6日20时许，贴吧吉林大学吧网友“回忆”发帖，称长假返校，同学“逼”她带特产，她想花100元雇一个人帮她拎特产。东亚记者调查发现，这个“十一”长假，不少学生返校被同学“逼迫”带特产。

6 at about 20,Stick jilin university it net friend"memories"post,Says long holiday back to school,students"force"She took speciality,She wants to spend 100 yuan to hire a man to help her carry speciality.East Asia reporter survey found,this"eleven"holiday,Quite a few students back to school by students"persecuted"Belt speciality.

　　特产比较沉 最好“高胖壮” Specialty is best sink"High fat strong"

　　6日20时许，贴吧吉林大学吧网友“回忆”发帖：“长假回学校，雇人到火车站接行李，7日凌晨6时到，行李比较多，100元雇一个高胖壮小伙帮我接行李，最好是吉大南校人。”

6 at about 20,Stick jilin university it net friend"memories"post:"Long vacation go back to school,To employ people went to the station to meet the baggage,7, 6 in the morning to,Baggage more,100 yuan to hire a high fat strong guy to help me pick baggage,It is best JiDaNa school people."

　　6日21时许，东亚记者通过QQ与网友“回忆”取得联系。她介绍，自己姓刘，是吉林大学（南岭校区）一名大一女生。长假返校从济南坐火车回长春，带了不少特产，她自己一个人拎不动。

6 at about 21,East Asia reporter through the QQ and net friend"memories"contact.She introduces,Last name liu,Is jilin university(Nanling campus)A freshman girls.Long holiday back to school by train from jinan to changchun,Take a lot of speciality,Her own a person carry not moving.

　　“上大学之后，第一次回家，同学让她带了很多家乡的特产。”刘同学说，因为带的特产比较多，也比较沉，所以出发的时候，还是刘爸爸帮她放在了火车行李架上的。

"College after,The first home,Classmates let her take a lot of hometown specialty."Liu classmate say,Because of the specialty with more,Also compares heavy,So start time,Or liu father help her in the train on the luggage rack.

　　为了能够轻松在长春站下车，她需要一名“掮客”来帮她拎特产。“特产比较沉，最好比较高胖壮。”刘同学说。

In order to be able to easily get off in ChangChunZhan,She needs a"broker"Help her to carry speciality."Speciality is heavy,The best is higher fat strong."Liu classmate say.

　　车费报销 100元只是佣金 The fare to submit an expense account is 100 yuan only commission

　　帖子发出去之后，短短半个小时，已经有20名网友回复。东亚记者发现，20条回复主要集中在这几个问题上：为什么不找自己班里男生帮忙？其他学校的男生可不可以？佣金和交通费怎么算？

Post after sent,Just half an hour,Have 20 net friend reply.East Asia reporter discovery,Article 20 reply mainly concentrated in the several issues:Why not find themselves in the class the boy for help?Other school boy can?Commission and transportation how to calculate?

　　刘同学说，军训完就放假了，跟班里的男生还不是很熟，所以不好意思麻烦他们。

Liu classmate say,After military training took a vacation,The footman boys are not very well,So sorry to bother them.

　　“我是吉林大学南岭校区的，为了大家都方便，所以最好找南岭校区的。”刘同学说，同校区的人能够帮她把东西送回宿舍，而且心里也感觉很安全。

"I am jilin university of nanling campus,In order to everyone convenient,So it's best to find the nanling campus."Liu classmate say,With campus can help her put things back to the dormitory,And the in the mind also feels very safe.

　　关于佣金的问题，刘同学说，往返车费她给报销，100元只是佣金。“来火车站接行李的人只能选择坐公交车，从火车站回学校才能选择坐出租车。”刘同学说。

About the problem of commission,Liu classmate say,Return fare her to submit an expense account,100 yuan only commission."The railway station to meet baggage man can choose by bus,From the railway station to take a taxi to school choice."Liu classmate say.

　　山西同学带了5桶陈醋 Shanxi classmates brought five barrels of mature vinegar

　　东亚记者走访了吉林财经大学、东北师范大学、吉林农业大学三所高校。随机采访了30名返校的学生。24人表示临放假前，同学曾“逼”自己带特产返校。只有6人表示，没有这样的经历。

East Asia reporter visited jilin university of finance and economics/Northeast normal university/Jilin agricultural university three university.Random interviewed 30 students back to school.24 people in the said before the holiday,Students have"force"Bring your own speciality back to school.Only 6 people said,There is no such experience.

　　“我是山西人，8天长假我选择了回家，身边的不少同学都让我带山西老陈醋回来。”吉林财经大学大二安同学说，他这次返校共带了5桶2.5升的老陈醋，一个小皮箱都装不下。

"I am shanxi people,8 seven-day holiday I chose to go home,Side a lot of classmates let me take shanxi LaoChenCu back."Jilin university of finance and economics, sophomore students said,This time he brought back a total of 5 barrel 2.5 litres of LaoChenCu,A small suitcase all contain.

　　东北师范大学大三的马同学对东亚记者说，他刚刚从大连旅游回来，应身边同学的要求，他带了很多大连的特产回来，胳膊都累酸了。

The northeast normal university junior horse classmate to east Asia reporter said,He has just come back from dalian tourism,The requirements of the students should be side,He took a lot of dalian speciality back,His arms are tired acid.

　　不敢拒绝怕伤害同学感情 Can't refuse to be afraid hurt feelings students

　　“身边的朋友都挺好的，不管谁回家或者去旅行，都会给大家带很多东西。如果要是拒绝别人的话，会伤到同学之间的感情。”吉林财经大学大二梁同学说，他有时也会让别人带特产回来，而且别人也没有拒绝过。

"Friends are quite good,No matter who go home or to travel,Will give everyone take a lot of things.If if refused to what others say,Will hurt the feelings between classmates."Jilin university of finance and economics big beam classmate say,Sometimes he will let others take speciality back,And others also not rejected.

　　东亚记者咨询了吉林财经大学新闻与传播学院院长关众老师，他表示，长假返校带特产，如果是出于双方自愿，那么带多带少都无可厚非。“大学生作为独立意识的主体，应该学会如何说拒绝。在不伤害同学之间感情的基础上，适当拒绝别人，其实是成熟的一种表现。”

East Asia reporter consulting the jilin university of finance and economics school of journalism and communication, dean shut all the teacher,He said,Back to school vacation with speciality,If it is out of the voluntary,So take take less understandable."College students as the main body of the independent consciousness,Should learn how to say refused.In between the classmate don't hurt the feelings of the basis,Appropriate refused to others,Is actually a sign of maturity."

　　关老师建议，大学生在人际交往中，应该学会从“礼尚往来”的传统方式中挣脱出来，拓宽自己的交际面，拓展自己的人际交往方式。 实习记者 李雄

Shut the teacher suggested that,College students in personal relationships,Should learn from"Courtesy demands reciprocity"In a traditional way to break out,Expand their communication surface,Expand their interpersonal mode. Internship reporter li xiong