温顺听话往往被认为是一个孩子家教好、品行端的标准，但这准则可能并不科学。

Docile is often considered as a child tutor is good/Conduct of the standard,But this rule may not science.

　　据英国《每日邮报》刊登的一项最新研究表明，小孩爱顶嘴未必是坏事，经常跟父母顶嘴的小孩与温顺听话的小孩比起来，更不容易出现不良行为。美国维吉尼亚大学的心理学研究人员研究了150名13岁孩子同母亲讨论问题时的情形，把他们分成“固执己见”和“言听计从”两组。3年后，研究人员发现：在面对朋友的不良诱惑时，“坚持己见”者比“言听计从”者更能果断地加以拒绝。专家表示：“家庭是训练孩子跟他人打交道的地方。孩子拥有‘争论能力’，就不容易染上不良习性。尽管顶嘴会让家长不高兴，但在家庭内部培养出的交际能力，会树立孩子对自己意见的自信。”

According to the British[Daily mail]A new study published in the show,Children love retort that is not necessarily a bad thing,With their parents often talk back child and docile child than up,Less prone to bad behavior.The United States of the university of Virginia psychology researchers studied 150 13 children with mother discussion question situation,Put them into"self-absorbed"and"agrees"Two groups.Three years later,The researchers found that:In the face of friend's bad temptation,"Insist on your"Than people who are"agrees"The more decisively to refuse.Experts say:"The family is training children with others deal with place.Children have‘Debate ability’,It is not easy to get bad habits.Although answer back will let parents not happy,But in family internal cultivate communicative ability,Will build the child to his opinion of confidence."

　　研究结果可能会让一些家有“小霸王”的家长稍稍有些安慰，但另一方面，听话的孩子也不应该因此被鼓励要学会顶嘴。家庭教育是门学问，任何研究结果都不是唯一准则，况且孩子的自信和争论能力也决不仅仅是从顶嘴中学来的。

The results of the study may make some home has"Little overlord"Parents slightly some comfort,But on the other hand,An obedient child should not be so be encouraged to learn to talk back.Family education is door knowledge,Any research results is not the only criterion,Besides the child's confidence and ability to debate not only from talk back to school.