昨天是山东师范大学2012级新生报到的日子，在山师的老校区，迎接新生的班车一趟接着一趟开进校园，在场的工作人员和各学院的师哥师姐们也是忙的不亦乐乎。然而，在迎新现场，记者却发现一新生模样的女同学哭哭啼啼。第一天报到，新鲜、兴奋还来不及，怎么还有哭鼻子的？这又是怎么回事儿？记者上前打探。

Yesterday is shandong normal university 2012 freshmen report to day,In the mountain division of the old campus,To meet the new bus a trip and then a trip into the campus,None of the staff present and colleges shigeshijiemen is also extremely busy.however,In the new field,Reporter found that a new shape of female classmate sniveling.Reported for his first day,fresh/Excited could,And what weep?This is how to reply a thing?Reporters came near, and find out.

已经进校门，突然说“不上了”任性丫头急坏了迎新工作人员 Have been to the school gate,Suddenly say"Not on the"Capricious girl anxious that bad new staff

　　“说不来，偏劝我来，你看大门这么破，心都凉了，还上什么大学！我要回去复读！”昨天上午不到9点，山东师范大学老校区的迎新广场上，一位小姑娘对着旁边的一位中年男人哭着嚷道，身边还有两位迎新志愿者，看上去手足无措。这一幕被正好经过的记者看在了眼里。难道仅仅就因为自己不中意校园大门，就不上大学了？

"Cannot get along,Partial advised me to,You break so dis stupid gatekeeper,Heart is cool,Still go up what university!I have to get back to answer read!"Less than nine o 'clock yesterday morning,Shandong normal university new problem is posing on the square,A little girl on the side of a middle-aged man cried and cried,You have two new volunteers,Looks overwhelmed.This scene was just after reporters look in the eyes.Don't just because he does not like the campus gate,Will not go to university?

　　记者上前采访，得知旁边那位中年男人是女孩儿的父亲，姓汪，而这位正在哭闹的姑娘是他的女儿，今年刚高中毕业考到山师，这对父女来自安徽。“我丫头学习成绩一直很好，这次没考好，一直想复读，可是家里劝她还是继续上吧，到了大学可以再考研嘛，就因为这个，心情一直没理顺，总带着情绪。”汪先生告诉记者。

Reporter to interview,The middle-aged man is next to that girl's father,Name is wang,And this is crying girl is his daughter,This year just high school graduation examination to mountain division,Delineate the from anhui."My girl has been very good grades,This didn't test good,Always wanted to answer read,But home advised her to continue to go on,The university can be well one's deceased father grind,Because of this,The mood has not straighten out,Always with a mood."Mr Wang told reporters.

　　已经准备报到办手续了，任性丫头突然嚷着要回家，谁劝都不听，这可急坏了负责接送新生的大二师哥兰传凯和另一位师姐。无奈之下，只好赶快去找辅导员来处理这棘手的难题。

Ready to go through the formalities for registration,Capricious girl suddenly cried out to go back home,Who persuaded doesn't listen to,This may be anxious that bad responsible for transfers new courses sophomore LanChuanKai and another the teacher elder sister.Helpless under,Had to hurry to find counselor to handle this thorny problem.

“先硬后软”，辅导员耐心开导倔强新同学终于改变了想法 "After the first hard soft",Counselor patient enlighten stubborn new students finally changed idea

　　父亲大老远从省外陪着来报到，说不上就不上了，旁边一大群人跟着着急，都在劝，可这新同学犟得很，一直坚持说不上了，要回去复读。父亲汪先生也是跟着干着急，毫无办法，竟然拿起电话，打给在家的妻子，让她来劝女儿，却不想女儿连电话也不接。

Father came all this way from outside the province accompany to report,Can't say is not on the,Next to a large group of people with worry,Are advised,But this new classmates very stubborn,Always adhere to the can't say,To get back to answer read.Mr Wang is also worried father followed,There is no way to,Unexpectedly pick up the phone,Call home wife,Let her to persuade her daughter,But don't want to daughter even telephone not pick up.

　　不一会儿，得知情况的辅导员吴晓玲赶了过来。“你满18岁了吧？成人了吧？你这样冲动，草率决定，你这是在对自己负责吗？你有没有考虑过家人的感受！”赶来的辅导员并没有“哄”新同学顺心，一见面就是劈头盖脸一通严厉质问，这样的方式让记者心里打了个问号：这样能行吗？

Not and in a short while,That WuXiaoLing counselor catch up."You full 18 years old now?Adult!?You so impulse,Jump to a conclusion,You are responsible for yourself?Have you considered the feelings of family!"The instructor did not come"coax"The new students are,A meeting is swept over a tough question,This way let reporters heart beat a question mark:This can do it?

　　可是，事情结果竟然大大出乎记者的意料，这位新同学不再抹眼泪了，而是慢慢开始变得平静起来。“我没有嫌学校不好，山师也挺好的，只是我不甘心，还想复读。”对这位倔强的新同学，看来辅导员吴晓玲这招还是很管用的。

but,Things result unexpectedly greatly not reporters surprise,The new students no longer wipe tears,But slowly become calm up."I don't think schools are bad,Mountain division also quite good,But I not voluntarily,Still want to answer read."The stubborn new classmate,It seems counselor WuXiaoLing this recruit or very the canal USES.

　　见她不再嚷着回家，吴晓玲的语气也和蔼了不少。“一个假期没做好的决定，今天这一会儿就非要做，这么冲动，肯定会后悔的，不如我们认真想想自己的现状，考虑清楚了，再决定也不迟啊。”经验丰富的吴晓玲开始耐心地替这位新同学分析专业、现在的大学以及复读等种种问题，为她自己做决定提供参考意见。“好吧，那就先报到，在新环境试试吧。”经过辅导员和众师哥师姐的一番耐心劝导，倔强的新同学终于不再“坚持”，同意报到入学。

See she no longer cried out to go home,The tone of the WuXiaoLing also kind a lot."A holiday didn't make decision,Today this soon have to do,So impulse,Must be regret,Why don't we seriously think about their own situation,Consider to be clear about the,And then make a decision is not late also ah."Experienced WuXiaoLing began to patiently for the new students professional analysis/Now university and answer read, etc various problems,For her own do decided to provide reference opinions."well,The first report,In the new environment try."After the counselor and the senior fellow apprentice the teacher elder sister of a patient deceived,Stubborn new classmate finally no longer"Adhere to the",Agreed to report to entrance.

　　希望她能尽快适应大学校园的生活，早日融入其中。文/图见习记者李人杰

Hope she can adapt to college campus life as soon as possible,Early into the.Wen/diagram trainee reporter LiRenJie

补充阅读： Supplementary reading:

　　北大女生为换专业退学重考 高考失利受打击 North girls for change major drop out of school retake college exam overwhelm

　　由于对所学专业不满意，秭归一名女生在北京大学读了两年后，退学参加今年高考，结果分数并不理想；仙桃一名男生也在某重点大学读了一年半后退学，今年终于考入自己心仪的学校和专业。为了能上自己理想的专业，选择退学重考，代价是不是太大了？对于少数学生的这一极端之举，有关专家均表示：不赞成。[详细]

The major not satisfied,Zigui a girl in Beijing university read two years later,Drop out of school to participate in this year the university entrance exam,Results score is not ideal;Xiantao a boy also in a key university read a year and a half after the drop out of school,Finally this year was admitted to himself the right school and professional.In order to his ideal professional,Choose drop out of reexamination,The price is too big?A small number of students for the extreme lift,Experts are said:Don't approve of.[detailed]

大学新生入学教育满意度不高 自动退学率近3% Students education satisfaction is not high automatic attrition rate nearly 3%

　　研究发现，大学成功在很大程度上取决于新生第一年的经历。假如第一年适应不良，可能导致新生学业兴趣淡漠、学习参与度降低、学习成绩不佳、人际关系出现障碍、精神和健康状态不良，甚至中断学业。不少学生克服重重困难进入大学校门，却因为不适应高校生活而终结自己的大学梦。[详细]

The study found that,University success is largely depends on the new first years of experience.If the first year maladjustment,May lead to new academic interest indifference/Learning to reduce participation/The academic record was not good/Interpersonal relationship problems/Spirit and bad health status,Even interrupt academic.Quite a few students overcome many difficulties into university,But because they do not adapt to college life and end their university dream.[detailed]

每年16万大学生退学 什么影响了学生的选择？ Every year 160000 college students drop out of school what influence the student's choice?

　　大学需要选择适合的学生，学生也需要选择适合的大学和专业，这是一个互动的双向选择，学生退学也是学生选择大学的一种方式。现在的学生，不再是"只要能够上大学，读什么都可以"，他们也会选择，也要货比三家，客户如果不满意产品的质量，自然是要退货的，谁愿意花了四年时间，却换来"不满意"？[详细]

University need to choose to suit the students,Students also need to choose suitable university and professional,This is an interactive two-way choice,Students drop out of school and university students choose a way.Now the students,Is no longer"As long as could go to college,What to read",They also will choose,Also want to shop around,If customers are not satisfied with the quality of the products,Nature is to return,Who is willing to spend four years time,However change"Not satisfied with"?[detailed]