the old man but"Honest Abe",Need to reflect not only the seat,We need to reflect on the whole society,his"Friendly an"Torture the world's moral bottom line.

　　拯救社会道德需要每个人的积极参与。道德老人代正兴给我们每一个人上了一堂很好的“道德课”。李红军

Save social moral need everyone's active participation in.Moral old man generation zhengxing to each one of us on a very good"Moral lesson".LiGongJun

　

　反对　　 against

　　卡片比红包更有价值 Card is worth more than a red envelope

　　相对于"男子公交车上未让座被连扇5个耳光"，重庆八旬老翁代正兴给乘车让座者发2元红包，一反一正，凸显其新闻价值；不过，论社会意义，我还觉得"1张卡片"比"2元红包"更有价值。

Relative to"Man bus seat is not even fan 5 a slap in the face",Chongqing years old man generation zhengxing to ride his seat receiving 2 yuan red packets,A reverse a positive,Highlight the news value;but,Theory social significance,I still feel"1 card"than"2 yuan a red envelope"More valuable.

　　"2元红包"，对于代老这位退休老同志来说，一周送出去几只红包，也不算多大的开支；而收到一只红包2块钱，对于让座者来说，也不算多大的收入，有这2元富不起来，没这2元穷不了。

"2 yuan a red envelope",For generations the retired old for old comrades,A week away a few red packets,Is not much spending;And receive a red envelope 2 dollars,For his seat for those,Is not how much income,Have this 2 yuan rich don't get up,Didn't the 2 yuan not poor.

　　"你高风格让座和帮助，感谢您！綦江代正兴"——就这么一张名片大小的卡片，其上的"感谢您"，其意"有三"。

"You high style seats and help,Thank you for your!QiJiangDai zhengxing"- so the size of a piece of calling card card,the"Thank you for your",Its meaning"There are three".

　　一者，表达了谢意。花钱乘车，乘客之间，不让座并不犯法，让座是"讲文明"。所以，上车有人给你让座，多少有些"付出"，特别是长途乘车。这个时候，被让者，无论是老人还是孕妇，表示谢意，口头的也行，有代老这样的书面表达更好。

darling,Expressed their gratitude.Spend their money on transportation to,Passengers between,Don't let not illegal,Seats is"civilized".so,Get on someone give you his seat,Some sort of"pay",Especially the long distance bus.This time,Is let person,Whether old or pregnant women,To show our appreciation,Oral to also go,A generation of old such writing better.

　　二者，也算是一种凭据。让座，是一种文明之举，被让座者说一声"谢谢"。虽然，对于让座者来说，让座之后，并无所求，但拥有代老的那张小卡片，起码也是一种"让座的证据"，也可作为一种纪念。或许，有了这种"凭据+纪念"，又会激励更多的人上车主动给老弱病残者让座。

both,Is a credential.seats,Is a kind of civilization of the lift,His seat was who say a sound"thank you".although,For his seat for those,After his seat,Wanted nothing,But with the old generation that piece of small card,At least is also a kind of"Evidence of his seat",Also can be used as a memorial.perhaps,With this"Credential + memorial",And will inspire more people get on the initiative to LaoRuoBingCanZhe seats.

　　三者，对"行凶逼让"是一种批判。因为没让座，就将人家打得鼻血横流，这已涉嫌"违法"。与最近几起"行凶逼让"比起来，代老的"1张卡片"上的"感谢您"，让我们看到"行凶逼让"的渺小，反而让他老人家更受人敬重。

three,to"Force let loose"Is a critical.Because no seats,Will somebody else played nosebleed cross flow,This has suspected"illegal".And recent up"Force let loose"than,The old generation"1 card"on"Thank you for your",Let us see"Force let loose"small,But let's his old man's house more respected.

　　与动物、植物相比，人，更具有社会性。生活在这个社会里的"你、我、他"，要想得到别人的尊重，就应该像代老这种"先尊重别人"，且"和谐"应该是双向的，这就是生活的"辩证法"。 张轶水

And animal/Than plants,people,Is more social.Live in this society of"you/I/he",To get the respect of others,You should like the old generation"To respect others",and"harmonious"Should is a two-way street,This is the life"dialectics". ZhangYi water

基本素质靠奖励　　国人的脸往哪放

Basic quality by reward people face where put

　　不久前，杭州公交车上一年轻小伙因未给抱小孩的夫妇让座，被对方扇了5耳光，一时间引发不小的争议。而就在杭州小伙不让座被打事件以后，其他地方又爆出几起因不让座引发的掴耳光事件：8月26日晚，济南115路公交车上，一小伙子因没给身边一位带小孩的妇女让座而挨妇女一耳光；当天下午，长春市102路公交车内，一残疾男子因未给中年妇女让座而被该妇女扇耳光……由此人们不禁要闻：巴掌扇出的是私欲还是道德焦虑？

Not long ago,Hangzhou bus last year light guy for failing to baby let couples,The other was fan 5 a slap in the face,Time caused a lot of controversy.And in hangzhou guy don't let on events later,Other places came out again a few cause don't let triggered a hard slap event:On August 26 late,Jinan 115 on the bus,A young man failed to side with a woman with a baby in his seat and get women a box on the ear;In the afternoon,In changchun city 102 bus,A disabled man for failing to give up his seat by the middle-aged women and women's fan a slap in the face……Thus people can not help but important news:Carrier fan out is desires or moral anxiety?

　　不让座就给耳光，显然不是文明社会文明人的应有之举；而让了座就给红包，又该如何看待呢？80多岁的老人坐公交车，作为文明古国中的一员，让座应该是最基本的道德素质。如果这基本素质都需要用奖励来维持，国人的脸往哪儿放？同时，为了奖金而让座，即便是让座了，就能说明他的道德素质高吗？

Don't let gave a slap in the face,Obviously not civilization society of Christian should lift;And let the seat will give red packets,How should treat?More than 80 - year - old man take the bus,As a member of the ancient civilization,Seats should be the most basic moral quality.If the basic quality of the need to use incentives to maintain,People face where put?At the same time,For the prize and seats,Even if is the seat,Would explain his moral quality high?

　　现实生活中不乏这样的事情：年轻人主动让座后，不仅连一句"谢谢"也没收到，有时还遭到白眼。让座只是一种道德倡导，不让座不会受到法律法规的惩处。既然是一种道德倡导，年轻人主动让座了，得到一句"谢谢"天经地义，这也叫"礼尚往来"吧！

In real life there is no lack of such a thing:The young man active her seat,Not only even a"thank you"Also received,Sometimes being supercilious look.His seat is a kind of moral advocate,Don't let will not be any laws and regulations.Now that is a kind of moral advocate,Young people let the initiative,Get a"thank you"God's truth,This is also called"Courtesy demands reciprocity"it!

　　让座给红包这种方式值得商榷，但老人的初衷很好，目的非常明确，所以老人表示，红包还要继续给下去，而且以后不光给让座的人发红包，凡是提供帮助的，都能收到他的红包。但愿世人都能读懂"让座给红包"的题中之意和弦外之音！ 毛开云

Give a red envelope worthy of this way,But the old man's original intention is very good,Purpose is very clear,So the old man said,A red envelope will continue to go down,And not only give his seat after the human hair red packets,Those who offer help,He will receive red envelopes.I wish the world all can read"Give a red envelope"In the topic of meaning and implication! Hair open cloud

　　

■三言两语 S in a few words

　　●让座还是不让座，都是个人自愿，靠强迫靠制度不行。唯有给让座者起码的尊重，才能真正形成良好的社会风气。

Took his seat seat or not,Man is a voluntary,By forced by system no.Only to let person at least respect,Can we form a truly a good social atmosphere.

　　——代正兴

- generation zhengxing

　　●我觉得即便这红包里没有钱，也鼓励了很多年轻人让座。虽然不是每一次让座都会换来谢谢，但是我希望换来的也不是理所当然的嘲讽和冷漠！更别说不让座就打人的事了！

- I think even if it had no money in red envelopes,Many young people have also encouraged his seat.Although not every time for his seat will thank you,But I hope for also is not to be taken for granted sarcasm and apathy!Let alone don't let it hit things!

　　——路瑶瑶

- road YaoYao

　　●让座是自愿的，给红包同样也是自愿的。所以这种情况还是少数，不会有太大普及的，毕竟每个人的想法是不同的。

Had his seat is voluntary,Give red packets is also voluntary.So this kind of situation or a few,Won't have too big popular,After all each person's idea is different.

　　——张鹏

- zhang

　　●让座变买坐，你怎么看？

His seat had become buy sit,What do you think of?

　　——梁恒鑫

- LiangHengXin

　　●我们该感到惭愧吗？给需要的人让座吧，给你的或许有红包，但是更重要的是被让座的人一个微笑。

- we should feel ashamed?For those who need it gives seats to people,Give you may have a red envelope,But more important is his seat by a smile.

　　——浅歌

- shallow song

　　●人性本善，爱心是相互的，你施与别人阳光，别人会回报你明媚的春天。

- the goodness,Love is mutual,You give people the sunshine,Others will return you beautiful spring.

　　——李雅

- yeli

　　●难道有脸收这红包？——耿火山

Had the nerve to don't receive the red packets?- gunn volcanic

　　●不提倡，把别人的一片爱心当成了交易的感觉，是在侮辱让座的乘客。如果我让座的老人给我红包，我肯定很生气并且会将红包扔他/她脸上！

- do not advocate,Others a piece of love as the transaction feeling,Insult seat passengers.If I let the old man gave me a red envelope,I'm sure I was very angry and will throw his/her face red envelopes!

　　——李秀

- LiXiu

　　●互相尊重是一回事，但是给老人让座是应该的。还发红包？虽然不代表什么，但个人认为这么做不妥。

- respect each other is one thing,But offer their seats to old people is as it should be.Also us red envelopes?Although do not represent??????,But personally think so do wrong.

　　——郭进

- GuoJin

　　●公交车上让不让座，最近成了许多市民尤其是年轻人，每天上下班都怕遇到的一道命题。

The bus had let not his seat,Recently to become a lot of people, especially young people,Commuting are afraid of meeting a proposition.

　　——闫果

- 闫果

　　●号召大家不是为了红包，是要做文明尊老爱幼的中国人。

Had called on everyone not to red packets,Is to be spent his youth civilization of the Chinese people.

　　——李心怡

- LiXinYi

　　●不要红包不用感谢。我坐公车必须让座。

- don't red packets don't thank.I sit bus must seats.

　　——张源源

- ZhangYuanYuan

　　●看到这个，想到典故"子路受而劝德，子贡让而止善"。看来，孔子还是一名现实主义者。

- see this,Think of allusions"Zi lu and advised by Germany,Zigong let and check good".It seems,Confucius was a realist.

　　——杜鹃

- cuckoo

　　●越来越畸形了，这个社会！让座应是自愿自发行为，给红包是要支付劳务费吗？！此举把社会风气引向更坏的方向。

- more and more abnormal,The social!Seats should be voluntary spontaneous behavior,Give red packets is to pay service fee?!The move to the general mood of society more bad direction.

　　——马可燃

- mark combustion

(来源:北京晨报)

(Sources: Beijing morning post)