女生小娜，一直是让老师省心、与同学友爱、成绩优秀的学生。到了初三，女孩有了明显的变化，脸上不再洋溢着自信的微笑，代替的是一脸疲惫，听课时经常走神。午自习时，当同学都在做作业，她却趴在桌上睡觉，她说觉得很累，只想睡觉。同时，作业错误率高，学科成绩明显下降，部分科目甚至挂起了“红灯”。

Girl XiaoNa，Have been let teacher save worry、And students love、The best students。The third day，The girl has a significant change，No longer face with a confident smile，Instead a face of exhaustion，When listening to lectures often absent-minded。Noon when self-study，When students are doing，She is prone on the table to sleep，She said feel very tired，Just want to sleep。At the same time，Homework the error rate is high，Discipline result decreased obviously，Part of the subject and even put up“Red light”。

　　董航（杭州第十中学金牌班主任）：

DongHang（Hangzhou 10 gold MEDALS high school teacher in charge）：

　　小娜说，初一初二因为学习内容容量小，仅限于一个或几个单元，所以总能良好地完成理科的学习。但是到了初三，特别是数学中的几何和函数的加深，物理和化学内容的加深，她常常做题没思路，解题老是错误。于是，变得越来没自信了，整天想睡觉，学习提不起劲，在中考压力下，有些hold不住了。

XiaoNa said，2 month because of learning content capacity small，Limited to one or several units，So can always good to complete science study。But on the third day，Especially in mathematics, geometry and the deepening of function，Physical and chemical content deepening，She often become a problem didn't train of thought，Problem is always wrong。so，Becomes more and more not confident，Want to sleep all day，Learning mention disinclination，In the tests under pressure，Some hold not to live。

　　遇到这样的情况，建议家长这么做：

Meet this situation，Advise parents to do so：

　　理解孩子的一切行为，无论是紧张、焦虑，自信不足等，因为初三的学习确实与初一初二的学习生活不同，学生面临学习方法、考试形式、考试心态、升学压力等诸多问题。要充分理解孩子的处境。

Understand all the children behavior，Whether nervous、anxiety，Confidence insufficiency，For the third day of learning really and month of early study life different，Students face learning method、Examination form、Examination mentality、Pressures upon their schoolwork, and many other problems。To fully understand the child's situation。

　　孩子缺少自信，是因为遇到了挫折，及时疏导非常必要。家长可以帮着孩子分析遭受挫折的原因，找出失败的症结，从而避免孩子情绪的严重受挫。作为家长，要时刻以乐观积极向上的人生态度，去影响和感染孩子。

The child lacks confidence，Because the setbacks，Timely dredge is very necessary。Parents can help the child to analyze the reason of suffer setbacks，Find out the crux of failure，To avoid children emotional serious setbacks。As a parent，To keep to the optimistic positive upward attitude towards life，To influence and infection children。

　　孩子的自信心与承受力，是建立在各方面优点的基础之上。在某一方面的充分自信，可以帮助孩子更好地面对其他方面的问题。如果面临难题时，孩子将自己的优点丢在脑后，家长一定别忘了提醒他，借助优势激励他改变弱势的信心。

The child's self-confidence and tolerance，Is built on the basis of the advantages。In a hand full confidence，Can help children better prepared to face other problems。If face problems，Children will be their own advantages behind，Parents must be don't forget to remind him，With the aid of advantage incentive him to change his weak faith。