这些动情的文字不是来自小说，而是浙江省金华市一位父亲在女儿2000年平安夜降生当日所写日记的部分。

These moving words not from novels,But a father of jinhua city, zhejiang province, in 2000 was born daughter Christmas Eve on part of the written diary.

　　这位名叫吴小军的父亲自女儿出生起，不论多忙，坚持每天为她手写日记，到记者发稿时，日记已经写到了4312篇，积累的日记本已达上百本，总字数超200万字。

The name of the father WuXiaoJun since daughter birth,No matter how busy,Adhere to the daily diary for her hand,A reporter to,Diary has written to 4312 pieces,The accumulation of diary has amounted to hundreds of this,Will probably exceed 2 million words.

　　记者看到，吴小军在日记里，记录了女儿无数个“第一次”和成长中的各种喜怒哀乐，比如第一次上幼儿园、第一次独自睡觉、第一次一个人出门等等，读来温馨有趣。

The reporter sees,WuXiaoJun in his diary,Record the daughter countless"The first"And growth in various emotions,Such as the first kindergarten/The first sleep alone/For the first time, a people go out, etc,Read to sweet and interesting.

　　“有多少人知道自己出生时的场景呢，这些成长日记对我来说太珍贵了。”今年12岁、在上小学六年级的吴依容说，她经常翻看这些日记，很感激爸爸的用心。

"How many people know when she was born? The scene,These growth diary for me is too dear."This year 12 years old/In elementary school sixth grade according to let wu said,She often read the diary,Very grateful for your dad.

　　吴小军是金华市金师附小教育集团党总支副书记，也是一位语文老师。他说在22年前开始当老师时，就坚持每天写学生日记和教务日记，受益匪浅。在女儿出生前，他看到有很多文学“大家”也为孩子记录成长，于是他下决心要为女儿每天写日记。他说，将为女儿至少写到高中毕业。

WuXiaoJun is jinhua gold division primary education group vice secretary,Is a Chinese teacher.He said in 22 years ago when teachers,We write diary every day students and educational administration diary,benefit.After her daughter was born,He saw a lot of literature"everyone"Also for the children record growth,So he decided to write diary everyday for her daughter.He said,Will for her daughter wrote at least graduated from high school.

　　“很多人问我是怎么坚持下来的，觉得不可思议。其实我觉得去关心和观察孩子的成长是家长的责任，有了这个动力，做起来也就不难。”吴小军说，碰到出差时，他会打电话向女儿了解一天的生活。

"A lot of people ask how I insist on down,Feel incredible.In fact I think to care and to observe the child's growth is the responsibility of parents,With this power,It would not."WuXiaoJun said,Met on a business trip,He will call the daughter understand one day life.

　　吴小军认为，写日记的最大好处是，“逼着自己每天和女儿交流”，了解女儿的所思所想。而身为教师的他深感现在家长与子女的沟通太少，他曾在班里做过调查，至少一半以上的学生与家人几乎没有情感的沟通。

WuXiaoJun think,Keeping a diary is the biggest advantage,"Forced himself every day and daughter communication",Know your daughter thoughts.And as he was now the teachers, parents and children communication too little,He had made investigation in the class,At least more than half of the students and family almost have no emotion communication.

　　“家长与孩子的对话多数停留在"作业做完没"、"老师批评没""考试几分"这类的话题上，而对孩子内心的想法一无所知，这是很可悲的。”吴小军说，家庭的成长环境以及家长的态度对孩子性格、品格的形成至关重要，而很多家长却恰恰忽略了。

"Parents and children's dialogue most stay in"Homework didn't"/"The teacher criticized didn't""Exam part"This kind of topic,And to the child heart know nothing,This is very sad."WuXiaoJun said,The growth of family environment and parents' attitudes toward children's character/The formation of character is very important,But many parents have been ignored.

　　老爸的这个爱好还“传染”给了女儿，现在吴依容也每天写日记，她说从小学起到现在已经积累了1000多篇。“睡觉前和老爸坐在一起写日记，是一天中最开心的事情，我们相互督促，相互分享，很温馨。”吴依容说。

Dad this hobby also"infection"Gave his daughter,Now according to let wu also write diary every day,She say, from elementary school have now has accumulated more than 1000 articles."Before going to sleep and dad sit together to write diary,A day is the most happy thing,We are urged,Of mutual sharing,Very warm."Wu said according to let.

　　吴小军还经常与同事朋友分享自己的这个做法，令他高兴的是，不少人开始效仿他为孩子写成长日记或者记录自己生活的点滴。“日记还是很好的一个反思方法，能让人褪去浮躁，静心思考，这在现在的社会是难能可贵的。”吴小军说。

WuXiaoJun often colleagues and friends share the practice,To his delight,A lot of people are beginning to follow the example of his writing for children grow diary or record of the own life intravenous drip."A diary is a good reflection method,Can let a person shed fickleness,Meditation thinking,This in today's society is valuable."WuXiaoJun said.

　　吴小军为爱女坚持每天写日记的故事也打动了很多网友，大家惊呼父爱的伟大，一些年轻父母还表示要向这位尽责的父亲学习，多关注孩子的成长。“相对"鹰爸"，我更欣赏这位舐犊情深，心态平和的慈父。”名为“悠悠草雨田”的网民在微博中写道。

WuXiaoJun for daughter, adhere to write diary every day story also moved a lot of net friend,All the great father exclaimed,Some young parents also said to the conscientious father learning,Pay more attention to the growth of children."relative"Eagle dad",I appreciate more the deep mother love,Peace of mind father."called"Long grass rain field"Internet users in micro bo wrote.

　　作者：周竟

The author:Weeks have