当今的小学，是孩子的考场，更是家长的考场 Today's primary school,Is the child's examination,But also the parents of the examination room

　　有时，朱祥更愿意自己活在武侠世界里，那样自己练就一身绝世武功，就可以行走江湖，快意恩仇，实在厌倦了，找个桃花岛之类的地方，隐居休养。

sometimes,ZhuXiang more willing to myself in martial arts world,So his practice a beautiful fighting skill,Can walk runescape,Pleased EnQiu,Really tired of,Find a peach blossom island and so on place,Reclusion rest.

　　但这样的想象只能留在每天晚上的梦里，现实中，他是一个9岁男孩、三年级小学生的父亲。在朱祥看来，小学校园就像一口开水锅，他是条没有武功的小鱼，总有种被被煎熬烘烤的感觉。

But such imagination can only stay in dream every night,reality,He is a nine years old boy/Three grade elementary student's father.In ZhuXiang seems,Elementary school campus is like a pot of boiling water,He is a not little fish fighting skill,Always have been suffering the feeling of baking.

　　因此，他闲暇时混迹于各种学生家长的论坛和QQ群，事无巨细地讨论关于孩子的问题，也彼此获得慰藉。

therefore,He when leisure mixed with all kinds of parents of the BBS and QQ group,Share discussion about the child's problem,Also each other solace.

　　据2012年8月教育部在官方网站公布的《2011年全国教育事业发展统计公报》的统计数据，2011年，全国共有小学24.12万所，在校生9926.37万人。在他们背后，是数以亿计的家长，这些早已离开校园混迹职场的年轻人，在跟随子女重返小学校园后，才发现，如今的小学校早已和他们当年大相径庭。

According to in August 2012, the ministry of education in the official website[The 2011 national education career development statistics bulletin]Statistical data,In 2011,,China had 241200 primary schools,A student 99.2637 million people.In their back,Is hundreds of millions of parents,These had left the campus the sole duty field of young people,In the following children to return to the YuanHou elementary school,Found that,Today's elementary school already and they differ in.

“可爱的数学，我要对你产生兴趣了” "Lovely mathematics,I want to have the interest"

　　胡铮霖，身为8岁孩子的母亲，同时又是上海某民办中学老师，孩子的爸爸张磊，从事IT咨询工作，他说，孩子学业上的麻烦事儿，有时比IT咨询难多了，他们当年在中学才感到的压力，如今在小学就感受到了，社会转型的躁动，正一代代向下转移。

HuZhengLin,8 years as the mother of the child,Shanghai is also a high school teacher of run by the local people,The child's father zhang lei,Engaged in IT consulting work,He said,The child academic nuisance,Sometimes IT is more difficult than consulting,They during middle school to feel the pressure,Now in the elementary school is felt,Social transformation of the restless,Is a generation of downward transfer.

　　上世纪80年前后出生的一代青年，像胡铮霖这样的，逐渐成了家长，面对小学校园，碰撞和妥协掺杂了更多这一代人特有的脾气和性格。

The last century was born around 80 a generation of youth,Like HuZhengLin such,Gradually become parents,In the face of the elementary school campus,Collision and compromise doping more generation peculiar temper and character.

　　最让他们感到无奈的，是各种作业的所谓“标准答案”，甚至是和答案无关的一些规矩。比如：解答应用题，一定要先写“答”，不写就扣分。

The most make them feel helpless,Is the so-called various assignments"Standard answer",Even and answer irrelevant some rules.For example:Can we solve this problem,Must write"a",Don't write points.

　　有时，孩子答的内容与标准答案实际上是一回事，但只要不完全一致，还是会被判错。如这道题：“三国里，成功实现草船借箭的是哪一位？”《收获》杂志副编审叶开的女儿回答：“孔明”，老师判错，叶开去看标准答案：“诸葛亮”。

sometimes,The child and the content of a standard answer actually is one thing,But as long as not completely consistent,Or will be sentenced to wrong.If this problem:"In The Three Kingdoms,The successful implementation of grass boat borrow arrow is which one?"[harvest]Magazine deputy editor leaves open daughter answer:"The bore is clear",The teacher found wrong,Leaf open to see standard answer:"The various ge is bright".

　　网名“资深帅哥三毛”的家长说：“女儿三年级新换了数学老师，题目：动物园里有125只猴子145只老虎，问猴子加老虎一共有多少只？女儿答：一共有270只。被判错并罚抄题目答案十遍，因为正确答案是：猴子加老虎一共有270只，孩子没写‘猴子加老虎’。”

net"Senior handsome boy SAN MAO"Parents said:"Daughter grade three new for the math teacher,topic:The zoo has 125 monkeys 145 tigers,Ask the monkey and the tiger how many only?Daughter a:A total of 270 only.Was sentenced to wrong conceding copy topic answer ten times,Because the correct answer is:The monkey and the tiger a total of 270 only,Children don't write‘The monkey and the tiger’."

　　牢骚归牢骚，家长们还是坐在孩子身边，板起脸孔，按照老师的要求辅导作业。不仅如此，还要为孩子们可能产生的厌学情绪做“心理按摩”。

Complaints to complain,Parents or to sit at the boy's side,Plate up face,According to the requirements of the teachers guidance work.Not only that,For the children to possible weariness do"Psychological massage".

　　家长们的网络论坛里，“如何让孩子爱上学习”是热门话题之一。一部家长自发编写的秘笈的解决办法是：对于孩子不喜欢的科目，采用兴趣暗示法，比如在孩子写数学作业之前，家长陪着大声说“数学，从今天开始，我要喜欢你啦！”或者“可爱的数学，我要对你产生兴趣了！”另外，尽量让孩子们把做作业想成愉快的事情，比如：“我今天将再学会10个单词！”“今天又学会了方程式的解法！”

Parents network in the BBS,"How to let children love learning"Is one of the hot topic.A parents spontaneous write ec solution is to:For the children don't like subjects,The interest suggestive method,For example, in children before writing math homework,Parents accompany say it loud"mathematics,Beginning from today,I want to love you again!"or"Lovely mathematics,I want to have the interest!"In addition,Try to let the children to do homework into happy things,For example:"Today I would learn to 10 words!""Today and learned equation solution!"

　　在胡铮霖看来，这些做法是让孩子树立起“每天多做一点，就是成功的开始”的信念，从某方面看，这是一种成功学理念，当然，也可以乐观地看待为，这是家长们为孩子不得不应付学业而采取的减压手段。

In HuZhengLin seems,These practices is to let the children set up"Every day to do more,Is the beginning of success"belief,In a way to see,This is a kind of success to learn philosophy,Of course,Can also optimistic for,This is the parents for the children had to cope with their studies and take the decompression means.

“打不完的作业妖怪” "Dozen don't finish homework the devil"

　　胡铮霖儿子上二年级，每天晚上要做两个小时作业，除了基础的语数外，还有体育、美术、电脑、思想品德、音乐、自然。

HuZhengLin son on the second grade,Every night two hours to do homework,In addition to basic language outside the number,And sports/art/computer/Thought personal character/music/natural.

　　胡铮霖和丈夫会轮流陪读，有时坐在一旁，有时一边做家务，每隔十来分钟到孩子身边看一眼。“儿子作业很有效率，除了字有点‘蟹爬’(难看)。”

HuZhengLin and her husband will take turns or relatives can apply for,Sometimes sit aside,Sometimes while doing the housework,Every ten minutes to children around at a glance."Son work efficiently,In addition to word a little‘Crab climb’(ugly)."

　　胡铮霖的儿子做作业算是快的，他的很多同学，常常到深夜才能完成。

The son of HuZhengLin homework is fast,Many of his classmates,Often late into the night to finish.

　　2000年1月3日，教育部就发出《关于在小学减轻学生过重负担的紧急通知》，原则上是一年级不布置课后作业，二、三年级少量作业，培养孩子的综合素质。然而12年后，在大多数学校，状况并未得到根本性好转。

On January 3, 2000,The ministry of education issued[About in elementary school to reduce the burden overweight emergency notice],In principle is a grade not arrangement homework after class,two/Grade three a small amount of homework,Develop the child's comprehensive quality.But 12 years,In most schools,Status has not been fundamentally improved.

　　天津的家长符敏在接受媒体采访时，诉说了自己的“被作业捆绑”的经历。她的孩子正读小学四年级，每天的中午，就开始收到各科老师发来的短信，“都是布置作业的要求”。

Tianjin FuMin parents, when being interviewed by the media,Tell his own"Bound by operation"experience.Her children are reading primary school grade four,Every noon,Began to receive message from various branches teacher,"Are the requirements of homework".

　　符敏随手拿出几段短信来读，比如：“抽查P22听写声母和音节，请家长根据孩子的不足复习。认真读书，并认真预习P23页”；“继续完成单元训练，请家长帮助检查更正”；“黄冈小状元第8页，请家长陪同读题，孩子也要跟着读题”；“黄冈小状元P11页的第一题，用三句话说图意。请家长签‘已说’”……

FuMin conveniently take out a few pieces of text messages to read,For example:"Check P22 dictation initials and syllable,Parents please according to the shortage of the child review.To seriously study,And serious preview P23 page";"Continue to complete unit training,Parents please help check corrections";"Huanggang small top page 8,Parents please accompanied read problem,Children will follow to read problem";"Huanggang small number one scholar P11 pages of the first topic,With three other words diagram meaning.Parents please sign‘Has said’"……

　　这些作业，不但量大，而且都是需要家长一起完成的，家长不得不在上了一天班后，继续和孩子们奋战在题海里，“怎是一个累字了得”。

These assignments,Not only large quantity,And it is need parents to complete,Parents have to work in a day,Continue to fight and children in question the sea,"How is a word get tired".

　　类似的故事，在成都媒体人郑飞家里更为麻烦，他的工作需要经常出差，妻子一个人应付女儿的四年级作业常力不从心，年迈的爷爷奶奶更帮不上忙，有几次，他不得不将女儿“寄存”在同事家，请同事帮忙做临时爸爸。

Similar story,In chengdu media people ZhengFei home more trouble,His work need to travel frequently,His wife a daughter who deal with the grade four homework often ability not equal to one's ambition,Old grandma and grandpa more help busy,There are a few times,He will have to daughter"register"In the colleague family,Please help colleagues do temporary dad.

　　在素质教育旗号下，作业也标新立异，以至于南京人朱祥说，作为一个中国孩子的父亲，需要成为奥特曼，来应付“打不完的各种作业妖怪”。他儿子的学校采取一种新型的教育模式，老师随时与家长在线联系，监督学生的作业情况，如果作业做得快，老师会随时补充新的题目，作为作业效率高的孩子的“犒劳”；数学作业则是老师每周一次性布置给家长，由家长每天视情况分给孩子，并签字……

In the quality education under the flag,Work also do STH unconventional or unorthodox,That nanjing people ZhuXiang said,As a Chinese children's father,Need to be altman,To cope with"Play not over of all kinds of operation the devil".His son's school adopt a new education mode,The teacher feel free to contact parents online,Supervise the students' work situation,If the work done quickly,The teacher will always added new topic,As a high work efficiency of children"Reward with food and drink";Math homework is the teacher weekly one-time arrangement for parents,Every day as the case by the parents to the child,And sign……

　　“学校是想通知这种方式搞因材施教，不让能力强的孩子饿着，也不让差一些的孩子抻着，”朱祥说，“但这造成了另一种现象：作业做得越快的孩子，就做得更多。家长还是监督执行者，我们是应该让孩子多做，还是做完了就不分给他了？还真是很难选择。”

"The school is to want to notice this way make teach students in accordance with their aptitude,Don't let ability children hungry,Don't let bad some children with graphite,"ZhuXiang said,"But this caused another phenomenon:Homework to do the faster the children,Will do more.Parents or supervision and performer,We should let the child to do more,Or finished will not give him?Still it is hard to choose."

　　胡铮霖做的最奇怪的作业，是让孩子们比较不同超市的日用品价格。她带着儿子去逛超市，记下不同日用品的价格，回来做表格。孩子太小，这种统计和分类显然无法完成，只好做IT咨询的爸爸出马，帮着做好。

HuZhengLin do the most strange operation,Is to get the kids to compare different supermarket commodity prices.She took his son on a trip to the supermarket,Write down different commodity prices,Back do form.The child is too small,This kind of statistics and classification obviously can not complete,Have to do IT consulting father go into action,Is ready to help.

　　“这样的作业从本质上来说没有问题。但对于低年级学生，是不是应该老师先设计好表格，让小朋友去填？大一点再做更高的要求，要循序渐进。”胡铮霖说。

"Such work essentially no problem.But for a junior student,Whether should the teacher to design good form,Let children go to fill?A bit bigger to do higher request,Should be gradual."HuZhengLin said.

　　类似的事情，并不少见，在天津，有一次某小学的老师布置了一道假期作业，老师要求：交三张在同一背景下祖孙三代的照片。

Similar things,Is not rare,In tianjin,Once a primary school teacher assigned a work to do during the holiday,The teacher asked:Pay three in the same background pictures of three generations.

　　本来，老师的想法是，通过祖孙三代在同一地点不同年代的照片，让孩子了解时代的变迁、城市的变化，这也算是素质教育的一个细节，但落到现实里，就成了小学生们的难题，更让家长们一筹莫展。

was,The teacher's idea is,Through the three generations in the same place different pictures of s,Let the child understand the changes of The Times/City changes,This also is regarded as quality education a detail,But fall in reality,Became the pupils problem,More let parents can find no way out.

　　一位家长苦恼地在论坛里写道：要找三张符合要求的照片，并非易事，不是每个家庭都会刻意存留这样的照片，但完不成作业，就要被批评，那几天孩子都抑郁了。无奈之下，这位家长PS了三张照片交了差，不过自己从此落下阴影，“最怕孩子也学会这样作假的坏习惯。”

A parent who distress in the BBS wrote:To find three to meet the requirements of photos,Is not easy,Not every family will deliberately kept this photo,But to finish homework,Shall be criticized,Those days the children are depression.Helpless under,The parents PS three photograph made a difference,But his shadow falls from now on,"The most afraid of children learn to such false bad habits."

“打不死的大BOSS” "Dozen deathless big BOSS"

　　更多的作业出现在各种培训班、提高班和所谓的兴趣班上，孩子们从一个课堂走进另一个课堂，书包里不断装进新的作业。

More work appeared in various types of training/Senior class and the so-called interest class,Children from a classroom into another class,Bag constantly put into new assignments.

　　胡铮霖是上海本地人，但住房和户口属分离，户口对口学校不好，离家也远，两口子最后还是选了一所离家近、口碑比较好的民办学校。

The Shanghai native HuZhengLin,But housing and registered permanent residence of separation,Registered permanent residence to mouth bad school,Far away from home,The couple finally chose a close to home/Public praise good school of run by the local people.

　　胡铮霖自认为自己的教育理念不算保守，也一直很排斥让孩子周转于各种补习班和兴趣班，然而最后还是做了妥协。为了让这种课外班更有趣些，她要求儿子学钢琴，孩子本不喜欢，在妈妈的“逼迫”下，倒也很快上了手。每每看到孩子在客人面前表演时，胡铮霖偶而也会产生疑惑：大人的要求或许也并不完全是错的，如果全按孩子的喜好，大概什么也不需要学，那儿子怎么会有这门本事？

HuZhengLin think their own education concept is not conservative,Also has been very exclusive let the child turnover in various cram school and interest,However finally made compromise.In order to let this extracurricular class more interesting,She asked her son to learn the piano,The children don't like,In the mother's"persecuted"under,Pour also soon on his hand.Often see their children in front of the guests performance,HuZhengLin occasionally also can produce doubt:Adult requirements may also is not entirely wrong,If all the be fond of according to the children,What seem to also do not need to learn,The son how can have the door skill?

　　虽然是民办学校，儿子的同班同学也都在家长的要求下参加了各种兴趣班、提高班，“实在hold不住”。胡铮霖是老师，他们学校就有奥数班，“我们教工子女可以免费去听”，可她一直在纠结要不要去，不仅纠结是不是需要给孩子增加这么多课外负担，更重要的是，同事告诉她，现在上奥数，可不是二年级的小学生上二年级的奥数课，而是二年级的小学生，要上三年级的班，这样才能学到四年级的奥数题，才可能在考试中获得好成绩。

Although it is school of run by the local people,Son's classmates are at home for long to participate in a variety of interest/Senior class,"Not really hold".HuZhengLin is a teacher,Their school is Olympic math class,"Our staff can be free to listen to children",But she has been ravel do you want to go,Not only ravel is need to give children increase so many extracurricular burden,More important is,Colleagues told her,Now aoshu,Is not the second grade of primary school children on the second grade of Olympic math class,But the second grade of primary school children,Want to go to the third grade class,You'll learn four grade Olympic math problem,Just may get good marks in the exam.

　　“你能理解吗？”胡铮霖说，“这不是学习，而是比谁超前得更多，太恐怖了！”不过更可怕的现实是，家长们看到别人忙忙碌碌，更对自己的处境产生恐慌，为了应付这种恐慌，不得不选择随波逐流。

"Can you understand that?"HuZhengLin said,"This is not learning,But who lead more than,Too terrible!"But the reality is more terrible,Parents see others as busy as a bee,More of their panic situation,In order to deal with this kind of panic,Have to choose to go with the stream.

　　今年8月28日，北京市教委明确提出，至今年10月31日，北京市所有涉及奥数的培训将暂停，不管是公办学校、民办学校还是社会上的培训机构，一旦发现确有与升学挂钩的，将实施问责，严肃处理。

August 28,,Put forward the Beijing municipal education commission,This year to October 31,Beijing all involved in the training of mathematical olympiad will be suspended,Whether it is business school/Private school or social training institutions,Once found does and studies the hook,Will be implemented accountability,Serious processing.

　　作为一项减负措施，本来应该拍手称赞，但许多家长却无所适从。“奥数是个打不死的大BOSS，好的中学总需要一个敲门砖，”胡铮霖说，“取消了这个，还会换张脸重生。”

As a 'burdens measures,Should have been applauding,But many parents but not know what to do."Olympic math is a dozen deathless big BOSS,Good middle school always need a sky,"HuZhengLin said,"Cancel the,Will also change face rebirth."

　　南京爸爸朱祥则感到已处于抉择关头。他的孩子已升入三年级，作为奥数选拔盛行的城市之一，究竟是选择跟随潮流，还是让孩子自顾自地成长，对两种未来，他都没有把握。

Nanjing dad ZhuXiangZe was already in the crossroad.His children have been to three grade,As Olympic math selection in one of the city,What is to follow the trend of choice,Or let the children leave the growth,The two kind of future,He is not sure.

　　在南京的很多奥数培训班，学员被分为五个星级，最高级的5星级学生，才能在小升初中拔得先机。8月24日，第四届“小数报杯”数学文化传播活动与创新思维能力竞赛在江苏省教育学院举行，吸引了南京三分之二小学的2000多名孩子参加。

In many of the nanjing Olympic math training class,Students are divided into five star,The highest 5 star international students,Can pull in another start.On August 24,,The fourth"Decimal newspaper cup"Mathematical culture dissemination activities and innovative thinking ability competition in jiangsu province education college held,Attracted nanjing two-thirds elementary school more than 2000 children attend.

　　成都爸爸郑飞，在刚刚过去的暑假里，一直陪着女儿赶场，参加不同时段不同地点的兴趣班，开学后依旧不轻松，周末两天，周六上午英语班和游泳班，下午是舞蹈班和美术班，周日上午二胡班，下午是钢琴班。

Chengdu dad ZhengFei,This past summer,Always accompany daughter visit,Take part in different period of time in different places of the cake course,After the start is still not easy,Weekend two days,On Saturday morning English class and swimming class,The afternoon is fine and area for,Erhu class on Sunday morning,Afternoon is a piano class.

　　一天跑下来，郑飞累得够呛，“比出去跑一天新闻还累”。女儿上课，他也要在一边听着，正儿八经做课堂笔记，防止孩子溜号没听见，或有没听懂可以帮忙辅导，有的老师临时调课，两门课撞时间了，女儿分身乏术，他还要帮着听课。

One day run down,ZhengFei'm dead-beat,"Run than go out one day the news is tired".Daughter class,He also listened to,Do business class notes,Prevent children sneak away didn't hear,Or don't understand can help counselling,Some teachers temporary adjusts the class,Two class bump of time,Daughter member to,He will help to attend a lecture.

　　他说，像他这样的家长，在成都并不少见，“工作学习两不误，做梦都在背单词，比上大学还用功。”

He said,Parents like him,In chengdu is not rare,"Work and study two not mistake,Dream in memorizing words,Than the university also study hard."

　　即便感到辛苦，朱祥还是不敢掉以轻心。家长论坛上都说，三年级是一道关键的坎儿，这是可以报奥数班的最低年龄，是各门课程的难度上台阶的一年，是课程总量增加的一年，是孩子们的学习成绩显出层次的一年，更是要为“小(学)升初(中)”开始准备的一年。

Even if feel hard,ZhuXiang still can't treat STH lightly.Parents BBS on all said,Grade three is a key KanEr,This can be the minimum age for Olympic math class,Gates is the difficulty of the course on the steps of a year,Curriculum is the total amount of the increase in a year,Is the children's study result show levels of a year,Is to"small(learn)Early rise(in)"Began to prepare for a year.

　　“周围的家长都带着孩子做‘拼命三郎’，你甘心做个闲散的‘阮小二’吗？”朱祥不愿选择，却又感到无法不选择。

"Around the parents take their children do‘workaholic’,Are you content to be a laid-back‘RuanXiaoEr’??"ZhuXiang don't want to choose,Yet feel unable to not to choose.