昨日，南坪，“光棍侠”在为市民送上红玫瑰。 记者 龙在全 摄 yesterday,NaPing,"Bachelor man"For citizens to red roses. Reporter dragon in all perturbation昨日，西南大学，李乐拿着写有“光棍节我们一起过”的纸牌。记者 李化 摄 yesterday,Southwest university,LiLe took to write a"Single day we had together"card.Reporter LiHua perturbation数据统计 Data statistics

　　大学男生为“脱光” 校园发帖征女友 引来10多位报名者，他选择了热情的学妹，两人昨天首次接触，双方感觉不错

For college students,"off" Campus post sign girlfriend draws more than 10 applicants,He chose to warm the lower classwoman,Two people for the first time yesterday contact,Both sides feel good

　　商报记者 廖娴雅 实习生 李茹霜

Business newspaper reporter liao refined interns LiRu cream

　　昨天是11月11日，因为4个阿拉伯数字“1”凑在一起，这天被年轻人戏称为“光棍节”。昨晚8点，西南大学大三学生李乐带着“女友”走进了北碚的电影院。而在一天之前，他还是一名光棍。为了尽快“脱光”，他特地赶在光棍节前一天在校园BBS上公开发帖征女友。没想到，他的大胆主动引来了10多位报名者，最后他选中了热情的学妹当作约会对象，两人昨天首次约会，一切进展顺利。

Yesterday was on November 11,For four Arabic numerals"1"together,This day was the young man called"Single day".At eight last night,Southwest university junior student LiLe with"girlfriend"Beibei into the theater.And in the day before,He is still a bachelor.As soon as possible in order to"off",He specially cast in bachelor preganglionic one day in campus BBS public post sign his girlfriend.Didn't expect,His bold initiative attracted more than 10 applicants,At last he chooses the enthusiasm of the lower classwoman as a date,Two people for the first time yesterday date,All goes well.

　　

校园论坛发帖征女友 Campus BBS post sign his girlfriend

　　“单身的你，还没有找到真爱，光棍节怎么过？……今年这个末日光棍节，迅速脱单！……年少轻狂让我们留下个末日记忆！”

"Single you,Haven't found true love,Single day how?...The end of this year's day,Quickly to take off the single!...Dazed and confused let us leave the end of a memory!"

　　11月3日，离光棍节还有一个星期，西南大学校园BBS“樟树林论坛”上出现了这样一个帖子，号召单身学生提供自己个人简介和联系方式，赶在光棍节摆脱单身。帖子一出，立马被论坛置顶，数天内积聚了上千条回复与评论。

On November 3,From single day and a week,Southwest university campus BBS"BBS forest"There was such a post,Called on single students with own personal profile and contact way,Cast in the single day get rid of single.Post a,Immediately be BBS stickies,Few days accumulated thousands of reply and comment.

　　学生李乐是此次“脱光”活动的积极响应者之一，他希望“租”一名1.65米以上、身材好、性格开朗的女生，陪他过单身节。10日晚8点，他把自己的QQ号码公布在论坛上。

Students LiLe is this"off"Activities of the positive one of the respondent,He wants to"rent"A 1.65 meters/Shape good/Character cheerful girl,With him a single day.In the evening of 10 8 point,He put his QQ number posted on the BBS.

　　李乐的行为招来了同学们的哄笑，室友方乾笑他：“个子不大，胆子还不小！”

LiLe behavior brought the classmates burst out laughing,FangQian laughed at his roommate:"Is not big,Courage is not small!"

　　

有十多位妹妹踊跃报名 More than ten join sister

　　刚上大一时，李乐谈过一次恋爱，不过没多久就失恋了，之后再没有机会认识心仪的女生。“感觉自己交际圈很窄，空闲时间也不知道怎么打发”，他告诉记者，尽管同学们都笑他，但他还是决定在毕业前谈场轰轰烈烈的恋爱，因此壮着胆子发了帖。

Just a big,LiLe about it once in love,But didn't take long for them to be brokenhearted,Then have no chance to know the right girl."Feel very narrow circle,Idle time also don't know how to send",He told reporters,Although students laugh he,But he decided to talk before graduation a magnificent and victorious in love,Therefore dared to send a post.

　　然而，让同学跌破眼镜的是，李乐的帖子引来了十多名应征者，而且都是学校里的女生。李乐让对方把照片发到自己的QQ上，开始挑选最符合自己眼缘的那个人。

however,Let students glasses is below,LiLe post attracted more than 10 candidates,And the school girls.LiLe let the other side the photos to his QQ,Begin to choose the most accord with his eye edge of that person.

　　“很多人都长得漂亮，但是聊得来的却不多”，李乐说，在这些应征者里，只有热情的学妹佳佳给他留下了深刻印象，“感觉她挺能侃的，什么都能聊，这样见面就不会很尴尬”。最后，李乐选择了佳佳，两人约定，光棍节当天约会。“我打算带佳佳去逛街、看电影、吃大餐”，李乐心里盘算着说。

"A lot of people in the world will be beautiful,But talk of it but not much",LiLe said,In these the candidates,Only the enthusiasm of the lower classwoman allison to his left a deep impression,"She's feeling can discussing,What can chat,This meeting will not very embarrassed".finally,LiLe chose allison,Two people agreed,Bachelor day date."I'm going to go shopping with allison/See a movie/Eat dinner",LiLe thinking said.

　　

首次约会双方感觉不错 The first appointment both sides feel good

　　昨天早上一起床，李乐就开始翻箱倒柜找约会穿的衣服。“就算是假扮情侣约会，也还是要把自己打扮得帅一点，至少要给对方留个好印象”，他找了一套自己很喜欢的黑色西装，配上灰色衬衣，急匆匆地跑到约定见面的地方等佳佳。

Yesterday in the morning get up a,LiLe began to find a good rummage date clothes."Even pretend dating appointment,Still want to dress up a little handsome,At least to give each other to leave a good impression",He found a set of oneself very like black suit,With gray shirt,Hurriedly ran to meet agreed place etc allison.

　　“我们一眼就认出了彼此”，李乐说，现实中的佳佳比QQ上要害羞一些，“刚见面还是有些尴尬，我赶紧带她去火锅馆吃午饭，缓和了一下”。

"We recognized each other",LiLe said,The reality of allison than QQ to shy some,"Just meet or some awkward,I hasten to take her to hot pot hall for lunch,Ease once".

　　吃着吃着，两人就聊开来。“主要话题都是围绕光棍节的，我们各自发表男、女生的不同看法”，李乐有些不好意思地告诉记者，聊开后他发现佳佳人挺不错的，恰好是他喜欢的类型。

Eating eating,Two people from the conversation."The main topic is focus on the single day,We published their male/The girl of the different views",LiLe some embarrassedly told reporters,After the talk he found allison people quite good,It is his type.

　　“我相信缘分，至于是什么形式，并不重要”，佳佳说，她当初也是抱着尝试的心态去应征，“结果感觉我和他聊得来，发展还顺利，可以考虑交往”。

"I believe that fate,As for what form,Is not important",Allison says,She had also hold try to apply mentality,"Results feel he and I talk about it,Development also smoothly,Can consider interaction".

　　吃完饭，两人像情侣一样，继续去逛街聊天。为了显示自己的诚意，李乐下午趁佳佳不注意，特意去北碚订了一家饭店的包房。“我们都喜欢美食，顺便想制造点浪漫的气氛”，李乐说，通过一天的接触，佳佳同意继续保持联系，互相了解下去，“我想我基本算是成功‘脱光’了，明年的光棍节可能不用再发帖求租了”。(文中大学生系化名)

meal,Two people like as lovers,Continue to go shopping chat.In order to show their sincerity,LiLe afternoon while allison do not pay attention to,Especially the beibei booked a hotel rooms."We all like food,By the way want to manufacturing point of romantic atmosphere",LiLe said,Through a day of contact,Allison agreed to continue to keep in touch,Understand each other down,"I think I basic was a success‘off’the,Next year's single day may no longer post asks the".(The college students' system alias)

　　

专家点评 Expert comments

　　

另类征友存在风险 Alternative sign friend risk

　　

未婚青年应小心提防 Unmarried youth should be on the alert

　　在这个租借男女友的帖子上，记者还发现了其他学生留下的交友信息。而在城市另一边，重庆大学的学生们也举办了一场“非诚勿扰”交友活动。通过这个活动，12名单身男女成功牵手，告别了单身。

Men and women in the loan of the friends of the post,Reporter also found other students leave dating information.And in the city on the other side,Chongqing university students also held a"If you are the one"Dating activities.Through this activity,12 list body men and women success in hand,Said goodbye to the single.

　　“现在大学生多为独生子女，当他们遇到人际关系问题时，可能会出现焦虑、不安”，中国心理学会会员、婚姻恋爱情感心理学专家陈志林称，不少年轻人在感情上可能会受到来自家庭、社会以及舆论的压力，特别是“光棍节”这样的日子，无形中会给单身人士带来一定压力。为了摆脱这些压力，年轻人们尝试着拓宽自己的人际关系，寻求恋爱伴侣，“发帖征友，这可能是他们希望通过另类的手段引起别人注意的一种方式”。

"Now more than college students for only children,When they meet interpersonal relationship problems,May appear anxiety/uneasy",Chinese psychology association members/Marriage love emotion psychology experts ChenZhiLin says,Many young people in emotional may suffer from family/Society and the pressure of public opinion,especially"Single day"The day that,Virtually will give single people bring certain pressure.In order to get rid of these pressure,Young people try to expand their interpersonal relationship,Seeking love partner,"Posting a sign,This may be their hope that through alternative means to cause the attention of others a way".

　　陈志林认为，爱情是真实感情的一种升华，不能建立在金钱基础上，也不是靠钱就能维护的。他提醒广大未婚青年，另类征友方式存在一定风险，要提防他人以此非法获取个人利益。

ChenZhiLin think,Love is a kind of sublimate of true feelings,Can't based on money,Also not by money can maintenance.He reminded the unmarried youth,Alternative sign friend mode has certain risk,Beware of others to illegal obtain personal interests.

　　

现场 field

　　

“光棍侠”轻轨站送玫瑰 劝人勇敢追求爱 "Bachelor man"Light rail station give roses advised people brave the pursuit of love

　　商报记者 韩政

Business newspaper reporter HanZheng

　　重庆商报讯 昨日上午，四个单身男子化身“光棍侠”，出现在南坪轻轨站，向过往的单身青年送上玫瑰，他们想借此劝说单身男女，要勇敢地追求爱情，不要因为工作而疏忽感情，并希望他们能尽快“脱光”。

Chongqing dispatch yesterday morning,Four single man incarnation"Bachelor man",Appeared in the NaPing light rail station,To passing single youth to rose,They want to take this persuade single men and women,Be courageous in the pursuit of love,Don't because of work and neglect of feelings,And hope they can as soon as possible"off".

　　

行动：1111朵玫瑰送“光棍” action:1111 rose to send"bachelor"

　　上午9点30分，南坪轻轨站熙熙攘攘，24岁的李鹏带着一副黑色面具，捧着一大束玫瑰，后面跟着3名小伙子，每人背后贴着一个“光”字，最后一位手里拿着一张广告牌，上面写着“我想有个家，光棍节求脱光”。

At 9:30 am,NaPing light rail station hustle and bustle,24-year-old li wears a pair of black mask,Holding a bundle of roses,Followed by three young man,Behind each stick a"light"word,Finally a holding a billboard,The top write"I'd like to have a home,Single day off for".

　　“我们是‘光棍侠’，前来给单身男女送玫瑰，希望他们大胆追求爱情，尽快‘脱光"，李鹏边走边告诉记者，他们4人至今单身，最大的26岁，最小的22岁，前不久在网上聊起单身的痛苦后，决定一起组织这次活动，在一些热心网友的资助下，4人买来1111朵红玫瑰，准备当天送出。

"We are‘Bachelor man’,Come to single men and women give roses,Hope they boldly the pursuit of love,As soon as possible‘off",While LiPengBian told reporters,They 4 are still single,Biggest 26,Least 22 years old,Recently on the Internet chat the single after pain,Decided to organize the activities together,In some zeal for the net friend,Four people buy 1111 red roses,Prepare the day send out.

　　由于是第一次组织这样的活动，李鹏等人开始还有点不好意思，捧着玫瑰站在轻轨出口，一声不吭。当李鹏把第一朵玫瑰递到一女孩面前时，对方迟疑了半天才接过，看到广告牌后，女孩嫣然一笑。

Because is the first organization of such activities,Li, start a little embarrassed,Holding rose standing in the light rail export,Without a word.When li the first pass a rose to a girl in front,Each other hesitated along while just received,See the sign after,The girl a captivating smile.

　　随着送出的玫瑰越来越多，一些单身男女主动前来索要，甚至一些中老年人也加入进来。“我们除了享受送玫瑰的快乐外，也希望自己也能尽快找到另一半，争取明年不再一个人过光棍节了！”李鹏感慨地说。

With more and more send out roses,Some single men and women the initiative to ask for,Even some of the elderly were added."We in addition to enjoy the happiness of give roses outside,Also hope that they can also find the other half as soon as possible,For next year is no longer a person has a single day!"Li regrets ground say.

　　

结果：有些单身男女不买账 The results:Some single men and women not buy it

　　4个“光棍侠”递出的红玫瑰，并未打动所有的单身男女，李鹏和朋友们送出玫瑰也多次被人拒绝。

four"Bachelor man"Hand out red rose,Did not impress all of the single men and women,Li and friends give roses have been rejected.

　　上午10点左右，一个穿着花格子大衣的年轻女子从轻轨站走出来，面对李鹏和朋友们递上前的红玫瑰，她婉言拒绝了。该女子告诉记者，虽然自己还是单身，但他并不认可光棍节，觉得光棍节是一些商家的节日，并不属于自己，“每个单身男女的爱情，需要靠自己努力争取，并不是过一个节就能换来的”。

At 10 p.m.,A man dressed in flowers lattice coat young woman came out from the light rail station,In the face of li and friends to pass the red rose,She declined.The woman told reporters,Though he still single,But he is not recognized by single day,Think single day is a few businessmen festival,Does not belong to his,"Every single men and women love,Need to rely on their own hard,And not a quarter can buy".

　　李鹏等人的做法也惹来一些争议，一位头发花白的大妈直言不讳地说：“靠这种方式，就能不再当光棍？我看不靠谱，不知这些年轻人是咋想的？”

Li and others practice also make some dispute,A hair is turning gray aunt call a spade a spade to say:"By this way,Can no longer when bachelor?I see by spectrum,Do not know these young people is zha thought?"

　　

相关 related

　　

漂流瓶交友 “脱光”也环保 Drift bottle making friends "off"Also environmental protection

　　首席记者 刘敏 实习生 龙宇

Chief reporter LiuMin interns long yu

　　光棍节你怎么过的？如今，大学校园里变着法子过光棍节。昨日，西南大学环保社团开展了一个“实体漂流瓶”的活动，同学们通过传递漂流瓶结交新朋友，让缘分随着瓶子漂流，让单身青年实现“脱光”。

Single day what did you do?now,College campus BianZhaoFa son a single day.yesterday,Southwest university environmental protection organization to carry out a"Entity drift bottle"activities,The students through the transfer drift bottle making new friends,Let the fate with the bottle drift,For single people realize"off".

　　“把真心话以及联系方式写在一张小纸条上，放在一个废旧的塑料瓶里，然后给负责传递的人员，你的信息就被随机传递出去，在学校参与人员之间流传”，活动策划人介绍，你传递一份信息，同时会得到一份交换信息。

"The true words and contact information written in a small pieces of paper,In a waste of the plastic bottle,Then give responsible for transfer of personnel,Your information will be random transfer out,In the school between participants spread",Activity planner is introduced,You send a message,At the same time will receive a exchange information.

　　“借光棍节这个东风，将环保思想进一步在校园内普及就显得有趣多了。”本次活动策划执行人调侃道，“做环保还是得做出点创意来，吸引大家参与是一个非常重要的手段。实体漂流瓶就是一种新颖的社交方式嘛，一举多得。”

"Borrow single day in the east,Environmental protection thoughts will be further popularization on campus is much more interesting."This activity planning executor fun way,"Do environmental protection or have to make a point to creativity,Attract everyone to participate in is a very important means.Entity drift bottle is a kind of new social well way,With one action is gotten more."

　　“我们发现在传递这份信息的过程中，收到了很多“匿名信”，其中自然不乏告白的”，该执行人告诉记者。

"We found that in the process of relay this information,Received a lot of"Anonymous letter",There is no lack of natural confession of love",The executor told reporters.

　　离婚男有房有车 有娃也最受欢迎

Divorce male has the room have a car have Eva is the most popular

　　昨日，有网站针对单身女人做了调查，截至11月11日凌晨0点，共3.55万余位单身女人参与调查。其中，28.69%的单身女人把原因归结于客观原因，自己没有渠道认识合适的人，9.34%的人称自己曾经被伤害让她们迟迟不能进入另一段感情，还有5.4%的女人，觉得婚后生活质量会变差，不敢结婚。调查中，还问了会选择哪些男人结婚，结果如右图：

yesterday,Have a website for single woman do the investigation,By November 11th morning 0 point,A total of 35500 more than a single woman to participate in research.the,28.69% of the single woman attributing the objective cause,Have no channel know the right people,9.34% said they had been hurt let them can't enter another relationship,And 5.4% of women,Think that married life quality variation,Can't get married.In the investigation,Also asked will choose what men marry,Results such as the right:

　　

数据 data

　　

中国单身男女多达1.8亿 China's single men and women as many as 180 million

　　中国正处于城市化进程中，不少年轻人生存压力大，很多人把精力用到了奋斗打拼上，进而推迟了婚恋年龄。数据显示，中国单身男女多达1.8亿。

China is in the process of urbanization,Many young people survival pressure,Many people put the energy use of the struggle on the fight,Then delayed marriage age.Data display,China's single men and women as many as 180 million.

　　2012年初，由民政部中国社会工作协会婚介行业委员会与百合网联合发布《2011中国人婚恋状况调查报告》显示，超过九成女性选择对方“有稳定收入”为结婚的必要条件，而近七成女性选择“男性要有房才能结婚”。有婚恋专家表示，当前社会上存在着不健康的物质至上婚恋观，个别人公开宣扬“宁愿在宝马车里哭，也不愿在自行车上笑”，这是必须摒弃的。 据新华社

At the beginning of 2012,By the ministry of civil affairs the China association of social workers, dating service industry committee and lily net jointly promulgated[2011 Chinese marriage condition investigation report]display,More than ninety percent of women choose each other"Have a stable income"The necessary conditions for marriage,And nearly seventy percent of women choose"Men want to have room to get married".A marriage experts say,The current society there are not healthy marriage materialism,Individuals publicly declare"Would rather in the BMW cry,Don't let on the bike smile",This is the must abandon. According to the xinhua news agency